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Hello everyone, I'm Nhung. Nice to meet you all on my channel. In today's video, I will share with you a secret to help our baby know how to motivate himself. This is a very important thing and I think our parents need to teach their children right from an early age. It will help our baby feel more confident, more in love with life. And the baby will not feel bored, bored, and self-satisfied every time he can't do anything. Mom and Dad, let's watch this video together. I believe this video will help our parents a lot in their parenting journey. Let's watch this video together. Let's watch the video together. First, let's find out why we need to guide our child how to motivate himself and how self-motivation will help our child in his growth journey as well as when he grows up. Most of us think that a successful person is mainly based on IQ, which is the smart index. So it takes a lot of time to be smart for the child. However, if parents focus too much on motivating their children to forget their feelings, it is easy to lead to a problem that our child does not know how to control his feelings. The child is easily angry, angry, and even hits his parents or friends when he does not achieve his goal. The child does not know how to communicate with people around him. The child does not know how to connect with people around him. The child does not have the ability to endure. The child can't stand it. The child does not have patience and lack of will. As well as the child does not know how to make a decision. The main reason is that parents forget to build IQ for their children. IQ is the emotional index, which indicates the qualities of the emotional, emotional, will, and endurance. And one special thing is that psychologists have proven and given the formula for success. 100% success comes from 20% IQ and 80% is EQ. EQ includes 5 emotional processing abilities. One is the ability to understand one's own feelings. Two is the ability to control one's own feelings. Three is the ability to motivate oneself. Fourth is the ability to understand the feelings of those around and opposite. Fifth is the ability to handle social relationships. Do you notice that these 5 elements are often found in good leaders? If parents often read books about successful business, about successful people, they will see that they all have the same points and all have these 5 elements. Now I will share with you how I taught my parents how I motivated myself in my daily life. Currently, my family is 16 months old. Of course, many parents are surprised to ask that they are only 16 months old, but what does it have to do with success here? Parents should know that the period from 0 to 6 years old is the stage of forming a child's personality to build a good personality for the child. Therefore, the education of parents and the environment around them will affect the child a lot. This is the stage for parents to build a child's EQ. The fact that you receive and feel things around you from 0 to 6 years old will go into awareness until you grow up and build your personality. So my parents need to pay attention. I am now 16 months old and almost 3 months away from my parents. The reason is that when I was 13 months old, my husband and I opened a company, so I had a lot of work. I let me go to my grandmother's house for a few days for my parents to focus on work. Unexpectedly, the Saigon epidemic lasted for 3 months and I couldn't go home. Fortunately, Mr. Nhung's house is quite independent. I don't have a mother to pinch or cry or anything. I go outside to play very happily. I sleep well and my grandmother takes care of me very easily. Outside, I live with my grandparents and my husband. He usually closes the door in the room and practices singing. So I usually stand outside the door to listen to him practice singing. He usually sings like that. I sing along when I'm outside. When he opens the door, I will run after him and sing along. The purpose is to find a common point to connect with him. As you can see, he knows and finds a common point to connect with others. In the morning, before the epidemic, I played outside. After breakfast, I was taken by my grandfather to the park to play. I noticed one thing and I knew that after breakfast, I would go out to play. After breakfast, I would run to get my personal belongings, including a bag of cakes, a water bottle, and a towel. I noticed that my grandfather usually wore a pair of shoes, so I took it for him. I knew that when my grandfather went out, he would bring a bottle of water. I knew that I would take it from him, not from him. I knew that when my grandmother went out, she often wore a hat and a coat. I would take the hat and the coat to bring it to her. I was only 13 months old at that time. I already knew that. In addition to knowing how to motivate yourself, I also know how to motivate others. Now, I will share with you how I did to motivate myself. It's very simple. At this stage of our baby, there are usually only three things going around. Eating, playing, and sleeping. I help you achieve these three things. The most fun, the most effective. In the process of me from zero to now, I always create an atmosphere for you in a fun way. You are always yourself. I always praise you. When you do something new, when you do something new, I always praise you and encourage you. For example, when we were in the prenatal period, I talked a lot about prenatal issues with you. When I first started to contact you, I gave you compliments. For example, the first time I held an old vegetable tree and finished