CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR GOOD | POWERFUL Motivational Video Speech Compilation

paradigm is nothing but a multitude of habits they're programmed into your subconscious mind to control your behavior it's got nothing to do with how smart you are it's got nothing to do with what your formal education is it's got nothing to do from which side of the tracks you come from it has to do with your paradigm the paradigm is a program in your subconscious mind it's both genetic and environmental that's controlling your behavior everyone that can hear my voice knows how to do better than they're doing they may wonder why will they do it it's because you're programmed to do what you're doing yeah and until you change the program nothing's going to change paradigm has to be changed it's already happened intellectually the second you think about it it's already happened emotionally when you're emotionally involved with it so it's only a period of time and don't manifest in physical form but because it's not in physical form we act like them got it yeah that's why most people stay stuck because they're acting like they haven't got it yet so you see yourself your imagination you got to be that person Goethe said that great philosopher he said before you can do something universe must be something so you've got to be it intellectually you've got to be it emotionally as sex Amla says as a person things in their heart the emotional mind well Charlie a period of time then tilt manifest physically that's one of the first laws the universe is a perpetual transportation of energy energy is moving into form always so we cause it all to happen the way we think and the way we stay locked in Tydeus I think you build the image of what you want but every new create you create twice once in here once out here so we have to see yourself with what we want here now we've got an enormous deterrent in our paradigm we're conditioned genetically and environmentally and that conditionings controlling most people's lives that's why brilliant people are broke brilliant people are unhappy brilliant people never really accomplish very much they're absolutely brilliant but their paradigm is controlling them and then there's environmental conditioning we know almost all welfare recipients are fourth fifth generation welfare recipients so this is passed down generation to generation now unfortunately we're all or fortunately were all exactly the same we got exactly the same potential our spiritual DNA is perfect but that perfection never expresses itself properly because of this paradigm isn't conditioning in our subconscious mind you see so many brilliant people and they don't make it we have perception the will reason imagination memory and intuition they're they're the faculties that make us separate from everything else like all the other little creatures on the planet are completely at home in their environment weren't the only creature that's totally disoriented in their environment and that's because we've been given the faculties to create our own environment but we've never been taught how to use when John Kennedy as dr. Wernher von Braun what it would take to build a rocket that would carry a person on the moon bring him back safely to earth von Braun said he answered him in five words he said the will to do it many people here that don't really understand what he said the ability to hold that picture on the screen your mind and nothing else because the will is what gives you the ability to concentrate energy flows to and through you through concentration you increase the amplitude of vibration when the energy leaves you that's how absentee healings done through the will you know a practitioner will hold the idea they'll have the subject relaxed will be very quiet they transfer that thought right into the person subject of mine because your intuitions a mental faculty that picks up vibration and translates it in your mind it's through intuition then you get answers to your question like you asked a question the opposite side of question is an answer is the equal and opposite side so our answer comes with our question but we're not tuned into to pick it up you know like every question is an answer or the imagination of course it's it's everything so you get these higher faculties and you get using them and I start to learn how to use these and I started to see that we've got so much force that we never hear about school doesn't teaches our parents don't teaches you got to work for a company they imitate you so the odds of learning it are really slim you know and it's the reason there's so few people that really are successful in life there's all kinds of material around on success my goodness there's there's more around today than there's ever been concentration increases amplitude of vibration there's a power flow into and through us all the time it never stopped you can photograph the energy leaving the body well concentration increase it makes it more powerful so whatever you concentrate on you're giving more energy to Emerson said the only thing we grow is a thing you give energy to so as you start to learn how to utilize these higher faculties you start to learn how to improve the quality of your life and you start to see why you're God's highest form of creation intuition is a feeling that you pick up intuition reads feeling feeling is conscious awareness of vibration so you're reading vibration vibrations the natural law of the universe that your body vibrates a rather strange fact we tend to minimize the things we can do the goals we can accomplish and for some equally strange reason we think other people can accomplish things that we cannot if I were to be freer to be that was watching him looking like that disgust so good if only I could do that all of a sudden record if girls start to play in my head now right here becomes going rather strange fact we tend to minimize the things we can do the best we can accomplish damn that's what it all means the paradigm can only be changed one of two ways one is an emotional impact and repetition constants based repetition G you take this affirmation of thing I want to change and you've got to keep repeating it to yourself you've got to keep seeing it through the repetition of it pretty soon it becomes