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The world is in a state of turmoil. In life, many people think that when they have a problem, they have to try to speak clearly, so as not to cause misunderstanding. But life is short. Life is short. When there is a dispute, it is not as quiet as when there is a storm. Why is life in the sea not as quiet as when there is a storm? Dear audience of Tinh Hoa TV, please support the channel by clicking the subscribe button along with the bell. Once upon a time, there was a very rich and famous man. But over time, he realized that money and fame could not save him from death. Rich and poor are also more than each other. Still, he had to find a way to escape for himself. Because of his admiration for Buddhism, he decided to throw away all the flowers and take advantage of the place to practice. Later, because of virtue and style, he was chosen to be a monk at a large temple. After a while, suddenly there were a lot of rumors saying that he wanted to live a rich life in the temple and then move to live and practice. People passed each other, each with one sentence, less than one intention, making the story seem to be getting more and more serious. Also because of this, his disciples were very angry. They could not stand when others told the truth about their master. So some decided to go all over the place to argue and explain, hoping that people would understand the truth better. But the more they said, the farther they went. Every day, the rumors did not stop. Not only did they not spread, but the rumors spread even more. Some disciples at home chose to write a book about his life to prevent future generations from misunderstanding him. When the abbot learned of the disciples' actions, he called everyone and said, Although the actions of the children came from good intentions, but in fact they were not right. It seems that we need to live more carefully in the future. The disciples did not agree and said, Master, those people are too much. They were ordered to slander you, so we decided to speak up for you. The abbot shook his head and said, You must remember carefully. If you are slandered by others like us in the future, you must not argue with them, because the more you do, the more harm you will cause. If you do not argue correctly, the abbot will stop and there will be no consequences. But once the argument is fierce, the abbot will be extremely rude, and there will be no time to stop. So how can the children still have the mind and time to practice? So we just need to focus on the best and most beneficial things. If we do it wrong, no matter how many people praise us, it is useless. If we do it right, no matter how many people say bad things, we will not be insulted. In the face of the situation, we should not calculate or pay too much attention to other people's slander and slander. Are you clear about what I said? The abbot nodded and understood. Then everything happened as the abbot said. His disciples went to the sea, telling stories about his life, causing more and more slander and slander. But this time, the disciples listened to the advice, a silent silence without arguing, and everyone used kindness in their actions to let the people feel. Not long after, they suddenly realized that all the slander and slander had disappeared, and no one mentioned it again. The above story says that life sometimes has a lot of things that happen that cannot be said clearly at once. Especially for those who stir up the abbot, they do not necessarily have to be wise and right. Because many times, that argument will become a meaningless confrontation, wasting thoughts and precious time. There was a saying in the past, a gentleman is only afraid of being ungrateful, not afraid of poverty, just afraid of losing the right to be human, not afraid of losing, winning or losing. Instead of taking evil to treat evil, it is better to take kindness to comfort people. If a person's actions and words are all kindness, it will definitely make people feel convinced.