Ngộ ra điều này SƯỚNG NỬA ĐỜI CÒN LẠI - Radio Suy Ngẫm

I didn't have a rich father, tried 3 times for university, all failed. I applied for Harvard for 10 times, all failed, they don't even want to see me. If you are looking for advice, business lessons to start a business, then I believe that any businessman will give the only advice, that is, this life is not always easy. Any success must pay the price. If you want to be a successful businessman, accept loneliness. And that's the truth. Most of the time, you only see the outside appearance of a successful businessman, but you are not sure that you have known all the efforts, efforts that they have to give up. So I applied jobs, for 30 times, got rejected. It was so difficult at that time, I was so frustrated, because I taught in the university, my pay was 10 dollars a month, because I could not find a good job. Most businesses start from financial weakness, and sometimes people even turn their backs on you. So, before you have the intention to become a businessman, I advise you to get used to loneliness. Becoming a businessman means that you have to be more open-minded than society. One of the most important qualities of becoming a successful businessman, is perseverance. Because it is very likely that you will have to face many obstacles, obstacles on your career path. On the way to success, there will be many doors open, but then suddenly close in front of you. That's why sometimes you just want to surrender and give up. And on the journey to the top, you may have to get used to loneliness. If you want to succeed in business, you must first break the mold. We often feel more comfortable and safe when working in a group. Because then we can refer to the opinions of our teammates, to give more certain assessments that what we are doing is right. This is also like a model, and when working in a group, we also have to follow social standards, as well as the memories of those around us. But if you want to become a businessman, you have to face all the unusual things in front of you. And above all, you have to break the mold of society. This is a difficult stage. When you do it, you need to have faith in yourself, in the product or service you are going to do. Even when society, even family and friends are saying that you are investing in a stupid thing. I never thought I was smart. Nobody believed that I could be successful. Because everybody said, well, this guy thinks differently, thinks crazily, you know, he thinks about something that never works. Remember that you are the only one who invests in your own ideas, and knows clearly what you are doing. So don't let doubts get deep and deep into your ideas. You have to face rejection. During the business journey, you will have to face rejection many times. From trying to attract investors, to inviting products to new customers. Rejection once or twice, or even a hundred times, is also inevitable. When we constantly receive negative feedback, we will feel bored, tired, and sometimes lonely. Then we often ask ourselves, what did I do wrong? Is my product or service not good enough to attract people? But please don't let yourself be trapped in doubt and fear. Remember that you are not as lonely as you think. Let's take a look at the reality, and you will see that many successful entrepreneurs have experienced this. Oprah Winfrey, J.K. Rowling, Manona, or even Albus Dundee, have been rejected many times on their business journey. Do you know if Steve Jobs was ever fired from his own company? Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Jack Welch, Larry Page, Mark Zuckerberg. The difference between those people and other people, they are always optimistic for the future. They never complain. They always try to solve the problems of the others. An entrepreneur can't have time to communicate. Perhaps before you start, you have heard and foreseen this. But this is also a necessary thing when you decide to get involved in the business. Especially at the beginning, when you have to spend most of your time for ideas and for your own investment plans. This leads to the consequence that you are more likely to lose contact with your family and friends because you have to spend all day on proposals, investment deals, or advertisements to attract customers. At first, you may not realize it because you don't have enough time for your work to pay attention to those things. But suddenly at some point, you suddenly see your friends' photos at a party without you or your own child who has known since when but you don't know. You still haven't read your parents' messages on the phone. That's when you realize that you have become lonely since when. Perhaps you have been told for hours about the need to balance between work and life. Because both are very important. Sometimes it's just a theory. So, before you start a business, you should have in mind that sooner or later, you will become a lonely person. You can make people feel afraid. Suppose that your business is successful, your company is successful, and you make a lot of money. You think that you have achieved the result you want. But why do you still feel lonely? Because success is often accompanied by unexpected side effects. When you are successful, you are surrounded by the glory of admiration, the dazzling light that sometimes makes people not dare to come close to you. When you are at the peak of success, people are often surrounded by new relationships, but very few of them are sincere. That's why, although you know a lot of people and have a lot of new relationships, you are still lonely in your own success. In fact, making a difference will be an important step to help you get closer to success. A lot of people said Alibaba is a terrible model. As I said, I believe it. I think this thing could be big. I never thought it would be that big like today. But I believe that something is waiting for me there. And I have to work hard to prove myself. That was a tough experience. Remember that only you are the one who holds the key to your destiny and chooses the real relationships for yourself. On the way to success, avoid obstacles and above all, try to keep your soul from being lonely right on your path to victory.