【海外の恋愛観比較】日本と全然違う？！外国人たちと恋バナで盛り上がりすぎた日！！{前編} （日英字幕）

First date. One. No, hold on, hold on. Let me see. Or we can make it together. Or we can make it together before we go. That's the hour. Yeah. Wait, where? What do you think about couple matching after? Would you do that? I do it all the time. I feel like money would do it. No, I... But, you know, when I think about romancing, I kind of want to relax. I wouldn't be next to... On the first date, do you guys think guys should pay? I would always reach for my wallet. I was raised that way. Okay. I would always offer to split, actually. Welcome back to our channel. I'm Natsu. Maddy. Louise. Jedai. Ari. Ants. So, we're here with these things today. Lollipops. Welcome back to our channel. I'm Natsu, Maddie, Louise, Jedi, Ari, Ant. So, we're here with these things today. Lollipops! We played a game about the values of love before. Everybody loved it, actually. So, I thought we could do it again. But this time, we're going to do it as a team. Not a team, but we can talk about it. That's what we're going to do. So, let's get started. First date. Okay. What would you do then? Hold on. Let me see. Picnic. 1. Picnic. 2. Movie. 3. Theme park. Or amusement park. First date. Picnic, movie, amusement park. Yeah, easy. 3, 2, 1. Jesus. Damn. Okay, let's let these two explain themselves. So, it's a first date. I don't know if I like them. If it's awkward, we can talk about the movie. So, I like it. Watch a movie, and then we have to do something, though. After the movie, if it's awkward, we can always say, That's a nice movie, huh? And then have a conversation. So, that's why I like movie dates. That's okay. What about you? I chose the amusement park, because I think it offers the most fun. Different activities, different things you can do. I feel like picnic is too intimate for first date. And then movie, sometimes it's not enough, because you're watching a movie. If you have time to spend afterwards and talk, then better. But the theme park, you can do games, rides, talk about it. It's fun, you're laughing. Why picnic? Because for me, I really just like to walk around and do different things. The picnic is like part of the date. You know what I mean? I don't see it as just like, Okay, we're just going to go on a picnic, and then we're just going to eat, and we're going to sit here. I see it as just like a small portion of maybe what the whole day consists of. Maybe the day does consist of the movie. But at the end, the main part is going to be that picnic, next to the beach. You know what I'm saying? Something like that. I feel like you're adding more stuff to it. Yeah, because it's not just... I mean, it's jazz, but... If it's just the picnic... I mean, imagine dinner, but you can make it really yours. You can pick the exact location. You can pick exactly what you... Even if you're good at cooking, like he is, for example. I'm not, but that's the fun part of it. Be like, hey, I'll make you something, even though I don't cook. Usually, let's check it out. Or we can make it together. Or we can make it together before we go. Both bad at cooking. Wait, where? First date. First date, come to your house to cook? That depends on what you know. But anyway, you know, it's a dinner, and you can make it completely yours. You can choose the exact spot. You can choose whatever you guys want to eat, etc. I just think it's the most casual. I like casual first date, because there's not that much commitment yet, right? We don't even have to cook. We can just grab some food, and grab a nice spot in the park, eat, chat, and then take a walk and talk. I want to get to know the person on the first date. So I think number one would give me that chance. Yeah, basically the same. But I think movie or amusement park is really hard to see if we're vibing well. Because an amusement park is like you're hyped up. So you can't really... Everyone's like... It's fun, right? And everything's fun. What if you don't, and you're like three hours in line to go to it? And you're just sitting there like... Yeah. That's my fear. The waiting line. Actually, because I've been seeing this debating everywhere. On the first date, do you guys think guys should pay? I wanted to ask Anne, do you pay for the ladies? Exactly. Do you pay for the girls? Someone asked me a question. Yeah, the thing, man. I would always reach to my wallet. I was raised that way. Okay. It's not that... If she says no, no, no, no, I would be like, okay. Split it. But I wouldn't feel comfortable splitting it. And it has nothing to do with the girl is like whatever. It's just something that I was raised to do. And I want to... Hey, it's a date, so I want to invite you. Next time, you can pay. I don't know. But for the first date, let me do that, please. Give me that. I don't know. I like doing that. Right, right, right. I would say for the amusement park thing, I feel it's more like both people would buy their own tickets. Yeah. Now, if we go to a restaurant, then yeah, I would try to pay for the food. But the ticket, I would try to buy the person's ticket. I feel like it's a little too much. And that's another reason why I wouldn't pick three because I would feel like I have to buy the ticket. And I'm like, I don't want to. Like, I don't want to do that. Especially on the date prices. I'm like, that's a lot of money. And I don't even know if I like you for one. You know what I'm saying? It's like I have to buy your ticket and then that's not the only, then there's food there. And that food at the amusement park is expensive. I wouldn't want to buy that too. It's just like, that's too much money for me. What about girls? For