fixed in your mind then the thing you're afraid o becomes a habit you just automatically do it yeah like there's things you do automatic to today that you don't even give a thought to yeah but at one time you're afraid to do it sure so that's I think that's how you keep changing thought is a very powerful thought is the preamble to everything you think on frequencies now this has to do with goals when you set a goal you have to flip your brain on to the frequency that the good that you desire or that your need for that goal is there so you you you most people don't make the decision because they don't know how to get it you don't have to know how to get it that's why a von Braun said when Kennedy asked them how to get to the moon the will to do it you're gonna make the decision you don't make the decision when you've got enough money or when you've got all the resources you make the decision a lot of times I think people have this misconception that you know if you practice something in the morning people say to me you know down upon if I practice meditation for ten minutes every morning is that going to affect my life yes but what are you doing the remaining 23 hours and 50 minutes if you're doing things that counteract what you're doing in the morning then it doesn't help if you exercise for 10 minutes and morning and the rest of the eating you know fish and chips and drinking beer and pizza laying in the couch it's not going to help so the people I work with have kind of changed over the years and I would say in the last two three years the people I've worked with what do you really want to know is I think they've come to the realization that they know very little about the mind they're experts in their areas but they know very little about the mind and they really want to understand the mind better so that they can leverage their mind to be even better at what they do all of them want to leverage themselves better and they they feel like they have a lack of understanding of how their mind works so two things here one is wanting to a quick fix to learning you know I spoke yesterday in Munich to a group of entrepreneurs and one guy asked me so this is their quick fix to having more energy in life I'm like there's no quick fix in life is that's the first thing you have to understand and I think technology trains us to think they're quick fixes so I can go on my phone I live in New York City last week I went on Amazon ordered something at 10:30 at night and the next morning at 8 o'clock in the morning FedEx bust my door and it was there it's crazy right so I can get things instantaneously through technology and then because we're so trained to getting things as soon as we want them that we apply that to our life and we think that yeah we can change overnight and then people out there selling hacks there's this hack that's that hack how we're gonna hack this how we're gonna have business how we're gonna hack the mind how we're gonna hack the body but it doesn't work that way you have a child and your child is growing slowly and learning slowly there's no way to hack your child can you make you a three-year-old boy right you have a three-year-old boy learn walk faster toggle in triple integrals by tomorrow why don't you hack him it doesn't work all right and then why us adults do we think we can hack everything it's not sustainable and then the other thing about being a teachers that you know that's another thing that's being sold out that besides hacking it's like you know let me certify you to be a yoga teacher let me certify you to be a life coach I know you're 19 years old and you've never had any experiences in life no I have you done achieved anything that pushed you beyond the limits of your imagination but let me certify you as a life coach after a three-day weekend program and I think when you go with the idea that I'm going to learn something and then take that content and teach it you never really learn when I went to the monastery and to learn from my guru I went purely to be a student first of all I went there with the knowledge that I knew nothing I wanted to learn from him and then once I learned from him my goal was to strive to implement everything as best as possible I have zero intent to teach all right and that and I feel when you take that approach you learn the best and some of the people that I work with purely have that approach there's zero intention to teach they just really want to learn and so when you go that with that intention then you literally well like we were chatting earlier you know if someone wants to learn martial arts they want to learn the quickest world 360 kung-fu kick in the air or something you know one wants to go and do the hard work that's all about the quick fix you know how can I get from A to B as quickly as possible and it's not only about training about it's about training the mind to write the mind needs to adjust and the mind is like a muscle it needs to reshape itself to be able to take on a new way of thinking and a new way of behaving and you know progressively hold that new shape and that only comes through repetition and patience and slow hard work of doing the same thing over and over again and I think so many teachers out there are selling quick fixes and because they have never been trained themselves properly so they just they've got a quick fix learning to get from A to B so then they go and teach a quick way to get from A to B and they don't understand this whole traditional path of slowly learning and developing yourself over a period of time this is what really creates mastery in a certain level you get used to being comfortable and that's a problem right you know you stay in an apartment for long enough you stay in a city for long enough you're comfortable you know where to go buy your milk your bread you know your surroundings to get comfortable you get used to it and you know one of the biggest teaching C taught me is about awareness in the mind you're not the mind rather you're pure awareness traveling through different areas of the mind and your goal is to take your awareness from your conscious mind move it through the conscious mind through the subconscious into the superconscious areas of the mind which is the most refined areas of your mind to experience deeper in the