Man Dies, Travels To A Mysterious Realm, Shown 4 Secrets To A Fulfilling Life By God | NDE

and all the confusion evaporated I knew exactly what was being asked I knew exactly who I was talking to I knew exactly what the door was and exactly what was going on and it was interesting because there was no expectation about what the answer should be yes or no but it was energetically absolutely obvious that it needed an answer and it was very enlightening and joyful and then I had a an experience that uh is like I picked this picture on the background because it's outer space and that little thing right there is a kid if you blow it up big enough you can see that's a child sitting there with with her looks like a girl her elbows on her knees at the entrance of the some kind of a starport but anyway it felt like I had an experience traveling through the universe uh in an ability to see the glory and power and magnitude and Infinity of all these things and each one of us is a is a intentionally created Divine being we are not an accident we are purposefully lovingly intentionally created not an experiment not a byproduct but we're Divine created by this all I call it God but all powerful intelligence I can I'm Kellen flukiger I live in Edmonton Alberta which is in Canada uh I am a coach uh and have been for about 15 years uh and before that I had a executive career doing different things in the United States and Canada H in the last 15 years I've um written 19 books and now my mission and purpose I really do only one thing and that's to help people realize who they really are and what I mean by that is we feel a yearning to do something more I call them I call us Mission you know Messengers people that feel like they have a message or Visionaries or movement makers you know those kind of people that want to do something and they feel that yearning besides just the average stuff I work with those people to turn that yearning into reality help them figure out how to do it and what to say and where to go and what kind of products and services to produce as I do it for myself so all the books that I've written are about my own journey and work and as things would have it I had this experience five years ago where I died and that's what we're here to talk about today so uh in order to understand this we need to back up just a little bit I like I mentioned I had a 30-year career as very successful executive in US and Canada and that was on the outside behind the scenes I was uh uh struggling struggling mightily I struggled with depression and addictions and I was married and divorced three times and you I attempted suicide a couple times so I had a very tumultuous and negative life kind of like a movie where in the front it looks really good Big Shot Etc and behind the scenes it was a disaster and that's how I lived for most of my adult life when I was 52 which is in 2007 I had a what I call a divine intervention an opportunity to see my life for what it was a disaster and start basically start all over again um and by start over again I mean it like I walked away from the career of 30 years I walked away from millions of dollars of contracts that I had and high ranking positions and everything because it was killing me and uh I I became I got sober uh and also at the same time part of the divine intervention was to meet the woman who is now my wife of 16 years so a lot of really fabulous things happened in a very short period of time scary things too I walked away from everything and had no idea what I was going to do like I'm starting over now what I don't know but anyway I became an author and a coach and create started creating some real success with that and since 2007 I've written a lot of books and created a coaching practice that's very successful and I was going along in that personal development I made a lot of personal changes did a lot of work with counselors and Co coaches and stuff myself and was building quite a successful Journey feeling like I was doing the right thing so that was the the setup uh for about 11 years between 2007 when I started that journey and 2018 which is when the experience we're talking about today happened so in the summer of 2018 my wife and I decided to go on a cruise uh in the Baltic Sea and you know I didn't know where the Baltic Sea was but it's over where uh Helsinki and Oslo and St Petersburg and talin Estonia goes east and west which I didn't know but anyway so we did that and it was beautiful and we had a great time and at the end I got sick and I was in Oslo we were in Oslo and I just really started having a fever and could hardly walk and all that stuff we flew home that was on Monday it was day one on uh Tuesday we flew home from Amsterdam because we were finished and I was sick I had a fever and the the ladies the stewardess's flight attendants on the plane were really nice today of course with Co they'd probably throw you out the window but uh in those in those days preco they were nice and kept me comfortable um like I got home on Tuesday afternoon and just kept getting sicker all week so Wednesday Thursday and the beginning part of Friday passed with me getting worse every day and but kept thinking well it's just a really bad flu I I'll get over it I'll get over it and you that was kind of stupid but I did it anyway and eventually on Friday I um decided I better go to the doctor so in Canada medical system they have walk-in clinics where you sometimes you make appointments sometimes you just walk in and we had one near our house that we regularly used for different things so I went there to go have them take a look at me and the nurse took one looked at me and said you can't come in here there's nothing we can do for you you need to go directly to the emergency room that scared me and so I'm like okay so we got in the car went to the emergency room and when you go to the ER in most places it takes a little while to get seen it might take half an hour an hour two hours maybe longer depends on how many people are there and all the rest and how many emergencies come in from ambulances and I'd come in my own car with Joy my wife Joy drove me but anyway I looked so bad I guess that in 10 minutes I