LET PAIN BUILD YOU - Motivational Speech

you've lived a life dominated by doubt and fear how do you step into bravery step that's how you step into bravery step take the step step aggressively towards your fear and that that step towards your fear is the step into bravery in that your being is limited and flawed and fragile you're like the genie which is genius in the little tiny in the little tiny lamp you know this immense potential but constrained in this tiny little living space but the fact that you have limitations means that the plot of your life is the overcoming of those limitations and that if you didn't have limitations well there wouldn't be a plot and maybe there would be no life and so that's part of the reason why perhaps you have to accept the fact that you're flawed and insufficient and and live with it and consider it a precondition for being you're either committed to mediocrity or you're committed to greatness you're either committed to being productive or you're committed to being non-productive you're committed to being happy or you're committed to being unhappy well the average lifespan is 72 or 82 whatever it is that you're expected to live you're going to work 65 of it in order to enjoy 10 12 years you've done that wrong it's the wrong focus [Music] in order to get there you're going to have to allow that to burn away layers of yourself that don't deserve to be there there are self-doubts and in these these inhibitors of where you've allowed negative voices in your life to tell you what you can be or tell you what you should do that you are here that life exists and identity that the powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse that the powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse people who found their purpose are better partners better parents better professionals better people and so if everyone in the world was deeply aligned and connected to their purpose the world would be a beautiful place and i think any pain we see in the world comes from a disconnect with purpose the people who need the most love often ask for it in the most unloving ways so we confuse love [Music] with power we confuse love with control we confuse love with validation and being liked and to me love comes from living our purpose self-love and true love with other people commitment is major see when you decide that you're going to do something when you commit yourself to to live a life that's different than the life that you live you hold yourself to a higher standard you you are you're seeking something you're pushing the envelope you are challenging yourself you you are willing to walk by faith and not by sight and you know as a warrior that there's a dramatic difference between being a warrior and being a warrior anybody can worry that step towards your fear is the step into bravery because we we're we're scared of what we don't know and there is only one way to learn and to know and that is to confront that fear you have to step you have to go and this simple action this simple attitude it answers so many questions either you put in the work now and you live the life of thrills and possibilities or you work and pay bills and end up paying medical bills for the rest of your existence put in the world burn through the other layers get past self-doubt build your body build your mind get the emotional maturity necessary for you to overcome the need of being validated by others there's greatness [Music] [Music] that means you've been settling fire and that which is on fire can ignite other things stay focused why is it that people are frightened by commitment because when you say the word commitment that intimidates a lot of people why because it means you have to deliver how do you get to the gym every day you step you go how do you how do you change your diet you step you go how do you overcome fear of failure or fear of success or or fear of fear itself [Music] that when we put ourselves in a situation where we say we're going to do it it puts you in another zone where the universe responds to you when you have that kind of consciousness see the universe responds to the man or woman that refuses to be denied because that is your commitment that business that you want that book you want to write that dream that you have of controlling your destiny that is yours that power to create that and to manifest that that is yours the first step you need to take is just that step [Music] do [Music] you