3 Things A Woman Needs From Her Man

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Today, I'm gonna break down the top 3 things a woman needs from her man to have a happy, healthy, long-lasting relationship.
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So today I'm gonna talk about the three major needs
women desperately need from her man
to have a happy, healthy relationship and or marriage.
So if that sounds great to you guys,
then definitely keep on watching.
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So the first major need a woman needs is security.
And this is not just physical security,
while that is one major aspect of it,
but this is also emotional security,
financial security, spiritual security.
All of these things are so necessary
for a woman to feel happy in a relationship
and secure in the relationship.
A woman wants to follow a secure man,
a man who has a vision, who has a path.
We wanna move together and if a man
is just walking around with no vision,
just aimlessly going through life, we lose it.
This is why a lot of women seek to control the relationship
because we desperately need security in it.
And if it's not gonna come from the man,
it's gonna come from us.
And that's where a lot of relationships fail
because the woman has to then assume the control
and assume the security in the relationship.
That is why a man needs to step up,
needs to just take ownership of the relationship,
needs to have a path forward, has to have a goal.
And that way we can follow
and we will happily follow a secure man
because that brings us security
and we don't have to do all of the work
to get that security that we desperately need.
So the second point is communication.
And I know a lot of guys are turning their ears off
to this one because it's not intrinsic to you,
but it is intrinsic to us.
And if you want to have a happy, healthy relationship
with your wife or girlfriend,
you are going to have to have effective communication skills.
And as a woman, we want to be able to express our feelings.
We have a thousand thoughts per minute,
more thoughts and opinions that we can count.
This is not something that men often experience.
So we just need a place
that we can express ourselves to our man.
And this sometimes can just be like,
if a woman is venting about her day
or about the situation that she just experienced,
a lot of times all she wants is empathy.
Most of the time, all men really have to do
is hug and kiss their girlfriend or wife and say,
hey babe, it's gonna be okay, I'm here for you.
Because men automatically want to fix the situation
and men come up with ways to fix the problem.
Oh, just quit your job
or just don't be friends with that girl anymore.
But sometimes it's not about that.
We just want to express ourselves.
We wanna just express our feelings
and we just wanna know that you are listening.
It's gonna make your relationship so much better
if you just show a little bit of empathy
when your girlfriend or wife
is expressing to you how she feels.
The third point, and this is my last point, is affection.
Women desperately need affection from their man.
And this goes back to the point
where we have a lot of thoughts and emotions in our head
so we can pick up on different nuances, body language,
and we automatically assume the worst.
So having that sense of security, that touch, that kiss,
the flowers, the gestures, these things make us feel secure.
And this goes back to the first point.
It makes us feel that we're loved and that we are heard
and that we are seen in the relationship
and that we're valuable.
Women just wanna know
that we're valued in the relationship as well.
And sometimes I feel like men think
that affection just correlates with sex.
While sex sometimes is a sign of affection,
it shouldn't be the motivator
because most likely that will end up being the result,
but she just wants to know that she is loved
and showing those little signs of affection
will really help her feel secure in herself
and in the relationship
and again, this goes all back around
to the fact that these are needs that we desperately need
to just be happy and healthy in the relationship
that we're in with our man.
I hope you guys learned a little bit about the female psyche
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And with that guys, I will see you guys in my next video.