was in a private room which I didn't know they had in emergency rooms usually they have just beds that are separated by these curtains but I was in a private room with the door right away and then a doctor came in right away and so that made it really clear to me that I was in bad shape because they were all over me so um they started doing tests X-rays and asking me again and again where I'd been and I told them the story the crews the cities we went to and everything and as the day wore on the messages back from the medical staff kept getting worse and worse uh and they said well you we think you have pneumonia and then they came back and said yeah you know an hour would go by you do have pneumonia but it's in both lungs and it's just terrifyingly bad and and then all this time they were looking for a room to put me in because they said yeah we're gonna admit you to the hospital there's no question just we got to find a place and so then uh they late in the evening they'd found a place and I I sent Joy home because we had dogs and cats and things and so she needed to go take care of those so they put me in a room in a private room which was also odd because you know usually there's two people in a room but anyway I was in a private room which was fun but made me nervous so then they came in and the doctor came came in and said okay uh yeah we're going to probably have to move you to the ICU and so intensive care and that made me nervous uh oh dear and and so I thought about that for a bit and then they came back in another hour and said yeah um we're going to put you in biological isolation which is like double doors and hazmat suits and all that stuff and then I got scared and I uh started to try to send a message to Joy then they came back again and they asked a question that was just terrifying the doctor said uh do we have permission to intubate you which means put tubes down your throat and in your lungs and put you on life support do we have permission to intubate you and do anything we need to do to preserve your life that scared the crap out of me so I said uh what okay but that just was a real hard slap like this is really serious so then I started to meditate I went into a state of meditation meditation is a practice that I've used all my life um and while in meditation I could feel something I'd never felt before I could feel uh what felt to me like my body in my spirit unzipping like a zipper on a jacket so I could feel myself separating gradually pulling apart the only conclusion I could come to was that I was dying and and my spirit was separating from my body so I then took my phone and tried to finish the text and I sent a text to Joy that just had three lines line and I was trembling at this point I could you know my body was crashing anyway I said the first line said I see you and the second line said isolation slash intubation and the third line said I may be dying and she didn't see that because by then she was asleep because we'd agreed she was going to come back the next day because I was in the hospital I mean there was nothing for her to do about 2:30 in the morning she got a call from the nurse uh are you coming and then she saw my text and you know they had a conversation about what the heck is going on so somewhere in that time frame between my meditation at about 11: and 2:30 or so in the morning I died my heart stopped I you know the crash card code whatever it is blue I think but might be black green purple I don't know whatever it is in the hospital so I was crashed and flatlined and that's when this experience began um so I came energetically spiritually I came too in my mind I was conscious so I sat up and I I was horizontal because I was on a bed so I sat up and the room had changed I was not seeing tubes and machines and everything I was in a what looked like a gray room kind of a very soft photo card gray and it was felt a little foggy like I couldn't really see how big the room was where are the walls I don't know ceiling but over my left shoulder I could see a doorway and the I and it was really clear it was just kind of over there and I wanted to be at the doorway and so all of a sudden I was at the doorway and I was standing there leaning on the door jam on my right shoulder and across the door on the other door jam was somebody leaning on that door jam on their shoulder they're close enough to touch and then I noticed that my side of the door was just sort of soft gray and the other side was white and it wasn't light streaming through but it was white on that side and gray on my side and we stood there for a little while and then this person looked at me and he said do you want to come home and all the confusion evaporated I knew exactly what was being asked I knew exactly who I was talking to I knew exactly what the door was and exactly what was going on and it was interesting because there was no expectation about what the answer should be yes or no but it was energetically absolutely obvious that it needed an answer there was a question and it needed an answer and you know I didn't think about it at the time but it's obvious I'm laying there dead on the table so we talked about it for a little while and what we talked about was what I'd been doing in the last 11 years since I you know started on this path of coaching and helping people and spiritual work and all that stuff so we talked about everything we'd done everything we still had planned to do and all that different stuff and we just had a conversation that was very spacious and peaceful at the end of the conversation I said well I'm not done yet and so he said okay so I'm quite certain that that's when they were able to restart my heart and return me to at least to the beginning to back to back to alive uh the next day and as an interesting side note in the I wrote the book about it called meeting God at the door and part of the book is exactly what I'm going to tell you now but part of it was from Joy where she told me what she was seeing in the ICU and the Opera you know the rooms while they all this was going on and you know people running around frantically jumping up and down on tables trying to do all the stuff that you see in movies