Già Không Xin Tiền Con Nếu Tuổi 50 Sớm Biết Điều Này - Góc Nhìn Việt

Yes, ladies and gentlemen. The writer Lo Tan once said, of course, freedom cannot be bought with money, but it can be sold for money. When we reach the age of 50, we no longer have the strength to make money as before, but the spending in the house is getting thicker, and there are even more things to think about. He thought about it and was tired. Yes, at the age of 50, savings are calculated on the fingers, so where is the freedom? Where is the joy of eating? If you don't want to be a burden to your children, where do you get the money? If you want to help your children, where do you get the money? There are so many things where you can think of. You should remember this, if you are old and have no money, it is difficult to maintain your life. Maybe it's just because of food that we have to exchange for money. But when you have money in your hand, not only does it help you not starve to death, but also protects your freedom and dignity. All three reasons why you must have money to support you. If you don't, your life will be very miserable when you are old. First, you must have money to support you to keep your dignity. You don't have to look down on your children. People say that money is not the key to all abilities, but if you don't have money, you can't do anything. For an old man who says this, although he may gradually get older, his dignity is getting higher, especially in terms of money. If you have to look down on your children because of money, they are more likely to not open their mouths. If you have money in your hand, your children can sometimes give you a little gift. You can also pay them back in the form of interest, buy gifts, or give your children money to eat. So everyone is happy. The older you get, the more you realize the importance of money. At the age of 50, if you want to live happily, you have to have money. Having money is not to show off, but to feel safe. At the age of 50, peace is happiness. You don't have to worry that you don't have money. You don't have to worry that you won't lose your job. You don't have to worry about retirement. You don't have to rely on anyone to live. The elders often say that old age makes children worry. But in fact, no matter what you do, it is best to rely on yourself. Old age is not an exception. A person who has no money and is old, raises his hand to ask for money from his children. The children are filial, but they have to be beaten by God. Only then do they feel pitiful. There is a famous story in China about Tu Ma Guang. He was a young man who fought to save people. Later, he became a famous politician in the North East and even wrote a book about self-governance. On that day, many scholars and human rights activists came to see this scholar. In a conversation, he often asked the scholars, Do you have money? Anyone who is asked this question feels strange. A great official like Tu Ma Guang, why do you care about such trivial things? After that, everyone heard for a while to know the reason for that question. Tu Ma Guang said, If I don't have money, I can't maintain my life. I can't stand up because of the rice harvest. But when I have money in my hand, I can stand up. If someone forces me, I have the right not to do it if I go against my principles. Money not only helps me not starve, but also protects freedom. From this sentence of Tu Ma Guang, we can see that having money or not can also determine whether we are independent or not. Until now, maybe that sentence still doesn't make us stop thinking. Not having money is like you become an independent person. At any time, you can be oppressed by the environment, or even rejected because you can't do anything else. For the elderly, the most important thing is love, care, and care for their children. But young people nowadays, everyone has their own family, their own pressure, and they don't have time to spend with their parents. When children don't have time to spend with their parents, they can't bring a sense of security to their parents, then the money they save will be useful. Having money in your pocket can also help your children when they need it, not become a burden for them. This is the last love that parents give to their children. At this time, everything you buy can be spent freely without having to ask for money from your children. Almost all worries, tensions, and loss of peace of mind are caused by worries about money. Many health problems are also caused by stress and worries about money. Many problems in relationships are also caused by worries about money. And one of the main reasons is caused by those worries and family conflicts around money. Therefore, the oldest must be financially independent in order to live his own life. 2. To have more money when you get older, you can live a happy life. When you get old, you have money in your hand, you can invite your friends here and there, you can learn and do what you liked when you were young, and you have a chance to go to work. When you get older, you have to know how to improve your physical and mental life in a suitable way, drink better than high-end teas, eat nutritious food, wear more expensive clothes. And this is also a way to improve your mental health. Without money, there is no money to buy medicine or to improve the quality of life. 25 years ago, I was diagnosed with terminal cancer. The doctor said that a 51-year-old woman could only live for 3 years. The surgeries made her suffer a lot. She had a hair loss and often said that she couldn't stand still. Her husband decided to take her to travel around the country. This is the way to defeat cancer. But in fact, he just wanted his wife to be happy and not regret anything in the end. At first, he realized that his wife's health was getting better, so he spent all his money to buy a car to start their journey. From 1996 to now, they have traveled more than 250,000 kilometers with more than 1,100 tourist destinations. They went to the North Pole, South Asia, drove themselves through Laos and Thailand, traveled to Xinjiang and Tibet. But the difficulties made them determined to make their life a meaningful and natural journey. Since then, the cancer disease seems to have lost to her. More than 20 years have passed. Mr. Cuc has summarized their journey into a book published by many people. In the book, he says their life is very romantic. Today is a mountain, tomorrow is a lake, the next day is a beach. In life, no one dares to give up everything to travel. Therefore, to be like them, not only to have a mutual understanding between husband and wife, but also to prepare for the future. Happiness is sometimes the journey of companions and friends to learn new things. Such a life is really meaningful. But to be confident enough to leave everything behind, they didn't stop making money to live together at a reasonable age. Third, no matter how old you are, cancer is a natural disease. You have money, but you don't need a child because it's a waste of money. So their life will soon have no burden. What's more, it's okay to meet a good daughter-in-law. If you can't meet her, what's the point of bringing your son or daughter-in-law to them? 50, then 60, then 70, then 80, then 90, then 100, then 100. This means that a man who is rich can build a family he wants Because they already have enough to worry about. You can completely spend your own money to hire someone to take care of you, or go to a nursing home. The more money a person saves, the more valuable it is when they get old. And when they want to be good to you, they just need to be by your side. They don't need to spend money. The economic pressure for them is also reduced. To make money, you have to take advantage of it and do it early. Saving money is the same. With savings, you have a place to rely on. Going home, getting old, is the only way to be happy and independent. When I was young, I used to think that life is short, so I have to try my best. I have money to spend, I have money to drink, and many other things. But I realized that everything in this world has risks. Therefore, you have to be mentally prepared as well as be able to resist risks. Between mountains, between people, only relying on yourself is the most valuable. Those who can fight to the end are not thanks to luck and intelligence, but thanks to the ability to resist risks. Speaking of this, realizing that money and children are different will create different lives at different ages. People with savings will definitely be free, secure and comfortable than people without savings. In fact, no matter what stage a person is in, he should be aware that he has a cow, but he still has to work as a farmer. Being poor is not scary. It's scary that you don't have a plan and you don't know how to save. How much you have, how much you lose. And you don't have any awareness. Wait until you need money to know the importance of money. And don't just look forward to having a child. People who are old should still rely on themselves. When you are young, give yourself some money to support yourself. Wait until you are old, have money in your hands, be stronger than anything, but you don't have to rely on anyone, even your children. You can just live the life you want. Thank you for listening to my sharing. See you in the next videos.