A Slow Tour of my Cottage Gardens | Potager Garden | Spring Garden Tour

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Mar 31, 2023
Welcome to my garden. It's a bit messy. We've had company for a few weeks and I haven't been down
here in too many days. And usually what that means is that you'll find tennis shoes or socks or piles
of weeds laying around. I wanted to take you on a tour of our potager garden. This is the garden
that surrounds our house directly. Show you all the beautiful flowers that are in bloom right now.
We'll clean up a little bit along the way and hopefully I'll answer a lot of the questions
that you might have about our garden spaces. Where should we start? Here? Start on the edge?
The type of garden that we have surrounding ourself, I would consider a cottage garden.
Things are homemade looking, if you will. And part of that look and that aesthetic that I love
comes from letting things grow in and self-seed. A lot of times cottage gardens are really packed
full of all of the gardener's favorite flowers. This garden is no exception. Even though this
garden is only two years old, it's already full of all kinds of stuff I love. A lot of which has
self-seeded from the years previous and that is intentional. Take these Johnny jump ups for
example. Now these started as just a few seeds a couple of years ago. But if you let them go and
let them go to seed, this is what they'll do. They'll just spread all over. Now some people
don't like this about cottage gardening because it means your lines are a little bit messier than
they might be in a traditional garden. But this is one of the things I love about it and this is what
makes it possible for me to be able to even have this many gardens. I certainly couldn't keep up
on keeping clean lines on this many beds. Another perfect example of this would be something like
this Cosmo here, which is another one that loves to go to seed. Around the gardens you'll see things
like forget-me-nots. There's strawberry ground cover that creeps all over. Creeping Jenny
around the ponds which spreads everywhere. Succulents like to spread everywhere. Lady's
mantle behind me is another perfect example. So when I come down to clean through my garden beds
or what I call fluff my garden beds, what that means is I'm going to pull out any major weeds
that I have. I'm going to pull out anything that's self-seeded where I don't want it to self-seed.
An example of that would be these hollyhocks. Hollyhocks, I know some people have a hard time
growing them, but for us they're one of our biggest weeds and it likes to self-seed everywhere. So
I've got some of those along the pathway that I need to pull out. Other than that I've got roses
to deadhead, a few things to prune back, and we just sort of work our way through, clean through
the space as we go. Doesn't take too long but it's amazing what that will sort of do to a space like
this. That kind of helps to keep things in check. Up until this last year this is where the garden
stopped. Now behind me is where we put in our pond and we'll talk a little bit more about that in
another video. But there's so many native grasses here that I couldn't fight them anymore. And one
of the things I love about cottage gardening is that it gives you the freedom to play with
the landscape and play with what's there already to get something that really is beautiful that
goes well with the landscape. So instead of fighting all that grass behind me I decided
to play well with it and to create these little wildflower meadows. Now they're still at their
very beginning stages. It's going to take them years to develop fully but it allows the grasses
that are already here to have a home, to have a space, and then as we creep into the garden we sort
of start taming the wild a little bit more. One of the tasks that's on my list this time of year
is to prune back and deadhead my roses. Now I've spoken about this before. I love old English roses.
These are David Austen's and this plant is about four years old so it's done a lot of growing in
that time. But to deadhead, you know, roses can be scary for the amateur gardener. I know they were
scary for me for a long time but other than just planting them according to the instructions and
making sure to deadhead them and prune them back once a year, they've been really easy keepers.
You did? If you're wanting to create a cottage garden space where you are, roses are one of the
very easiest way to do that. Other examples of cottage garden flowers would be things like
coral bells, hollyhocks, ladies' mantles, snapdragons, lavender, campanula, hydrangeas.
These are all really typical plants that you see in a cottage garden. You know, part of one of the
joys of gardening is getting to find your style, finding what plants you love. You might not like
the same color of roses or like roses at all but it's your garden so you get to create it in the
space that you want. I love roses so I welcomed a lot of them into the garden over the years.
Behind me is my greenhouse. This greenhouse served me really well this winter and early
this spring when I was needing to grow a lot of vegetables and flowers. I have to say it's pretty
horrific right now. It's full of garbage and empty soil bags and weeds and I really need to get in
there to tend to it but it's so hot in there during the day that it's a project best left for
night. I just need to prioritize it but it's a beautiful space. Stu just built this greenhouse
sort of out of his brain. I've had a lot of people ask me about plans or guides or something that
they could follow. We don't have any. We just sort of dreamed it up and out it came. There's still some
stuff I'd like to do to it like put down a brick floor in it but that will come with time. A big
part about gardening and one that I'm not so great at but I'm trying to get better at is just patience.