states and ultimately self-realization guard realization but awareness travels in the mind but when you get stuck physically in the seventh place and you get used to your surroundings and your comforts your external environment is it's a reflection of how your awareness is working in your mind that means your awareness is stuck in a particular layer of the mind because there's really no separation between your inner state and your outer state and what he was teaching is that by moving me around making sure I never got comfortable long enough one place to to stay attached he was teaching me that to not allow my awareness and get stuck in a particular layer of mine and in the particular year of the mine and stay in a rut and that I could actually prime a break my awareness free from particularly the mic really grab all of it and take it deep within myself and experience deeper states of mine and all right I mean if you go on most people's timelines a lot of people's times like it's amazing you can scroll through and it's just a thousandth there's a thousand posts and it's a nine hundred and ninety nine nine pictures of themselves selfies and and I think social media has made people extremely selfish and all people think about is themselves you know here's what I'm doing look at me here look at me that you know and you look at also public figures and celebrities and influences they constantly post pictures of themselves and the amazing life traveling all around the world and you know I see and I know some of these people and they never post pictures of their students so you know who's following them it's always about them nobody spends time with themselves and when I say to people to say this to people they go like oh I have a long time every evening when i'ma walk my dog for half an hour that's my like now that's walking a dog when I'm at the gym working out that's my a long time I got like no that's being in the gym a long time is used sitting down in the chair at home or on the floor cross-legged you know no music no general no podcast the eyes closed and spending time in contemplation in a reflection not meditation but in actual reflection really having a conversation with yourself the same way we're having a conversation getting to know each other and and each other's opinions and thoughts you have a conversation with yourself and people don't do that right they don't spend any time doing that if you don't spend any time doing that how would you know what's important in your life where you're struggling and what you need to focus on next and what you need to work on you're so busy from the Melanie from the moment the alarm rings they reach over to the side table grab their phone turn off the alarm look at all the notifications and then start stroking that phone this is how people get pleasure in the morning stroking their phone and then every 10 years someone has a quote/unquote midlife crisis when they realized that they're living the life that they've never contemplated they've never planned they're not connected with right and then that's kind of life and then you're on your deathbed looking back saying what did I do why did I value these things and they're wondering why it's because they never spent the time in solitude with themselves do the work now so you can spend the rest of your life leaving a living a life that's an alignment with your purpose once you figure out what you want and what your purpose in life is then you can spend the rest of your life living a life in alignment with that purpose and you know talking about deathbed you know when my girl was dying one of the last things he said on his deathbed was what an amazing life I would not have traded it for anything in the world what an amazing life I would not have traded it for anything in the world now what words to hear from a dying man you know to be able to look back on your life and say that was freaking spectacular so when you're so determined it's when you're so clear what you want in life and you're so determined to get to get it and you're willing to give up everything and everyone for it then you're living a life in alignment with your purpose and then you can spend the rest of your life in sync with who you are as opposed to chasing so many different things around you that that sparkle whether it's you know I want to be like that person and I want to do this and that sounds fascinating maybe I'll try that for a few years you know you meet kids nowadays that are 18 19 20 years old when you ask them what do you want to do what are you studying in university oh I think I'll do science and for you and you know and then I might major in this but I was also thinking I might take a year off you know travel a little bit and then come back and I'm not sure maybe I'll do arts I'm kind of interested in this topic you not know what you want to do it's your we have one life you didn't get a second shot at this give clear what you want there's a generation of people our survival is better organized than ever before we have ability to communicate like never before we have comforts and conveniences that nobody had ever imagined it this generation by but also certain things happening one thing is there are more people on the planet today thinking for themselves than ever before otherwise the religious book was thinking for them a priest or a prime minister abdallah was thinking for them or there was one wise man was thinking for that now for the first time a huge massive number of people are thinking for themselves well you can leave eight always whether they're thinking right or wrong all that thing but at least they're thinking when I say thinking what happens to the thought process is see if two people get into an argument both the people think the other person is illogical that means in their mind there is a certain logical pattern however logical somebody may seem to in his mind he has his own logical pattern once this pattern sets up that there needs to be some logic for you to come to a conclusion of any about anything then many fanciful things that you believe like your journey to heaven and what is up there and all these things they start collapsing if you look at this generation let's say two generations ago how many people in UK thought they will go to heaven and today how