Parents Bachon ko Time Management Kaise Sikhaen ? - Teen & Tweens S1E2

Assalam Walekum with the program Teen and Twins, I am Khurram Khurshid Nazreen. If we look at the complete system of Allah, then we understand that everything in the entire system of Allah, nature, is happening in an order. The rising of the sun, the setting of the sun, the rising of the moon, the bursting of the buds, the fruits ripening and getting ready at the appointed time, the crops getting ready at the appointed time, the status of Namaaz, the order of Namaaz, the time of Sehri and Aftah, taking care of the appropriate time, rather being punctual to it, rather if I say like this that what is life, the order of appearing in Anas, what is death, the distress of these Ajja, then we see an order in the entire system of Allah, and anyway, it is said about a successful and unsuccessful person that both have 24 hours. The person who manages his 24 hours in such a way that he makes each and every moment of his precious for himself, then success comes at the feet of such a person. And the other person who does not use his 24 hours properly, then failure is his fate. Today, to talk on all these issues and to explain to our teenagers the importance of time management and its role in today's time, we have a very amazing guest with us. I am saying amazing guest because you interact with students all the time. You are with the students. You guide the students. You mentor the students. So, when we looked to talk on this topic, we did not find a more relevant person than him because he is in interaction with students all the time and he understands the problems of students deeply. My intention is that our guest today, Mr. Rana Adil Mumtaz sahab, you are the CEO of Apex Group of Colleges and Progressive Schools. Mr. Rana Adil Mumtaz sahab, Sir, welcome to the show and you have taken time out of your time to come to our party to guide our children and our teenagers. Thank you very much for this, thank you very much to you too, thank you so much sir, Nazreen, now we will understand all these things in detail from Rana Adil sahab, but here we will take a small break and after the break we will understand all these matters from Rana sahab, welcome back Nazreen, come, let us understand from Rana Adil sahab, first of all, sir, you tell us how important time management skills are in the life of a youth, Bismillah Rahman Rahim, thank you very much to you and your team that you invited me today on such an important topic. You just said a very beautiful thing in the intro that if we look at the system of God, look at the nature of God, that entire system is running under a discipline and under a system of time management, if we offer namaz at the fixed time, then its level is different and if we offer it late, then qaza is done, but the time you offer it, you get less importance from it, rather Rana sahab, I got an idea from your talk that We also have a Punjabi expression to explain that 'vele the namaz to kable diya takra' (then when the prayer is performed, then it is called 'hajj'). So, I think that from this we should understand its importance that the sun rises and sets at its time. And even if we talk about Hajj along with namaz, then its day is Makh Sus. Its time is Makh Sus. How much time do you have to stand and in what time do you have to reach where. This entire mechanism, the entire system, if it works under discipline, then I think that it will have better performance. And this is what we got as well. We read all the books and the teachings of Nabi Kareem Salla Wasallam, then there is absolutely no second opinion in this. And the most important thing in discipline is time management. Yes, if you do not have time management and you do an important work that you have to do in the next one hour, in a very good manner after four hours, then you will not get that result. If you are sitting for your final exam, you have to write your exam in three hours or two hours, then if you do n't have time management, you have a lot of material, you know a lot and you want to write a lot, but if you do that three-hour work in three and a half hours, then obviously you will not get marks out of 100. Then you will get marks based on the number of papers you have attempted. So it means that how much you know, how much knowledge you have, how much you know, all that is in its place, but if it is not delivered on time, then there is no value to it, you will not get any benefit. Yes, you interact with students, you are with students, you mentor them, especially you see the lack of time management skill in our teenagers today, it is definitely there, remember one thing that most of the time in our education system, when children are not able to perform or we do not get results of that level in our country, then all our waste is wasted. They put the blame on the youth, the youth alone is nothing, it means that if a child is born in a house, he is brought up in that house, he grows up and the whole society takes him along and often when my followers tell me that the child has changed, I say that the child has not changed, the child is being born in the same nature as he would have been born a few years ago, like we were born or the generation before us, what is the difference that the child who is being born in today's era is i 14 p and we are still stuck in 3310, so if we remain stuck in 3310 and he is i 14 p, then we will never be able to align ourselves with him in a better way, now what will happen to