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Welcome everyone to the audio show of Nét Đẹp Truyền Thống, airing at 9 p.m. We hope you have a deep experience after a busy day at work. Today, we would like to send you a written essay. Everything that was lost at the beginning does not belong to you. In fate, there will be evil. In fate, there is no need to pray. Lâm Ngữ Đường said, The Greatest Master is one of the most talented geniuses in our time. He is also the strangest person, the most independent person. At the beginning of his life, he was the son of a noble family and was admired by the world. At the end of his life, he returned to Buddhism, often making friends with the Buddha's disciples. Fate took him to the top and pushed him down to the bottom, making him have all the things that everyone admired, making him lose everything. In those moments, he gradually realized that life is a process of flowing between joy and sadness. Not all wishes can come true. Not all stories can be complete. Most of the things in the world can only be temporarily owned. Only by understanding this can we let go of attachments, escape from the past, and achieve true harmony with ourselves. 1. Unrequited relationships cannot be maintained. There is a saying, The head of the family is self-sufficient. Everyone will go their own way because of their different fates. Li Shidong is no exception. In October 1898, the reformation movement failed. Li Shidong was forced to move to Shanghai with his family. There, he met his best friend in his life, Tieu Hao Vien. The two of them often read poems together, drink wine and write poems. Their relationship was very close, like a shadow. When Li Shidong was in trouble, Tieu Hao Vien reserved a place in his house for him to stay. But in reality, the deepest bond would eventually break. In 1914, a financial crisis broke out. Tieu Hao Vien's property went bankrupt in just one night. Since then, the two of them began to have differences in orientation. Tieu Hao Vien did not want to become a garbage collector. He decided to set up a business. Li Shidong stayed and continued to be a teacher. On a snowy day, Tieu Hao Vien stood in front of Li Shidong's house and shouted, I'm bankrupt. I'm leaving. Since then, the two of them have never met again. As the saying goes, together we row across the river. When we reach the shore, we are on the same boat. Most of the love in life is like that. Everyone will have the same orientation, but go together. In the end, because of different goals, we forget each other in life. In the film Son Ha, the old man wrote, There are people who can only be with you for a while. Sooner or later, they will have to part. When we were young, we used to think that meeting each other was forever. Later, I realized that a long period of love, In addition to the initial pleasure, Still need to have a suitable point of view, step by step. Maybe because they have a big mind, want to go far away, The mindless friend enjoys the comfort of the present. Maybe because they are dissatisfied with the attitude, Looking for a soul to decide, You are gentle, tolerant, follow the idea of ​​peace. As the bridge points in different directions, not the same way. People to people, once they are no longer suitable, Then the relationship will gradually become distant. Facing departure, a smile, a goodbye, Is the greatest respect for each other. 2. Things that don't belong to you, you can't ask for. In 1880, Lý Thụy Đồng was born into a rich merchant family in Thiên Tân, Studied with a famous scholar, talented and outstanding, Like many writers of the present time. Since childhood, he has set up the Do Đạt election. However, his election path met many setbacks. At the age of 18, he took part in the primary school exam. At the age of 19, he failed again. After that, due to family troubles, He and his mother and family moved to Shanghai. But this did not affect his determination. At the age of 23, he once again took all the courage To take part in the Hương Cống exam in Giang Tô province. Still failed. However, with 3 failures, Lý Thụy Đồng was very disappointed. 3. Unhappy. Everyone said that his essay was very good, But not high level. Gradually, he realized that the election was no longer an escape for him. Instead of holding on to the title of Hảo Huỳnh forever, It's better to let go and do practical things. When new ideological trends appeared, Lý Thụy Đồng joined the youth group and started writing plays, Composing songs to contribute to the development of the new culture. Later, his artistic talent became more and more prominent, And he became famous all over Shanghai. There is a very good saying, The world's largest prison is the focus of the heart. Freedom and happiness belong only to those who have no desire and no desire. If you can't have it and can't let go, It only makes you more painful and angry. In the novel Bạch Lộc Nguyên, Lục Tử Lâm was rich and famous in the local area, But he was not satisfied with this, Always looking for the position of Bạch Kiên. With a jealous heart, he went all over the country, Finally, he became a favorite of Bạch Lộc Nguyên. But after taking power, Lục Tử Lâm was arrested and imprisoned. Lục Tử Lâm never imagined that Everything he got at the end was still fake. The book Chu Dịch Co Cau, All the things in the world have their own fate. Some things have been decided by fate, I feel like I can't control myself anymore. To satisfy other people's expectations, many people will surrender to reality and live a normal life like flowing water, like falling yellow leaves, without the courage to adjust themselves. But Li Shidong strongly chose another way of life with money. In the first half of his life, he lived in the world of Hongcheng. He longed for love, but he never had a long-lasting love. He pursued idealism, participated in the revolution, but failed and had to run away. He washed away all the worries to stand by Bukdian, wholeheartedly teach and answer questions, he fulfilled his mission, but still could not escape the end of life. The hardships made him think many times, this is really the life I want. Once he was with a good friend, Ha Vy Ton, drinking tea in the middle of the lake. Ha Vy Ton said, people like us, Li Shidong wrote in his heart, he began to go to Hau Bao Pagoda next to the West Lake to worship Buddha, to make a light meal, to find a master, to listen to the teachings of the Buddha. Gradually, he became inner life and loved the isolated life, often sitting alone in the corner In December of the winter, he suffered from a severe cold, heaven and earth, in the cold night, he thought about the past, contemplated Buddhism, did not have a true sense of enlightenment, he did not wander around, but lived a hard life, he felt the comfort he had never felt before, but he acted indifferently, only the best monk himself understood, this is the best thing. Tang Shi Kuang said, every life is unique, you have to find the way you need to go, you should not just look at the sadness of others. There is no life model in this world, there are people who pursue fame and fortune, there are also people who are willing to be calm, do not force yourself to live according to what others expect. You can do what you like and create a unique way of life, a short and carefree life, hoping that all of us will find what we want in our hearts, then stick to it for the rest of our lives, never stop. As the saying goes, there will be an end, there will be an end. Everything in this world is not the end, it will leave, it will come back to you sooner or later, if you meet it, hold it up, if you lose it, let it go, good or bad, everything must be connected, let go of memories, immediately welcome a new life.