Sue Perkins reads Clarice Lispector's letter of advice.

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6th of January 1948, my little flower. I received your letter. How happy I was, my
little sister, with certain sentences you wrote. But please don't say I discovered
there is still a large part of me that is alive. No, my darling, you are entirely alive.
My little sister, listen to my advice. Listen to my requests. Respect yourself more than
others. Respect your needs. Respect even what is bad in you. Respect especially what you
imagine to be bad in you. For the love of God, don't try and make yourself into somebody
perfect. Don't copy an ideal person. Copy yourself. That is the one way to live.
I'm so scared that what will happen to me will happen to you, because we are similar.
I swear to God, if there were a heaven, a person who sacrifices themselves out of cowardice
will be punished and go to any old hell. That's if a tepid life isn't punished by that same
tepidness. Take for yourself what belongs to you. And what belongs to you is all that
your life demands. It seems like an amoral moral. But what is truly amoral is having
given up on yourself. I hope to God you believe me. I would even like for you to come and
watch my life without my knowing, because just knowing about your presence would transform
me and give me life and happiness. It would be a lesson for you to see what can happen
when you make a pact with complacency in your soul. Have the courage to transform yourself,
my darling, to do what you desire, be that going out at the weekends, be that what it
may. Write to me without worrying that you need to speak of neutral things, because how
can we be good to one another without this smallest degree of sincerity? May the new
year bring you every happiness, my darling. Here is an embrace filled with saudade, with
enormous saudade from your sister, Clarice.
