Why Indians are leaving Germany 🇩🇪 Is Germany good to live? எல்லாரும் இந்த நாட்டை விட்டு போறாங்க😱

If you look at the current salary structure, you don't need to work up to 40%. If you think that you can go to India after four years even if you stay at home, then you should look at buying a license. It will cost you 3000 euros. It will be very dark outside. You ca n't see it in that sun. The Great Depression is very bad. They are doing it like that. They only speak German. Why do they only speak Tamil in our village? You want them to speak German. Only a few people speak English. They keep telling me like this in German. I don't understand anything. Even if I put a translator app on my phone, these kids come and add them. All the kids want to add my dad. They want to buy me for our price. They want to buy me for 2 lakhs. Hey everyone. Today in the video, many Indians have left Germany and left in recent days. Are they going back to India or are they choosing other countries? What is the reason why all the Indians are leaving? Let's see one by one in this video. First of all, the reason why Indians are leaving is that inflation has increased in recent days. Be it housing rent or groceries, everything has increased in price. In general, why do they come abroad? Let's make some savings and return to India and take a good amount and save. That's why a lot of people from India come to India. So if you look at the salary structure here, 40% of the taxes go to them. That's why they are collecting that 40% tax. They are giving everything to schools for free. After the kids, if you come and work a lot, even if you don't have a job, 67% of them will come and pay you for one year. Now, when many people lose their jobs due to Covid, 67% of them come and pay you for the government and pay you a salary for one year. You don't need to work at all. Even if you stay at home, you will still get a salary. They are doing a lot of good things like that. But they are doing all this from that 40% tax. So if you look at the salary that we get after the 40% tax, it is very poor. If only one of us earns, then it is very difficult to live a comfortable lifestyle with that salary. For example, in our village, it is normal for everyone to come and drive a small car. So, having a car in India is not a luxury, it is a necessity. If you were to buy a car here, then I would say it is a luxury because you have to go through a big process to buy a car license. It is a very, very, very difficult process. To buy that license, you have to go through 3000 euros in just one attempt. If you were to buy a license, many people would have gone through four or five attempts. Then think about it, there are those who can spend up to 15000 euros. So, if you were to buy a license, it would cost you 3000 euros. On top of that, the insurance for it, even if it costs something small, it would cost up to 1 lakh or 2 lakhs. It is not like our country. So, when you come here, you have to think carefully before buying a car. So, you can live a comfortable life in India and have a car. If you want to come and live here in style, then your salary should be very good. If you don't have a car, you can go by public transport. If you go by public transport, what takes 10 minutes by car can take 45 minutes by public transport. For example, when I came here, my father went to kindergarten and it was not near his house. It was a little far away. If you go by bicycle, it was 4 kilometers away. You can go in 10 minutes. But can you use a bicycle in winter? Only in the summer months can you use a bicycle. So if you don't use a bicycle and go by public transport, you have to take two buses and a train, and you have to walk for 10 minutes. So we added all this together. So, if you go to kindergarten, which is 4 km away, you can leave it there. It takes 45 minutes, so calling again takes another 45 minutes. So, isn't this a waste of time for working parents? So, everything is difficult for you. The cost of living has started. You have to struggle a little to earn the things you need for that cost of living. So, in our hometown, we used to go by car, but when we come here, we get on and off the train and the bus and go everywhere. So, a family who lived comfortably in India comes here and struggles like this. And we do n't have any savings. There are many people who think, "I will save that much in India." The next important thing is that if you come and see, you might think that even the weather will be bad and they will leave for their hometown. But after this weather, a lot of things have settled down. So, after coming here for three months, Only in the summer can we wear normal clothes like this and go outside comfortably. In the middle of the month, we can wear jackets and shoes and be comfortable. Even in spring, everything is a little cold. We cannot be very comfortable. Only in June, July and August can we be comfortable. So when this winter comes, if you look at the winter, it will be very dark and you will not be able to see the sun. Okay, if you don't see the sun for a month, it may be for two months. If you go for four or five months like this, we will get depressed. When I watch videos from India, I see words like depression and all that, what a big depression. They are making it so much fun. That's what I thought. But when you come here, you will know how terrible that depression is. Why do you see all the Indians here? In the opposite house, on the next street, there won't be anything like that. They'll be a little further away because the houses are n't all nearby. So if that's the case, you'll have a little difficulty meeting friends or family or friends who are nearby. If that's