it that first we will have to upgrade ourselves a bit, we will have to leave our place, when we leave our place, the child will also be ready to leave his place, so obviously and the issue of time management is not coming only in the youth, now the challenges of time management The problems that have reached the youth because of us, I think that it has reached the teenagers, in that we, asaja karam, I think that they are very much guilty as compared to that teenager, so unless we ourselves do not improve our time management and the child does not learn it from us and does not watch us one on one, he will not be able to improve it in a better way. Absolutely Ran Saheb, here while we go on, please also tell us that how in this work, what I have understood from your point till now that this is basically a communication gap between today's generation and the teachers or between the parents, which you said that this communication gap should end, how to end it, see, I will now explain a small example to you, I tell my asaja karam that there was a time when if I see my university pictures today, then the trousers or pants that I am wearing in it, for example, were of 20 The bottom is his fifth and that is of 20. Now the child whom I am going to teach is wearing a fifth of 12, so he will not accept me with 20. Well, I should not even go to 8, I should not even go to 10, I should at least go to 12, I should at least go to 14, I should not look like an alien among those children. I will have to understand his gadgets a little while sitting with that child because if I do not understand his gadgets or if I do not understand PUBG, what are its benefits, what are its disadvantages, or the children who play X-box or the children who play different video games today, if I consider it a no-go area, then that child will also consider me a no-go area. If I keep listening to 70s songs in the car with my child all the time, then neither will I understand rap, nor will he be ready to listen to my songs, so sometimes I will also want to listen to rap with him. Whatever I like or don't like, if I don't like it, how do I expect that he likes the songs of the 70s, of course. So, we will have to align these things a little bit, we will have to be a little closer to him. Our today's youth, teenagers, you cannot stop them from this flood. We must accept one thing absolutely that this globalization, all these things are coming like a flood. If you say that we will stop it by putting a ban on it, then we cannot stop it. Today, a child, we are sitting here today, if anyone wants to watch us live or watch our recording, then in whichever corner of the world, they can be watching within no time, at the same time, at the time we are watching, they can also watch it, it is such a big flood, a ban cannot be put on it, you will have to channelize it, like when you come from a river to an ocean, or go from the river to the ocean, or you take out canals from the river, then you make a head on it and Then the head channels it and then slowly it takes the shape of small skins and then slowly it goes and irrigates the crops but if I say that I will come and irrigate the whole river then it will not be beneficial, it will cause harm, so to channel us a little, Rana Adal sahab, today taking advantage of your presence, I would like to understand that suppose a teenager has come to you and he has said that sir I am a first year or second year student and please make me a time table or help me to make a time table and then I can do all my activities according to it so that I can get good results, so what time table can you suggest to him, first of all remember one thing that our teacher is also a big mistake and parents are also a big mistake, if there are four boys or two daughters in the house, they are not six alike, yes absolutely, it means that this will be such a doctor who will give the same treatment to each one of them. He will give the tablet, yes, this is such a doctor that without understanding the disease, without understanding the routine, he will tell everyone to just take these tablets, he will try to cure everyone with injections or drip drip, this does not happen, so first of all we will have to see what are his likes, what are his dislikes, what is his challenge at this time, it is the issue of his getting up late because if we impose Marshall all of a sudden, then the community will not accept it, so that child is a big youth, how will he accept it, so first of all if any child comes to me, I will have to sit with him, I will have to see what his parents do, is his mother a working lady or she is busy in household chores, what does his father do, what is his old track record, what are his marks in matriculation, then according to that I will have to give him a proper time management and then his liking or disliking will be very much limited, there are some children who want to play a little sports, there are some children who are very much into studies and are very good in studies. There are some children who are a little average, so first of all I will have to see what is his routine and which routine is disturbing his time management, then I will have to set his priority, what is his priority, after doing many sessions with him on that priority, I will be able to decide what his priority is and then how to divide it, Rana sahab, here I want to tell you a very beautiful thing, at this time many parents are watching us, you are talking a lot about his priority, his like, his