Từng bước làm chủ cuộc đời

Đoàn Quý Lâm
58 Người theo dõi
8 thg 11, 2023
Hello everyone, I'm back.
It's a clear and cool morning of the end of winter.
Today, I'd like to share with you a topic that I think is very important to our life.
That is, each step of taking charge of our life.
It will include taking charge of your career,
and taking charge of your way of thinking, living, and thoughts.
Now, many people have lost their ability to take charge.
It is very difficult for a person to take charge of everything,
from work, career, to emotions, feelings, and way of life.
This is something that I think is very regrettable in everyone's life.
Now, let's talk about work first.
It is very difficult for many people to have the will to take charge.
Why?
Because when we are just born, we are already potential employers.
Because all the educational systems, cultural environments, and family perspectives
direct young people to work.
There is no educational environment that teaches people how to take charge.
None.
There is no educational environment that teaches people how to take charge.
And everything we learn, prepare, equip, learn,
and prove is mostly to serve the purpose of becoming an employer.
And even in families where parents are still taking charge of their business,
or potential employers, that is, farmers.
Farmers are the owners.
But all those parents can also follow the general trends of society
and raise their children, educate their children,
and direct their children to work.
That is why we see a large part of society is employers.
It has a purpose.
It has a purpose from education, from all educational systems around the world.
As I said, the purpose of the birth of educational systems around the world
and their most fundamental purpose is to train workers.
Because the initial education was created by corporate companies.
And they will raise their employees' children
so that the workers can go to work comfortably.
And the next generation will be educated to become the next population.
That is the deep nature of the history of education.
And now it is being pushed up that something that was common,
and almost no other path is more luxurious, more beautiful.
The path has to go through that.
And we have to recognize that nature to determine
whether we or our children will become owners or tenants.
If we become tenants, we choose that path,
then we have to equip ourselves with all the things that a society needs.
That is, we have to be able to become owners through the training levels
and the qualifications, then we can become tenants.
And what if we become owners?
When we become owners, all the things that we have worked hard to learn
become useless.
For a tenant, they almost don't use it.
And what they use are the experiences they have experienced
and learned from, from their experience, from their experience to run their business.
That is what they have experienced.
Now, a society like that is used to waiting for someone to arrange a job for you,
waiting for someone to pay you a salary,
at the beginning of the month or at the end of the month.
It has become a middle ground.
Now, I have a job here, I have a salary here,
you just use me, arrange a job for me,
tell me what I have to do, how long I have to work,
and how much I get paid.
Then people will usually sell themselves,
people will usually sell themselves to get income.
And that's normal, that's normal.
Quy Lam has been doing this for many years,
and has been the owner for no more than three years.
I realized that when I was a tenant,
if I made 10 dong, 7 dong was the owner's salary,
and I only got 3 dong, right?
Almost all businesses operate like that.
If a tenant makes 10 dong, he will lose 7 dong.
And what if I'm the owner? It's the opposite.
If I'm the owner, it's the opposite.
If I make 10 dong, I will get 7 dong,
and I only pay 3 dong.
Almost like that.
And when I'm a tenant, I will be managed very tightly,
and I have to work continuously, continuously, continuously.
And if I'm interrupted during work,
I will lose my salary,
and I will be criticized,
I will be criticized,
I will even be scolded very harshly.
It's very stressful.
And the life of today's society,
in the history of mankind,
there has never been such a stressful life as today.
Even from poor societies,
to prosperous civilizations,
such as the United States, Japan, and South Korea,
people live under a lot of pressure.
Poor countries like Vietnam, India, and Indonesia are also under a lot of pressure.
Only Laos and Bhutan are not under pressure,
because they still live in a natural environment.
And all industrial societies are under a lot of pressure.
And we have to see this,
the pressure in life is like this,
it creates diseases,
along with pollution,
along with eating, drinking, and gambling,
the pressure leads to stress,
very heavy emotions,
the pressure in work,
and the pressure in life, the pressure in income,
it makes us very weak,
very weak.
That's why there are statistics showing that
farmers are the healthiest,
because farmers are the least stressed.
Farmers, no matter how hard they work,
farmers are now much more depressed,
they are under a lot of pressure.
