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Thanh Hoa greets you Today's cultural segment of DKN TV brings you this article How do parents raise an introverted child to be successful In today's society many parents believe tha Introverted children will find it harder to integrate into society than extroverted children Therefore children who communicate less with those around them There is a tendency to excessively prefer quietness This causes parents to worry and be concerned Do you think the above viewpoint is correct Do you think introverted children are less likely to succeed than extroverted children What would you do if a close relative or child of yours was an introvert Do you think there are ways to change our personalities First let's explore what an introvert and an extrovert are like According to psychologists when studying someone people often use the terms introverted or extroverted to define them This person has almost opposite personality traits Psychologist Carl Gstaad said Introverts are people who usually focus only on their own mental state Sometimes they participate in activities with others But they often have little interest Meanwhile extroverts are people who put all their energy and mental power into the outside world They rarely allow themselves to be alone According to Carl Gstaad the British psychologist Hans Eysen Understand the difference between introverts and extroverts from a biological and physical perspective Introverts and extroverts differ in the speed of their body's and brain's reactions When faced with overly stimulating situations introverted people or those who are overly sensitive sometimes avoid the situation In other words introverts tend to lose energy when in crowds or during group activities Extroverts need external stimuli from the outside world to awaken their inner strength For example engaging in high-adrenaline sports or participating in physical competitions However regardless of whether a person is considered introverted or extroverted in reality no one is purely introverted or extroverted In relatively specific circumstances they can clearly show themselves like that Everyone always has both types of personality However the person whose personality is more typical and outstanding will be classified into that personality group Why is it said there is no inherent good or bad between being introverted and extroverted Today's society encourages an extroverted lifestyle Active people are praised but those who are quiet and less talkative often become the subject of discussion For example in school teachers encourage a small group of students to complete the task together A student who likes to study independently is considered a peculiar student And students who discuss enthusiastically are considered to have potential Parents are also always satisfied when their children show the ability to communicate with elders in front of guests or strangers In many situations an extroverted personality is considered to have an advantage Are introverted people really worse than extroverted people as many people think The American New York Times once had a best-selling book titled "The Power of Introverts in a World That Never Stops Talking " The author of the book Susan Cain presents many examples of the success of introverted people They are people who prefer quiet stability caution and thoughtful consideration They are also people who have made quiet contributions to the development of the modern world She wrote that at least one third of our acquaintances are introverted They are people who prefer to listen more than to speak They innovate and create but don't like to boast about themselves They prefer to work independently working in groups It was introverts like Rosa Parks Chopin and Stever who made great contributions to society Society today undervalues introverts And to what extent has this mistake cost us Susan Kane introduces to us successful introverts From an energetic neighborhood speaker she had to find quiet spaces to recharge her energy After every speech until an employee broke the sales record quietly uncovering the power of questions They are all introverts by nature but still possess many success factors typically associated with extroverts With well-researched and powerful arguments Along with many in-depth real-life stories This book has the power to permanently change the way society perceives introverts as well as the way introverts perceive themselves For example Stever who co-created the first PC with Steve Jobs is also an introvert He particularly needs a lot of quiet time and privacy To do a job as best as possible As he once shared From third grade until eighth grade I kept learning every way slowly Explore how to assemble electronic components together without needing a single instruction manual The process of working independently teaches him what patience is the thing that helped him throughout his successful career Even the belief that working in groups or having strong interactions yields the best results has become a misconception In Susan Kane's book It mentions a study on the work performance of independent programmers and team workers The results show that programmers from the same company achieved the same level of efficiency even when they had never worked together That is because the top-performing candidates mainly come from companies that provide their employees with opportunities for professional development More privacy more personal space more control over their work environme And many freedoms are not interrupted while working 62% of the top candidates said their work space is fairly private Thus if you can leverage the strengths and create a suitable environment for introverts They can unlock their hidden strengths and become amazing Each personality type has its own strengths and weaknesses It is suitable for various living and professional environments introversion does not mean being shy timid or lacking communication skills They are simply people who achieve their maximum potential when working independently In an environment with spaces breaks and the need to recharge in a quiet place after a long day at wor They can practice to make themselves more active and better at communication But if they are unfortunately forced to change themselves into outgoing people Perhaps the world has lost countless geniuses and produced countless patients If a shy child during their development is always forced by the family to act extroverted and is mocked and excluded by friends So that child not only couldn't uncover their own personality strengths but also completely lost themselves Why does this phenomenon occur Introverted people often look into their inner world rather than the outside world to consider and solve problems But when they themselves do not have a solution or the necessary balance their inner self will experience conflict These conflicts will lead to psychological barriers for them For example the fear of communicating with the outside world It can also be a disorder that makes children become stutterers and isolated Therefore some personality issues are not necessarily due to the characteristics of being introverted It is formed by the narrow perspective of societal views So if parents have a child with an introverted personality how should they nurture them First parents need to realize that being introverted is not a bad trait and it certainly is not something to be afraid of At the same time parents must understand that being introverted is an innate personality trait just like blood in the body It is basically unnecessary and impossible to change it Second parents should not impose their own shame on introverted children A bad reputation carries a slight meaning of contempt Children who hear it often will develop a timid personality They think they are inferior From there it is difficult to fully utilize one's strengths Third if parents want to introduce their children to someone Or else let them adapt to a new situation Absolutely do not rush Proceed slowly and steadily Because introverted children need time to adjust to a new environment Fourth if the children express a desire to join an activity I used to be very afraid Encourage your children positively Let them know they have the full ability to overcome themselves Breaking free from the safe but self-imposed restrictive environment they created The fifth way to help children develop their own interests Only then do they have a chance to meet their friends Friday clearly explains to the teachers that your children are introverted An introverted child easily lives in their own world I don't like communicating with too many people outside When not feeling naturally safe or necessary Therefore parents need to pay attention and listen to their children when they speak Understand them and try to interact with them as much as possible When children lose their way in their own world Immersed in negative emotions Try to get them out of those conflicts Remember that your children are people no matter what difficulties they face They don't seek help from others So be proactive If your children have few friends don't worry too much because they need stable emotional relationships Not superficial conversation on the surface They really need a sympathetic friend to share with Extroverted or outgoing personality It is just a type of characteristic a factor of human nature If one can develop oneself in accordance with those qualities So what kind of person can succeed Unleash your inner potential So don't let your outdated beliefs hold you back Losing your children's future Every child has unique qualities and potential But if you only look at the surface you can't accurately judge Life is full of various forms People each person has a different personality Just understand yourself and nurture the beauty within your soul Then everyone can find their own truth in life Find their place in the world Good evening this is the end of our cultural segment Thank you for listening See you again in the next programs