A Woman TRULY LOVES AND RESPECTS A MAN If She Does This

All right, let's face it gents at the end of the day what most men want is pretty simple to feel appreciated, respected, and like you are the hero in your woman's story. Now, when a woman truly loves and respects a man it's not about big gestures it's about the little things that hit straight to your core. Let's look at some of the insights gleaned from men over the years who have felt that genuine love and respect from a woman they have been with. Now, if you just need to know how to meet women you're going to want to sign up for my coaching call it's not with me but watch this video first because it'll help you know what to look for. Yes, and if you're new to my channel my name is Anna Jorgensen I help good men like you decode women so you can find, attract, and keep your keeper or simply have better relationships with women. And women can also learn to understand men better. Let's bridge the gap. Welcome to Just The Tip. Okay, so let's look at what men have appreciated about their keepers what modern women can do to receive a good man's affection and what men can do to help encourage these positive behaviors in women. Let's jump in. Number one, she trusts your judgment. When a woman trusts a man to make decisions it shows she values his intellect and capability. Now, this doesn't mean she's a yes to anything woman but she does know when to let him lead and she supports his choices. Whether it's something as big as a career change or as small as choosing a new restaurant that trust signals respect. Key point, even if she loves you she needs to respect you to get right for you. Example, you suggest a new vacation spot and she says, okay, let's go with your choice. You're great at making choices for trips or I know you'll be great at planning this trip for us or our first trip. Just the tip, even if a man is not good at making choices he can't get better without practice and men are not inspired to practice if women berate the outcomes of their practice choices. When she does support him what a man thinks when she doesn't second guess every decision I make I feel like she believes in me and that makes me want to be even better for her. A woman truly loves and respects you if she encourages you to make decisions and expresses her trust in your abilities. Uses affirming language like I know you've got this. If she's unsure about a decision she asks questions without judgment. Can you walk me through why this is the best choice? I'm just really not sure I see it yet help me out. Also, she's gentle when your decisions don't work out the way you both hoped. She reassures you after you make mistakes this doesn't change how I feel about you and she focuses on your strengths. You have so many amazing qualities this does not define you. She also shows consistent affection even during tough times ladies. Okay, so question for the men when was the last time you received praise from a woman? Question for the ladies when was the last time you gave a man appreciation for his decision-making skills large or small? Homework, pay attention, provide praise. How a man can encourage a woman to love and respect him? Be consistent and reliable so she can feel confident trusting you. Explain your thought process when making decisions to help her understand. Hint to the ladies men must mansplain when we don't get it. Also, show appreciation when she supports your choices by saying something like, you know what thanks for trusting me on this it means a lot. Organize thoughtful romantic outings considering her preferences. Question for the fellas has there ever been a time when you felt frustrated by a woman resisting your choice because you expected her to just get it? Homework, pay attention and provide patience. Two, she appreciates your efforts. Men thrive simply with acknowledgement from women whether it's fixing a squeaky door or planning a thoughtful date or working overtime to provide men need to know their efforts matter when a woman takes the time to sincerely say thank you or I see how hard you're working. It's not just nice it's affirming. Example, after he spends hours assembling her new shelving unit from Ikea she smiles and says thank you for taking care of that. I know it took a lot of time and I really appreciate you. Bonus, if she cooks your favorite meal yes, I did say that. What a man thinks when she notices the little things I do for her even if it's something small it makes me feel like I matter to her. A woman truly loves and respects you if she makes it a habit to sincerely thank you for both big and small efforts. If you're stressed she offers you support with words like I just want you to know that I see how hard you're working for us and I appreciate it. Uses specific language like I noticed you cleaned your car before our road trip that was really thoughtful of you. Thank you. Acknowledges when you are prompt with her requests. Thank you for doing that so quickly you're amazing. Now, how a man can encourage a woman to love and respect him well, be vocal about your efforts without bragging. Women's be kind. You could say you know what I got the dealership to put the winter tires on your car this afternoon you'll be safer when it gets icy. You can respond graciously to her appreciation I'm glad you noticed. It feels good to make sure that you feel safe. If you promise to fix something or do something get it done promptly. Question for men and women when was the last time you voiced appreciation for the effort from the opposite sex? Homework praise him or her today. Number three, she speaks to you with kindness. Men are more sensitive than they're given credit for. When a woman speaks with kindness even during disagreements it makes a man feel respected. Just the tip kindness is not the same as weakness. Example, during an argument instead of snapping she takes