the case, you'll be lonely most of the time because everyone has work, they're busy with their work, and you can't meet them every day. If you've just arrived, I can't meet anyone on weekdays. We have to go to their house on weekends, and they have to travel, and they have to come to our house. So if that's the case, it's mostly dark. If that's the case, depression can come and become a very serious illness. I know some people who have this depression and it has caused a lot of complications. For example, panic attacks, they faint and fall asleep. I have seen everyone getting angry, fighting at home, going crazy, and all this. I don't just talk about it. This is a very terrible thing. Depression is that, especially when I first came. I had a two-three-month depression. I was like, "Let's go to India." When I came to India after completing my first year, I literally had a feeling like I was in jail for so long and then I was released from jail. When I picked up my phone at the airport for the first time in India, you would n't believe me. Honestly, that was the feeling I had. Think about it. When you say how terrible the winter is here, it's very harsh. When it's dark, you can only see people when you go to the office. If you look outside, you can see people. It feels foreign because not everyone is a little bit like us. If you look at Germans, they wo n't be very warm either. They will say "hi, hello" and not everyone will say that. So that's very depressing for us. In winter, they put on layers and everything is annoying. When the sun comes, we will see when our sun comes. For example, after crossing the winter, this April spring will be sunny. I don't know where that happiness comes from. We only know when we experience all that. We come here and all the Indians come and think honestly, everyone will feel the same way. So weather is an important reason. When you are with your family, there are many families who cannot bear the depression. Should our India suffer like this? There are those who think they can go. The next important thing is that if you look at the language option, they speak German everywhere here, so why do they speak Tamil in our town? You can say, but in our town, if we go to a university or speak to an educated officer, if he speaks English, he will speak English in return, or at least try. But in some places, I tell them in the offices that even if they know English in government offices, they will not speak to us. They want us to speak only in German. Only a few people speak in English. I will tell you an example of an incident. My father came and now he has joined the first grade of school. On the first day of inauguration of that school, all the parents had come. I am one of them. Indian So they come and sit in front for half an hour or an hour and they keep talking in German. I don't understand anything. Even if I put the translator app on my phone, the translator app can't translate correctly because they keep talking in German. It's like I'm in some strange country or some strange forest. I feel like I don't understand anything. Think about it. What would my mood be like then? They don't have the slightest courtesy to ask you if you understand or know anything. It's the same on the first day of graduation. If you watch many things like this, they won't even notice if you know German. They will keep talking in German to their songs. You open your mouth and say, "I don't understand German, so tell me a little bit in English." Some people are very rude. They will tell you to bring a translator and buy it. Government offices are like this. Now, you have to go to many offices and go to the government office. If you see me going to the government office, I will go there with hesitation. Because I speak German. Now, I know a little bit. Even if I do, they speak a little too fast. If we don't understand a word, it will be very uncomfortable. So, we can't be at peace. We can't be at peace. Anywhere in Germany, you go to a shop and pay the bill. When you pay the bill, they ask you something like, " Where did you get this fruit from?" or "What is the price of this?" If they ask you something like that, we don't understand it. If we don't understand it, the people around us won't help us either. Because some people don't know English. Because they don't understand them. They don't need to know English if they come and do a normal billing. So it will be difficult for us. What am I saying? Don't call them wrong. It will be difficult for us. So they need to learn German. This is not only for adults. If you look after small children, you bring them along. Then these children won't come and be friends with them until they learn German. Now, if you look after my father, we brought him when he was three. So at the age of three and a half, she didn't know German and only knew a little English. But here in this apartment, all the children who live next door come here in the summer and play in the mud. So she can go too, but no child will join my father. That's just how it is at the start. They will join as they go. I also waited for a year. I waited a year, I waited two years, and besides, she was used to German, and she was a very bad person, and I don't know why she would treat me so badly. She had a hard time accepting my father. The fact that she didn't know German at the start was a big problem for the children around us. Plus, some people here have a hard time accepting us. They don't accept us as friends. Everyone is like an alien. I had that feeling a little bit. I don't know how it is for others. I've had that feeling in many places. They do n't seem very friendly. My father had the same experience, and he