Orang yang Menjadi Pasanganmu di Kehidupan Sekarang, Siapakah Dia di Kehidupan Sebelumnya?

Greetings, I am Arsijah Trah. See you again on channel Mata Ketiga. The following story today. In this life, we have experienced a lot of things like this. Meeting someone who is completely foreign, maybe the same gender or the opposite gender. When we meet, we can't help but look away for a moment and feel very familiar. Feel like you've met somewhere, even though you're sure you've never met him before. Likewise, you may meet people who you don't like without a clear reason. Maybe from the way they look, the way they move, or the tone of their speech that makes you feel uncomfortable. Do you feel like there's something wrong with the magnetic field between you? From the point of view of Buddhism, all of this is related to your relationship in the previous life. People often talk about the karma of the previous life. But do you really understand this relationship? Actually, what is the relationship of your wife or lover in your current life with you in the previous life? Meeting between humans is not a coincidence. There is a saying that says, if we meet in this life, there must be a relationship from the previous life. To find out who they were in the previous life, let's take a look at the following story. In a village called Chang Chia Chuang, there was a young man named Hansen. He was a painter and an artist. Because he was too picky, until the age of 25 to 26, he had not yet found a life partner. In the neighboring village of Sun Chuang, there was a beautiful girl named Xiao Wei. She had big eyes, curly eyebrows, and was very hardworking at work. Just like Hansen, Xiao Wei was also too picky, until he was not married at the age of 24 to 25. One day, Xiao Wei's wife called Hansen to make a dowry for his daughter's wedding. Xiao Wei, who thought he would also make a dowry for his wedding in the future, often went to his wife's house and quietly watched Hansen. Xiao Wei's wife noticed their interaction and became a stepmother for them. Both agreed to marry and soon after they got married. After getting married, they lived happily. However, Xiao Wei often hit Hansen without a clear reason and Hansen never fought or complained. He felt as if he owed karma to Xiao Wei. One day, while they were working in the field, Xiao Wei hit Hansen again and when asked why, Xiao Wei just said, finish your work quickly. Strangely, Hansen was not angry and they even laughed. One day, Hansen met a fortune teller. Hansen asked about his marriage fate. The fortune teller explained that in his previous life, Hansen was a horse and Xiao Wei was his wife. Xiao Wei hit him because he owed Xiao Wei in his previous life. Hansen asked if there was a way to solve this problem. Hansen gave the fortune teller his date of birth. The fortune teller moved his fingers and said, your marriage is a token from your enemy. Now you are husband and wife. You are a reincarnation of the horse in your previous life. While your wife is a reincarnation of the horse in her previous life. In this life, you are the horse that was hit. Your wife is the horse that came to repay your debt of karma. The fortune teller then gave him a solution, that is to hit Xiao Wei with a broom. After Hansen did that, the feeling of his debt of karma was paid. They no longer quarreled and became a harmonious couple. From this story, we learn that our relationship in this life may be a result of the relationship in the previous life. According to the Sura Ngama Sutra, our body is like a house that we live in. Life and death are just a process of giving and receiving. All living creatures, from birth to death, continue. All because they do not know the purity of the true heart, using various delusions. Because this delusion is not real, there is a cycle of reincarnation. There are many stories about the life of the past and present in the Buddha's holy books. However, the word reincarnation only appeared after Buddhism was introduced to China. There is also the concept of rebirth back in the belief of the people and Tibetan Buddhism, where the soul looks for a new body after death, like changing old clothes with new ones. In the view of Buddhism, spirituality never dies, so there is a concept of the previous life, the life now, and the life that will come. All living creatures go through a cycle of reincarnation in six realms and four types of birth, because of their ignorance. And your wife in this life is the one you buried in the previous life, whose karma has not yet been transgressed. Your son in this life is your debt from the previous life who came to pay the debt that has not yet been paid. Your daughter in this life is the love that was not fulfilled by your lover in the previous life. While the lover in this life is the husband and wife of the previous life who came to continue the unfinished relationship. People who are born as nationals in this life are the ones who are kind in the previous life to receive the goodness obtained in the previous life. People who are evil in this life are the ones who are very oppressed in the previous life who came to pay their revenge. People you love but cannot be with in this life may be someone who has a debt of love in the previous life that must be experienced with full suffering to complete the karma. The Buddhist view of love Since ancient times, many people have praised and hoped that love can unite couples. Romantic and tragic love stories such as Liang Shan Po and Chu Ying Tai from China or Romeo and Juliet from the West In Buddhism, love is a combination of the power of intention and karma. Intention is an active and positive force, while karma is a passive and unwanted force. These two forces will drive love. There are many factors that affect such as tenderness, beauty, understanding, Someone's intention, like a couple who loves and hopes to be a couple again in the future, can cause them to meet again and this meeting will happen when the time comes. In another case, someone who feels indebted because he was saved or helped in difficulty, may be willing to be a partner in the next life to pay his debt. So, in the next life they may be willing to be a cow or a horse to repay the Buddha. Because of this feeling of gratitude, in the next life they may be willing to be a couple. The power of intention like this will continue to happen in various lives. In the case of karma, someone who has a big debt and cannot pay off his debt in life now will be affected by the power of this karma in the next life. If they become a couple, the husband will feel helpless why his wife always tortures him mentally. He has no choice but to endure that tremor and bear the pressure so that they become a couple who always fight, never harmonious. Law of Karma from the point of view of Buddhism Actually, everything that happens in this life is caused by the changed karma inherited from the action in the past life. Karma is what causes the differences in this life. There are the rich, there are the poor, there are the happy, there are the suffering, there are the perfect, there are the fast, there are the praised and there are the insulted. Karma is something that is formed by ourselves. Karma is a creation and is not always bad. In the Buddhist concept, life now is still a fruit of karma in the past life. Life in the future will also be represented by karma from the past and present life. Another main concept in Buddhism is related to consciousness. How does this mean from the Buddha himself? With this concept of consciousness, human life will be much easier. Without consciousness, humans will not be able to realize their source of suffering. The concept of Buddhism in terms of life is to be aware that what we do will have an impact on us even in the future life. If in the past life they were a couple and the husband had left his wife for a new lover or in a bad way, or maybe became a vixen and caused his wife to hold a grudge, then in this life, under the influence of karma, the husband may be left or tortured by his partner to pay off his karma debt. The power of this karma will continue to be released from time and space. No matter how the change happens, this will still happen. Because the interaction between intention and karma, coupled with habits, background of family, view of education, as well as the involvement of other complicated people, then the relationship between men and women appears in various forms, forming various kinds of love relationships in this world. So, whoever we meet is destined. A meeting that may take thousands of years is the result of several encounters in previous lives and is a karma that can only be obtained in the future life. The depth of feeling depends on how much debt is left. The more debt, the longer the time spent together. The less debt, the shorter the time spent together with the partner. That's a brief story about the karma of life from the point of view of Buddhism. Don't forget to share, because sharing is a good deed. Every time you see it, it is the beginning of a good deed. And every time you share it, it is a good little deed. That's all and thank you for your attention.