I FAILED, I CRIED, I SUFFERED AND I SUCCEEDED ALONE...TRUST THE PROCESS - Best Motivational Speech

the best way to fight the demons that chase you in the night is to stop and turn [Music] around turn around face them a hero dies once a coward dies a thousand times unchosen suffering is going to happen in life mhm your parents are going to pass away loved ones are going to die your relationships are going to break down your body is going to fail you you're going to become ill or Si sick or destitute things are going to happen that you have no control over and the only way that you can prepare yourself for unchosen suffering is with chosen suffering you can elect to put yourself into a position to become a stronger alloy of whatever the metal is that you're made of and by purposefully choosing difficult things you will armor yourself against that [Music] situation you thinkk you got so much time man like you think you got so much time not that you need to rush your life but you think you got time make that call man like you think you got time write that letter you think you got time go see that person you think you got time I said man when I say the most underrated blessing is leaving your house and making it back home every single day people treat it like it's a cliche man that's the most underrated blessing because every single day we wake up we walk out of our front doors we just treat life as if it's promised to us it's [Music] not problem is you think you have time but in reality you don't so what are you waiting for the story the story they sell themselves on everyone's got a story and everyone wants to tell you their story of how bad they had it how hard they had it and the more times you tell yourself or others that story The More you reinforce the fact that you're not meant to have happiness success abundance great relationship awesome Health whatever the story they don't realize that they still hold the pen and there's thousands of empty pages still in that book that they can rewrite that story but we have to let go of the pages that others have written in our book and we can start writing how the story looks from this day forward whether you do whether you don't they're still going to talk about you at Gatherings they whisper about you if you're making moves or you're standing still so honestly I've come to realize in life just do you just do what you want to do let them talk and the only guarantee that you and I are going to have a better tomorrow is the fact that you and I are growing today if you and I are not growing today what would make us think that tomorrow has greater power possibilities you don't go into possibilities you grow into possibilities you don't go into opportunities you grow into opportunities it becomes the natural thing to a person that keeps learning and growing expanding and stretching there's a payoff for bad eventually there's a payoff it can't be bad but for so long if you got the strength and the understanding to realize that will change it will change the saying I think to myself every day is that I didn't come this far to only come this far creativity is no limits we're not like a limited amount that we're going to use up when you do something you check the box and move on do the next thing we don't live in the past create a life resume do as many things that you can do that you want to do and check the box and do the next thing when you take the chance to go after your dreams when you take the risk R sure you may fail but what if you fly what if you succeed what if you do greater than you could have ever imagine what if you impact and change millions of lives what if the world is different in a better way because of you don't worry about making mistakes mistakes happen to everybody everybody makes a mistake you're not special because you make a mistake there's no big deal to making a mistake it's all in the recovery it's all in the recovery most people don't recover from a mistake if you want to differentiate yourself get the blessing of the lesson get up and move [Music] on if you are living a comfortable life it only means you are continuously staying inside a field of what you know already every time you are crossing that line every time you are expending that boorder you are bringing light into a space that before that time was a space of uncertainty but there is only one way to find out and make uncertainty become knowledge and that one is through experiencing it and everybody's fundamental issue is that you either hate yourself or you do nothing but judge yourself and this habit of of Relentless self-criticism and Relentless self-rejection is the reason why you're unhappy it's the reason why you're never satisfied it's the reason why you can't take a compliment and why you're uncomfortable and it all comes down to the fact that when you stand in front of the mirror every single morning you have this really subtle way that's not so subt subtle of starting your day by rejecting [Music] yourself people change in four different seasons people change when they hurt enough they have to when they see enough they're inspired to when they learn enough that they want to and when they receive enough that they're able to those are the four times that people change can't focused on the future what you need to be focused is on the present moment what you can control today the habits that you input today the amount of work ethic and good attitude that you portrayed today these are the things that matter the stoics used to speak about these things because it's so easy to either reminisce in the past or to be Conjuring imaginary scenarios of the future often times negative that lead a present moment of stress and a state of being miserable so if you want to be in a life that