many people think they're going to heaven under preparing for anything has come down dramatically 80 percent heavens have collapsed in people's minds still they don't dare to say that because there is still fear but in their reminds the aspiration of going to heaven is largely collapsed so when heavens collapse what will women beings do they will try to find it here which is a very big thing but if they if you don't show them any way to find a heaven within themselves that is when at least 80 to 85% of the population today is an alcohol or some kind of drug happening simply because they are trying to build their own little heaven because the other heaven that was promised for a long time has collapsed in there - we have come to a place where to grow our food we need chemicals to be helpful we need chemicals today 70% of the population is on prescription medications of some sort to be peaceful we need chemicals to be joyful we need chemicals to be ecstatic of course you have ecstasy so we are going towards chemicals in a huge way the water that you drink is full of chemicals there that you breathe is like that and the food that you eat is like that so if 90% of humanity goes into chemical consumption consciously or unconsciously they consume a lot of it the next generation that we produce will be of a lesser quality than that's a crime against humanity not generally always this next generation is better than the previous generation but today we are coming to a place where we will be producing the next generation which is less than us once that happens we have done something very negative against the fundamental life process so right now chemical is a LAN it is not another trapeze it's a net that you can fall into and people experience the own little heaven well it ruins you in so many ways see anything this is not a model issue for me what I am saying is the important thing about life whether it's a grasshopper out there or you both of us are striving to be the fullest possible life that we can be be a grasshopper is trying to be a full-fledged grasshopper a human being is trying to be a full-fledged human being so suppose you cut off one of grasshoppers legs which is supposed to pop the hopping leg if you take it off have you enhanced its life I'm asking you know so similarly for a human being if you take away any of his faculties in any way even temporarily have you enhanced his life so intoxication is just that it is taking away your faculties for a period of time but if you continuously do it it will take it away for your life so you're taking away or subjugate in your faculties for a little bit of pleasure or maybe a lot of pleasure whatever however you wish to describe it but the important thing is you're taking a backward step with life because life can only be enhanced by sharpening and increasing our faculties not by decreasing our faculties our ability to be active physically mentally emotionally spiritually if this is in any way crippled this means we are taking a backward step the greatest chemical factory the most sophisticated chemical factory is right here the question is only are you a great CEO or a lousy see if you are a great manager you will produce what you want from this if you're a lousy manager you do wrong things you get anxiety you get something else you get rubbish going on with the new because you are misusing your chemical factory or you don't know how to manage your chemical factory every human being wants his life enhanced if you don't show them proper ways to enhance they will find shortcuts see a man who goes to the bar or a man who goes to a church or a temple or whatever the seeking the same thing they're trying to enhance that life isn't it if you do not show them a proper way they will take whatever ways are available on the streets that's all that's why I am saying it's not a moral issue for me it is just that it sets you backward you want to go forward but it sets you backward the all human experience comes from within isn't it I don't know what kind of genius is thought of these things I know in America there must be a million books telling you how to you know make happiness from something else or somebody else but all human experience is generated from within it what comes from me then you must be the way you want it isn't it it isn't that simple enough I'm asks yes what comes from around you you may not be the way you want it but what comes from within you must be the way you want it if whatever happens within you the way you want it will you be pleased out or miserable [Music] [Laughter] you if you see most people understand complexity has intelligence if they make themselves difficult they are supposed to be intelligent making a simple thing in difficult is not intelligence making a very complex thing simple is intelligence isn't it so wrong sense of intelligence idea of intelligences enter people's minds do you think if they make a problem out of every solutions they're intelligent it no no no if you find solutions for every problem that is intelligence that's my understand see to learn ABC to learn to read and write a simple language like English I'm saying simple language just 26 alphabets Tamil language languages 212 alphabets very complex to learn a simple language you take 12 years of schooling to read write understand this what we're doing in the school you may be reading a science book but you don't know any damn science by the way neither high school takes all right so for this you're taking 12 years to transform your life you want to do it in two minutes so is that what your life is worth if your life is worthwhile this it's not even important between Maestas it amount of time and energy rather than looking for this stupid stuff of one mantra with which I will transform my life it will not happen like that that's the reason why most people have remained the way they have remained because they've not invested in their well-being [Music] the cost of your good habits is in the present and the cost of your bad habits is in the future your outcomes in life are often a lagging measure of your habits your bank account is a lagging measure of your financial habits your weight is a lagging measure of your eating habits your knowledge is a lagging measure of your learning and reading habits we think