Đời Người Có 4 Việc Không Được Phép Hồ Đồ

Ladies and gentlemen, in life, there are times when we need to be a little bit more open-minded, a little bit more open-minded, so that we can let go of ourselves, and let go of other people, but there are certain things that we have to be calm, not open-minded. Here are four things that make a wise person certain not to be open-minded. Please follow along and think about it. 1. Disappointment cannot be open-minded. Everyone has a heart of stone. A person's desire to be disappointed includes many different aspects. It can be disappointment in name, benefits, color, disappointment, power, feelings, material enjoyment, eating, drinking. If a person does not know how to control their disappointment, does not have a goal, then their whole life is just a process of finding satisfaction from the unceasing disappointment. The greater the disappointment of a person, the more pressure they have to endure. The stronger the disappointment, the easier it is for the person to be bound. When they fall into the trap of disappointment, they will not be able to escape. At that time, disappointment will devour their will, make them lose their mind, and as a result, turn them into slaves of disappointment. Controlling disappointment is not an easy thing, but when faced with any kind of love, a person can control their feelings and actions, then that is the first step towards love for disappointment. At the critical moment, if that person realizes this love should be done, which love should not be done, then that person can control their disappointment. 2. Good and evil cannot be controlled There is an old saying, thousands of ants, hundreds of ants. In life, every thought, every action is extremely important. Good deeds can become human life, but doing evil can also destroy life in the blink of an eye. In real life, a mistake or a small flaw is also a small evil. If you don't fix it in time, it will gradually become a big mistake, there is no way to fix it. So don't say the nail is not important, don't say the nail doesn't need to care. In life, small mistakes cannot be fixed, because it can be the beginning of the aftermath. The small thing is like that, the big thing needs more attention. As a human being, we need to improve and try, work together, take care of our responsibilities, be selfless, not to hate, cover up for evil, not to make benefits, care for goodwill, care for valuable values. With what is still lacking, we need to work together to make it look good, with evil, we need to speak up, protect, take responsibility. Especially when it comes to human life, it is necessary to show a positive attitude. In the Four Books of Wisdom there is a saying that if a person does a good deed, God will take the reward for it. If a person does a bad deed, God will take the reward for it. A person who is kind, who is selfless, who always thinks for others, their noble nature will make both people and God happy. The cycle of rewards will bring all the good things to them, all the bad things will leave them. On the contrary, when a person does a bad thing, he will end up receiving the same thing. Therefore, human life for good and evil is irreversible. 3. Marriage is irreversible. Marriage is the great event of human life, and the family also has an impact on society. In the past, it was very respectful to choose a wife and a husband. They thought that marrying a wife and a husband must respect virtue, because only parents who have good moral values, have wisdom, can maintain a tight-knit family, and educate their children to be good people. Regarding the choice of wife, there was a saying in the past, only by being dignified and upright can you show the value of character. If you are too far-sighted, you will reveal your vanity. This saying is intended to elevate the moral standards of women, encourage piety, take care of the house, pay attention to inner nourishment, enrich one's wisdom, not to waste too much time, money on jewelry, clothes and accessories for the outside. Only such women can become truly virtuous wives, as the master of the house. As for the husband, the ancients thought that a man should take the role of the head of the family, must be responsible for leading his wife and children to follow the right path, be respectful to the upper class. The husband, if he can clearly understand the logic, have wisdom, have a responsibility, lead his wife and children without leaving the family, then the family will be harmonious. If in the family, the husband does not complete his role and position well, then the house is difficult for everyone. 4. Discipline cannot be in vain. The ancients had a saying, on the head of the three bodhisattvas there is a god, or the one who is doing, the sky is watching. The virtuous, or the Bodhisattva Bodhisattvas in the historical eras are all here to enlighten the people. For the benefit of the people, but leave the teachings, use the proverb or the saying of the Bodhisattva Bodhisattva, the Great Buddha is a way to harm oneself. In ancient times, from the Emperor, the Great God, to the common people, everyone also worshiped the Buddha, the Bodhisattva. Those who have high morality, those who practice virtue, are also very respected by everyone, especially the high-ranking monks. When the emperor ascended to the throne, he had to continue the tradition of worshiping the earth, worshiping the gods. On the great days of the nation, the emperors and emperors all had to worship the gods, to express their reverence. Human beings are very small creatures in the earth, so don't because of a little