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maybe hey it worked have you sweating there for like what i didn't see you uh oh oh glad you made it how's it going that was a little scary you're telling me i'm just staring at the camera boy how's your morning ben i'm good i'm reading some of the comments there hi more i see yes how are you good morning you're good i'm excited i'm good i was debating the coffee route but since this is the first time ever going live for selfies whatever i'm like i can't do coffee today but you're good i'm good i'm good yeah a little little scary going live feels scary don't be scared i'm also nervous i'm really sweaty but it should be okay all right so here's kind of the plan for today i think um we got a bunch of questions from some of your followers which again is a crazy phrase to say to your dad and then i got a lightning round but i realized i got like 20 questions so i'm not sure how lightning that could be yikes okay um i'll wait a little bit before we get started but yeah so what are you going to do this morning yeah i'll wait for some people to come on we're early okay yeah have you hung out with squiggy and lola this morning i was thinking to bring him in here but that might might not go well so yeah are they just in the other room then yeah we got them locked up in the other room so i turned my ring off too so in case they're yeah because that makes them go nuts that's smart i should probably put my phone on silent i realized okay well i can read some of these how's the weather where you're at today dad weather's good it's 90 it's smoky though we're getting smoke from the california fires as i say yeah it's good but it's not like it's hot but also pretty pretty sad i saw down um where you're at but like the highway by you guys that that like that looked pretty fiery have you driven i don't want to give like where you're at so like on the road that you've driven the highway yeah i heard about it i haven't seen it though so yeah okay yeah i see you're getting a lot of how-to's i see that i know i've already kind of picked them i'm trying to see if if any of them are easy to answer yeah oh thanks i know you're so pretty she is pretty oh yeah it's just my dad like in high school yeah you never believe me i'm married um it's 11 o'clock i got my my ipad with the questions on it so i was gonna give it maybe a few more minutes um yeah let's see [Music] have you talked to kyle i did just talk to him this morning yeah okay things are good yeah yeah he's he's good he's quarantined over on the coast poor guy feel bad for him so much to see over there not able to do it so chocolate or vanilla vanilla i like vanilla mom loves chocolate like for ice cream or anything i agree like i could rather have vanilla ice cream rather than just straight chocolate yeah i like vanilla and it's a flavor people say act like that's not a flavor it's flavor just because it's what it's plain looking it's still a flavor i feel like it's a base flavor it's oh how do you make the perfect cup of coffee i feel like now you have the knowledge to do this well i got that espresso and i'm slowly figuring out it's pretty fun i uh it's uh maybe i'll do a video on how to do that so india nice love from india wow yeah time zone crazy all right let's see what time it's 1102. it's only two minutes i was gonna give it to 1105. yeah what kind of coffee have you been making uh it's one we bought at costco french uh french roast oh i'm not like oh sure that works too can we meet them sometime yeah maybe yeah we'll bring the dogs in sometime that would be fun yeah squiggy and lola brazil nice very cool oh there you go yeah i have a coffee grinder yeah we usually yeah i buy a whole bean and we grind it do you make like cappuccino like shots then or no you can no uh i you know i got a sweet too so i do like a mocha and so i had chocolate and do you know how to make lattes then like i do yeah i know yeah last time we were here we didn't get a chance to but yeah you can make a lot it's easy that's kind of fun yeah yeah yeah yeah love it yeah that's the world does for your compassion ah thank you that means a lot to me i'm glad i can help even if even if it's in a small way i'm humbled by how good people are to me you would know i don't know have you had an avogado i don't know what that is no i've never heard of that survive on top tell us what that is okay do we want to start the questions or done with the coffee talk yeah we could jump in okay so at sean underscore howard underscore asked uh did you have any anxieties about the responsibilities of raising a child i often worry about whether i would be a good father or not because of my mental health and how a child might inherit them what would you say to them yeah um i have to preface this by saying you know my experience is being a dad right so i didn't go to school for for any of this so take it for what it's worth so from my perspective absolutely it it was terrifying when uh when i held you for the first time um at the hospital it was like oh my goodness what how's this gonna go uh so you know lots of prayer um and one thing that's been on my mind lately for other dads i i you know obviously i didn't have a great example and kind of learned on the fly i i think you know um a mission statement i think would be a powerful thing for a dad because when you come home with that child and you know you do kind of promise of everything at that time in that moment of time and then you know uh life gets busy and it gets uh you know you're you have a bad day at work and all that and so to kind of keep you on track you know we make mission statements for uh for businesses i think it would be a wise thing you know don't make it super long but stick to your core principles and say this is what i'm you know i'm i'm committing to this and i think that that's uh that'll help keep you on track so and please dads you know this has kind of been on my heart lately i'm hoping you know to inspire