me, I want to split. I mean, I would always offer to split, actually. To offer. I would just offer. I would offer. I don't know how you feel. I want to split. But if he kept insisting on it, then I'm just, okay, fine. But always, I would ask. Like, do you want to split? Same. I don't feel comfortable just being, waiting. Yeah, I don't know. I feel like I owe something if he pays for everything. So I would always say, like, can we split? I don't know how you feel because you came off a little bit stronger, but I will ask, like, do you mind if I pay? Like, is that cool? And if they're like, oh no, we can split it, then I'm cool with that. That's a nice idea. I don't, like, if they say like, oh, let's split. No, no, no, I got this. Yeah, whenever, like, Bill comes, what I like to see, maybe, that's another thing. You know, what I like to see is that she's reaching to her wallet. So I can't be like, hey, no, no, no, I got this. Yeah. Right? At least reach to your wallet. Don't sit like that. No, right? You're sitting at dinner, you're reaching, and you just look at her like this. And she's like... Get it, grab it. I'd be like, never mind. You know what? I don't have enough. No, like, reach to your wallet. That's why I reacted that way. At least try. I will not probably, I will try not to let you. Yeah. It depends on the people, but I don't expect people to pay for me. Yeah, same. I feel like if they pay for me also, there's higher chance of, like, I owe them something. Yeah. So I feel kind of bad after. Exactly. If I want to reach it. I might be more comfortable after, like, later. But on the first date, it's kind of like... Yeah. It's okay still. It depends, right? On the first date, basically. I agree. I feel that. Okay. Let's move on. We can sit on this topic all day. Next, date outfits. It depends on the date, but like, the one you feel most, the one you like the most. Yeah, the one you feel is most important. Oh, it's two of us now. They all look similar. 1. Jeans and white tee. 1. She. 2. Casual. 3. Matching. Matching? Not first date? Not first date. Oh, okay. Doesn't matter. Couples. Okay, it doesn't matter. It's your own interpretation. Okay. What stage are we? I don't understand. We're already dating. Because matching on the first date is... Yeah, that's it. It's like, oh, we're cute, huh? We're going on a date, man. We're going on a date. That sounds like weird. Okay, I'm ready. Okay, shall we? Yeah. 3, 2, 1. Oh! I like number one. But if we're talking like we're going on a date, then number one. That's an opportunity to dress nice. Yeah. I don't want to wear casual. Yeah. I picked it because I'm always scheduled. For the most part. And recently, only like in recent times, I've been trying to be more sleek when I'm going out. So that's why. I feel one of the best feelings is when you have your partner, you both dress up, you look nice. Together, you're strutting the street together. You both feel confident. You're in your own world. It's like that feeling. Yeah. Stunting on people, though. Stunting on them. Like, you just know you look good. When people walk by, like, they look good. It's the ultimate feeling of like teamwork. Yeah. Yeah, I've been feeling it. For me, I don't like dressing up. I love being comfortable. And for me, it's like, to go on a date with someone, it's like how comfortable I can be. But like, those are the part of it. And also, I don't like makeup. I don't like trying. That's why. So, yeah. I don't want to try. I think that's why we're opposite. I love to wear good, cute clothes and wear makeup. So I need someone who will dress up with me. You know, for fun. So if someone enjoys to dress up, it's good. But now, I want to talk about this. Matching. What do you think about couple matching outfits? Would you do that? I do it all the time. To be honest. It's fun. Why care what people think? So I think it's kind of a fun way. Not exactly matching. Same colors. Or like same concept of outfit. Because then you look good. You look good in pictures. And like, if it's a special date, I kind of like to have similar T-shirt. And then the rest is different or something. I think it's cute. Would you wear like matching T-shirt together? Yeah. You do? You don't? It depends on how it's styled. If it's that T-shirt. If there's more access... Like how we said, like we have the same shirt. But we can accessorize different things. Then yes. But if it's just plain blue jeans, T-shirt, white shoes. Probably not. I feel like Maddie would do. No, I don't. She said that now. No, I don't like that. No, I don't. It's too much. I mean, the only matching thing that I think it's nice is matching sneakers. That's it. Other things, I do not match. I don't want to. Maybe like same color, like Louis said. If we go for like earth tone, like okay, there's different color. I like all black and all black. Like if both... I really like that. You're going for it. It's just an example. But like I really like my significant other dresses are like in something very black. So I try to, okay, meet black too kind of thing. I don't know. It gives like a such a different vibe. Yeah. When we're together. But like same shirts? Same pants? Yeah, I don't know. There's been like a few times where like accidental matching happened. I do enjoy that. Yeah, that's true. When it happens, I'm like, oh! Like, you know, see my... Let's say you're dating or whatever and you guys didn't see each other. And you're like, oh, we're going to meet here. And then you go out and you're like... Yeah, that's fine. It happens. At least, it's really... Yeah, I like that. But I've seen a lot of couples, they plan. But when