when they're do you know that they're doing to people so that was going on too but I didn't have any perception of that anyway the next day and people always ask when I do these conversations how do you know it was the next day the answer is I don't know but I know it was the next day so we were back at the doorway and the question of the previous day didn't come up like that was decided so you're going to stay so then the conversation was about all right well what are you going to do and it wasn't that blunt but it was like okay so you're not done what is the what is the not doneness and so we talked about the work that I was doing the coaching practice my desire to help people to and by help people what I mean by that is help each person who's interested who being interested or not it's a choice understand who they really are like expand the limited Vision that we have of our possibilities and you know that's the work I'm involved in anyway and was but so we talked about doing more of that and how to do it better and just all kinds of stuff and it was very enlightening and joyful and then I had a an experience that uh is like I picked this picture on the background because it's outer space and that little thing right there is a kid if you blow it up big enough you can see that's a child sitting there with with her looks like a girl her elbows on her knees at the entrance of the some kind of a starport but anyway it felt like I had an experience traveling through the universe uh in an ability to see the glory and power and magnitude and Infinity of all these things and when I talk about this I make reference to a movie that you may may not have seen it came out a long time ago in the 80s but it was a movie when there was a lot of conversation about aliens and first Contact and you know extraterrestrials and that sort of thing and this movie is about that it's called Contact and it's after a book written by Carl Sean who is a big extraterrestrial researcher but anyway in that movie uh they build this they get some communication from outer space they build this incredible device and as they operate the device the passenger in the device it falls through this energetic column it doesn't really go anywhere from the outside but in the inside what she experiences as she goes on a trip through the universe and so I refer to that movie because that's the only thing I've ever seen that feels a little bit like what happened what I saw so if you haven't seen that movie it's worth worth a look but anyway I felt like I was being fed from a fire hus and what I mean by that is information Vision seeing things on a grand and infinite scale that I can't even begin to articulate and I also felt like if I hadn't been in some kind of a protective bubble energetic bubble or something it would have been incinerated with the the glory the magnitude all that stuff so that went on for I it felt like a really long time I don't know how long when when that was finished we were back at the door and I was sort of breathless and thinking about what the the trip through the universe had taught me and I I summarized it in my mind in four four key points and here's what they are number one each one of us is a is a intentionally created Divine being we are not an accident we are purposefully lovingly intentionally created not an experiment not a byproduct but we're Divine created by this all I call it God but all powerful intelligence that by itself is like Earth shaking because we live a lot of Our Lives thinking wondering about that question and wondering whether or not there's any meaning and so to know that for absolute certainty was really powerful the second thing was that not only are we created intentionally lovingly and purposefully but we have a mission a purpose a reason there's a mission and purpose that we have for this existence and we not only knew what it was but we were excited about it we were stoked we agreed to it we were stoked about it before we came here so so there was some preparation involved and it was exciting the third thing was that we were blessed or given the gifts and talents that we need to both enjoy and complete that assignment Mission purpose and the fourth thing is that all the help we need is available from both sides of that door that each one of those by themselves is a staggering thing and people have thought and asked and wondered those all of them before so they're not new but to know them in the way that I saw was um is very present and Powerful so as I pondered those four things it occurred to me that me and everybody else obviously lives far below what we're capable of we access far less than what we could than our Birthright than our capability and so my question was I said so okay since that's true why do we settle for crumbs like mostly like mostly we just settle for like nothing what why do we do that and it was a little it was almost funny because I mean nothing about the situation was funny but it was sort of because I don't know if in the economy of Heaven brevity is a virtue like but the answer that came was just four words you looked at me and he said because you don't believe and the answer was so breathtaking and also so obvious that it was like face palm you know duh I didn't do that but I thought about it and so I said okay and then my immediate yearning was to do something about that okay we don't believe like okay of course what can I do how can I in my mission and purpose how can I serve and help with this thing right and again the answer was really short oh glad you asked and so then the second part of this conversation was really long and it was it consisted of some principles about how to change our beliefs like we're born with no beliefs at all we're born with kind of a blank slate and our life experience how we're treated what we learn whether we're born in wealth or poverty whether we are treated well or treated poorly you know all those things teach us whether we want it to or not about how the world works and what to expect and what we believe is possible and all of the rest of that and so we end up with a set of beliefs I call it our context because you know you've heard people say well they quote