other dads to hang in there you know it's cool to be a dad but it is you know i think long term you know i think men as men we can run after shiny objects and get off track and you know hang in there we need you please what would your mission statement do you have a mission statement i don't no i uh well because again i was learning on the fly and as i've had these interviews and been able to process it and try to you know and because i had to make a mission statement for my channel because you know i had no idea that this was going to resonate on the level it has and i want to be true to my um followers and my subscribers um so i don't go chasing after shiny shiny objects because like you know i've shared some of these opportunities that i've had and you know i don't want to be an infomercial i don't want to be somebody that um is just all the money you know and wow you know what i don't want to sell out i won't sell out so um as things make sense i'll continue to do my best to vet that but anyway i'm getting off on a tangent mission statement for my channel but it's kind of helped me understand that that's probably a good a wise thing you know i've never heard anybody mention that before in any books that i've read but i think it would be wise you know pick five things and remain true to that to keep you on track yeah no that's good and then i think also for inheriting trauma because i i think we've talked about this about how genetically your makeup your dna when you endure trauma it not only affects you but it affects like me and it'll affect my kids and so on and so forth um but being able to fight that and i think you've been a testament to that too because i'm not a mom yet and i think as i've been processing through um your story and how that that will like you fighting that and wanting to stay true to kyle and i and making sure that you're around and making sure that you're present and trying to be um the best out that you can be that cycles can be broken and there's hope in that so i think that's really encouraging yeah i i think that's what's kind of come out of this i've had to kind of you know really get my head around it and what what do i want for people and i want people to be empowered and i want to encourage dads and i want you know i i don't want people to live in the past and people have been hurt way worse than i've been hurt you know i i went through some stuff but you know people been through way worse and um if i could you know just encourage people because i've been there you know i'm not saying it's an easy thing i've been there where i'm you know kind of get inside my head and i'm dwelling in the past and it's just not a good place to be you know it's just not healthy it's so much more free it's freeing when you you know because it's like you're you're taking that baggage from the past and carrying it around again you know you drop it and then you ah let me pick it up and carry it around and i think if i can encourage people to you know again the rafiki quote i love the rafiki quote you know doesn't matter it's in the past and that simplifies it but it is true you know it's true to not um not live there you got to move on with your life so because it's your life and you're making it what you you know what you will so totally um all right ready to jump into the next one sure i've also noticed you're you're pretty blurry is it just because of the internet connection if not if [Laughter] yeah yeah mom's over there i don't look blurry to me i'm sorry get it out oh gosh jesse jessie's always messing okay oh yeah oh yeah maybe that would help we probably want to do that i might not be okay it should be okay i'm sorry i'm bullied it's okay you're in and out i can hear you just fine the audio is good um all right are you hop into the next one yeah so someone asked so at odd underscore underscore re asked um how does it feel to share your dad with almost the whole world um oh someone also said turn off other devices on if i put on airplane mode if i go to airplane mode i'll lose you won't i if you turn off all your other devices that are using wi-fi i see i'm sorry yeah well we'll do better next time i feel like this is a downhill dive it makes me look it makes me look better it's softened it gives me a glow [Laughter] [Music] okay [Laughter] [Music] what okay how do i make my screen blurry like [Laughter] yours i can't read this is going south in a hurry come on oh man all yeah the right christine tears i can't help it when i laugh okay um i feel like it's an honor it's not a burden at all if anything i work with kids for my job and so it's really on my my heart to want to make sure kids and people um feel like they're they're valued right and i thought that's what your channel does is it reminds people even though you say hey kids it's also people my age and older um that they think that they are loved they are valued they are important that they can provide things in this life that no one else can that they yeah have a unique voice so yeah that's my take sharing with the world of anything it's wonderful um okay so the next question is also about mine i think it's more um how proud am i obviously very proud oh i should say it's at oh no at suara kane car i am so sorry if that is not your name and i just um how proud is she and how much of an influence that i play in making your videos that's more for you i'm very proud the first half is that yeah uh christine was huge um with me uh starting these videos she's been a huge encouragement we we talk all the time in my son too um about um yeah about dad vice and just kind of navigating life and we wondered you know what other people do that don't have that and i didn't have that you think i'd be smart enough to realize that maybe this would be valuable to some people and because of covid you know it forced my hand to go ahead and throw my hat in the ring with the with the how to tie a tie video um and it was only two minutes it was kind of non you know