a breath or 10 and says I don't agree with you but I do want us to figure this out together. What a man thinks when she doesn't raise her voice or talk down to me even when we don't agree that's the kind of respect that makes me want to work through things instead of blowing up or shutting down. A woman truly loves and respects you if she takes a deep breath or 10 before responding during heated moments. Uses teammate language how can we solve this together? Shows empathy by saying something like I think I get where you're coming from even if I don't fully agree. Bonus points if she adds is this what you mean dot, dot, dot. She reiterates what she thinks you meant. Just the tip women have a lower neurological threshold for stress than men do. So, during a heated discussion if she can't find the right words to help you understand her she may feel frustrated and flooded by that which means it's not as much about you as her inability and frustration with her lack of ability to handle her own emotions and it's just biological. I'm so sorry for men and women that this is something we have to all deal with. Okay, so how can a man encourage a woman to love and respect him? Well, lead by example speak to her with kindness even in tough situations. Create an environment where kindness is the norm by addressing issues promptly and constructively. Hint, sweeping things under the rug builds mountains of bad habits and resentment. Express gratitude for her calmness I'm so glad we can work through things together in a calm way. If she's a hugger randomly give her hugs when you sense she's stressed. Okay, so just the tip a warm hug a 20-second embrace can help release feel-good hormones which reduce stress and anxiety and build a deeper bond. So, question for you all when you're upset with your mate do you err on the side of kindness or contempt? Be honest homework apologize for a time you know you were unkind without needing anything back from the other person. Be brave even if it was a while ago. Four, she shows a genuine interest in your passions whether it's your obsession with classic cars or hiking trails or your fantasy football league. A man deeply appreciates when a woman takes an interest in what lights him up. It's not about faking it but about showing curiosity and supporting his hobbies. So, for example, for example, she noticed you working on a model plane and says that looks awesome. What's your favorite part about building those? What a man thinks when this happens when she watches my favorite team with me or asks me about the guitar riff I've been working on. It makes me feel like she actually does care about what I love. That's not a terrible thing. A woman truly loves and respects you if she asks open-ended questions about your hobbies. What got you into that? Or joins you occasionally mind if I watch you work on that? A guy encourages you I love how passionate you are about nature or hiking or whatever. How a man can encourage a woman to love and respect him. Share your passions openly without expecting her to dive in immediately. Invite her to join you in a low-pressure way. Want to check out the car show with me this weekend or whatever? Show interest in some of her passions as well. Question for all of you is there someone you like or love who has a hobby or passion you've never really inquired about? Homework ask them about it. Five, she gives you space to be yourself. Now, every man needs a little bit of his own time and space to think, to recharge, or just to be. And a woman who respects his independence and even encourages his personal space and growth well, that sends a powerful message. I appreciate you for who you are not for how much time I can get from you. Example, you mentioned you need a weekend to go hiking alone. She trusts that you're not seeing five other women and responds with you know what, that sounds like a great idea. I'll miss you but I'm glad you're doing something for yourself that you love. What a man thinks, she never makes me feel guilty for needing my own time. That makes me feel really understood by her and trusted. A woman truly loves and respects you if she respects your downtime without taking it personally. Ladies, encourages you have a great time recharging or enjoy poker night. Also, she uses positive reinforcement. I love that you take care of yourself. Now, how can a man encourage this kind of positive behavior to love and respect him? Well, be open about your need for space. I need some time to clear my head. It's not about us, I'll be back. Now, bonus if you say it like Arnie which I did poorly. Next, reassure her of your commitment. I always come back missing you and feeling better and more present for you. Encourage her to take her own time for self-care. Hey, maybe it's time for a spa day or send her random affectionate messages when you are around and let her know that when you are MIA texts will be a little bit less or fewer or you know what I mean. Question, have you ever been in a relationship where you felt suffocated? Did you discuss it or shut down and flee? Homework, reflect on what you could do differently next time. Six, she encourages you to pursue your goals. A woman who truly loves and respects a man gently pushes him to aim higher and supports his dreams. She believes in his potential even when he doesn't and she cheers him on. Example, you are hesitant about applying for a big promotion. She says, you've got everything it takes for this, go for it. I believe in you. Now, what does a man think when a woman says something like this? Well, when she supports my goals it makes me feel unstoppable. Knowing she has my back gives me the extra confidence to try. A woman truly loves and respects a man respects you if she talks about your aspirations positively. What's something you'd love to achieve? Or says something like, you know what? You've got what it takes