eating it. Although I couldn't eat anything, I praised you and encouraged you. That is, today you did very well. Your performance is very good. You can pick up the old vegetables and put them in your mouth. More specifically, I will share with my parents an example that I often do with you. That is my toys. I have a lot of contact with toys. I have a lot of toys. I always have the idea that my baby needs me to play a lot of toys. When I have a lot of contact with toys, I will be confident. I will be smart and improve my creativity. There are 4 toys that I really like. I think these 4 toys are very good. Parents should learn and buy them for their children from an early age. That is Lego. Many parents think that Lego is quite difficult. So the baby is too small to play. However, I have been in contact with Lego since I was 9 months old. I have been playing very well for 11 months. The second toy that I really like is the Busy Box. I have been playing Busy Box since I was 9 months old. It helps the baby to improve creativity and skill in my hands. The third toy is to control the motorbike. I control the motorbike to go up and down. I have been controlling the motorbike since I was 12 months old. The fourth toy that I really like is the music button. I really like it. Parents can refer to these toys. It is quite difficult compared to the baby. However, I will show you how to do it easily. When I bring toys to my baby, I will create a happy atmosphere for my baby. I will tell my baby why I have these toys. I will tell my baby what I get from these toys. It's because I am good at these toys. These toys help me be smarter and more creative. I will create a happy atmosphere for my baby. Second, I will play with the baby. I will guide my baby. I will show you how to do it and when you can do it, I will do it for you you just have to look at it I didn't know how to do it at that time and when I can do it, I will clap my hands I will praise myself I will clap my hands and I will praise myself and then I will hold your hand and I will also clap I congratulate you I congratulate you that you can do it wow, so beautiful I will clap my hands and I will praise myself and then I will hold your hand and I will show you how to do it and the process of doing it is quite difficult for a 9-year-old at the beginning of the exercise I was very angry because at that time I couldn't concentrate and I was very uncomfortable because I couldn't do it and you usually just sit and watch me do it sometimes you are too curious then you hold your hand and when you can hold your hand I will clap my hands and I will praise myself and keep doing it and when you reach 11 months you can do it and when you can do it I will look at you and I will praise you and you can also clap your hands and I will praise myself and in the process of doing it you will be discouraged and you will be discouraged and don't want to do it then I will encourage you an important thing is here in the process of encouraging you your words are very important if your words are not right it will affect your mental state when you can't do it I usually encourage you you can do it you can definitely do it in my words there is only you there is no one else if you turn to the words of encouragement I believe that you can do it I believe that you are successful my child is definitely successful in this sentence I have two more characters baby and mother it will accidentally lead to I depend on my mother's expectations means that I do I try to do I give up everything to do because of my mother's expectations to be encouraged by my mother if there is no mother by my side I don't encourage you I will be discouraged and can't do it so the words are very important what my parents encourage but I have to encourage it and my parents pay attention in everyday life in the process of praising you I often say I believe that you can do it I feel very happy if you can do this if you can do that eat a lot for me to be happy please change your words I believe that you believe you have to believe and those things are helpful for you not for me and one more important thing it's not just an example sharing toys everything in my life related to eating, sleeping my parents are encouraged to praise me if I do well and I help you feel more confident I believe that you can do it and good for yourself because I often look at you how you do so I imitate what you do when I was outside I brought toys is my Lego I play Lego every day and I play with my grandparents so I take my grandparents to teach them to play Lego with me then I hold my grandmother's hand paste into each Lego like I used to do with you then I hold my grandmother's hand then I clap my hands and I pat my grandmother's hand like I used to do so you are my reflection so please pay attention how you act in front of me you can do what I share I'm sure our baby will be able to encourage himself I will feel confident and I will take the initiative in everything in life that's a specific example when I play Lego besides eating, playing, sleeping I do the same with you and the baby feels happy and I feel more confident and now please refer to my video my 11-month-old Lego and how I act when I can't do it and how I encourage myself when I can do it I know you are good it's ok keep going it's ok keep going good I know you are good I can see it's ok keep going he cries a little keep going I can do it I hope this video will help you a lot and you will feel the love if you think this video is helpful please like and share and click the bell to receive notifications I hope you like my sharing videos bye bye