committal i just threw it up to see what would happen and um yeah i'm i'm humbled by how it's how it's touched people's but anyway christine has been a huge part of it she her it was at the very beginning it was just our little fun thing that we started and then we shared it or she shared it in a few kindness groups um the scrubbers uh podcast to scrubbing in and we so we and it just everybody kind of was so supportive we thought well okay maybe more people could use it and then reddit got a hold of it and then uh tick tock and yeah it's it's amazing but christine was the one yeah and we we just we're having a kind of a fun time together yeah that was a good bonding it wasn't me like it was very much you you're the one who got videos but it was a good good time and the thing that's a little scary is uh that's what i've shared with you is is the fact that it's me i'm not playing a role you know so if uh you know the fear of rejection is a little bit of oh you know put myself out there hope i you know be kind yeah oh that's really kind of a big thing that's really cool things like that yeah no i love it people are and people have continued with the kindness and i'm very grateful for that it's such a great community to be a part of you know because we need more of that right especially what with what all we're going through right now you know the world's the tough place right now with people being isolated and all that let's be kind you know let's go you got two paths to go let's stay on the kindness path right encourage each other totally i'm all right thanks ready to hop to the next one yep what's the next one the next one is um now which means i'm just gonna butcher and i apologize um at sabrina and dallas room uh what is a good habit to form in productivity for for me it's uh setting goals and making lists i make lists all the time of what what i want to accomplish and then i take those lists and i um prioritize them too word's a beautiful thing you know put it in word and then i can go okay which one has priority and then i am able to cross those off or i'll just write it on a tablet and i'll um even if i it's something i got up early and i did before i put it on my list i'll put it on my list so i can cross it off yeah right i'm sure other people do not do it oh yeah like i'll write it down after i did it be like yeah see i usually do it in word and then i have and i create checkbox or boxes that i can actually check off but there's something satisfying about drawing drawing a line through it but also it's kind of nice to have a record of what what you accomplished dude so yeah so that's good um all right ready next one one other thing real quick so um my son well kyle so kyle has really been into the whole setting goals and the pomodoro method if you've heard of the pomodoro method pomodoro i think is tomato right for a timer that is shaped like a tomato um but yeah kind of breaking things up and and then uh and you accomplish a lot when you do that you know it's the whole thing if you aim at nothing you're gonna get there right so you if you have something that you're kind of aiming towards it keeps you on track and you can accomplish a ton totally yeah i know kyle's like really good with that he's very good he accomplishes he accomplishes a ton he's like yeah i did this and i did that and i'm going running and i'm doing this and i'm like man good for you especially important because i feel like i'm kyle has been so dedicated and like very diligent and i feel like for me mentally it's really important i think again like you were saying everything that's happening in the world right now it's a tough thing to be diligent and dedicated also like processing through being quarantined and also everything in the world so be kind to yourself because i i compare myself to kyle sometimes with his production oh you get a ton accomplished too you and ryan both you guys are dynamos that's really easy you can stay on task for ryan ryan's very own task his employer is watching um all right so next one are you good yeah i think we're good on that i just yeah that pomodoro method is very powerful what would you say to people who never had a dad figure in their lives uh my heart goes out to you i think that's the biggest thing i you know and i think that's so difficult again because everybody's in a different stage of that you know if uh whether it's a a young woman or a young man or you know however old you are if you've never experienced that you know i'm that saddens me and i'm again i could go back to the fact that i hope my channel can inspire other dads to hang in there and you know and think long term you know think long term because your kids are are little and then they're teens and then they're adults i mean i you know what not long ago i had hair you know and i was uh i was young and now i'm old i'm not old but you know relatively speaking you know there's a time where when you're young you think you're invincible and you think those are the old people and they've always been old right you know i was young too you know um so anyway my big thing is and i think justin batt um who wrote daddy saturday says i think this quote was from him where he says the days are the days are long but the years are short and man is that ever true time goes by so quickly um so hang in there you know so that this so that this doesn't happen but yeah in that case i would say one one thing um that kind of came to my mind is you know look for healthy male role models you may be happy you have some friends that have uh you know a good relationship with their dad and see if you know if they'll let you into that i i would you know i would allow that you know if one of christine's friends approached me and said hey this is my situation i would you know i would welcome that i'd be flattered and honored to be able to do even if it's just a little bit for some guidance or whatever i would i would think that a dad would um be honored to do that that's