the thing that needs to change is the bank account or the test score or the number on the scale but actually the thing that needs to change are the habits that precede those outcomes that your habits reinforce a particular identity every action you take is kind of like a vote for the type of person you want to become and if you can master the right actions if you can master the right habits then you can start to cast votes for this new identity this desired person that you want to be I think that's one of the reasons why small habits matter so much they don't necessarily transform your life overnight doing one pushup does not transform your body but it does cast a vote for being the type of person who doesn't miss workouts the real goal is not to run a marathon the goal is to become a runner goal is not to write a book the goal is to become a writer because once you've adopted that identity you're really not even pursuing the behavior change anymore you're just kind of acting in alignment with the type of person you already see yourself to be if we're gonna be building habits anyway then it makes more sense to be able to understand how they work and how to structure them so that you can be the architect of your habits running the victim of them the goal is focused on the outcome a system is focused on the process if you are a writer your goal might be to rest write a best-selling book but your system is the writing process that you follow each day and like getting your butt in the chair it's your research what if you ignored the goal right if you say forget about the goal and focused only on the system would you still get results we live in a very outcome-focused society things are only news stories or shared on social media once they are a result so the results of success are very visible and easy to view like what is the difference between eating a burger and fries for lunch or eating a salad not a whole lot on any given day your body looks basically the same in the mirror the scale hasn't really changed it's really easy to dismiss it in your mind and say oh this it's kind of insignificant but you know you turn around 2 or 5 or 10 years later and you realize oh wow those daily choices really did add up it's just much harder to see on a granular basis achieving a goal only changes your life for the moment it's actually not the thing that you're looking for we think the results of the thing that needs to change but it's actually the process behind the results you don't need to lose weight you need that our eating habits and then your weight will always be around where you want it to be you don't need more money you just need better financial habits and then you'll always have enough the thing that comes up because it's all about the goal as soon as the goal is achieved you don't have that motivating you anymore but if instead it's about being a runner then even when speedin once you finish the race you still have a reason to show up again the next week in pretty much any domain true long-term thinking is really goalless thinking it's much more about being that person developing that identity following that system and then you just happen to and habits are a lot like that there they're not exactly like compound interest you know or you kind of like it hit that hockey stick portion of the curve but they really feel like that a lot it feels insignificant on any day but then you turn around ten years later it's actually you're surprised about where you end up and that's a hallmark of any compounding process that the greatest returns are delayed habits are like that too you know they they don't feel like much on any given day but they really add up over the months and years you go to college now and then you graduate in four years you save for retirement today and then you retire decades from now you show up at work this week and then you get a paycheck in a month and so it's actually like there are all kinds of things we do in modern society that require you to delay gratification so there's an immediate outcome an immediate reward and then an ultimate reward and for your bad habits one reason bad habits stick so readily that they they form so easily is because bad habits often the immediate reward is favorable meanwhile good habits are often the exact opposite the immediate reward of going to the gym or going to the gym for like a week isn't really that great your body's probably sore you don't have much to show for it your body looks the same the weight hasn't really changed but it's if you stick to that for six months or a year or two years then the ultimate reward is favourable or a lot of the challenge of building good habits and breaking bad ones is figuring out how to pull the long-term costs of your bad habits into the present moment so you feel a little bit that pain right now and ever reason to avoid it and pull the long-term rewards of your good habits into the present moment so it feels good and you have a reason to kind of make it through that like valley of death in the beginning and stick with it while you're waiting for those delayed rewards to accumulate the ultimate form of intrinsic gratification is a reaffirmation of your desired identity if you if your desired identity as I'm the type of person who doesn't miss workouts or I'm an athlete every time you're doing a squat literally you can be in the middle of the rep and you're already getting gratified because you're acting in alignment with the type of person you want to be it takes a little while to get to that point where that actually feels like you when you walk into the gym for the first time you feel veryuncertain it's not your territory you don't feel like it's your terrain but once you show up again for a week or a month or a year at some point you cross this invisible threshold where it starts to feel like yeah this is for me once you've crossed that stage it becomes more likely you can get that kind of reaction of your identity and start to instantly feel gratified we should let the behavior lead the way so let the behavior drive the belief rather than the belief drive the behavior but if you're trying to get yourself to latch on to a new identity or tell yourself a new story it's more powerful to let the behavior lead the way because the behavior provides immediate