Vì Sao Đố Kỵ Ghen Ghét Với Người Khác Là Hại Người Hại Mình? - Đông Tây Kim Cổ

Why do you hate someone else because they hurt you or hurt themselves? Jealousy is a kind of bad temper of a person, but it is very common in society. When you see someone who is more talented, more successful than you, you feel jealous, angry, uncomfortable in your heart, then you talk bad about them, which reduces their reputation. There have been many cases just because of jealousy, which leads to conflicts, break-downs, and even death. Jealousy is a kind of bad temper of a person, but it is very common in society. There have been many cases just because of jealousy, but it is very common in society. Today, I would like to invite you to learn about some famous stories in history about jealousy, to see how terrible it is. The Three Kingdoms is a very famous Chinese novel by La Guangchung. The story is about a great strategist of the Han dynasty, Ba Leng Chog Tuk Chu Zhu. The story is about a great strategist of the Han dynasty, Ba Leng Chog Tuk Chu Zhu. Chu Zhu is a famous military and strategist of the Wu Dynasty. He was appointed as the Grand Admiral of the Wu Dynasty when he was very young, at the age of 24. As a person who looked far and wide, he called for the establishment of an alliance with the Chu to fight against the Ngui. Although the number of troops was overwhelmed, the Wu and Chu defeated the Ngui in the battle of Six-Bit in 228 AD. At this time, Chu Zhu was only 34 years old. However, Chu Zhu had a great weakness, which was too much fighting. It made him hot-tempered, timid, arrogant, irrational, and worst of all, he was extremely jealous of those who were more talented than him. He considered Za Kat Luong the most famous military strategist in Chinese history and was a military expert like an enemy who did not play with him. In contrast, Za Kat Luong was a large, modest, respectful, and observant scholar. In order to defeat the Ngui, Za Kat Luong was willing to cooperate with Chu Zhu to win the battle of Six-Bit. After winning the battle, instead of being modest and learning from Za Kat Luong, Chu Zhu always looked for opportunities to defeat or even find a way to kill Za Kat Luong. However, Za Kat Luong was always smart and took the lead. He always had a perfect response, which made Chu Zhu feel humiliated and his arrogance was hurt by many fans. In the final losing battle, Chu Zhu screamed in despair. God gave birth to Zhu, why did you give birth to Luong? And died right after that. Even before he died, he was completely destroyed by the jealousy. If you don't play chess with Za Kat Luong, try to learn from him. Maybe Chu Zhu's potential is still very wide and he doesn't show off his ability with such a bad voice. Bang Quyen and Ton Tan are both students of Ngui Kok Tu, a strategist who is good at tactics and lives in the mountains. Both of them are very talented, but Ton Tan is more talented. Desperate, Bang Quyen asked Ngui Kok Tu to go down the mountain first to set up a business. Ton Tan stayed overnight to learn the tactics and was secretly passed on by his master to Ngui Kok Tu. After going down the mountain, Bang Quyen was promoted to general in Ngui and took the military power of the whole country. Bang Quyen quickly established many big palaces, punished small countries around, even defeated the whole empire, which was a powerful country during the war. However, Bang Quyen was still worried about Ton Tan. Knowing his poor talent, Bang Quyen invited Ton Tan to Ngui with Ngui Vuong. In fact, Bang Quyen did not mean to do so, just afraid that once Ton Tan was used by other nobles, he would become his dangerous enemy. On the outside, Bang Quyen always treated his master very well, often asking questions. But in his heart, Bang Quyen still wanted to harm Ton Tan. Quyen repeatedly lied in front of King Ngui, then accused that Ton Tan was a spy of the country. Ngui Vuong listened to the lie, and ordered the execution of Ton Tan, for the soldier to cut off two pieces of his ribs and then stick them on his face, making him live less than death. After knowing that the person who harmed him was Bang Quyen, for a long time, he still believed that Ton Tan was a spy. To cover Bang Quyen's eyes, Ton Tan had to pretend to be crazy, wandering around the market. Bang Quyen still let people follow him closely. Seeing that Ton Tan was really crazy, he immediately had a good intention. In 366 B.C., Nguyen had the news that Ton Tan had come to the capital of Ngui Quoc. Ton Tan came to meet him and told him the story. After hearing the news, he secretly waited for Ton Tan to return. When he returned, Ton Tan became a guest of General Dien Ky. Then, Dien Ky proposed to him with the help of