home environment, now when you go on telling in this order, then all the parents watching us at this time will get a very good outline, so please continue in this, first of all, I think that when our child comes in the first year, second year, then it is happening just like this that he is moving towards becoming a strong person very fast when the child is up to the age of four, five years, six years. So it is just like a plaster of Paris, through which the religion has also explained to us that first the environment of the house, first make him convincing, push your child to become a doctor, it is absolutely mine, what is his fault now if he wants to become an engineer or he wants to come in the field of IT but we are trying that no no, it was your grandfather's dream that I should become one, I could not become one because of the circumstances brother, the circumstances were not like that, so I could not become one due to some reason or I did not have the interest, useless is a very harsh word, I think sometimes you do not have the interest, no, by the way, it is the sign of good teachers that good teachers, strict like you, also call words useless, so how can Allah call such a wonderful creation, so Allah himself says that this is my most beautiful Takht, so Allah's most beautiful Takht cannot be useless, the problem is that I want it to do that for which Allah has not made it or sometimes it itself wants to do that. The purpose for which Allah has not created him, so one thing is that unless you do not strengthen the foundation of that child from day one at home, then the Markaz will have to be decided alone [Music] Idarapalle, these parents we want that everything will not change overnight, what do you mean by Markaz in this sentence of yours, what do you mean by Markaz, what is our direction, what should be our lifestyle, our matters, our system of living, what should we keep as its focal point, like we have a compass, so we decide around it that how big a circle we have to draw, yes, the issue is that at the same time we have become slaves of so many societies, we want to become Europeans completely, we suddenly become Pakistani, the Muslim Ummah also awakens inside us, so what happened was that we became victims of a lot of confusion. Before partition, our ancestors saw the Hindu religion, then The white man came and then we tried to copy the white man as well. Our marriages are similar to theirs, our lifestyle, we want American style kitchen and the Nikah should be completely according to Sunnah, Mehndi and everything, so much of it has confused us so you will have to see first of all Sir, I am sorry to say this, from your conversation it seems as if we have got lost somewhere in this whole process, it is right sir, it is right that we will have to see, we will have to revive things and I think the point is coming from somewhere else, if we come back to our point, then I feel that first of all we will have to see our children inside the house, what is their passion, sir, and until we do not support them in that passion, do not become a part of it, then their passion will not improve further, what will happen is that when we keep on suppressing it, it will not end because somewhere inside them, Allah has seen the desire to become a traveler Some have the capability to become a doctor, some have the capability to become a good auth or some have the capability to become a good mathematician, so what will happen gradually is that it will not end but it will keep getting pressed and it will take the shape of a spring and that personality will wither and then when that spring will come out very fast, it will harm the family as well as the society and the system as well, so first of all, until the parents do not consider them as their friends and do not take care of the conversation or the desire of that child, and not only that, but the field in which he wants to go or you feel that he is better for this area and until we do not study him ourselves, we will not be able to help him and you cannot bind a person because if it was only to bind then so many punishments, so many systems would not have worked, even Allah knows that there is a little diversion in this creation of mine, yes, you must decide that in the basics. That these are its basics, he will not move away from it, he wants to go a little left or right, so it is natural in that, you do not need to be in a hurry to snub him or disturb him, so first of all you yourself will have to discipline the environment of the house, if I want that my children do not use gadgets after 10 o'clock, then first of all I have to discipline that, if I want my children to sleep at 10 o'clock, then I myself will have to go to bed at 10 o'clock, it is not possible that I tell the children that no, I have office work, so I have to use the mobile even after 10 o'clock, yes I can put them to sleep at least at 10 o'clock, when I am satisfied, then if I am helpless, then I can use it to talk, but in front of them you will have to act like that, you will have to fulfill it because the child iterates, yes and if I want them to be punctual, then when I promise them that if I am reaching at this time, then I should reach at that time, so first of all, what is our basic problem, we should fix ourselves Instead of doing this, they want to fix everything else. This will not happen until a person works on himself because however much great leadership you bring out in the world, the greatest leadership is that of