Kỹ năng sống: 10 Việc cần làm để ai cũng yêu quý, sớm muộn gì cũng thành công | Phạm Thành Long

How can we always feel love, help build a good relationship? 10 skills that Pham Thanh Long, a lawyer, shared in the following video will show us how and why to help people build a good relationship and a happy life. I'll give you a checklist and 10 things you need to do. First, put your partner first, your husband or wife. Always put the feelings and needs of your wife or husband first. When you focus on your pain, it's because you put your needs first. We have to put the needs of the other person first. The story of Mrs. Chi on the first day is the same. The story of Mrs. Van on the second day is the same. The story of everyone here, those who haven't reached level 10, is because you haven't put the feelings and needs of the other person first. That's the first rule. So always, in a relationship, you don't have to be a hypocrite, but you have to see what kind of person you become. What kind of person? At least, you have to be a hypocrite. Otherwise, in this relationship, you have to be a hypocrite. Then your life will be much better. In the relationship of hypocrisy, it's also related to the dog of your husband. You have to love your husband's dog. It's not just because your husband has a dog, you go over there, you poke your nose, you kick it, it smells. You see your husband's dog is not good, you have to bathe it. That's the way you love your husband. You have to turn it into the world. The second rule is unconditional love. The power of love is unconditional love. Once you love, there are no conditions. You don't have to set any conditions. You have to respect and praise. In the term of worship, respect. My wife respects me at a very high level. She considers me after her deity. She may not care about other things, but there are some commandments that my husband says are very important. When I go to buy a house, I will buy it right away. When I buy a house, I will buy it right away. The 14 billion in my pocket is worth 1.4 billion. It's like worshiping 10 times. Very much. Never keep the gift of love that the deity gives to people. So if you have that gift, please continue to give it. Then you will have more. The more you bring your gift of love to your wife or husband, the more you will receive. But the game here is if you keep the gift of love only for yourself, you will be in pain. If you keep that gift of love for yourself, you will be in pain. If you have a gift, you have to learn how to give it. Rule number 3 Be yourself. Live like that, you are yourself. Because when you live with a mask, you will not be able to connect with your true love. He loves you, but he doesn't love your mask. Never try to be the person that he wants to be. Be your own person. So when you want to be that person, you have to want to change to be that person. That's why wives always say no matter how you do, your husband will change. Never force your husband to change. Because he can't change. Always tell the truth and live with yourself. Rule number 4 Always have positive thinking. Always remember the power of words. Words can destroy and can create. So choose the words that help you have positive feelings. Get rid of threats and judgments. Never say that your partner is wrong. Never say that your husband is wrong. Understand their soul. Because in a relationship, the wife and the husband always try their best in their abilities. So understand their soul. Understand their worldview. Understand their mental map. Understand their need and want. Understand their physiology. Understand what they are focusing on. Understand their words. Understand their worldview. Understand their physiology. Understand everything. Rule number 5 Freedom. Understand the power of forgiveness. If you keep the pain in the past, if you keep the pain in the past, you will make mistakes and suffer. And making mistakes and suffering will never have any result. Learn how to understand to forgive easily. To forget the things that made you unsatisfied in the past. Bring the best things to the relationship and help them do every step like you. Rule number 6 Be close to each other every day. Open your heart and don't keep anything in your heart. Smile. Don't let everything stick inside. Be brave. Be strong to fight for what you want. Fear of not fighting to avoid injury will make the relationship easier to get hurt. Never become a prisoner of pain and fear. Don't keep the fear and pain in your heart. Say it out. Any fear, say it out. Two big fears. Fear of not having enough and fear of not being loved. Say it out. Rule number 7 Love the truth. Feel, understand and respect the needs of your partner. Evaluate their needs and serve them unconditionally. Immediately. Be happy doing this because happiness is a gift that life gives you. Accept it and continue to give this gift. Rule number 8 Take care of your husband or wife not only food but also the time together including the time to prepare food. I really like going to the market. If my wife and I go to the market together, we will be happier. If she pays for the food, I will love her so much. Rule number 9 Keep moving forward. Find the good things in everything you have to make love better. There are 8 good things here. But you can find more good things in yourself and make everything expand and develop. Rule number 10 Be grateful and give. Always be grateful for everything that happens in your life. Learn to give everything you have in this wonderful relationship. These are 10 things that are very difficult to do. Do you have the ability to realize it? How many of you have written down these 10 things? Thank you. These 10 things may not be enough. This is my checklist. It may not be enough. You can add these things to it. How many of you feel there is something that is very wonderful in these 10 things? Thank you. Who believes that if you can do this, you will get to level 1? It is called emotion. Emotional ability. But it is your ability to act. Can you do 5 things, 6 things, or 10 things, or 12 things? Who can do these 10 things? Raise your hand and tell me. Who can do 12 things? Do I have to add more? Who can do 12 things? This is called a checklist. What does it mean? Do everything. What can you do? Add these things to it. If it is not enough, do it again from the beginning. Add more to the blank. If you have a checklist in your business, for example, you have a checklist in Eco Camp, these are the checklists for you. Is it okay? Is it enough? Or are you tired? Now, sit down and take a look. Sit down and take a look. Just 5 minutes. Sit down and look at these things. 10 principles that you need to do to have a perfect relationship. Let's see. Now, the 4th and 6th principles. I haven't given you the medicine yet. You have to send it to the temple. You have to send it to the doctor. Or you have to run and say nothing. 5th, you have the medicine. 4th, there are two ways. One is to use this to jump up to 1st. Two is to meet me to go to court. Three, try to make an effort in time. Then you will get to 1st. And if it is 2nd, clap your hands and jump up to 1st. The secret of the game is to give, not to receive. Just get into a loving relationship and ask for nothing. If you give unconditionally, you will be extremely happy. 5 things that make our relationship broken. You should avoid these 5 things. Number 1, you will lose the attraction. Attraction is not beautiful. It is to attract each other. The difference between a marriage or a couple and a friendship is this. Attraction. It is the desire to be deeply attached to each other. And it makes the passion fade away. The passion fades away. When two people become attracted to each other, all the bad things fade away. All the mistakes fade away. Love each other like a flowing stream. Love each other. When two people love each other, don't hate each other. The two people love each other, the beautiful thing fades away. Why do you lose this? When you lose the attraction, it is because there is a gap. In the gap, two people have different interests. This is the 1st thing. 2nd is that they have different objectives. So we must have the same passion with a hobby, it's easier to be close to each other. Husband likes to raise a dog, wife also likes to raise a dog. So they like to be together. Husband plays golf, wife plays tennis, husband plays sports, wife plays sports. So many people are experiencing the loss of this attraction to each other. Secondly, it's the lack of optimism, motivation, and emotional connection. In a good relationship, we need a 4-1 formula. Remember, 4-1. In building a relationship through email marketing, you need at least a 4-1 formula. If not, you need 5-1 or more. That is, 4 things talk about positivity, 1 thing talk about negativity. Thirdly, it's the loss of passion for the body. Fourthly, it's the loss of commitment. I promise I won't do it. I promise I will do it. But if I lose my commitment, I will only do it for 5 or 8 years. And always remember this, you are one of the stimulants. So when you focus on the bad things, it will stimulate the bad things in your friend. And vice versa, he or she is the same. Fifthly, it's not the same as the story. It's not the same as the story you told. Two people tell a story, but each person tells a story. It's not the same. These are the five shortcomings. Over time, it will weaken the love between the two parties. Congratulations on watching the video with Pham Thanh Long. To not miss the next videos, click the subscribe button in the middle of the screen. 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