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In life, there are three things you shouldn't think about, three things you shouldn't help. If you can let go of these three things you shouldn't think about, these three things you shouldn't help, then your soul will be much more free. Three things you shouldn't think about. 1. Don't think about things you can't do. If you can't do something, if you can't achieve something, then don't think about it. Don't try to cling to things beyond your ability. As the saying goes, if you know that love has run out, you don't know what to do, but your heart is still happy and obedient. In this world, there are many things that go beyond human control. Let's accept everything that happens. If you can solve it, then solve it. If you can't solve it, then you should know how to accept it. No one knows the fate. Do what you think you should do. Believe that the more you try, the more luck you have. Don't worry about the good fortune, don't worry about the bad luck. 2. Don't think about the past. The past can't be pulled back. If we are always lost in the gloomy shadow of the past, we will lose the chance to find the way forward. The past is a suitable place to visit, but not an ideal place to stay. Let's get rid of the gloomy shadow of the past. Take a step out of longing, to feel the sun shining brightly. The philosopher, mathematician, logician, and English mathematician Bertrand Altec William Russell said at the age of 98, We should not live forever in memory, should not forever miss the beautiful days of the past, and should not be too sad for the loved ones who have passed. We should focus on the future, and focus on the practical things that need to be done right in front of our eyes. 3. Don't think about going too far. The car will come in front of the mountain, the road will come by itself, the boat will come to the top of the bridge, it will drift by itself. Don't think too much about the distant future. The months ahead are still numbered, with many twists and turns. Too much thinking will add to the delay. Now is the only thing we can hold on to. Let's feel the life going on, and take steady steps every day, every hour, every minute, every second. Buddha said, 500 times looking at each other face to face, to change a gentle step through each other. What we have now, is the result of the whole process of effort in the past. Similarly, the little things in the present, will become a path, a result in the future. 4. Don't help. 1. Exceeding one's ability. The Buddha said, Help someone who needs to consider their ability, can't follow promises, and then can't do it. When enthusiasm helps, but it causes unfairness or loss, the other person will blame you. No one wants this to happen. 2. Interfering in love affairs. Interfering in love affairs, means interfering in other people's love affairs. The Buddha said, But fate has decided, people should not interfere, especially in love affairs. In the past, men and women were not free to communicate, so they needed someone to introduce as Mai. Today, the relationship between men and women has become more open. Not a close friend, should not introduce as Mai to people. In the case of need for introduction, should also emphasize to the person asking that, this is just an introduction for two people to meet, make acquaintance initially, will not be responsible, and related to the next story of the two people. Things related to love and marriage, are not things that can be solved rationally. Outsiders should not interfere too deeply, otherwise it will make a mess. 3. Not to be in a hurry. There is a saying, help in a hurry, but not help in a hurry. When a loved one is in trouble, it is natural to help in a permissible way. However, no one can change the fate of a person, can only help in emergency. For those who do not want to go up by their own feet, help from others will make him more reliable. There is a very profound teaching, rice rice rice rice rice rice rice rice rice rice rice rice. Those who do not have a heart to know grace, look at others and help themselves as if it were natural, then it is too greedy, being trampled on the head. There are also those who take advantage of others' good intentions, want others to help, but do not say directly, but create a situation to deceive others to achieve their goals. Those who have a problem with the above, we are not responsible and help them. 4. Live in life. If we can let go of 3 things not to think, 3 things not to help, then our soul will be more free and self-reliant. Thank you for watching and subscribing to Dong Tay Kim Co channel. If you like this topic, please leave a comment below for everyone to know. I wish you and your family good luck and peace. Goodbye and see you again in the next videos.