to make it happen how can I support you? Or that's an amazing goal what's the next step? She also celebrates your wins big and small. I'm so proud of what you've accomplished so far. Also, she celebrates your progress I'm so proud of how far you've come. So, how can a man encourage a woman to love and respect him in this respect? Well, be open about your ambitions. You know what? Here's something I've been thinking about doing show appreciation for her support. You know what? Thanks for believing in me even on the tough days it means a lot. Share your progress and challenges ah, this is a big one. I hit a roadblock today and I'm working through it but tonight call of duty is calling me. Just that tip be preemptive women know when you're stressed and that stresses them. Let her know you're dealing with something but it will be okay. Women feel less stressed and less anxious when you tell her about your stresses as long as you reassure her and show her that you are handling them. Question for the fellas have you ever felt rushed, pushed, pressured or persuaded by a woman when you were feeling down and out? Question number two in your own opinion were you letting solutions marinate a little too long or were you actually taking steps to fix the situation? Homework take one action step today toward your goals which brings us to number seven she supports you emotionally. Now, this one is underrated but critical life throws curveballs and a man deeply values a woman whose presence and encouragement during tough times are rock solid. However, there is a limit and a man can't get stuck in the rut forever. Just the tip if it's a major life situation dealing with one of the big D's death, disease, disaster in my opinion a good woman will give you up to a year to process it assuming two things one you've proven you have overcome difficulties in the past and two at some point depending on the situation you are actually showing signs of making headway through the challenge. Example, you're having a hard day at work she says you know what I am here for you if you want to vent or we can just relax and watch an action flick. Bonus point if she says or if you're up for some fun I'll meet you in the bedroom the fun room. What a man thinks when she doesn't try to fix everything for me but simply is just there for me with no pressure it makes all the difference. A woman truly loves and respects you if she respects when you don't want to talk about it. You know what I'm ready to listen but only if you want to talk about it maybe it's a good night for Minecraft. Also, she provides reassurance whatever happens we'll handle it together. She offers your kind of help what can I do to make things easier for you right now or if you need to go in your man cave for a while go I'll still be here reassure him you're stronger, smarter, braver whatever his fear is stronger than you think. How a man can encourage a woman to love and respect him. Be open about your feelings you know what I'm having a rough day but I really don't want to talk about it right now. Hint, this way she knows it's not about her. Acknowledge her support thanks for being here it makes a huge difference. Reciprocate when she needs emotional support by listening not fixing. Question for everyone are you struggling with something that you need to talk about or maybe don't need to talk about? Homework, share it if you don't have anyone to share it with share it in the comments support each other. If you're new to the wingman family please know I encourage all of you to support, help, advise and encourage each other in the comments. Don't take it personally if someone is offering some suggestions. Eight, she values your input in the relationship. A man feels loved when his opinions and ideas about the relationship are actually considered and respected. When a woman involves him in decisions and actually listens to his perspective it can strengthen their bond. Example, let's say she's planning a trip and she says you know what I was thinking of these options. What do you think? What a man thinks when she asks for my input it makes me feel like we're in a relationship together and that my preferences actually matter too. How novel. A woman truly loves and respects you if she asks for your thoughts on shared decisions. Babe, what's your take on this? Incorporates your ideas I love that suggestion, let's do it. Shows gratitude for your input. Thanks for helping me figure this out I really appreciate it. Respects your decision when she knows it matters more to you than it does to her. That sounds great, I'm on board. Now, how can a man encourage this positive behavior to love and respect him? Well, you're going to want to be proactive in offering your opinion. So, for example, here's an idea what do you think? Respect her decision when you know it matters more to her than it does to you. That sounds great, I'm on board. Now, just before I revealed number nine and the most impactful thing a woman can say to a man. If you found value in this video please give it a like and consider sharing it so we can help men and women understand each other and bridge the gap. Thank you. Okay, so number nine she builds you up in front of others. Nothing feels better than knowing your woman has your back especially in front of others in social settings or wherever. When a woman speaks highly of a man in front of others it shows respect and love and pride in who he is. Example, at a dinner party she sincerely says he's great at solving problems. You should hear how he handled the situation at work last week. Babe, tell them, tell them about the situation or tell them about that joke about the lawyer, the priest, the politician. Sorry, or simply you know what he's such a good man with heartfelt pride. What a man thinks when she talks me up in front of others it makes me feel 10 feet tall. I know she's proud.