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The Essay on Femininity, Part 6
The Beauty of Femininity
My daily life and eating are extremely simple
There is even a monotonous part
I often use fast food to fill my stomach
Therefore, every time I have a holiday
My boyfriend and I often go to a European restaurant for a meal
Looking at the table, full of delicious dishes and flowers
I usually don't pay attention to my feminine image
And enjoy the food comfortably
At that time, it seems that I no longer pay attention to whether the food is elegant or not
I remember once, on Christmas
That day, I celebrated Christmas with my boyfriend
Having lunch was also in a European restaurant
I really don't know how to use a knife
But I felt that my stomach was very hungry
So I used my hands to get those delicious fresh fruits to eat
My boyfriend saw that I was eating my food
He began to talk to me about the different ways of eating between the East and the West
But I sat there and listened, nodding my head
And still indulged in delicious food
When I didn't pay attention, I bit a tomato on my hand
Sometimes the tomato juice spilled on my boyfriend's hair and shirt
Looking at this scene, at that time I felt both sad and embarrassed
I hurriedly took a tissue to wipe my boyfriend
When I opened my eyes to see how his expression was
I saw that on his face, there was no expression at all
He just said a word
If this is an emergency, then you have lost your honor
At that time, I was waiting to feel the meaning of the two words
For humans living in this world
The more I understand that being a woman
Whether at home or going out
It is very important to maintain a feminine appearance
In every small detail of life
Always maintain a decent appearance
This not only brings other people
Kindness, peace and stability
But also shows a dignified personality
The elegance of oneself
It can also avoid mistakes and mistakes
Caused by arbitrary gestures, movements, impulses
If in a life that is too convenient and relaxed
Over-reacting or having improper gestures
How to be right, how to be moderate
There will be times when movements, uncontrollable gestures
Or not serious
It can even cause harm to others
At some level
And make them misunderstand
When calm and alone
I often think to myself
Why can I always leave a good impression
Right for the other person
When communicating with outsiders
But in front of the closest and most familiar people around
I often have another look
Every time a boyfriend or family member
Complains about words, unnoticed behaviors
I will feel a little confused
When I calm down, look back at myself
And realize that these things
Too often have been overlooked in ignorance
It seems that in life
Raising a good attitude
Too often is something to be noticed
Every time, everywhere
People often say
The body is the main, the mind is the main
When the body is not the main
Then the mind is usually not the main
It is said that in the old days
When reading a book
People have to pay attention to the sitting position
When writing, they are all calm and orderly
In the book, there is a saying
Go easy
Stand straight
Bow deeply
Bow again
In fact, a serious, dignified posture
Reflects a serious, peaceful state of mind
Of a person when in a position
Inside the mind
Then the outside action
Can also happen like this
It can make people
Handle all the complicated details in life
In a dignified and thoughtful way
And bring everyone
Pleasure, warmth and delicacy
People used to say
An old saying
Older Colder
myself
Therefore, I engaged a nice animal
That my boyfriend gave me
Thiên Crane
Wild Crane
The day before I go out
I'm used to put it on
I discovered
Putting it on
Really reveals a kind of encouragement
To myself
For him
Their movements can't be too large
it will be easier for the pearl on the neck to move non-stop, or cause it to get closer to you.
However, this is also a good way to restrain the hasty temperament of oneself,
which can make the self-discipline of oneself more harmonious and refined.
Moreover, wearing a necklace of pearls every day,
this high-pitched, sincere intention can remind oneself
that it is necessary to use one's own mind to deal with the misguidance of the world of love.
As a dignified, sincere, peaceful, loyal woman,
I do not change my heart for my soulmate who has the fate to hold my hand.
Tóng Thượng Cung Nữ Luận Ngữ writes,
When I work, I do not turn my head, when I speak, I do not close my lips,
when I sit, I do not move my head, when I stand, I do not move my legs,
when I am happy, I do not laugh loudly, when I am angry, I do not speak loudly.
This paragraph is to advise and remind everyone,
as a girl, when I work, when I stand, I speak loudly,
when I sit, when I lie down, the direction of the movement of the body requires a calm atmosphere,
which can be to the point of not looking, not hearing, not speaking, not doing.
When the mind is too happy or too angry, not calm enough,
then the actions and movements outside the body will not feel calm.
Who can, from time to time, keep to themselves,
restrain the emotions of oneself,
gradually make the rules, words of daily life,
reach the limit of restlessness,
only then can the inner mind become peaceful and quiet.
From there, it can be seen that the beautiful appearance of a woman
lies in a calmness that is not close to life,
a calmness in every direction and face,
a smile lies in maturity,
stillness and autonomy,
in the ability to focus in life,
in work, or when communicating with others.
May women be able to take charge of their lives,
to be suitable for their circumstances,
in complex situations,
while being gentle, gentle and gentle,
not only catch up with the pace of time,
but also help your life become neat,
organized and mature,
in a long history of life,
retaining a part of the fragrance of dignity and gentleness.
Writer Hiu Lang, posted on the Orge.