knowledge, don't because of the desire not to be satisfied, but to be greedy, it is convenient to sell the earth to the gods. Dear friends, human life also needs to have maturity, instead of being too arrogant. A good life lies in not being too much, because the object is too much, too overwhelming, too full, in the book of the same name, there is a story like this. Duc Khong Tu went to see the temple of Hoang Cong Nuc Lo, there was a jar standing still, he asked the person who looked at the temple, he said that it was a precious object of the emperor, usually placed next to a place to sit to make a mirror. Duc Khong Tu said, I heard that the emperor has a precious object to make a mirror, that object, if you don't throw it, it will stand still, pour water just right, it will stand right away, but if it is too full, it will pour again, maybe this object is wrong, you are wrong to pour water in, if the water is just right, the jar will stand right away, if the water is full, the jar will pour, if it is empty, the jar will stand still, he admitted that, oh, there is nothing in life that is not enough. The monk said, dare to ask if there is a way to keep it full but not enough? He said, intelligence, wisdom, should be kept in a stupid way, work bigger than the world, should be kept in a modest way, health is better than life, should be kept in a low-key way, rich with four wives, should be kept in a low-key way, that is how to pour less, life is like that, if you just find a way to pour it in, but you don't know how to pour it out, then the result is also lost. Let's listen to the following three things and think about it, everyone. 1. Profit is not too greedy The saying goes, profit is not too greedy, happiness is not too greedy. I mean, see profit, don't be greedy, happiness can't be all-encompassing, and you shouldn't use your position too much, which overwhelms people. The saying goes, greed does not know how to stop, in the end, nothing can be satisfied. If you have it but you don't know how to satisfy it, in the end, you will lose everything in the first place. If you are not greedy, you will often eat well, the harvest of people will be in vain. 2. Money is precious, everyone wants it, as the saying goes, wealth and preciousness are the desires of people. Seeking a just way can push people forward, but if you can't hold it back, too much of it will be lost in the first place, and you will lose what is outside of money. In the West, there is a story about a chicken giving birth to a golden egg. An old couple raised a hen. One day, a hen suddenly gave birth to a small golden egg. The couple were very happy. A few days later, the hen gave birth to a golden egg every day, but the nest was difficult to fill. They couldn't wait for the hen to continue giving birth to golden eggs, so they took the hen to kill the mother. When the mother was hungry, she wanted to find all the golden eggs, but she couldn't find any, so she lost the chance to have a golden egg every day. This made the poor not poor, but greedy. The hen was like seawater, the more you drink, the more you get thirsty. Too greedy, the last fortune can't be worth anything. The gentleman is greedy, the master is generous. The gentleman values the hen, but the hen must be taken in the right way. That's what you need to do. 2. The word of peace In the poem, the poet writes that when God gives a great mission to a person, first of all, he has to make their minds miserable, make their kidneys weak, make their bodies hungry, spoil their bodies, disturb what they do, so that person is moved, learn how to endure, make them richer in talents that they do not have. People often make mistakes, then they can fix it, suffer in their hearts, then they know to consider, think about later, ask for a desolate place, die in a secluded place. The source of failure of a person is not that he has no ability, but that he is too greedy to enjoy the pleasure. A person in a comfortable environment for a long time will become lazy, do not want to move his brain. Gradually, he will lose his will, lose his mind. Life is like a boat against the water, no progress, pressure will be released. Greed for pleasure is a taboo in human life. A life of pleasure can only make you happy for a while, but if it lasts like that, it will make us sleep on our own. People often seek pleasure, comfort, material, but do not know that it will destroy themselves. The most beautiful miracle in life is calmness and harmony in the heart. That can only be thanks to the unceasing effort of self-cultivation and maintaining the style. 3. Angry is not too much People live in life, things that are not as intended account for 8-9 out of 10. When things go wrong as intended, no matter how many people are, they all feel angry. The letter NU above is the letter NO, NO is full, the lower part is the letter TAM. From the top of the letter, you can see that when a person is angry, his heart has become the slave of emotion. Anger only makes love worse, has no benefit. Anger for the behavior of others is also stupid, like a hot spring with a stone on the way. The Garden of Eden has a saying, when you should not be angry, but angry, you are fascinated by the devil. Being angry should not be too much, let it burst out, should be restrained until the anger is out. Anger is using others' mistakes to punish yourself. In life, there are a lot of unhappy things, in fact, they are all self-harm. When we are angry, we easily get angry and can't see the good things. On the other hand, if everything is not too busy, or think too much, adjust your mood, less angry, more relaxed.