Ngui Vuong. Ngui Vuong knew that Ton Tan was a rare talent, When he came to the capital, Ton Tan had many opportunities to compete with Bang Quyen. At that time, Quyen held great power in Ngui Quoc. Ngui Vuong was arrogant, and often brought troops to punish the nobles. In 353 B.C., Bang Quyen led a large army to fight against the Chieu Kingdom. The Chieu King sent people to ask for help from the Chieu Kingdom. The Chieu King brought troops to help the Chieu Kingdom, but Ton Tan refused to help Ngui Quoc. Then, Dien Ky led a large army to the capital of Ngui Quoc. Bang Quyen heard the news, and hurriedly waited for the Chieu King. On the way back, Quyen was defeated by Dien Ky in Que Lam. He was even caught alive and sent home. Out of pity, Ton Tan let Bang Quyen go back to Ngui Quoc. In 341 B.C., Bang Quyen led a large army to fight against the Chieu Kingdom to regain the throne after losing in Que Lam. After the two armies fought each other, Ton Tan used a ladder to pull the kitchen. He made the kitchen smaller by half after each day. From 10,000 pieces to 5,000 pieces, and then to 3,000 pieces. Bang Quyen let people count the kitchen of the nobles. Seeing that the kitchen was getting smaller, he thought that the nobles were afraid, so they shaved their heads and left. Seeing that, Quyen left the soldiers behind and only brought a shield and hurriedly chased the nobles at night. On the way back, Ton Tan had early data and let the army ambush at Ma Lang, which is a narrow road with high mountains on both sides. Tan ambushed the two sides of the mountains with logs, stones, and let people paint on a large tree along the road. Bang Quyen died under this tree. Tan was angry with the soldiers and when he saw the light, he shouted, throw the logs down. As a result, Bang Quyen chased to Ma Lang, he set the position himself, came to the corner of the tree, slowly read that line. The two sides of the mountain were echoing. The soldiers shouted and shouted like rain. The nobles were confused, dared to step on each other, injured countless people. Bang Quyen was also desperate, did not want to be humiliated again, fell into the hands of Ton Tan, and killed himself. Before he died, Bang Quyen said he would be famous after this fight. Even in a moment before he died, Bang Quyen was still too selfish with the talent of Ton Tan. So from the point of view of a fellow student, but because of his selfishness, he did not want anyone to be better than him. Bang Quyen hurt people, hurt himself, humiliated, killed thousands. Through the above two points, we can see that selfishness is like a double-edged knife that hurts people, hurts himself. Selfishness, jealousy, makes people lose themselves, become blind. It also sticks in people's heads, full of hatred, makes people lose their calmness and calmness. A person who holds the heart of selfishness will make themselves unable to achieve any achievement, because they are always jealous, jealous, and jealous of others. They do not have enough time for their real goal. Looking at other people happy, they are jealous, seeing other people suffering, they are happy. They see themselves as the shadow of others. In the story above, Bang Quyen, just because of jealousy, hates Ton Tan, but now he is tired of all means to harm his friends. However, Ton Tan is just too much to walk on two legs, unable to walk like a normal person. And Bang Quyen, just because of jealousy, has to die not only in a remote place, but also with a lot of hatred. As society develops, the greater the competition, the more jealousy, jealousy, jealousy. The brothers and sisters are living happily, but the sister Thuận Hòa bursted just for jealousy. The friend's lover, Lâu Bến, also burst because of jealousy. You are better, more rich, have a higher social status. Jealousy is just like a black cloud. As we dive into human mind, it is hard to let go of jealousy. Jealousy has become natural and people can't realize it. So, we should bless for other people's efforts, talents, and efforts with a generous heart. Life is a chain of ups and downs. If we can treat each other well, then our hearts will always be peaceful and life will be worth it. And if you are still filled with jealousy, then turn it into motivation to improve yourself. Jealousy can make us feel unhappy and dissatisfied with ourselves, but it is also an opportunity for us to re-evaluate and understand our strengths. Instead of comparing with others, focus on developing and improving yourself to become the best version of yourself. If you find this video meaningful, please share it with your friends and don't forget to subscribe to Dong Tay Kim Co channel to watch the latest videos. Goodbye and see you again in the next videos.