But if they are farmers in rural areas,
or in countries like Laos or Bhutan,
they will be under a lot of pressure.
Why?
They work about 2-3 times a year,
and when they are done,
they just wait for the harvest.
They have a lot of free time.
Farmers have a lot of free time.
They have less pressure in life,
so they live very well.
And a statistic in the UK that I mentioned before,
they say that
farmers are the healthiest,
they can work every day.
Meanwhile, those who work in the city,
such as lawyers, journalists,
office workers, engineers,
psychologists,
their psychology is very weak.
And there are many people
who are psychologically weak
in the modern industrial society.
That is a very common problem.
Ask women,
most of them are not satisfied,
because most of their partners
are psychologically weak.
That is the pressure of the industrial society.
And the greatest gift of life
is to enjoy a healthy body
and a sense of pleasure
in the life of a man and a woman.
If it is lost,
what is the meaning of life?
So now,
if before,
when the society was still prosperous,
the economy was still developing,
the income was still good,
from the employment,
we accepted the pressure a little
to have an income,
to make a living,
and to build what we need.
But now,
the economy has deteriorated
and deteriorated more and more.
And there is no sign
that it can recover.
It is just the beginning of the decline.
It has not reached a point
where it can rise again.
We have to understand this,
we have to observe
to discover,
to have a choice,
to have a good direction
for our lives.
So, the steps to become a master,
the Lamrim group took
our example
one more time
so that everyone can refer to it.
Of course, everyone will have a path,
a completely different journey.
All the things I share
are just for experience,
inspiration,
and reference.
The Lamrim group has rented
a lot of newspapers.
Every 3 years,
the Lamrim group makes a newspaper
and in all those newspapers,
the Lamrim group is always
and I will be used
and I will be considered
to join the services
in the business
if I still stay there.
For example,
in the newspaper,
I have been considered
to become an editor-in-chief.
And when the editor-in-chief
reaches a certain age,
he can certainly become
the editor-in-chief
or deputy editor-in-chief.
All these things are just
in the palm of my hand.
After that, the Lamrim group
left and joined
one of the largest media agencies
in Vietnam,
VTV.
I felt
the pressure was too big.
Being a broadcaster
is extremely stressful.
According to statistics,
70% of broadcasters
around the world
have to get divorced
because of too much pressure
and work takes up too much time.
They don't have time
to take care of their families.
So 70% of broadcasters
around the world
have to get divorced
because they don't have
a happy family life.
I observed all the colleagues
in VTV.
Most of their time
is dedicated to work.
They don't have much time
to take care of their families.
They don't have much time
to take care of their families.
And I think
that pressure
is not worth
following for a lifetime.
It's not worth
following that pressure for a lifetime.
Although it's very dangerous,
right?
Being a journalist,
a journalist of VTV
and also a journalist
of HTV,
it's very different.
Wherever I go,
I'm respected.
Maybe I'm just a fake.
But wherever I go,
people respect me.
They always introduce me
as Mr. VTV.
All the people
who work at HTV
are introduced
by their title
because
they think
they're too young
and they have to
follow their title.
And they always welcome me
because of my title
and not because
of my true nature.
I think it's unreasonable
with a very low salary.
The income of a journalist
of HTV
is only 12-13 million VND
which is very little
and almost enough
for a basic
life of a family.
So when HTV
started
its own project,
HTV also organized
a film crew
and produced commercial films
for journalists
to introduce their businesses.
It's very easy for a journalist
of HTV
to produce
very complicated
and difficult news.
And it's very easy
for a business journalist
to do so.
So,
the income of a journalist
of HTV
is 30 million VND
or even 40 million VND.
So,
I found out
that
it took me
only a few days
to make such a documentary.
And I could
rent it completely.
At that time,
the film crew could
write the script
and direct the film
and arrange the filming.
So I didn't have to rent it.
But if I didn't know anything,
I could still rent it.
So,
it took me
only a few days
to make such a documentary.
The income of a journalist
of HTV
is 30 million VND
or even 40 million VND.
And it took me
only a few days
to make such a documentary.
The income of a journalist
of HTV
is 30 million VND
or even 40 million VND.
At that time,
I felt that
I could become an owner.