Being patient with yourself as things grow and develop and change over time. Your style's going
to change. Plants will die. It's just the cycle of gardening. This magnolia is a perfect example.
Before this little tree lived here we had a beautiful almond tree that we had loved on for
three years before we lost it in a windstorm. So this now has been here for about a year. I don't
feel like it's grown much even though it's healthy and alive and growing albeit so slowly. In about
20 years this is going to be a magnificent tree that's going to create a whole little subclimate
right here in the greenhouse gardens but for now we just have to. Let's go walk through the shade
garden. You'll notice that parts of our garden are still pretty wild. Pretty I don't like the word
messy but uh loose let's say. And because that's my style and because that's a great attribute of
a cottage garden some of these spaces work really well especially along the edges of the property.
So this garden right here was just put in this year except for the dogwood. Those have been here
for two years but other than that everything's just been planted this year and it sort of fades
off into the orchard. So it's another place where we've let grasses grow. We've let hollyhocks
self-seed. We've scattered just chamomile and cornflower and all kinds of things that will
self-seed and soften the edges a little bit. I'm really happy actually. It's wild but it's
beautiful. This right now as of now is the only shaded spot on our entire property because our
trees are still so young except for this oak tree. This was here when we moved in. Obviously it's
been here for many years and what I love about it is it's allowed me to create this shade garden
totally different than any other garden we have on the property. Some of the plants are the same
like the lady's mantle or the roses or the lamb's ear but some of them are things that you can't
grow anywhere else on the property like my hostas back behind me. Those are shade loving plants. They
need to be protected from our really really hot summer so they're quite happy in here. This garden
probably more than any other garden is one that I've really let come to life on its own. I've let
forget me not spread everywhere, johnny jump ups, the strawberry, the lamb's ear, there's foxglove,
poppies, beautiful hardy geranium. I mean this is just a little sliver of wild and even though it's
just five feet off the gravel path when you're in here you feel like you're in a different space.
This space is also home to our apple tree that is bearing fruit for the very first time this year.
This is a russet apple. It's an old heirloom variety of apple that was used for cider
and my hope is that I can get a nice hard cider stored up in the cellar for winter. It's a special
space. So when we moved into this property four years ago all of what you see behind me was just
grass. So much grass. We countered that by a lot of weeding, a lot of weed tarp, and a lot of gravel.
I'm a big fan of gravel pathways. I love the way they look and the way that they sound.
So that's what we sort of designed to carry you through down to the greenhouse and ultimately down
to the pond area. But this area to the right of me was one of the areas I'm most creatively
proud of how it turned out because it was this really really weird hill but just had a horrible
soil. Nothing would grow on it. We planted it a couple times and finally we just had to take a
step back and say okay what else can we do here? And what we decided to do was put in a little
stream. There's a few things that are really nice about this. For one it gives our bees a place to
drink and our cats and our chickens too. For two it's right next to the outdoor seating area and
so we get to hear the water rushing as we're sitting outside. It's a really soothing effect.
And for three it gave me a place to plant things around. Things like succulents and creeping genny.
Of course more strawberries. I've got a lot of strawberries. Snow in summer. There's some hardy
rosemary here that's actually hardy to our zone which is fantastic. And a lot that is just sort of
self-seeded or that birds have dropped. So it's this really natural area of the garden and it
starts at the top. It goes about 20 feet down to the pool and the pond down at the bottom.
It's really beautiful. It's a really big attraction for the kids. They're always on the hunt for
tadpoles or bugs or some sort of larva or just putting something in the top and watching it
float to the bottom. It's just a really beautiful space and to me it reminds me of how sometimes you
have to push yourself in the garden to creatively think beyond what's easiest, beyond what you would
instantly do to get to that next level of design and that next level of creativity. I love it.
This area behind me is the courtyard. Welcome. This is where people are supposed to come into our house
although 90% of people end up at the kitchen door. I love the design of this house because
it created this little pocket. Now when we moved in this was a trek decking with an old broken hot
tub on it and now it's just this small little courtyard that's filled with all of the flowers
and things that we love. Again we relied on a lot of gravel. We have some flagstone that we brought
in from Montana. That sounds really fancy. We didn't actually bring it in. We got it from a guy
who gets it in Montana and then we just created structures. Now we created these beds like I've
talked about before. We put down logs and twigs and branches. We lined things in rock and then
we put a bunch of soil and compost on top so it sort of created these little raised beds. You'll
notice everything that we have here is lined with rock. This is a malaga basalt that we get from a
neighbor of ours so it's a really local rock to us and I love it because it gives things a little
place to self-seed. It gives a spot for critters to hide and it just looks nice. It adds a different
structure to the garden. So welcome. One of the questions we get asked a lot about our gardens
is how we water them or if we have to water them. Yes we have to water. We have to water a lot.