had a hard time finding new friends, so how far can we go without finding Indian friends? There will be some Indian friends somewhere because the Indian community is very difficult. So if she comes to the starting school and doesn't know German and sees everything in kindergarten, she will cry that she won't go to kindergarten. It will be very difficult. So I will go and call everyone at 2:30 because they only speak German there. When she comes and leaves, she doesn't know English either, she only knows a little English. So when they speak German there, she will feel like she's been left alone in a forest. Isn't that a pity? I will also call everyone at 2:30 and come back. But if you see this, there is no such comfortable feeling until we finish kindergarten. Why are you calling me so early when I go to kindergarten? I don't like to go. Those children are only allowed to play in kindergarten. They give a lot of activities and have fun. But she She is not comfortable at all. When she comes and goes to school, she will be a little more comfortable. Now she will be more comfortable. So, if you look at all these parents who are making this hard face-to-face, why should we make our child suffer so much? Why should we have to suffer so much in this country? Why should we have to live here with so much illiteracy? There is a reason for that. Only those who have been here for three years and above are the ones who think that they will have to suffer like this at the start. If you look at the education system, if you look at all the children, if you look at the children, they think a lot about their future. Now that we have a small child, then it is okay up to the first grade. That is, A B C D A in German, if you look at A B C in English, it comes only in English. Here in Germany, everything is different, so if that child starts studying in German, then their thinking will be in German. From first grade to second grade, okay, third grade to fourth grade, they will definitely need German skills. Now, for example, if you know the name of an animal, a rabbit, in German, you can write an essay about a rabbit. Similarly, you need to know German very deeply. So, if our kids here are native kids, they should study German at a high level, because we don't speak German at home, right? So, they should be immersed in German, and they should be interested in German. So, if you are thinking about going to India in the future after four years, when you are here, you will come to a place where they are studying German in school. The question is, how will our children go to India and study in English? Because their thinking is all in German. Even if they sing a rhyme, they will sing in German. So, should we give our child such a big trouble? If we make them study in German here and then go back to India and switch to English, will our children be left behind? Such a fear has come to the elders and that is why they have started thinking a lot. Now, for example, if you see it for yourself, I have been thinking about this since I was a new child. Now, my father has come and started studying in German. We don't want to be here. Now, we are going to India. So, after going to India, how will she switch to English? Because everything she studies is in German. She is studying in first grade. Did you see it just now? Did I say something in English? Yes, I think in German. I'm trying to do it in German, I'm trying to say that, even at night I'm sleeping in German, so if we spend four or five years with our children and go to India, or we'll go to an English-speaking country, then think about how big a transition it will be for them. In the same way, if you bring a child from another country who is in seventh or eighth grade here, they will have a lot of trouble. Our children will not come and meet the level of German that is here. They will have a very backward attitude. So, thinking about all that, many parents come and leave before their children go to school, or they will leave immediately after the first grade or second grade. When will I be long- term? You are going to stay here, at least. We are going to study till university and settle here. There are international schools in Germany that are a bit more comfortable. But international schools take the full salary of one person and leave. Didn't I tell you that inflation is so high here that it is difficult to manage on one person's salary. I can't even think about what makes you study in an international school. You are in a very high-profile job and both parents earn very well. So, you can give one parent's salary to an international school and live on the salary of the other parent. Then we won't be able to save anything. Even then, we will have to think about our stay here. If you look next, the way people treat us here is not very comfortable. Now, on the example bus, we They come and sit next to us, but they won't even sit next to us. I've felt that way. When they come and act like a bully, they wo n't be very friendly. They wo n't be welcoming. They won't smile and talk a lot. When Germans come, how can they come and get along a little better? If they get along well, they will get along well. But in general, as far as I've seen outside, they wo n't be very friendly. I've felt a little rude. If you've seen the next thing in many places, the difficulties we face in our day-to-day lives are the ones that are happening now. If you've seen grocery shopping, for example, we go to work from Monday to Friday. We'll only be free on Saturday. We can shop on Saturday. If you've seen Sunday, there's a lockdown here because of Covid. How can we lockdown? They used to stay at home like that, there would be no