awesome sorry that's awesome um i skipped the question i realized so i had at joe.617 how did you maintain a happy healthy relationship with your kids as teens well i think it started from when they were like when they're little you know yeah i think being there when they were little and uh praying with them at night too i think gave me a unique ability to be able to share my heart with you guys you know as we're praying i i i'm learning you know i'm doing the best i can and i'm learning the whole time myself and i've never done this before you know and so trying to keep you guys understanding that i'm on your side you know i'm with your mom and i are on your team we're we're your biggest fans and we're there for you we can still have disagreements yeah but but you know ultimately i want what's up oh are you getting teary-eyed all right i'm laughing a little bit so one thing i'd say too is um limit the teasing i think it's you know teasing can be kind of you know endearing or whatever but you know there's a fine line between teasing and you know when kids especially when they're going through their teenage years they can be you know that's be pretty sensitive about things and so i think you need to be sensitive to the fact that you know they're going through some rough stuff so i would i've never been big on the teasing i never really liked it myself then when people teased me everybody kind of thought it was fun i didn't i didn't enjoy it when people were you know making fun of me or whatever you know so but again i think it also you know you need to not take yourself too seriously too so there's a benefit of teasing too right as long as it's within fun you just gotta pay attention to pushing that so and i i'll end with this too is admitting your mistakes i've shared this in a lot of interviews you know i think it's important to admit your mistakes and ask for forgiveness come back and humble yourself before your kids and say hey i messed up here and the sooner the better you know don't let that linger for days you want to come back after you process it and go you know i probably didn't handle that the right way i need to um ask for forgiveness yeah no and i think i would say from my perspective reflecting on teenage years there are a few like you were saying about how the teasing because i i i had pretty bad acne in high school and it was pretty self-conscious about it so i appreciated that i felt free to be goofy so you would tease me for like times that i'm acting goofy and like feel free to do that but also it didn't make me feel self-conscious for going through puberty which everyone else was having acne problems and you know dealing with hormone things i never felt uh less than for that and then another thing that i i'm sure you remember this that every morning before school and i are both pretty early birds but we would get up around 5 30 and have coffee um before i take off for school because i think my school started like 7 30 so i'd leave it off at seven to have coffee almost every morning before i take off for school and catch up and before i took off so i appreciated those times too ah that's nice one thing too you speak speaking of acne um i had some acne you know i i played football and you know the football helmet would rub on my forehead and you know there's times that i kind of tried to hide it and stuff and i really appreciated some good friends of mine especially conrad i've shared conrad is a good friend of mine um we've kind of got lost contact but i remember him um never even mentioning it you know i come i show up and i got zits on my face i don't need you to tell me i have zits on my face right i got it i woke up right yeah and i remember conrad just showing up uh or showing up to see him and he didn't say anything it was like oh man i love this guy i want to hang around with him more because he's not pointing out my flaws i know what my flaws are you know i don't need somebody pointing them out so totally anyway was there anything else or i could pop to the next no i think that's it so the last um couple of questions before we do a lightning more of a fun lighthearted lightning round of questions yeah where we got a couple of questions or i'm sorry you got a couple of questions regarding um questions about dating safety and assertiveness from practice your courage and we got a couple anonymous ones asking um for like how to get away from a date gone wrong how to stay safe communicate things that make them feel uncomfortable um did you want to talk about what we're planning on doing for that or would you like yeah i think um yeah i think we need to uh we'll end up doing a video on that i think that's such a it can be a sensitive subject and i we want to handle it properly rather than do it live i don't want to say something that yeah so oh my video's clear now dad so i saw a calm foot calm footballer really quick i just got to make a comment on the calm footballer so you know i grew up in a football we watch football and stuff as a big part of of my life and so um but i like to i enjoy a football game and i don't get kinda uh dad i can see you nice okay well that's a plus um but anyway calm footballer that just struck me as you know me when i'm watching football you know it i'll get excited occasionally but it takes a lot for me to get i'm not one of those type of fans i'm enjoying the game because i love you know i love football but i don't i'm not a big screamer during a football game i love this pro prosper with sam i just got to call you out man thanks so much for your encouragement i've seen lots of nice comments thank you so much really appreciate that um yeah so for the previous question like you were saying i think we're gonna address it just not off the cuff i think we want to make sure that we we do our due diligence with that topic and there's a lot to it too i think there you know there's we could talk about quite a quite a bit of that so totally okay i was gonna say yeah i put under