Unfortunately I learned to garden a lot from Monty Dawn's books and he does not have to water
because he lives in a very rainy spot of a very rainy country. That is not us. We are a high
desert climate here where we live. What that means is really cold winters, really hot summers, and a
very dry climate. So we'll get a sprinkling but very rarely do we get a solid downpour. Luckily
here on our farm we have a well that we can draw from and so we use well water to irrigate all of
our beds. Everything has been, what do you call it, tube polytubed in. So there's tubes that run
underneath the ground up into the beds and then we have a lot of these little micro sprinklers
placed throughout. If we don't water here most everything dies other than some of our evergreen
stuff. You know some of the stuff that's just a little bit more drought tolerant like the succulents
but in order to keep things like snapdragons or foxglove or anything like that alive
we have to irrigate. Not very much. Just about 10 minutes a day is enough to keep things going
but we do rely heavily on our well water in order to do that. Another thing that we're commonly
asked is how we keep everything weeded. So I've shared a couple of my secrets which is over plant,
pack all those plants in and there's less room for weeds to grow, let things self-seed so that
you have a little bit softer edges as it were to keep things weeded. Weeds aren't as noticeable
that way. And the third way is just to get on your hands and knees and weed. So we don't use roundup
on our gravel pathways. We don't use any kind of weed killer at all.
The only thing that we use is vinegar sometimes we'll use on weeds and pathways
and just a lot of hand weeding. While the work of weeding is never really done the good thing is
that the more that you do it and the more you let weeds not go to seed if you catch them before if
you're on top of it every year the weeds do get a little bit better. So take part. This is a
marathon not a sprint. Should we go to the potager? All right. This is where almost all the visitors
enter our house. So to the right of me is where we park our cars. Directly to the left is our
kitchen door. And this is a little area that we created a couple of years ago to make that feel
as good as possible as welcoming as possible. So Stuart built me this actually while I was out of
town on a business trip and I came back to find this beautiful pergola made out of these rough
uh what do you call these split rail cedar woody things. And then above that we just did some bamboo
netting from Lowe's and planted a wisteria that was very eager to please and has since completely
covered this pergola. Now I know what you're thinking eventually the wisteria is going to get
so strong that it's going to tear it down. And you're right it will. Wisteria is really aggressive
but it's also really beautiful. So sometimes you just have to take the risk. We'll cross that bridge
when we get there. Couple that with my favorite vine to plant along the house. Now we have a
stucco house which means there's no shingles to pop off. There's no siding to disrupt. And what
that means for me as a gardener is that I can plant vines on my house. And I have planted Creeping
Virginia in the courtyard and in this entryway as well because of the way that it creeps and crawls
up. I love it. It creates a complete magical feeling, a completely different atmosphere.
It's a bit of a jungle right now though isn't it? So this is my potager garden. I give all the
gardens names because that way I can yell at people where a tool is or where I'm gonna be
working. This is the potager. Now a potager typically means flowers and vegetables mixed
together. We'll talk about vegetables in a different video because there's a lot to be said
around that. But surrounding the vegetable garden or the kitchen garden right here are flowers and
herbs. These are the first gardens that I put in when we moved to this house. I've had to redo them
two or three times to get them the way that I like them simply because I've learned so much
in the process of gardening. I've learned what colors I like and which I don't like.
So you'll see the general shades of the potager garden are softer pastels. It all kind of sticks
within this purple, pink, blue, apricot sort of a color spectrum. There's not bright oranges
or bright reds or bright yellows. Everything's just a little bit dialed back. This year I
introduced a bunch of burgundy roses which next year will be really beautiful with all the spring
purple that we get. But I mean on the whole it's just a gorgeous space. All the sunflowers that
you see were planted by birds from a few sunflowers I had last year. Hollyhocks have spread all over
the place. I've tried to remember where to plant annuals so that they wouldn't completely get
snuffed out by all the perennials. And you know sometimes you're successful and sometimes you're
not. But just working through the gardens and dividing plants and pruning plants and spreading
them out it's just I mean this is the best place in the world to be. You know gardening isn't
something that you're ever done with. There's no finish line. It's a process. It's a journey.
It's a way of life in a way where when you have free time you come out and explore. When you need
a boost of creativity or beauty or peace you just come out and enjoy the spaces that you've created.
And whether that's pots on your front doorstep that's a great first step to take. Whether it's a
five acre farm filled with flowers there's no right or wrong way to garden. This is the way
that I garden. This is a style that I love and I hope you've enjoyed the tour of my cottage gardens.
