i put blair on an allowance

Hi everybody and welcome back to a brand new vlog. Okay so in today's video I'm actually going to put Blair on an allowance. Yes you guys here we go round two. I'm actually really really nervous. Okay so yes going to attempt to put Blair on allowance but actually it's a good timing because last night it was Friday night she came back from Daz. We actually sat down together and for some reason like we had two Netflix accounts, two like Hulu accounts, two like Postmates accounts because I had opened up an account and then she opened up an account. You know what I mean? So I was like why am I paying double? It just doesn't make sense. So we put all our accounts together. I also told her do you have any extra apps that I'm paying for that you don't play on anymore or whatever you know because as you get older you don't play some games or whatever. So we actually worked on that and she talked to me about a business idea that she has in mind for herself and I was like wow that's great let me go ahead and I funded Nicolette's business until she ended up being on her own and being self-sufficient so I'm like it's now turn for me to fund your business you know. So we talked about money, business, savings like how to be smart and you know why like this is important and I did this with Nicolette like kind of around this age she gave me a lot of pushback and I just what I've always wanted for not just Blair but both my girls is to be self-sufficient like I'm really proud of Nicolette. She pays for everything now for herself you know and I think I just pay for her cell phone and I just want to set up Blair's now 13 and a half and I want to set her up to start thinking I have to be self-sufficient by 18 and what better way of getting her to stop like spending money on frivolous things you know she's not a kid anymore she's a teenager and start spending money on the right kind of things like open up a bank account for her investment savings whatever it may be you know so that's my goal for Blair going forward. 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money-back guarantee if you don't absolutely love your product let them know no questions asked I love you guys so much and let's go talk to Blair and I'm so nervous talking about her allowance okay wanting maybe 50 grand on new teeth okay we're gonna find veneers okay I was gonna film something else but I just don't think just do it okay but first of all let's start this video because we're having Invisalign problems okay Blair talk about your problems she's very bad I don't fit they don't fit on me they they're not on correctly I'm texting the working they're making everything worse show them your gap it got worse no I'm not gonna show them my gap why because I want them to see it you sure we should do this video now okay sit down Blair why are you smiling here I'm gonna send her a pic sit up okay just sit down like a normal person why I have to take a picture of your teeth for your doctor okay and send and then take it off let me show her the gap so the gap is worse now from what I think don't worry no just you have that little hook okay they don't sit on all the way right okay and then let me send you a picture the bottoms sit on fine um okay so let me let her know this is serious right look yeah the bottoms oh you're really improving on the bottoms I just think they might have to give you new look first one's crooked look at the second one yeah you're number seven it's crooked yeah I need to see your Invisalign plan okay Blair so you know how last time we sat and talked about money what yeah okay so you know how we discussed like it's important for you to start your own business and blah blah blah okay so you know how around this age I put Nicolette on an allowance you're gonna I'm putting you on an allowance I'm definitely don't even spend that much money she does no I don't yes you do I have my Amex bill so I'm thinking $500 you get a month if you don't spend it just pile on we open up account for you every month I put $500 on the card but I'm not paying for my food I'm not paying for my food that's your job Postmates was supposed to be okay let's negotiate how much you want to Postmates per month I don't care just as long as it's enough or buy groceries okay you can Postmate when there's no groceries or no food left for you how about that fine this is going a lot easier than I thought I don't even Postmate that much it's just Postmates is expensive I know because what I want to do that extra money that you spend here and there I want to put an account for you so you can buy your own place okay sounds good okay why is she not fighting me are you gonna write it to Dr. Phil no write to Oprah she's not writing to anyone I'm really hot I don't know why you put in that much money I don't think you realize that I don't spend that much money it's true she like this is Nicolette spending this is Blair's like legit well I spend money on his food I don't shop that much that's true she has the evidence no 15 of Brandy Melville but $15 on what but it was like $20 with Brandy Melville and then $20 of food no your Brandy Melville is like $41 oh okay well from everything I buy I get all the emails and all of my emails are from Zillow oh she's shopping for a house you're gonna buy a house forget like $100 of Brandy Melville toothpaste and toothbrushes okay so I think I lost the battle in this one she has all the tea on me if you ever want to know she has everything I don't spend that