it's like, when it's too much, I like the concepts though. When it's like, we got the same socks on. Socks? No, I don't want to take the socks off. I've seen that. I've seen a lot of that kind of stuff. But why do you think it's bad though? It's cute, right? They're having fun. As long as they're having fun, yeah. They're having fun, yeah. But not for you. I don't think it's cute, per se. Yeah. 10, 15 years ago, it was seen as like corny, don't do whatever. Over time, it's gotten more acceptable. Absolutely. Is it stemming from like older... No, I just think like for me... Maybe that's stemming from something older. Because when I was younger, a lot of people, they would purposely match. And then it just never worked out later on. Or like... You know, it's just like you're trying so hard. You're like trying so hard to like be together. You want everyone to know they're together. And then he or she cheated or something. And then they're just not together anymore. And I'm like, so why do you do that? You know what I'm saying? But I don't like the image of trying too hard. Like you said, I don't want to try too hard. Sometimes I feel like a lot of people, when they match, they go out of their way to like buy certain things to try really hard, which is cool if you really enjoy it. But at the same time, you go out of your way to try so hard and you guys are only dating for maybe like three weeks. Three weeks? No, that's too short. But that happens. Like the beginning, like this is the beginning. He has like a matching ring when they're like three weeks in. Right, right, right. They have like a matching pinky ring. Right, right, right. I've never seen them like last forever. Right. But like in the long-term relationships, like that kind of matching thing, I think it's cute. But a lot of people that I see like really matching, they're like a month, two months, three months in. I'm like, it's only Christmas. That's why, huh? The Christmas couples, man. All right, next one. If you go on like romantic trip, where would you go to? Romantic trip? Romantic trip. One, Hawaii. Two, Paris. Three, Tokyo. Okay. Hold up. Romantic trip. Like if you go there, you feel like romantic. Okay? Okay. Three, two, one. Yeah. Do you want to be a French girl going to Paris? It was a little difficult because I live here in Tokyo. But if I didn't, then I think I would put more value on it. So I chose Hawaii because it's much different. Why Hawaii today? You know, I've been going to Ishigaki kind of often. And now it's not my home, but it feels more like a homey vibe. It's more relaxing. When I feel romantic, I want to relax. Now I was stuck between here and Paris because I was like, you know, I kind of want to go somewhere more, not really city-like, but I just kind of wanted to go further. But, you know, when I think about romance, I kind of want to relax. I want to be next to, you know, I want to see more of the local stuff. I want to eat like the local foods in like a small compact area versus being around a bunch of people. Right. Even though Hawaii has a bunch of people, but still. You? I went to Hawaii because I want the feeling of like separated from everyone. Right. Because it's an island, right? And like Paris is just too many people. Tokyo has too many people. It doesn't feel like vacation. So that's why I chose Hawaii. And like you can do more activities together there, right? Like you can go swimming, take a walk together. In Paris, like I think it's just what? Shopping, eating. Yeah, too many people. For me, Hawaii, because I'm just, I love nature. And I find romantic more in nature than city. Right. Like sunset, breeze and like everything. Yeah, why Paris? So last time I chose Hawaii because, you know, I lived in Paris. I lived in Tokyo. So it doesn't feel special. But thinking back, so for me, actually, I'm not a nature type of person for dates. And so I feel like Hawaii, I want to go as a vacation, but I don't know if I'd find it romantic, more relaxing. And so right now I'm living in Tokyo. So at least I want to go on a trip. That's why I feel like in Paris, especially if my boyfriend has never been there, it's a good opportunity to have a new experience with him. I'm an awful guy. So we can discover together. And I lived in Paris only one year. So there's still so much I don't know. And I feel like just Paris at night is amazing. Like, I mean, dangerous, but amazing. Beautiful. Yeah, I think there's a lot of cute dates you could do and dress up nicely. And, you know, that goes back to what we like, I guess. So yeah, Paris. So, Mr. Tokyo. Yeah, I picked Tokyo last time as well. Nothing changed for that. I think there's nothing more romantic, for me personally, okay, than exploring a city together. I love that. I love going to new places together. I love the variety that Tokyo gives us. I mean, you can do so many things here, really. And if you really want to escape the city, you can do that all the time. But I think for everyday life romance, you can have it here in Tokyo. Or if you want to pick a specific date on a high-rise building with a great view, you can do that. That is very true. You can go to Odaiba. Great view. Rainbow Bridge by night. Beautiful, guys. Tokyo has a very unique vibe. Tokyo, man. The vibe, the safety, everything. Just... It's a romantic city. Alright. Next! Some of my friends... You keep adding on these. Okay, but no. I'm talking about the one one, right? And also, in summer, like, you can go outside. We can, like, live together. Like, we're like... No. Hey. Yeah. You play that back. If you find that... Romantic? No, I don't think this is... You said it that way. 1, 2, 3, 2, 1.