evidence that you are that kind of person I think there's something powerful about good habits become easy habits when you can learn to find joy in delaying gratification being the most connected generation in the history of mankind has its upsides but it also comes with real invisible problems and we've grown up aspiring to be our idols and that's dangerous I mean aspiring to achieve great things is fine but aspiring to be our idols is dangerous it's dangerous to want to be someone you're not it's also not possible but it's dangerous and social media has glamorized the lives of a few and we get to see their nice cars and their holidays and their wonderful lifestyle and we want that but we don't see the years and years of hustle the pain the sacrifice the natural talent they had that innate passion for their craft the incredible detail Steve Jobs saw the world in well unbelievable hardship that Richard Branson went through to get there we don't see that we just see the destination and we want land but most of us don't have and aren't willing to give what it takes to fulfill that journey because it's not our journey it's tears you're not passionate about typography or our or design but you want to be Steve Jobs you're not Steve Jobs you're you we are the generation that has confused admiration with aspiration and we never find our own happiness until we accept that we can't have anyone else's life by our own and if we realize this and focus on our own then our life will be more than enough you know young men want to be mark zuckerberg because they admire him but the crazy irony is we admire him because his life was unlike others he didn't try to be like others sure if you want to be Mark Zuckerberg it's time to stop trying to be Mark Zuckerberg because you'll never achieve your personal greatness our idols did not follow in the footsteps of their heroes there was no Bill Gates for Bill Gates to emulate he had to carve out his own path to find his own greatness each of our idols have uniqueness as their power they have the conviction to disagree the confidence to persevere and the braveness to go against the status quo instead of embracing it you know we celebrate their individuality in their lack of conformity and the audacity of their strong strong beliefs that black was equal to why their vision for a pocket computer or a more connected world or a driverless car or a personal spaceship like a go to Mars these ideas could only come from people who did not follow in the footsteps of others so my advice to my generation is don't aspire to be your hero stop trying to mimic what you see them doing strive to be yourself visionaries are not to be imitated they are to be admired trying to be someone else is a surefire way of becoming nobody at all the only great person you can become is the greatest version of yourself because all the other great people are already taken and the funny thing is once you become the greatest version of yourself people will see your life and they'll make the mistake of trying to be you too there is a recent phenomenon that's not being talked enough about in our culture and specifically in our world which is what failure is doing in our space you know we're sweeping under the rug a couple of the suicides in our space we're sweeping under the rug the heavy depression and alcohol use or sweeping things under the rug we want to show all the hoopla I hate that's going on in Instagram right now everybody living their fake life of putting up pictures of like baby giraffe so like hot chicks and $50,000 cash on a bed and a boat and painting a lifestyle that is not realistic I want to have this conversation because there is a level of talent here and what we need to all be doing is figuring out what we're best at and going all in on that defining your goals defining what the life you're trying to build is and having a real model for what you're doing and for me I try to be very clear about what I'm trying to accomplish to myself if you're doing this thing because it means something to you and you know exactly what success looks like for you it's nice because then you're not as distracted by the fact that so-and-so is posting photos of them surrounded by hundred dollar bills on Instagram or on a yacht and a Visa or whatever you want to make sure that you're not comparing yourself to other people you want to compare yourself against the progress you've made because like look some people are freaks you know what I mean like some people are just way better than you and they're always going to be better than you and they're not gonna have to work as hard as you so it's like if you're comparing yourself to them or just mimicking them that's not the right approach everyone has their demons it doesn't matter if they're like richest person of the most successful most good-looking there's some battle I feel like we're always facing it's hard adjust like I've got it all figured out and all everyone loves the people who you feel like have it most figured out are probably struggling the deepest thou knowest the man that knows not his wrestling because you don't know what each person is wrestling with inside you don't know if that beautiful celebrity is wrestling with an eating disorder you don't know if that guy who seems like he has a happy family is miserable and cheats on his wife you don't know if that person who's sold millions of albums feels like a failure because their parents never told them they love it you know you don't know what people are struggling with it it's like you can't compare yourself to them because you don't know you don't know what it costs then the world is indifferent to you and I write like the world is not the world is not only indifferent to like our personal goals like the world doesn't even care about the human race right like we could all be wiped out by like tomorrow right so it's it's that we are a very small piece of like a complex universe and the result is that things don't go the way we want them to go so I think those are the external obstacles then we put on top of that struggles with addiction or struggles with self-worth or struggles with other people you know we add to that things that make an extraordinarily difficult thing like even more difficult yeah and we don't even know it [Music] [Music] [Music]