3 Điều Khiến Gia Đình Lụi Bại Cần Tuyệt Đối Tránh Xa - Góc Nhìn Việt

Welcome back to Ngoc Nhin Viet channel. Ladies and gentlemen, in the eyes of the Buddha, the law of cause and effect is a constant existence. If someone becomes a blessed person, if a family wants to become prosperous, then they must do it in a good way. Only in this way can they obtain the sweet fruit. Blessed people are blessed. The families of those who are blessed, are those who never stop changing in a positive and better way. Thanks to that, the family becomes peaceful, happy and prosperous. But on the other hand, there are families who are not bright, bad people, leading to bad consequences. The family is getting worse and worse. And then there are three bad people causing serious damage to the prosperity of a family. If you don't want your family to get worse, please stay away from them. The Buddha said, if you don't want your family to get worse, please stay away from these three things. First, bad prosperity, bad consequences. Regardless of the time, prosperity is the root that determines the prosperity of a cell in society. People used to say, good karma nourishes the skin. Good karma is the foundation to develop a family. For a family that says, good skin is the most important factor to ensure a long-lasting prosperity. A good family, a couple of good parents, is not because they leave their children a lot of money, a lot of houses, a lot of cars, but because they educate and teach and leave their children a lot of wisdom and humanity. There is an old saying, when you grow up, you eat gold. A couple of their wives have a very smart and clever child. Once, that child ate a diamond from a neighbor's house. When they got home, their mother not only scolded them, but also praised them. Gradually, the child agreed to eat other things from the neighbor's house. The mother knew, but she didn't forbid it. Later, the child grew up and became a professional thief. He ate a lot of gold, but he was caught by the government. Because he ate too much, he was sentenced to death. Before his death, the thief asked his wife, I want to drink my mother's milk once. At that time, his mother came to say goodbye, so the thief's request was accepted. Unexpectedly, he bit his mother's head and said, When I was a child, I ate a lot, but my mother didn't stop me. Now that I'm beheaded, it's all because of my mother. Now I hate my mother very much. Every word, every move of a father as a mother clearly shows the education in the family, the style of the family. The style of the family is good, no matter how poor, there will always be a bad day. The style of the family is bad, no matter how rich, there will always be a bad day. Therefore, the best style of a family is a good style. 2. The family is not harmonious, not harmonious. The family is the most important place for a person. 70% of emotions, joys and sorrows in life are related to the family. A family that only has arguments every day is like a poison. When you get home, you feel cold to your body. A family that lives together sometimes can't avoid conflict, but they need to be tolerant and loving. Then the family will be peaceful and happy. We accept others not because we are poor, we don't know how to talk, but because we are close. If you are a family member, you will not be lucky, just be tolerant. 3. Raising children is extremely difficult. A family has 3 people. The parents run a small store to raise their daughters to go to college. Due to the development of technology, the work of a traditional small store is very difficult. Sometimes their husband and wife don't make enough money to rent a house for a month. They don't dare to call for lunch. But the girl doesn't know the pain of her parents. After going to college, the first summer, she went to her parents' house to buy an Apple phone because the old phone was out of date and shameful to her friends. The husband and wife reluctantly spend less money to buy a new phone for her daughter. The daughter still doesn't know enough. If she has a phone, she asks for a computer. If she has a computer, she asks for a bag of books and even hides a large sum of money from her parents. In the end, the work is broken. The parents have to sell the house to pay off the debt for their children. Stories like this are not rare in life. How many children are spoiled by their parents and become real bloodsuckers? The house is not rich. When there are children like that, sooner or later, it will be gone. Life is meaningless without hardship. There is no way to go. It's a waste of time. If we don't let our children suffer, this life will make them suffer. I really love you. Don't be a white sheet covering the rain and wind. Please teach them how to face and overcome difficulties. No one was born with a perfect life. And parents can't protect their children forever. So let your children suffer. They will have the strength to overcome the challenges in life. In traditional culture, the family is considered one of the most important elements of the country. The father-in-law, the son-in-law, the sister-in-law, the country, the world. Although the house is small, it is a fundamental factor for the formation of the country and the world. Lepton Stoy, a philosopher, once said that happy families have similarities, and unhappy families have differences. A happy family is what everyone wants. And as long as a family has six basic elements, it will definitely be happy. First, harmonious family. In the Covid calendar, the father, the son, the daughter-in-law, the son-in-law, the brother, the sister-in-law, the country, the world. In harmony, the family is happy. The father, the son, the daughter-in-law, the brother, the sister-in-law, the country, the world. The brother and sister live in harmony. The wife and husband are of the same mind and the same heart. A family like this will definitely be happy and peaceful. Everyone in the family lives together. There are things to take care of, and there are things to take care of. That's how it's peaceful. People are willing to give up, not because they are poor, In the family, there is no winning or losing, but only tolerance. Second, tolerance. Even if you are a family member, you can't avoid the stigma. People are not perfect. And so are the family members. They all have this problem and that problem. If everyone can tolerate each other, understand each other's difficulties, and stand on the other person's level to consider the problem, then natural contradictions will be eliminated. Third, save money. You don't need to eat delicious food. Just be full. You don't need to have a beautiful face. Just have enough face. You don't need expensive phones. Just use it. You don't have to compare yourself to others. Just live your life well. That's enough. Saving is not because you are poor. Saving is not because you are stingy. The bottom line is that you don't waste. You don't run out of things to use. If you need to spend money, you can't save it. If it's not worth it, then save it. Fourth, make time to exchange. Sharing is the most important thing in a family. If there is no exchange, there will only be disappointment and doubt between people. Not understanding each other makes the family's love weak and even broken. Life in a warm family has a dear friend, has a lovely daughter, the whole family is happy and harmonious, early and late together, every day I see a bright smile. Oh, listen to the warm words, this life is enough. Fifth, raising children is a blessing for the children. Life is not miserable, and there is no happy way. If you don't make your daughter suffer, the world will make your daughter suffer a lot. When the relationship between parents and children lacks seriousness, it will definitely lead to a child with selfishness. If you understand that love must be done, love must be done with seriousness and strictness. If you can convey these things to your child, your child will definitely know how to deal with them, and raising children will be more convenient. It's not smart to be strict with your child all the time, but to say that love is still the top priority. Sixth, perfect virtue. Virtue is the best guide. A human life must first be a human being, then work. Only when you are a good human being, can you feel light, easy, and carefree. Living in life, virtue is poor. Words are unethical, and there is no intelligence. The Buddha's sky is not high, but the money is blocked. Life is not happy. Family is the most important thing. When you are tired, you just need to go back to your loved ones, laugh and be happy, then all the troubles will disappear. So love and protect your family. I hope that everyone in the world has a happy home, has a gentle and warm side to imagine. 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