shops, there would be restaurants, there would be German restaurants, we don't have a set, there would be only restaurants, there would be nothing else, now you come and buy a dress, you go to the store, you go shopping, or you have a guest coming to your house and you want to buy something for them, there is no shop on Sunday, you have to finish everything on Saturday, and even if you come on Saturday, you can't walk and carry everything, I will come home on foot, so it will be very difficult for me, when I am new, I will sit at home like a queen, everything is on the plate, everything is on the table, food is cooked, mom cooks, everything is from home, dad buys it from the store, otherwise we can order on Swiggy, Zomato, there is no story of coming here and placing an order like that, we have to go and buy it ourselves, for example, this Amazon I can buy vegetables from Fresh, why do I have to go every week? There is no delivery in my area. There is no Amon Fresh Grocery in my area. These people insist on having a minimum order. If you look at that minimum order, it will not be set for us. If you look at our bill, which is 90-100 euros, you can only buy it at a store that has 40-50 euros. Plus, if you look at all the stores, they are far away. Now, when I go to the store, I have to take a bus, get off that bus, go to the store, buy it, and get back on the bus because I can't carry the weight and come to each store. Now, if you look at that, I have to go to one store to buy all the groceries, vegetables, and then come and buy everything like baby wash, I have to go to one store, and then I have to go to an Indian store to buy Indian groceries. So, I go to every store. If you want to get off, we will take care of all the housework. If you want to get off, we will take care of all the housework. If you want to get off, we will take care of that one day's leave. If you want to get off, we will take care of that one day's leave. If you want to get off, we will take care of that one day's leave. If you want to hire a cleaning lady, I think they will charge around 50 euros for cleaning. If you want to come for 3 hours, it will cost 250 euros or 500 euros. If that doesn't work for us, then you can't get a job in our village. If you want to get off, we will give it to the shop. If you want to get off, we will give it to the shop. If you want to get off, we will take care of that one day's leave All three of them are sick, and even if I come and buy pills, I can't order them online. We can't get them. We have to go and buy them ourselves. So, look at all this. Some people who lived royal lives in India come and suffer like this, and they have this much savings. Why should they suffer like this for this 1,000 euro savings? There are some people who leave because of this doctor. But here, as a general, you can only get a doctor's appointment a little later. Now, let's say I have a fever. If I call today and ask for an appointment, they will say no. They will give me a day or two and the fever will go away. It's the same with us. Now, if we ask for a neurologist appointment or an ortho appointment for back pain, it takes a week, two weeks, a month. They give us medicine and our body will heal, or the pain will come and we will get used to it. We will be like that. Children get a little easier here, so I do n't have a problem with it. But these kinds of doctor appointments are very difficult and are postponed. A lot of the time, we have to take pills that we brought from our hometown to fix it. So let's keep all this. Is this an option for going to town? Or is it not a matter of time before we come back and see if something serious happens? Now, if you see one of our children, he has fallen down and broken his arms and legs. Okay, then come and see the doctor and go to the emergency appointment. We can't go to a normal doctor. If we go to the emergency section, they will make us sit down and see what's wrong. They are not normal. They are beating our child on the way. What happened to my friend? My friend's child came and took his hand. He was beaten and was beating on the way, but they consider emergencies to be more urgent cases like a heart attack or something like that. So these people are not good. Even after three hours, there is nothing. They have made that child wait for 4, 5 hours in pain. They have not given that child a pain killer. Think about how difficult it would be if he had to stay in pain for 5 hours with a broken leg or arm. How much emotional shock it would be for the parents to see that. What is going through the minds of those parents? If this was India, they would have come immediately and done the first thing in the morning, given medicine, how good the treatment would have been. If we had only paid money, it would have been enough. How comfortable the treatment should be for us here because of money. Nothing happens, no matter how slow the process is, that's how it happens. For example, if we have some other problem, some other problem in our body, some kind of pain, some toothache, some serious pain, we go and sit down, and they ask us how we are sitting, and we can't sit down and roll on the road, they only take it as an emergency. Only when it comes and it is really life-threatening, they take it as an emergency. They don't even do first aid, they just sit there. They go at 9:00 in the morning and stay there until 5:00 in the evening. There are stories of all the times when they go to the hospital at 9:00 in the morning and stay there until 5:00 in the evening. So when they face all these situations, Indians get very angry and say, "Is this how it should be here, if we go to our India, how can we get treatment and