My Worst Outfits (And What You Can Learn From Them) | Men's Fashion Mistakes To Avoid

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so have you ever put an outfit together
and thought it was great and then you
see a photo of it later and you're like
what was I thinking we've all been there
myself included it's part of the journey
and I think the thing to understand is
that along that path that we're all on
that we are going to make some mistakes
so what I thought I would do today is to
show you some of my worst outfits and
give you some commentary on them so
hopefully you can avoid making some of
the mistakes that I made what's up guys
I'm Bryan Sakawa you're watching he
spoke style and today six of my worst
outfits so the good news at least from
my perspective is that I had to go back
kind of far into the archive to dig
these up so what that tells me is that
over time I have learned a lot
especially from some of the mistakes
that I've made so that makes me feel
good but this isn't about feeling good
right now this is about humbling myself
in front of you so without further ado
let's dive in okay this first outfit
here is pretty much my least favorite
outfit that I've ever put together I was
just so much going wrong here just some
context for what this outfit is is I was
looking for a way to sort of well the
post was about how to dress up a leather
jacket so I wanted to take the leather
jacket out of it's more casual context
and put it into a more dressed up
setting I just I really don't like this
look I I really it was really sort of
like trying to put a square peg in a
round hole here the biggest problem with
this is that the thing the things just
don't match up so and it's mostly the
fabrics so if we see a little bit of a
closer picture you can see like the wool
of the trouser just doesn't really gel
with the leather jacket and let's talk
about this shirt as well it's got a
smaller cop-caller I wouldn't wear a
collar like that now I just was like
trying a little too hard to make these
things work well together and I just I
just don't think they work
at all and then the glasses I mean I
like those glasses a lot but I just
don't think with this outfit that they
really go the tie is good on its own of
course but again this was just an
attempt to try something and it didn't
really work out so moving on so I must
say that this outfit was one of the very
first that we shot when we started he
spoke style when I was first getting
into it I was very influenced by Tom
Brown you know the black fleece that he
was doing with Brooks Brothers it was it
was interesting to me you know this
blazer in particular you're either gonna
love it or you're here you're gonna hate
it
I'm still I don't think it's terrible
the Blazer itself but the problem here
is that there's just too much going on
and I'm not talking about the pattern
necessarily I'm talking about is we go
into the detail shot here you'll see
what I'm talking about so not only do I
have the Blazer but I've got this like
pocket square that's just kind of crazy
and then the tie isn't tied very well
I've got the color pin going on too
you can see I have braces on which well
you don't see when I have the jacket on
of course but then also this small
detail can't really see here but the
cufflinks they have a skull on them you
know overall I just I was trying to make
it work like I wanted to make it work
but I think the overall effect was that
it sort of came out like I was trying
too hard and there's just too much going
on here so yeah there we have that one
oh by the way I still have this jacket
if anyone is interested in it just leave
me a comment okay so this one another
attempt to do something more with a
regular piece so we're talking about the
pinstripe suit here again like the first
look we looked at I think my intent was
good
the execution was poor I just think
there's too much going on here so the
idea for this was I wanted to try and
take the pinstripe suit out of the
business context and give it a little
more kind of of a fun Flair that it's
summer that's why I have those linen
loafers on but again I just think
there's too much going on here that is
not good so got the club collar shirt
which on its own is fine funky tie this
pocket square fold that I tried to make
look tossed off and easy but I think it
looks like a mess now that I'm looking
at it have the the glasses that don't
really match and then too many bracelets
there's just too much going on here
overall I think I was just trying a
little bit too hard and as a result it's
it's just something that I'm not not
really a fan of now ok next look I don't
think this is necessarily such a bad
look it's just kind of missing something
in my eyes I mean it's very simple just
a double-breasted jacket with the linen
shirt and some off-white trousers
it's a summer look I think maybe what
could have helped here is a hat of some
sort just to kind of give the whole
outfit a little more shape also I don't
think my choice of sunglasses was
appropriate for this maybe with a pair
of club masters or something a little
more classic I think I would feel a
little bit better about this but again
the what I was attempting to do here was
to take a double breasted jacket and
make it a little more casual
thus wearing it open without a tie or
anything like that but to me this just
feels I'm also missing a pocket square
that could have been one that slipped
down I don't know I don't remember it's
a long time ago that we did this one but
overall I just feel like there's
something missing and you know not a
terrible look but not complete I guess
is what I would say next look here ok
again this this outfit was sort of like
content driven and by content driven I
mean like have like I like to show one
piece many ways so in the case of this
look here we're talking about this
chunky cardigan I think the biggest
problem here well what I wanted to do
was take you know this is like a piece
that I'd normally wear around the house
but I wanted to see if I could style it
in a way that it could be worn outside
in a different kind of context so again
I think the biggest problem with this
look here is the coat much like the
first look where the leather didn't
match the wool trousers I think the coat
does not match the texture and the
fabrics that it is there I don't know
why I chose this coat I probably because
I just got it and I was really into it
but as you can see especially in this
photo here the it's kind of got a little
bit of a sheen to it it's not a shiny
coat but it just doesn't gel well with
the wool cardigan and the flannel pants
I think with the different coat this
look it could work but again I think
this is just was a poor choice of coat
for this look so there you have it
alright the last one I'm trying to
remember I can't remember what it was
yes okay I remember this now this was
again one of the very first looks that
we ever shot for he spoke style website
again I don't think there's anything
necessarily wrong with it other than the
biggest thing is that it feels too
costumey to me now I think if this was
for like some kind of photo shoot it
would be fine but this is not something
I would wear today it looks like someone
who well it is someone who was just
getting into you know wearing suits and
and men's style and and trying to kind
of do the dapper thing and I've got the
bow tie and the the little newsboy hat
again it's not a terrible look it's just
it's just to me
it's not something that I would wear
today I think it feels too affected and
for that reason you know I just I just
wouldn't wouldn't do it anymore
but it was a good sort of experiment and
and I remember doing this photo shoot it
was it was kind of fun to do but overall
this is not something that you know
you'd see me wearing today so there you
go some of what I would consider to be
my worst outfits I think the biggest
takeaway in reviewing those and going
through them again is that trying too
hard is probably one of the biggest
mistakes that we all make and the thing
about it is is that I think it's sort of
unavoidable especially when you are
first getting into or getting serious
about mens style it's hard when you're
first getting into it to be like yeah
I'm just gonna wear a classic clothes
styled in a classic way there's always
like this impulse to want to stand out
or maybe more to the point to show
people that you're into mens style and
that almost always results in going too
far or trying to do too much now I'm not
telling you to not explore or try
different things because you know you
might find something that works for you
or feels right to you don't be afraid
but at the same time I think being a
little cognizant of the impulse to do
too much is a good mindset to be in so
leave your comments below maybe share
some of your worst outfits say I shared
mine and what you learned from those
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