is full of equinity equinity means the calmness of the Soul and a life that is full of Peace you need to be here now focusing on what you can control fear never goes away you just learn to live with it here's what I can tell you for free it's going to be much harder than you think it's going to take much longer than you think and you're going to suffer much more than you expect but there will be nothing worth it more what you've got to decide for yourself do you want to be the person you want to be if I remove the Suffering From Success you lose character that's why you suffer it's because the journey you have to go through is life that's going to teach you but it's going to give you depth and character the question you will have to answer for yourself is do you want to be who you are or do you want to be who you are becoming you're only as good as your last shot you're only as good as your last qun a lot of people that live in past victories or past failures end up losing in life because they're Reminiscing on the past the past will not determine the future you need to understand that every single day when you wake up you have the ability to reset the clock and you have the ability to reset the direction of your life if you were doing something yesterday that wasn't pushing you towards success that doesn't Define you you can change you can adapt you can re-engineer your future by changing your habits through happiness is not contained in what you get happiness is contained in what you become some people will never like you because I believe your spirit irritates their demons you want to be strong learn how to be alone use this Earth as fuel as energy falling down failing is part of Life Is Life getting up every day no matter what is living it's okay if your path is different than what you envisioned trust all the delays the detours and the RO blocks even if you can't see where you're headed just trust that many roads can take you where you want to go maybe it's taking you longer because you aren't cutting corners or manipulating people to get there maybe it's taking you longer because you're doing it right whatever it is just keep going you don't have to know exactly what you want to be when you grow up you just have to try different things even if 99% of them fail you only have to be right one time you don't have to figure it all out in advance you can be wrong you can pick the wrong career you can pick the wrong job you can pick the wrong spouse you can pick the wrong whatever but you get it right one time you're sick but if you don't try and if you don't go out there and try all those different things you'll never get that one time what are you willing to do different how willing are you and a lot of people will put words to that but only time will tell whether those words are followed up by the action that demonstrates the level of willingness that is required to actualize anything of meaning in this world understand that you are going to take blows you're not going to walk through this thing seamlessly never getting hit by a punch never losing money it's going to happen and it doesn't make you less it's just going to help you understand and get hard to the facts of things that you have to do in order to succeed all I would urge you and tell you to do is understand that it does get darker before the dawn and and you must keep pushing through because you truly have no other choice I will do good no matter what no matter what happens to me I will do good no matter what happens to me it's absolute rejection of the idea of being a victim it's like no matter how much suffering comes my way no matter how much undeserved suffering comes my way in spite of my innocence I will not lose faith and I will do good fear of not achieving your goal what we call self-limiting beliefs hold you back more than anything else and your self-limiting beliefs are not based on reality that's why you have to constantly think if I had no limitations what goals would I set for myself it's the ultimate passion a passion for incredible success in every Department of my life that's the passion don't look down on some menial job you have to do to finally get you to where you want to go no job is menial every job is Noble training life for pay making a contribution to society nobody changes until they change their energy and when you change your energy you change your life don't expect anything in your life to change if your environment is controlling your feelings and thoughts and if your environment is controlling how you feel and think what you're really saying is that person is controlling your feelings and your thoughts and that means you're a victim to your environment so turn that around and you start realizing your feelings and thoughts create your environment and you start seeing the effects of you at cause you're going to believe more that you're the creator of your life and less the victim of your life and I say the more you practice it the better you get at it everything you want will be found on your way to the top not once you get there the character the discipline the consist y the self-respect none of those things come with achieving the goal they all come from the journey goals give you Direction but your commitment to the process will give you happiness and fulfillment so commit to the vision and wherever it takes you just make sure you enjoy the ride you can literally feel when it is time to move into the next chapter of your life and the thing is your new life is going to cost you your old life all you are going to lose is what you built for a person you no longer are let it go it's supposed to be hard everything worth pursuing comes with a little pain the trick is not minding that it [Music] hurts [Music] e e e e for