their feet see soccer i was thinking about it oh sorry okay i think united states sorry that's my brain but you're calm you're calm when you're playing soccer or football or that's that's ryan ryan's also a calm sucker brian's very just calm in general so he is he's in the other room nice all right you ready to do a fun lightning round that i have not prepared before these are the ones i don't know anything about so hopefully you're going to be gentle i know i've been told they're all pretty simple all right here we go what's your favorite ice cream flavor vanilla we already said that yeah oh about cherry garcia if we're talking about flavor cherry garcia what cherries and ice cream i don't know i guess maraschino cherries i don't know oh it's so good cherry garcia ben and jerry's cherry garcia that's my favorite ice cream if it's vegetarian man cherries and ice cream i don't know okay what's your favorite football american football team steelers still even though we live in i still like the steelers so in fairness you know i live in the seattle area so i like the steelers since i was a kid um before the seahawks were even around i like the seahawks too but i'm still i don't know what it is about steelers the way back to lynn swann and terry bradshaw and franco harris and all those guys so yep uh do you prefer fiction or non-fiction books non-fiction i struggle with i struggle is this supposed to be a lightning round am i supposed to elaborate right it's your life there's no room i like non-fiction i just like mine i just like non-fiction because you know and i like lord of the rings and i like you know there's some stuff that i like that's that's fiction too but yeah all right do you consider yourself more an introvert or an extrovert introvert yeah that sounds great um favorite author favorite author boy there's so many um i like rc sprole christian theologian he passed away but i like him i like c.s lewis too um what household chore do you actually enjoy i don't know what do i enjoy uh i don't know it's just part i i don't mind doing the dishes i really don't it's just part of uh you know and i feel i've always liked chores that i can see what i've accomplished i guess you know it's like they're there now they're clean yeah or like and when you're doing construction and stuff around the house too laying a floor is like i just completely changed how this room looks i love stuff like that where i can really see visually what what i've done right i feel that way with laundry because it's warm yeah and someone else asks what are you reading right now right now what am i reading right now uh uh trying to think what i what i'm reading at night um tools for titans is one that i you know i read i have read a lot of books so somebody recommended tools for titans and they started reading that and that's an easy read because it just talks about i think it's called tools for titans right um yeah but that one's good yeah i love green i love to read you can learn so much by reading so i would encourage people to read because i so in fairness when i you know i was a jock in high school and so i prided myself in not learning anything i thought i was showing those teachers how smart i was by you know figuring out how not to learn stuff and then uh yeah and then you get out of high school and go great i'm an idiot you know now what so thankfully i've gotten a love for reading now i love to read do you are you reading anything fiction or is just pure nonfiction at this point i just don't really read fiction i can't get into it kyle got me into harry potter a little bit and i read a little bit of it and i think it's very well written because it it i think she does a great job of breaking up the chapters to where you read and then you want to read the next ones like ah and then she titles it very well too so it's like i want to read that too so yeah anyway all right i'll hop back into it you have a favorite line from a booker movie you can't handle the truth is that your face that is the person that came to your mind that's a great line come on that's a great line crazy yeah true it's worth fighting for no well see you okay now in fairness you have had a chance to think about these 20 things if i had to think about it share the load frodo i love sam i love sam sam's the hero in that whole thing everybody you know proto gets too much credit sam 100 i asked my friends about this maybe a month ago i said do we feel like this is kind of interesting too most of um my friends who consider themselves male uh my male friends were said no like frodo's amazing and a lot of my female friends said no and sam is the hero and i was like that's so fascinating that it kind of split down the middle for like who thought was like i don't want to offend you no it's okay i hate i'm so sad that that is so out there stick i'm gonna put potatoes [Laughter] okay uh what are you hilariously bad at am i hilariously bad at wait what'd you say what are you hilariously bad at is there something that you're like wow this is something i'm not good at especially because you're a how-to channel i thought i would ask you the best stuff jesse is just being savage a couple other friends have been kind good what am i bad at you tell me you tell me i i have to think about that um i i struggle with i've struck i struggled with the piano you know i i've i've played around with the guitar and i've got okay with playing chords um but playing the piano um and i think i don't give myself enough time to kind of process it i and so i'm embarrassed by that oh that should be embarrassing there's just something yeah i'm not i don't how do i fix a hammer what's wrong with your hammer we'll see um okay what food is underrated or underappreciated underrated or under beats i love beets why aren't you dwight schrute you don't love beets you have to take them for your health right like to help you like for the vitamins yeah but i like it but i like it well i mean they they just don't get a ah