Nabi Karim Salam, we see that he showed his shame in his leadership. If I myself am not a five-time Namaaz performer or if I myself do not speak the truth or if my time table is not proper or if I myself do not do time management or I myself have not learnt to say no in life, see, the first thing to learn in time management is the ability, need and courage to say no. Rana Adil sahab, you have said such a beautiful thing right now, since you asked me for a break, sir, after the break, I will understand from you that time management joke is our topic today, this power to say no or the courage to say no and what is its relation with time management and then what are its benefits, we will understand all these things from Rana Adil sahab. Here we will take a small break and after the break, we will start the conversation from here. Welcome back viewers, just before the break, Rana sahab will say You were saying that learn to say no, Rana Adil sahab, what is the relationship between saying no and time management and by the way, a common question with this is what are the benefits of saying no, see, first of all we have to set priorities, if our priority is our children's studies, if there is any time for our children to play or Kokari sahab's time or time to learn something new, then that is a proper timeline of yours which you have to follow, if within those timelines you know that because we have very few opportunities, there are very few opportunities for players, if we talk about Lahore, then there are only a few parties or indoor parks, what happens because of that is that by spending time with families, we blow away that deficiency, absolutely, so until we do not bring our working style and our work in relevance with our priorities, then you cannot achieve the required result for that. You will have to learn to say no. Even if it is a very close wedding, then you know that if our son or daughter is going for three days, it is a compulsion, but if you have to go for that wedding for 10 days or 15 days, then you will have to learn about that. No, we are available for three days. We cannot afford this event or this work for more than three days. So, that is why we are not able to grow. For the sake of that course, we become ready to do all that or we compromise on our children's future because our child is watching us. When you yourself stand up and say that no, yes, if we have to go to this event and going to that event is disturbing our child's timetable, then when we say no in the presence of our child, then the child will understand one thing that the priority in the environment of my home, in this environment, is my timetable, my matters and my studies. If we have done that, then unless we ourselves do not learn, our children will also not learn. So if you have done time management, you have made a time table, but if you are repeatedly troubled by your external forces, sometimes a cousin comes, sometimes an aunt comes, the aunt says no, let it be for a day, what if an aunt comes or an uncle comes, those uncle, aunt and aunt did not come at that time when that child got the tag of failure by God, rather they have to sit in their house and say that they saw it, then for that I think that we should learn to say no, it is a good thing, but we should not take the chair at our own cost, Allah Rabbal Izzat has given us a great understanding that we should know what is right and wrong and it will not happen within that course that we take our meat or our tomorrow, our future, we take it to stake, in this context I think that your time management, your time table, all will be of no use if you do not have the ability to say no. If there is no capacity, how much impact the peer group has on a child's timetable, yes, like I was just talking to you as an example, the cousins ​​come, they come only when they have time, they probably would have done their share of work or will go and do it, but your own work was getting disturbed, once in a blue moon it can be okay, I mean once in a week or once in a month, you make a little plus or minus of your time table and your time management, but if you start doing it regularly, then your time management, your time table, everything will flop, so and so issue which comes along with the parents, is of the peer group, yes that is a word we often use, Colonel ji, Colonel ji, what happens is that because of the cousins, those children go somewhere, that aunt's son has come, uncle's son has come, there is such and such wedding, there is such and such event. So and so and so cousin may have finished his work and is saying no. See my valuable asset is my children who will carry forward my name and will carry forward my legacy. For that I need to be very firm. And believe me once you learn to say no in life then life becomes very easy. Well while saying no we need to keep one thing in mind that is it that I can do this work then I am saying no out of habit then Allah likes it then the work gets spoiled. That is you have to say no when it clashes with your time table and if there is any scope in your time table and someone can benefit from it then you should definitely compromise on that, Allah will be happy but if you say no with bad intentions then that is wrong, there are some people who have no on their nose only, they are not right, you have to decide which is better out of these so you should follow that thing, then I think you can do it in a better way. You can manage your time, in what ways should parents keep an eye