HET GEHEIM VAN 10 JAAR VERLIEFD | Kalvijn

Nina we're in Mauritius We are in Mauritius because We have been together for ten years Ten years of dating Legendary You're all fireworks accustomed to my channel's buzz But today we'll just do it in a relaxed atmosphere You and me Nespresso What else do you need Describe the last ten years in one word Impressive So We naturally get this question very often What's your secret So I thought we could just go by a nice movie Giving advice on relationships We are really not perfect No that's not true But even when it's not perfect we can still just Yes that's true How you deal with it I think the most important thing is Statement Talking about everything Yes that's true I don't mind at all admitting my own shortcomings I just can't listen very well Is your relationship still as fun after ten years as it was in the first year Well I think it's just as fun Because if it's not fun anymore we won't be together anymore I think it might be even more fun I think you can't compare them Because when we had the first year were ******* fifteen We were a bit against teenagers and everything was exciting I just wanted to lose my virginity I still want touch your chest Yes but it's a bit less exciting Yes that's true We can just mess around a bit And then later you'll just know Oh yeah we'll just go on Once upon a time it was really like Oh my god maybe it's over Now you really know each other inside out Yes Do you find each other more or less attractive now I think it's a bit the same as before I have a good answer When you just start a relationship everything seems better than being alone But later you also learn to appreciate the shortcomings What you lack I find simply beautiful about you Like the sense of humor for example Okay and we'll move on Look this is what I mean I like it Are you still in love with each other Is it more than just brother and sister No just kidding You always love each other but you do have to He doesn't want you to just feel like a brother or sister Of course I'm still in love But it's not that I think every time I'm with you Oh I'm completely in love with you But I think it's important that you have those moments sometimes You think oh yes I'm still really in love with you Otherwise you'll just become a friend or brother or sister Every girl who's been in a relationship for a long time and at some point thinks Oh wait I don't feel those butterflies anymore Maybe I should just end it But if you don't feel it for a year then something's wrong But anything shorter you just have to simply not complain Because then it's just a phase or something And then you have to check how it goes afterwards What are your biggest annoyances with each other and how do you learn to deal with them Look relationships are not just red color and moonlight It's also just arguments trash and everything that comes with it We don't fight often but it's a lie to say we never fight But earlier it was just a discussion but I think we've really fought three times in ten years or so You shout the most loudly in general Yes And then I say Hey just calm down for a moment And then you say Yes I can't have this tone And then I'm back to being politically correct You can't fight that Yes that's it You speak to me as if I were one of your colleagues and we are in a meeting Yes but that's just how I am I think yeah relaxed chick That you jump to conclusions so quickly Stel I tell Nina hey look at you you look really nice today He says she oh so I didn't look good yesterday But that often happens certainly in discussions Dan it's just normal yeah it's okay so you end up finding this Yes that's right Those are just hormones I'd say Yes you can't blame everything on a hormone I never blame anything on a hormone Except the biggest annoyance Yes I think that's quite reasonable Well what do you think You sometimes look at things too professionally Also if I am your colleague That I think come on are you a partner Give me something for a moment He takes everything in stride and that's very good in the workplace And then I think there's a kind of feeling in this man Have you ever considered swinging No swinging is for people who know it's about swapping partners No yes we have talked about it Yes but we are only 25 When we are 30 it will be possible Do you know what it is I would really like to What Come on just say it No no you're looking just say it Oh yes I thought so already But maybe if it's a bit definite then I'll say no I don't want it But of course I never skip that kind of thing Have you ever changed for each other I think if you're moving in together you sometimes have to make an effort to adjust I don't think you have to change your kind of personality traits But you can change how you behave Besides when they are really very bad Yes then you have to take a moment You say you are trying to listen better You're trying to do something more What did you say Don't do that From my friend I am allowed to do things with others But I myself don't want to give him that freedom What now It sounds a bit like he wants to do something with other girls And then he says okay you can do something with other guys Then I can do something with other girls too This only works if you both fully commit to it Otherwise it really doesn't work How do women show that they are interested in someone I think eye contact Yes but if you just close the DM you can't make eye contact Oh yes that's obviously all nowadays Yes no it's not what it was ten years ago No shut up I don't know how does that work That's really a bad question How do you make someone understand that your communication is important Yes that's the whole problem Yes talking about that is pointless Then you just need to send him this video We want to say right at the beginning communication is important Then just send him this video I often have sex with my girlfriend but she doesn't really want to because I come too quickly It's not exactly a question it's more just a Notice A notice Well thanks for the notice If you want tips on how to last longer I don't know Just think about really ugly people What did you do when you doubted Well he ran away Well for the record that was really a long time ago I was just hanging out but were about eighteen I think When in doubt give the time friend I'm not really a fan of breaks But I can say well dear I'm going to chill for a week with my parents Yes we also know couples who have done that And then it just went super well Then it went well again Look at yourself too I think we often easily look at others It's never just one person's fault It would be a shame if you later thought "Oh but maybe we should have tried this " How do you keep things exciting sexually I go for quality over quality I go for quantity over quality Really No just joking We really do have good sex Look if you're maybe eighteen then you're But I'm more interested in the quality and exploring the sexual world Our nightstands are full of stuff With semen Oh no with stuff That's just a good joke That's funny We do get a bit impulsive from time to time It's okay if it happens a bit more often for me So yes that's something you are What's evolving then You really shouldn't do that every time No no Maybe once every six months it is Hey what do you really like Or do you want to discover something else I wonder who asked this how do you stay exciting sexually It thinks oh yes it will become a bit normal So the result is that it becomes normal You have to change something in the game so it becomes exciting again But you shouldn't keep doing the same thing all the time The result remains the same no matter what That's how it is with everything in life Time will teach I have once betrayed trust And that's once again somewhat I hope a bit back I don't know how to answer this question It's a lot Yes I really get a lot of DMs about this It's not a standard thing Talking about it works very well for me And giving it time We also took a three-week break from work Our schedules were cleared And really go for walks have conversations After that I spent a week with friends Then I can start to put things into perspective again And really your feelings you know If your heart says yes this was it this will never be fixed again Yes then you're just fooling yourself And I think from the other side you also have to put in the time I wish I had been on vacation six times in three months That wouldn't have really helped either Yes it's annoying because I'm not really jealous by nature When someone sits too close to me I want to punch him I think it's probably more now than before maybe for me as well You have to always think okay did he give me reasons to I really don't have answer to that I don't know How do you always surprise each other One Just surprising each other Small things Creativity always wins I will tell you something The most beautiful things are those in which someone has truly invested time Time is something you never get back And then you stick it in someone else I also sometimes stick something in you But then I stick the time in you in this case My girlfriend is open to a threesome and I'm totally not No idea what I should do with this Help Well it's good that you're talking about it anyway Yes you can't imagine it if I say I want another chick added Then you wouldn't say no No I would just say okay let's go be What if I say a trio with another man Say no What if that's really my dream Well what would you do then Well then we'll try it once But then I also want to date a woman once Yes then we just negotiate Relationships often negotiate as well He really learns to negotiate well in relationships If I really don't want it just say I don't want you What are you going to do Yes I'm not going to pick up a ring It's not even twelve o'clock dear Cheers to the next ten years Love you dear The bags are full and the trend keeps rising Yes yes