much money I don't think you realize that compared to your other daughter that's true she's very right with that I have in my closet isn't filled with that many clothes it's hers true yours is actually really empty you want to show them I know people are gonna say I sound greedy but she's acting like I spend lots of money when I spend like $200 like once a month no you guys it's actually really true she's very conscientious with me and sure I spend lots of money on food but that's essential it's essential it's an essential me no honestly though Blair you're like a really good kid I'm humbled I make Nicolette pay for postmates on her own account because I don't want you to go broke by paying all the postmates oh my god bless you thank god because she'll like postmate a bowl of lettuce for like $150 and be like I'm hungry two seconds later Nicolette wants you to postmate on my account but I'm humble and I make her do it on her account of course she's 18 if she wants to like postmate like bougie food she needs to do it on her own thank you for that sister for that you get unlimited postmates yes okay and I don't have the receipts on postmates because you made me switch my account I haven't postmated for like a month look how many times you post me from this one place every two seconds don't show the camera but look at this look how constant she doesn't want to go and drive out and get it herself no Blair she literally has been complaining about putting you on allowance since Palm Springs and she goes look at this look at this postmates bill it's all yours she said it's all yours but it's all hers because she wanted a hotel out the wall 1500 and I said no this weekend I was going to drop that and I said no I saved her 1500 she did so I think that the thing here is that you should put me on allowance I think that's what needs to happen let's go open up a bank account for you okay you can open one up at 13 at my bank okay let's do that sounds good let's do that okay look at this agreement we've come to the most things I negotiated with her she renegotiated her negotiations the one thing I've spent money on is shoes that's true I'm a shoe addict and it's not my fault okay you put me on allowance tell me how much I can spend I wear no designer this is like 20 bucks this shirt hand me down from these pants got for my birthday probably like 40 dollars and these from my grandmother free basically free okay so what's my allowance I don't know look she's wearing jewelry she's wearing a Gucci belt these jeans were probably a hundred dollars maybe 200 jeans are expensive this phone case I got for free from Nicolette somebody sent it to her this phone Nicolette for me okay hands down you win this argument no allowance you can spend double okay how about that I'm going on my own allowance apparently the American Express she bought for me but I don't have the other earring so it's like what happened to the other earring Nicolette has it where she came over the other day she threw all her stuff and took some of my stuff with it that's how she does it she comes in throws stuff I don't think she wanted it I think I left it there she sweeps everything up and takes it if you look at my room people are gonna say I'm spoiled but all I have is cup she really has nothing she hands down won this battle I know it looks like I have a lot but it's really not a lot most of my clothes are hanging down from Nicolette she gave me like two bags of clothes oh I saw that thanks we love your donations and the furniture was essential unless you want me to sleep on the floor no I'm going to get furniture I'm wondering I'm now going to explain everything where it's from this for my grandmother this from my grandmother this a gift from somebody this is a Christmas tree I don't even know where it came from a boyfriend not from mine from hers he got you a Christmas tree no the diffuser it's like a bougie diffuser I don't know who bought the tree this I need a nightstand this I bought two years ago but I still use it all of these you insisted on buying them for me I insisted I insisted I don't think so unless you want me to have allergies I need this to know we're cutting out her allergy fund this is a flashlight from my grandmother most of my stuff is from my grandmother oh all of this home drawer from my grandmother this bed from my mother this is from my mother most of this stuff is from my grandmother well not really but like you know what I mean it's not that much this is all like two years old the tv not for my mother for my grandmother for my grandmother I know your grandmother's raising you and I'm not paying the bills I know it looks like I have a lot of clothes but I wear half of them I just have emotional attachment to most of them so I don't get rid of them but I mean these don't even fit me they're too small um I like it it's not winter it's not winter the most my supreme chair yes this was 450 resell but I did buy it and that was a necessary buy necessary it's gonna go up in value it's the one thing I know about Blair not that that means anything why don't you have it up here because it doesn't fit there it's just a nice like low-key flexing I'm not trying to flex on you but it's there it's a low-key flex let me see it oh grandma wants it grandma here we're gonna go see her tomorrow and yes this is an a thousand dollar luggage but it's from Nicolette not from my mother someone's upset with me because I'm trying to most of the money I spend is by other people not by my own mother