on their child's peer group and how should they help their child so that he or she makes friends with such children or he or she makes friends with such children who themselves live their lives according to a schedule and a time table. See, the most important role in this is that of the mothers first of all, well, I wanted to ask this a while ago that what you are saying about learning to say no, now I am connecting it with that, should the mother learn to say no more or the father should learn to say no, now in the corporate sector also the term good cow, bad cow is used and at home also there should be good cow, bad cow, it should be decided who wants to become bad, who wants to become a good cow, so that has to be decided, yes one has to become that and after becoming that you will have to explain, no, no, if the mama is not agreeing then it cannot happen, either she does not listen to me, how will she listen to you, so that good cow, bad cow concept should definitely be inculcated in the house because even if both become good, the work is bad, if both become bad then If the work is bad, then for the upbringing of the child, we have to make one stand, his face will have to stand as a hero and the other will have to stand and later on the child understands that both are heroes for me sir, you see when the child reaches a certain age in his life, then he feels relieved, rather he says that my father is strict with me, whatever I am today is because of my father, that child confesses that if my father had not been so disciplined with me, then perhaps I would not have been anywhere today. So the role of mothers is very important in this because mothers spend most of their time at home, but they have to make friends and become such a friend who has so much morality that if any of his friends is going to do something at such a time which can be a challenge to his personality or his future, then he should have the courage to hold his hand, not to be such a friend who says let's go do this work, even if he knows that it is a wrong thing, then he says that he has to do it in the name of friendship, come sit down and what is happening here Here if a friend comes to another friend and says something wrong, then he also says that you are not my friend, then the listener says that okay, so one should not become such a friend, one should become such a friend who stands with him in good times, if he feels that yes, he is doing 1920, then the mother should be such a friend who can hold his hand, even the father, so the mother has a very important role in this and somewhere both are obviously playing their respective roles, but most of the time is spent by the mother, so if the father also has to take a stand somewhere, then he should say no to him. Now we come to the topic of peer group, due to which we have then in the meantime one thing came up, what is the role of parents in the peer group, beyond this, just look at us, one thing we should decide in life, they say that the more you sit in the gathering of kings, the more you are less than them and you yourself are not a king, then a time will come when you will probably become a victim of such inferiority, so one thing is there is a need to balance it, peer A big issue is coming up within the group today. Some families can afford it and so they provide such gadgets and facilities to the children which you, even though you can afford it, do not want your children to have. Since today he is not of that age and today he does not have the time, you will definitely provide it to him but at an appropriate time. So, the peer pressure peer group is at this time too much of our meeting each other more than needed, spending more time with each other than needed, this is a very important thing for you Sir, here I would like you to explain this and define this a little bit, Sir, meeting each other too much, see, come into a discipline, when we are already talking about time management, then how is that possible for you if you are not in discipline, meaning if my brother's house is four houses away, then where is it written that I have to go there with the children every day or my brother has to come here with the children every day, so we have to make a routine, not that we have to meet once a week or we have to meet once in 10 days. And then we will also have to decide that if any of our brothers has a lot of blessings from Allah, Allah has blessed you as well, but you want that my children should not have these blessings, at an appropriate time I will give him convenience, give him the word of convenience, it is better, so I want right now that no, I am not the judge of this right now, I mean if I look around me, my son is not 18 years old yet, then all his classmates, all his cousins, they all ride bikes, they all drive cars, so this is a big pressure for me, right? Yes, he is also driving, he is also driving, if his cousins ​​have a mother or if his cousins ​​have any such gadgets which I want my children not to have right now, then it is very difficult to see how to manage it in the situation, in that situation, unless you sit and chat with them, you will not spend much time with them and you will not take care of them, you will not love them, without them this will happen. It is not possible with strictness. If we say that we will be able to do it with strictness, then it is not possible and we should try that in those families which have such gadgets, in those families where there is no order that if a child is