can you sing a song for us oh my goodness i i would really be getting uh i i mentioned the the cats in the cradle uh that's something whenever we do karaoke we always sing cats in the cradle but that'll bring tears to your eyes i've tried to put up a shelf with one of your videos and it broke oh no oh the hammer the camera broke all the hammer broke yeah a shelf with the hammer [Laughter] how long are we keeping this going people got to be tired of hearing us talk huh you can see in the corner if people are tired of you or not but stated we got we're almost halfway done with the lightning round we're over halfway done okay what sport do you wish you knew more about sport yeah i think this these questions need to go away i'm learning that i'm not really good at thinking on my feet um what sport do i wish i knew more about um some i know a lot about a lot of sports because that's kind of how we were raised but um cricket i don't know anything about cricket that's a good answer all right what's your favorite pizza topping uh i like pepperoni and black olives that's probably my go-to yeah i hear you getting checked nothing okay what is this you've been to and why what's my favorite concert yeah but the best concert you've been to uh i love switch foot because i um i was probably the last one that they had because i think they're very good about um making you be a part of can you feel like you're a part of it need to breathe it's awesome too um i love i love need to breathe that need to breathe concert that we went to was amazing so um and i did have to say one thing so i was a styx fan when i was a kid i liked sticks and i went to one of their concerts and it was amazing it was paradise theater and they they made it like a a theater show kind of thing they opened up like they were in the theater and it was that's one i'll always remember too really cool yeah i was going to say ryan wall king's kaleidoscope concerts are all so good they're also fantastic not just right i love football you know awesome nice i like foosball too i like i like to play football who's cool it's fun ping pong i feel like you'd like ping pong do you consider yourself to be more of an early bird or night owl early bird for sure i like to go to bed you know if i can be in bed by nine i'd be a happy camper but mom likes to stay up late so so i try to have to compromise so we can spend some time together yeah uh what does your ideal breakfast look like your favorite breakfast food man how many questions are these um we're almost there we're almost done uh i like pancakes and eggs and hash browns okay um favorite place to i'm sorry there's actually kind of a funny story uh well you know this so like watching football or whatever falling asleep in my couch or in my mind yeah and then you guys coming in wanting to change the channel this is such a classic dad thing you know i'm watching it you know i i know that i did that and there's this progressive commercial now where the guy falls asleep with the sign have you seen that oh he falls asleep he's on the couch and he's [ __ ] falls asleep with a sign and uh like his girlfriend or her wife or whatever comes in and says hey you're sleeping with sign again no i'm not no i watched the dribble off his face i'm like i can relate we think you're asleep and kyle and i would change the channel i'm watching are you that's right i'm watching that yeah oh my gosh let's see him to be uh i'll skip the favorite food combo um top fake top five places you'd like to visit after covid and everything clears that uh well we were going to go to disney world this year but that got cancelled we were going to meet kyle down in florida never been to never been i've never been to disneyland or disney world you know that was never something and so that's something i want to do and then uh israel i want to go to israel i think i'd be amazing to see the holy land you know that would be incredible and then europe you know we went to italy last year loved italy so um yeah i'd love to see more of europe there's so much history there um and then washington dc would be cool i wanted to go to washington dc just for the history again i love that how's fork do i need to come up with another one uh would you want to go back to the philippines yeah philippines well i've been to the philippines because because mom of course when her family was there but they're all here now so there's really no reason to go come to the middle east cool thanks um all right let's see favorite we have two more we have two more we're almost done favorite physical activity kind of tired uh favorite physical activity okay uh physical activity that i like to do um i i like to i still like to lift weights just because it's a good stress reliever for me i really like that so i don't i'm not a big runner you know i like to play sports basketball football all that and get my exercise in that way i don't like to i it's hard for me to actually just force myself to just go run yeah i don't enjoy that again kyle kyle's dedication because i don't have that willpower okay last one if someone came up to you and said hey do that thing you do what things pop into your head first i don't know what that thing is that i do what do i do [Laughter] i don't know what that thing that i do is i don't know i love i thought he was my chipmunk thing i was like oh yeah my chipmunk would be the first thing i'll whip out at a party um cool you did it you survived your first live thank you yeah enduring this all right cool any words or we can call it a day i think that's good yeah no um so thanks for all you do christine you're awesome um this would and just so everybody knows that you know this wouldn't be what it is without you and you've helped so much with everything so i i am grateful about you you're the one that's on on the two all right i'm gonna end the look okay how do i do that i guess you'll just get rid of me okay love you guys love you christine hey love you thanks for bye guys bye