somebody right to try to prove something and then someone else says yeah but that's out of context and what they mean by that is by itself that doesn't mean what you think it means okay so our context is all of those collection of beliefs I use an acronym BD beliefs definitions experiences expectations and perceptions that set of things forms what we believe is possible in the world how the world works and I call it a context straight jacket because it limits what we try and it limits what we think is possible and it limits all those things until we get rid of it and so the second part of this conversation when I asked how to how can I help was a framework about how to change those beliefs about what kind a process of activities to change beliefs identify a belief that you're questioning and wondering if it's true and then a process to do something a process to do something to change it now that whole process and framework I wrote in a companion book I didn't put that in meeting God at the door because it was a whole book by itself so that book's called The Book of context not surprisingly but it's about how to change identify and change our context so anyway that was done and that was it seemed like a very very long conversation in two parts both of which were long so then the third conversation was uh the the next day and when I came back to the door this time I was very excited I was energized I felt like somebody sitting on one of those balls bouncy balls at a desk you know that were popular for a while you you bounce kind of I felt like that I was bouncing and I was repeating everything and I learned and I was kind of jumping up and down excited and everything we're back at the door and he looked at me and he just asked one question said are you sure and I almost panicked I felt like oh dear I missed something what do you mean am I sure am I stupid did I miss something is this possible am i g to fail like what am I sure and so I felt a little panicked but anyway so we talked about every possible way I could think about the question all those things I biting off more than I can chew is this even possible can I get the help I need am I an idiot like what all of that we talked it through and finally I said yeah I'm sure and so then he said okay and that was the end and it it's interesting because nothing was said but the conversation ended with a finality that I knew we were done so that was the complete completion of the three conversations uh in the those three days I remained in a coma hos for another 14 days uh and the the illness that I had was fatal I mean it was a fatal illness the doctor told me later that the 10day mortality the 10day kill rate of what I had was 100% And so I was a impossible exception meaning that's how urgent the thing that I was infected with was and it was a necrotizing which is a flesh eating bacteria MRSA Mera and I had it in both my lungs and in my bloodstream in the most infected way possible a couple of the doctors said they'd never seen pneumonia this bad in their entire career you know that kind of description so it wasn't any surprise that it was fatal what the surprise was is that I was allowed to live and that I recovered and when I came out of the coma I had lost 35 lbs I'd lost practically all muscular movement I couldn't walk my lungs were destroyed and so recovery was a long work it was several days before I could even get out of bed and stand up and start to walk and all of that sort of thing I was in the hospital for another several days and eventually got released in another miraculous discharge but it wasn't a near-death or visit with God but it was another set of Miracles that even got me out of the hospital so that's the completion of the experience of what happened and as I mentioned I've written a couple of books about it once called meeting God at the door conversations choices and commitments of a near-death experience and the companion book is the book of context and I again I separated them because they needed to be separated one stands by itself the book of context is something you can just use to work on beliefs and the others the whole experience so there's the story that's what happened five years ago in June so it's interesting because I got out of the hospital in July about a month after I went in and getting back to walk and everything and I started writing these books and by October which was two three months later I could walk well enough to to do some of the stuff that I did which is speaking I would go speak at different conferences and I went to uh a conference that October to speak and I to I was asked to speak about what had just happened and I still look like you know a a concentration camp Survivor but I did and I talked for about an hour and a half about what happened and the lady in the it was time Q&A afterwards and she asked me what what's the biggest thing that you has changed for you since this happened and that's what I thought of when you asked this question and I'll get into the career part in a minute but I I hadn't really prepared for questions I hadn't thought about it and so while I was thinking about it I heard my mouth open and say I no longer experience fear and I I didn't prepare for that it just sort of came out right I no longer experienced fear and so I thought about this this question and the answer and so how that affects my career is part of coaching is you're trying to help people do something right sometimes they want to start a business and then you're functioning you call it life coach but as a business coach or uh relationships or but it really all centers on who a person's being and what they believe about themselves and what's possible and when I used to enroll people and talk about stuff I always felt worried a little you my am I going to offend them am I going to ask good questions and that's just a little bit of the business piece right and what I've discovered since then in the last five years is it's absolutely true I no longer experience that I look at people I look at you and I absolutely love you I love you for what you're doing for what you're trying to bring to the world for who you've chosen to be and all of that just makes