below 18 years of age, he should not ride a bike or drive a car, then in a way we should slowly and very little interact with those families so that there is pressure of that in your house because what is happening now, earlier it used to happen that whenever someone used to come home, some new thing would reach the house, but now since this mobile internet and all these things have come, whether he comes home or not, all these things are present in the house all the time, so you have to be more vigilant in this. Nazreen Rana Adil sahab's conversation has life learning tips and life learning things in it to such an extent that I myself get so engrossed in them that one, I forget that I have to talk about something else next and I forget to remember this also and when my cameraman signals me to take a break also, we are with sir We will talk about the rest after the break, so viewers, we will take a small break here and the conversation will start from here. Welcome back to the Nasan program, Teen and Twins. Today, our guest with us is Rana Adil Mumtaz Sahib, from whom we are not only understanding but also learning very interesting things. Before the break, we were talking to Rana Sahib about parents and peer group, how parents should work on their child's peer group, so in the meantime we had to take a break, sir. Let us connect the conversation from there. See, in this, first of all we will have to believe that out of all the assets that Allah has given me in this world, the most valuable asset is my children. That's absolutely right, through which my future generations will continue, through which my legacy will continue, until we do not consider it valuable, see, we find our business, our job, our matters valuable, so we reach them on time, at 9:00 am, at 10:00 am, whichever one, we put all our energy into it. You should give 18 hours to that work. Yes, we definitely have to consider the upbringing of our children as our own work. So, while continuing here, a question arose in me from your conversation that will you guide such parents today, where the father is also working, the mother is also working, and when they come back home tired, then their own energy does not allow them to give proper time to their children. You should advise such families while continuing here. What happens is that often when we see parents, their Sunday is spent sleeping or watching TV, so the issue is not of time, the issue is of priority, even though you are tired, if I feel that if I invest in this place, and I will get this investment of mine in a few years, I don't know how many times it will grow, and even if I don't get it, then he becomes such a person that he will be successful in this world and the hereafter, so I think I should start giving time to him. I will do it, rather Rana sahab, if time is spent with him then its impact will reach generations, so we have to spend that valuable time, we have to spend such a time in which we learn to live a life of four hours, five hours, six hours in one hour and until we spend that time we will not be able to manage ourselves, such parents have Saturday and Sunday available, at 5, 6, 7:00 people get free, dining table is available with you, you can prepare breakfast in the morning, you can go to drop your children in the morning, so there are lots of ways that you can collaborate with them, some days parents collaborate, some days parents collaborate, on Sunday we sum up, we do some book reading by making our children sit, we read a book in front of them, sitting with them, we watch such movies on Sunday which can be good for those children and us, we take him with us to the mosque, we take him with us, I mean like my elder son who takes him to school He is fond of playing snow, so sometimes I go to play with him. Unless I get attached to him in his hobby, he will not be ready to listen to me. That means, as per the rules of management, we always explain this to our team, our people, or especially the sales people, that you should not sell your thing that you want to sell. You should try to fulfil the dream of the person with whom you are sitting. So whatever thing of yours will be sold as a bio product, it will be sold as a bio product. So the thing is that unless I do not connect with him in his hobby, which is justified, yes, of course, how will he connect with me in difficult times. This means that Rana sahab, such parents who come back from work and get engaged in mobiles and telephone calls and long calls should stop dreaming that their children will be successful. Only those children will be successful who spend quality time, as you said. Yes, yes, yes. Rana sahab please tell us how to prioritize the tasks of a child i.e. what things should he give top priority and along with his academic life, he should also take along his extra-curricular activities and move ahead in a better way. First of all you should see which work gives you happiness, yes Bakul and if you say that the child should do only that work which is his studies and he will never be able to do everything in a proper way, he will have to balance it, he should have time for playing or for whatever hobby he has, if he wants to play video games or wants to go to the ground and play, he should have time for that, if he wants to make paintings or do anything and then along with that he needs to manage his own time and then we have to see that at this time there is one more thing which is very important which children also need, we will have to see