4 NGUYÊN TẮC ĐỂ DUY TRÌ MỌI MỐI QUAN HỆ - RSN Motivation

1. Relationship People tend to gather close to people who have the same point of view as me, such as gender, race, opinion or hobby. You are an introvert or an extrovert. In today's generation, having a wide network of relationships is extremely necessary and even a must to be successful. Building a wide network of exchanges is the first step to give you new opportunities. Knowing how to explore your network is how to help you seize these opportunities. But do you feel tired when you have to maintain those relationships every day? Here are 4 principles to maintain all relationships. 1. Take advantage of each other to develop together When we were young, we often connected with people around us simply for fun. But when we grow up, most relationships are built on some benefits. The closer you are, the easier it is for others to find you and ask for you. Sometimes you might feel like you're being used. Speaking of taking advantage, many people will understand it in a very negative way. However, if you look at it another way, the more people take advantage of you, the more you prove that you are capable and valuable to them. Because it's simple, no one asks for a useless person. Don't feel embarrassed. You need to understand that when both sides give each other equal values with what we receive, that relationship will be very tight. In the company, if you are given a lot of work, it shows that you are a senior and highly valued colleague. Don't be sad about it. Those who should be sad are those who are not given work because they don't have the same ability as you and can be eliminated at any time. Or take it as confidence to do a good job. In many cases, it is through the ability to handle the good work of the lower class to achieve the goal. And the employees ask for it to gain more experience, rewards and promotion. If you say that you have never taken advantage of others, you still don't have any real friends. Taking advantage is not a bad thing. Sometimes you just need to sit down and talk to each other to feel more comfortable. That is also beneficial. Any other relationship is the same. There is an equal exchange of benefits, then that relationship can develop for a long time. Or understand it another way, taking advantage of each other is another way to maintain friendship. Money must be absolutely equal. Many people are often selfless. They think that if you are a friend, the other person's stuff is also yours. Just use it comfortably. Don't care about asking for an hour. There are very good people who are willing to lend you stuff, lend you money easily. And there are also those who take advantage of that good heart to do good for themselves. They lie, cheat, borrow money, borrow cars, but don't care about the person who lends them to them. When you ask for a friend, it's like a slap in the face, a promise to repay. But when it comes to dating, it's even worse. It's not a real friendship. Until you realize the real person of the other person, you will definitely be very sad. In a relationship, there is a divine principle that you have to be faithful. If you can't do that, no one will want to maintain a relationship with you. You will even be left out by others. Don't say bad things about each other's friends. Many people always look at other people's relationships to make it easy, but it's wrong. Everyone has the right to freedom. If you don't know enough about your friend, it's better not to judge them. When in their position, you will have a different perspective. Sometimes silence is smart. Don't know how to speak, but it will make the other person feel unrespectful. As I said, you have to be the right person at the right time and at the right time to lose your friend. Don't cross the line. When interacting with people around you, you should pay attention to etiquette and behavior. Don't make a mess that makes people understand what you mean. When communicating, first you need to make the other person feel that you have respect for them. If not, the relationship will immediately change direction. Just a small action will have a huge impact on maintaining any relationship. People who don't pay attention to these things will easily be arrogant. This will cause the other person to be hurt, then hurt themselves and thus destroy the relationship. This is a problem that many people often face. No matter how close you are, there should still be a certain distance between the two of you. It is necessary for the two of you not to go beyond each other's tolerance limit. Maybe what you do makes you feel very normal. But knowing that makes people feel uncomfortable. Maintaining a distance is not creating a distance, but maintaining your friendship longer.