So,
I quit my job
and
became a freelance journalist
and produced
media content.
After that,
I stopped
working
as a journalist.
I became
a gardener.
At first,
I thought
that I could be a freelance journalist
and I could write
my favorite articles.
After that,
I could grow vegetables.
So, I was completely free
and I could spend
my time
all day long
without being
criticized
or
asked to go to work.
No one could control
my time.
Since then,
that freedom
brought me
many things.
For example,
I could introduce
my land to people
and I could
trade
agricultural products.
I could introduce
my products to people
in the city
and I could share
my products with people.
After that,
I had time
to share
my YouTube channel
and my Facebook channel
with people.
I did more than
being a journalist.
I just played.
I created my life
in a free and comfortable way.
I achieved the highest
and most effective
creativity in that free and comfortable way.
It was more effective than
when I was under surveillance
in the agencies.
What I share now
serves the community
and helps
the awakening
of my kind
and helps
my life
to be happier,
more glorious,
happier and stronger.
My YouTube channel
has more than
600 videos.
It has more than
600 videos.
It is a storage
of knowledge, experience
and experience.
You can introduce
my channel to anyone
who feels lost
and lost
in this life.
They can find
a storage
to start
a journey
to be more awake,
happier
and better.
My Facebook page
is
Co Dong.
It is full of
knowledge,
awakening
and experience.
Sometimes,
I post some
unspecified posts.
I will hide
those unspecified posts
after a while.
My Facebook page
is full of
unspecified,
high-quality posts
that people can read
and refer to.
Now, I have
100,000 followers
on Facebook and YouTube.
I read
and support
and share
good feelings with you.
I am very happy
with this journey.
That's why
becoming a monk is so beneficial.
If you don't become a monk,
you won't be inspired
and have time
to share
the benefits
of becoming a monk.
It is very simple
to become a monk.
It is not like
many people
who become a monk
because they are
afraid of becoming a monk.
Many people
are afraid of becoming a monk
because they are afraid
to face themselves.
They have to go out
and expose themselves.
They have to tell others
what they do and
how they make money.
They can't live on their own.
But now,
workers
lose a lot of jobs
due to a strong
and serious
economic downturn.
If we are not
ready
to become a monk,
we can be
very confused
and lost
our direction
in life.
Through this video,
I want to tell you
to be confident
and happy
because
if you have a chance
to become a monk,
if you have a chance
to become a monk,
it is a great gift.
At first,
you may feel confused
when you become a monk.
But after that,
you will feel great.
You can apply
what the Vietnamese Buddha said
that we work 4 hours a week
or only half an hour
or one hour a day.
We can still live
like we used to
work 8 hours a day.
It is very easy.
Now,
because the market
is not as
operational as it used to be,
the number one priority
that the Vietnamese Buddha said
is to have a garden
to make a simple house
to create a simple life
to reduce
consumption
to reduce
costs
and to create
a self-sustaining
life.
We are still looking
to make money
and to create a self-sustaining
and balanced life.
After that,
we can do
whatever we want
to do.
As the Vietnamese Buddha said,
if we choose a job
that we love
and do it better than anyone else,
we will never fail.
If we choose a job
that we really love,
we will have
that potential in us.
Secondly,
we will not feel tired.
As the Vietnamese Buddha said,
we don't feel tired.
We have been sitting here
without any preparation
or any plan.
We just do it
easily.
But it is effective for many people
and for the group.
When we do a job that we love,
we will be good
and we will be responsible
and we will have love
and we will have a lot of
effort in it.
Those are
the factors
that make a creative person,
a successful person,
a master
in the glory
of life.
When we become a master,
we will be less worried,
less stressed,
less afraid.
We will become
wise,
aware,
smart
and we will enjoy
a lot of wonderful things
in our life.
We can feel that
after
we apply it.
I wish
everyone
can master
their career
and later
master their life
and master their emotions
and even their thoughts.
And
being a master
always
is the highest
way of life.
It is always the highest
way of life
in our life.
I am sure that
everyone will reach that point.
Don't spend your whole life
on hiring
and don't spend your whole life
on pressure
and it will
ruin your life.
Ok, I would like to
stop the video here.
See you in the next video.
Goodbye.