that we will have to box ourselves in urgent and important things when Exams are coming near, so your studies have become urgent and then it is already important too, if you have some time then you have to see that at that time I have only five months, so your time table will be of some other kind, as you are coming nearer to the exams, your time table, your time management will start developing in some other way, if you follow the same time table through out the year, then that is not possible, otherwise you will have to bring it within a month and then within a week and then write it down properly and how to maintain balance in it, see the balance, so as I told you that first of all see what you like doing because if I am not feeling good because what is happening nowadays is that there is so much destruction, there are so many gadgets, there is so much that when we tell the child to leave all this and just hold on to this, then he goes more towards rebellion, he goes into more reaction, so we also need to make a proper time table for him and take care of it. It is that you have a choice of one hour or one and a half hours, one day you can go to play football, one day you can go to play cricket, one day you can sit at home and play video games or do anything, call friends home, go to friends' house, so if he has that one time which he gets rid of the whole day's fatigue, the whole day's work, his challenges, in that one and a half hour he gets motivated, so until he is happy for that one and a half hour, that happiness is actually his fuel, of course, and when you give him that fuel and then he will know that yes, now after 24 hours I will get one and a half hour or two hours, then his next 18-20 hours will pass well, but if you lock that poor fellow in a box, then he will feel that maybe I am imprisoned, he will have to balance it a little, so sir, it means that you are saying that until the child does not get that fuel, his academic performance cannot improve, so this fuel should be provided to him, parents should be helpful in this, okay, one more thing here I will do this a lot. We hear examples of what we are trying to do in life, that the fish climbs the tree and the monkey starts progressing, along with the parents also need to see that not all of us came to this world to become doctors, not all of us came to blast academically, each one has his own character, his own role, you need to make the child understand this important thing by making him a principle that son, do not do any such thing which is not right according to our country's laws or according to the deeds of Allah, do not do any such thing which will make you regret in the coming life, do not do any such thing which will make you waste 24 hours of your time, now if his academic performance is a little 19-20, I often say this that this youth may be okay or a little average in academics but they should be extraordinary in co-curricular activities because you will depend your whole life on academics. If you are not street smart, if you do not have the ability to take on challenges, problems, issues and how to react to them, then academics alone will not be of any use to you. So balance is very important, Rana sahab. Now our program is in the last stage. We have to identify those major distractions. Look at your child's timetable. Firstly, with the help of the doctors, I will again say the same thing that not all of them are the same. Someone's destruction is something else, someone's destruction is something else. Someone's destruction is different from the principles of this world. Is my child doing something that is causing him to get overloaded? And your basics are because you are doing some job or the other all the time in your life. So, I often tell students that it is your job to study, so if you are not doing your job well, then you are playing as good football as you can, either play such good football, play so well that Real Madrid takes you. Play well so that you get a place in the Pakistan football team, but if you are stuck somewhere in the middle, then you are definitely getting happiness, but if your studies are getting compromised, then it will be a little difficult for you to make a place, so if there is a balance, then the parents know it very well that we can make a list and give them 20 destructions, everyone knows it and it is not my idea, I need to spend time in telling everyone about 10-12 destructions, MashaAllah, the wise parents, we know it very well, but a parent knows better what is the destruction of my child and how to mold that destruction in a better way, viewers, very beautiful conversation, in fact, such a beautiful conversation that just in this hobby, I have asked thousands of things, I want to see your beauty and your beauty expressed, in the conversation we had with Rana Adil sahab today, we understood that before teenagers and tweens, these Parents need to pay attention to this. If parents take care of their children and themselves, rather from Rana Adil Sahab's conversation we understood that if parents fix their timetable, learn to say no, evolve with their children, and help and support their children in the things they like, then their son, their daughter will become a successful youth, a successful city dweller and a successful Pakistani. So we should take advantage of today's conversation in this program and the detailed experiences and thoughts that Rana Adil Sahab shared with us. On this we end today's program. Keep watching Ra TV.