everything else disappear and I just had a call this morning with lady I never met her before she was on a seminar that I spoke at this last weekend and we only got to talk for about 40 minutes but I think she's very you know really cool at what she does and she's really struggling with typical questions how do I make money how do I create products with what I blah blah blah all that and there's nothing wrong with those questions they're very right but because I don't experience any fear about anything I'm able to just lean in and help her and I'm quite certain that in the process of helping her she will join one of my programs I don't know that yet but I feel like that I'm quite certain and so how it affects my career is I'm way better at what I do my business is way better because it's it has created a circumstance where none of the conversations have anything to do with me it's like I'm not there I'm just with someone Allin and people feel that and they feel heard and they feel possibility in a way that I couldn't do before and so that's probably the most single most powerful effect on my career I help more people and make more money and it's not even about money because I don't even care I go into every conversation not needing anything just to find out what's going to be there does that make sense spiritually my physical health is still trashed my lungs may never recover I still have you know lung problems and you know that kind of stuff they told me my lungs may never recover because of how badly they were damaged so we're working on it and I can do a lot more than I could and five years have gone by but I am not up to 100% by any stretch and that probably won't ever happen they did a electrocardiogram and my heart wasn't damaged but could have been because the bugs was in my were in my bloodstream too but my lungs were trashed and so I'm only up to about 70 or 75% of lung capacity but my heart and my spirit and my energy and everything are good and it to to be honest with you I don't care anymore about all that other stuff stuff that I used to care about is not important the only question that matters is am I able to meet each person that I talk to whether it's here as a guest for you or talking to that lady this morning and I have you know three more conversations this afternoon with people some are clients and some are not am I able to show up for them and see what they need and serve them in some good way that's the only question that's in my mind when you look at just this life there's all kinds of bad things I mean we got war going on one started in you know that war in Israel now going on and we got the war in Ukraine and we got starvation going on and we got all kinds of dictators and creeps and other things happening in the world and so if you only look at the experiences of this I was raised in an abusive household I just got sick and died I you know everybody and I'm not saying mine's everybody has a whole pile of really difficult things to go through that seems to be the design the design of this experience is a bunch of hard stuff it was not designed as a picnic now if we want to argue about the design later then later we can talk to God and say hey that was whatever but the answer is I think we knew exactly what we were signing up for I think we volunteered 100% but I don't think we had any idea how it was going to feel because we hadn't had a physical body yet and we had no reference so intellectually we may have understood what we were going to do and that it was going to be hard but that's like going to a restaurant you get the menu at a restaurant and it describes the food and in expensive restaurants it describes how it's prepared and all these details about it and that's all cool but it has nothing to do with what happens when you take a bite right when you actually eat the thing it's a completely different experience than reading the menu no matter how good the menu is and I think it was a little bit like that so we chose we knew it was going to be a lot of difficult things and we said we're in we want to experience this for growth and learning and whatever purposes and I I doubt very much that we had the kind of comprehension that we do now when we go through those things it's like you were asking me about the experience and I'm saying I went through on this journey through space in a protective bubble and saw the universe those are the words but there there aren't any there isn't any language that I can use to help somebody understand what that felt like in what I learned and saw I mean I no language so yes we chose it yes we wanted to yes we knew what we were going to get in for and I doubt very much that we had any idea what it was going to feel like believe the those what you learned in during during the time that you traveled the universe those knowledge was not meant for this uh Earth for this Human Experience so you were CH you were the chosen one to translate those knowledge into what we can understand I'm one of many I mean everybody has intuition and inspiration and guidance and it comes to you as a podcast host and it comes to every person in their own way I don't have any idea why I got to see what I saw and I don't have the language to describe it very well but it what it made me know is that those four things I told you I know they're true and I know it in a way that I can't explain and I can't go into a laboratory and prove but there's nothing in the universe that would make me unow those things right and so you know I don't think I'm any spe anybody special everybody gets their own connection and develops all those things you know how I look at it I di and I had the terrible physical things that I'm still dealing with but I count it all as a giant blessing and here's the reason 11 years before that my life is a wreck I was a wealthy selfish single again for the third time lousy parent lousy person uh had more money than I knew what to do with drug addict miserable cuss and so I had was given the opportunity to change and I took it and did all the work required and 11 years later I had this happen and you could look at it like oh this terrible illness I love it I wouldn't trade it for anything