NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS I WILL OVERCOME IT - Motivational Speech

you don't have to necessarily have done anything wrong for things to get completely out of control it's a terrifying doctrine but it's not a hopeless doctrine because it still says that there's a way forward there's a pathway forward and the pathway forward is to adopt a motive being that has some nobility so that you can tolerate yourself and perhaps even have some respect for yourself as someone who's capable of standing up in the face of that terrible vulnerability and suffering well certainly by the avoidance of deceit particularly in language but also by the adoption of responsibility for the conditions of existence and some attempt on your part to actually rectify them [Music] you know if you take people and you expose them voluntarily to things that they are avoiding and are afraid of you know that they know they need to overcome in order to meet their goals their self-defined goals if you can teach people to stand up in the face of the things they're afraid of they get stronger success is not rocket science you go and find the thing that you don't know learn the thing you don't know and do the thing you haven't been doing and get the life you say you want i just all i wanted was unfamiliar but you have to understand that most people don't invite in unfamiliar because people are more committed [Music] people are more committed to a familiar discomfort than they are to an unfamiliar new possibility the key words are familiar and unfamiliar see we want to have a new experience while having some of the same behaviors because they're familiar to us they're familiar some of them not even comfortable people in relationships are not even comfortable it's just familiar people are still at jobs that aren't even comfortable they're just familiar so that's the crazy is that we are more committed to a familiar discomfort then we are to an unfamiliar new possibility because of the familiarity not even the comfort [Music] to give people a vision of themselves beyond their mental conditioning and their circumstances to let them know that they have greatness within them but han greatness it's not our destiny it's a choice that you have to make every day you have to put yourself in a state of perpetual discomfort in order to manifest your greatness you've got to reach outside of your comfort zone so every day i look forward to the opportunity to inspire people to reach higher to understand and know that what they've done is only a tip of the iceberg of what's possible well i i think a fair bit of that's probably to be found in you can find it in shame you can find it in guilt you can find it in conscience you can find it in anger you can find it in interest and engagement and beauty there's lots of pathways if you're angry about something in the world well it's speaking to you in a moral sense this shouldn't be that way well maybe you're the person who should do something about it in some manner maybe it'll take your whole life to figure out how to do that [Music] negative emotions can be a pathway to [Music] transformation i'm not trying to romanticize them they can crush you completely and leave you with nothing for sure and they can go badly astray but shame that's a good one what am i ashamed of well can you fix any of that because you might ask yourself let's say you're so ashamed and so crushed that you're nihilistic and you can't see any hope for life you're just done you might think well what if i was less ashamed i'm going to work on these things that i'm ashamed of and and just see like does my life improve enough so that i'm not so bitter about it now or i'm not so hopeless about it now and my experience has generally been that that works it works [Applause] they're winners they're losers and there are people who have not discovered how to win all they need is some help and assistance just a little support all they need is some insight or different strategy or plan of action to make some adjustments that will open up the key to a whole new future for them that will give them access to the unlimited power that they have within themselves if we do not do what we cannot do there is no issue if we do not do what we can do we are a disaster so i am saying at least are you as joyful as you were when you were five years of age at 35 40 if you are not as joyful and as exuberant as a five-year-old boy or girl that you were obviously you're a disaster because you're not even square one that was square one of your life and nothing was in your control all right you're not even in square one you sunk deeper that's a disastrous life never before in the history of humanity any generation had these kind of conveniences these kind of comforts these kind of wonderful things that we have today never before human survival was better organized than it is today if we don't do it now when many great beings have come on this planet but when they spoke hardly 10 people could hear [Music] today we can sit here and talk to the entire world when we have this if we do not transform the world into a more loving joyful exuberant humanity it simply means we don't care i don't want to go as that so it's little tiny adjustments that have the most profound effect on people and it's never too late to say i'm enough i can find love and now if you give someone the power to make you feel good you give them the power to make you feel bad and if you do it to yourself you feel so much better it makes you slightly bulletproof you still need other people we all need other people but the dialoguing with yourself and starting with i'm enough [Music] are you willing to be inconvenienced for your conviction [Music] and and as you ramp up as you ramp up you're going to have questions you're going to be afraid i do more things afraid now than i do fearless because the bigger you play the bigger your breakdown fear fuels you fear is informing you it's not stopping you i'm not enough i need more and if you feel enough you start to feel equal see most of us feel unequal really what i'm enough is doing is reactivating re-manifesting regenerating what you were born with an ability to say i'm enough you