Ashamed of Acne 여드름 때문에 자존감이 떨어져요 _ Soobeauty

But I do feel like we need to stop being so apologetic for something that we didn't even do wrong. Hey guys, it's Su here and welcome back to my chanel. So today's video is a little bit different to others today I want to talk about acne and what it does to our confidence because I do realize that this Topic is a little bit more personal. It's a little bit more sensitive than my other videos I would like to make two quick disclaimers the first disclaimer is that I am in no way trying to Invalidate or distort or minimize anyone else's pain opinions sufferings My experience and what i'm about to tell you guys right now is limited to what i've experienced with my own skin I want to mention this because I know that there are people with with worse critical conditions. And so They will obviously have different maybe opinions and i'm not speaking for them What i'm speaking is for only myself second disclaimer is that I am not here trying to force my opinion onto you guys Everyone is of course entitled to their own opinion. You are entitled to your opinion I am entitled to mine And I don't want you guys to take this video in the wrong way Or in the negative way because that's not what i'm here to do So if you will, please watch this video as if you will watch bambi walk on his legs for the first time That means with very wide Heartwarming eyes now. I have had acne ever since I actually entered college I started getting really bad breakouts, you know, whenever I would get stressed out During exam week and I would really get a lot of hormone breakouts around my chin areas I used to break out really badly on my right side of the cheek And so because of my skin and what i'm dealing with I create content on here on youtube on my channel Talking about how to deal with them how to improve with them and a couple of weeks back Actually, I saw this comment appear in one of my videos the comment said girl You have guts for showing your bare face like that. I wouldn't be brave enough for that Now, first of all, i'm not trying to call this person out because I actually didn't sense any malice in it But I do remember that as soon as I read that comment on my phone I specifically remember kind of looking at it and thinking huh? I didn't realize I needed bravery or courage or confidence to show my bare skin And I let that kind of sit at the side for a while but recently I have been getting a lot of comments a lot of people messaging me saying that the way I Seem to deal with my acne has really helped them with their confidence in how they deal with their own skin and acne And you know on one side I was so happy that my videos were affecting you guys in a positive way And I love these messages you are giving sending in and you know, keep them coming guys I'm not complaining about them. But on the other hand, I also thought this is getting ridiculous Why on earth would we have to feel ashamed about something that we didn't even do anything wrong? I mean, yes acne can hurt acne can be annoying and I would love to live without them But it's not like I committed a crime or anything It's not like it's against the law and I thought you know we as people in general including myself were so caught up on the image of being perfect that We now have to feel ashamed about having acne on our skin or feel bad about having acne on our skin when it's just Acne, right who bloody cares if we have acne? I mean does it hurt other people? No, the only person that hurts is ourself or myself or yourself Because I mean these hurt I mean i've shed a tear trying to pop these suckers out and I do believe acne is something that Does eventually go away and it's something that we can always cover up with a concealer a foundation And I do yes I do wear makeup when I go out because I do want my skin to appear or look nice But also just because I have acne under all that makeup at the end of the day I wouldn't want anyone to give me any hard time about it or in a more exact terms I wouldn't want anyone giving me ---- about them because I don't know about you guys, but I certainly didn't ask for them But even so acne is just a little mishap on the skin Or in my case a lot of mishaps and I didn't do anything wrong. You didn't do anything wrong We didn't do anything wrong. Now. I'm not saying that we should go like yes acne acne for life acne is my life I'm not saying we should be like that But I do feel like we need to stop being so apologetic for something that we didn't even do wrong And I guess my kind of whole attitude towards acne and my skin is really indifference I am neither proud of them nor am I sad and upset about them. I don't let them get to my self-esteem I don't let them ruin my day I mean, of course I do have days when I feel very self-conscious about them when I get like huge zits or pimples I will admit I do get self-conscious about them but at the end of the day you will realize that no one really cares about them apart from yourself because people are more indifferent to each other than we actually give them credit for because We are so up in our own worlds that we don't really notice or we don't really think about other people as much I guess we're only quick to judge but we don't really think about them And like I said a little bit of acceptance and self-love because I for me acne can work as a signal To guide me to the right path to nurture my skin and to have healthy skin at the end of the day because I don't know about you guys But for me acne does appear when I do seem to have a little bit of problems So they're kind of a signal telling me. Hey, you need to get better sleep You need to stop eating Ben and Jerry's so much or you need to manage your stress better So these are kind of signals telling me that I need to do something healthier to my body in general as well So a little bit of self-love goes in there too as well So if you're feeling upset you're feeling bad You feel you have low self-esteem and you or you feel guilty about having acne I would like to say don't but I know that's something that's easier said than done Just because I say don't feel bad about it guys I know it's it's hard to quickly change your mindset like that but I still want to get this video out there just to Remind you guys to just to remind all of us that being upset is not the only option when it comes to having acne We do have the choice to be indifferent we do have a choice to kind of accept them and just kind of let them be until We figure how to kick them out and how to heal them. And like I said at the beginning of this video I'm, not trying to force my opinion on you guys You are of course entitled to have your own opinion your own feelings, but I just don't want to get this video Today's video was of course a bit different than usual But I thought it was important that I get this off my chest because it was something that I felt Constantly all the time when I would get your messages or I read comments, which I love by the way guys Don't get the wrong idea. If you want to send in messages do I I adore them They really make my life not just my day my life. So keep them coming if you do want to send in messages But yeah, that was it for today Please like and subscribe if you love Ben and Jerry's as much as I do and also follow me on instagram And i'll see you guys in my next Bye