how can we be?" There are many people who get angry and leave. Next If you see food, you think that everything is a problem. If you think about India, what kind of people are there? If you see everything, when I came home, I used to cook, and even my mother was with me. I never cooked, I never went into the kitchen, but after coming here, I cook everything that I want. Just think, if we make a parotta at home, what a difficult process it is. I like it very much. Can we not eat it for a year? There are no restaurants, South Indian restaurants here in Narga City, so we make everything at home. If we are hungry, from making a pub to making samosa, if we want a sweet, we have to make everything at home. So we make a few at home. Let's make some time for ourselves, do our housework, office work, take care of our children, cook and eat, or at some point, how can we do this? We must be struggling so much. We have started thinking that we should go to India for that. There are all kinds of Indian restaurants, but if you look at most of the restaurants, they are North Indian restaurants. If you look in the city where I live, 98% of the restaurants are North Indian restaurants. There is a South Indian restaurant called Saravana Bhavan, and they have opened another shop like this, a Kerala South Indian restaurant, on a corner. Now, in our emergency, we are not feeling well. We thought we could order something, but we can't because it is somewhere. We can't order it and bring it. Okay, let's buy it today from a North Indian restaurant near our house. We have planned to eat but they do n't deliver. So we can go there and eat, but the table is full. This happens. Whenever I call and ask, they say there is an appointment at 9:00 and the dinner time seat is available. Our father says that we are all hungry at 8:00. We cancel our 9:00 meal at home and cook it for us. So we order from a food shop, but there is no delivery option. So if we want to eat South Indian food or idli, we have to go somewhere and travel for hours to eat. So, because it is so difficult, we don't feel like eating at our shop. Even if we have a fever and are not feeling well, we make everything ourselves. It is very difficult, especially when we do this every year, and it is very difficult in medicine. Another difficulty is that we take our children to our hospital because they are not feeling well. On the first day, you may not go with them. If you go to the hospital and say, "My child is not feeling well, he has been vomiting since this morning," they will simply say, "Okay, there is some infection. You should go home and observe him and send him away." They will not give him any medicine. Even if they say that he is not feeling well for three days, they will not give him any medicine. There are no antibiotics available. This is a good thing in a way because they do not give antibiotics. They follow naturopathy. They are a natural medicine. They will give you all that is okay, but sometimes when you come and see our children, they are in extreme pain. If you see all my friend's children, they get fever and the infection goes to the ear and becomes a pus in the ear and is in extreme pain. They put the child in a coma for a week and only gave him antibiotics after a week. After that, it took five days for it to get better. Think about how a small child feels when they suffer for 10 days. They tell the parents how it feels, whether it is diarrhea or vomiting, they will not give any medicine. Going to the hospital is a total waste, but sometimes we go to the hospital because if there is any disease specific to this town, like an allergy, there are some diseases in this town, we can find out about that. Let's go to our hospital for that. If you go to the hospital, they wo n't give you medicine. It's really difficult for the children. If I'm not sick, I've only been to the hospital once in the three years since I came here because that was to get a checkup. The rest of the time, we manage with the medicine we brought from our village. When people who have children are struggling like this, they think a lot. Should they keep the child and suffer here? Another important thing is work. Now, if they come here and have a husband, they will come here and be dependents. If they come here and get a small job, like a teacher or a kindergarten teacher, they can't think about going to the course they studied. Now, if they want to be a kindergarten teacher, they will study German separately and on top of that, they will have to take a two-three-year course. Now, you In a shop, if you want to work in a shop, you have to come and study German to a level, which takes two years to study. It's a bit difficult. Similarly, if you want to go to any other job, you have to study German and study for that here. Now, if you want to become a makeup artist, you have to study for that separately and get a certificate. You can come and do it. You can't freelance or become a makeup artist like we do in our village. You shouldn't do makeup. At the same time, you can cook at home. But even if it's a small problem, the court can sentence us to jail. An example happened when someone came and made parotta at home and fried it. A complaint was filed against him. They said that this kind of parotta is not proper and that it doesn't follow the standards properly. If they come and say that they will come and put them in jail. We can't do anything without the government knowing, so we can't work as dependents. If we want to work, we have to study German a lot, and then we have to study that course. It will take three or four years before we feel like leaving here. So many people like this come and get frustrated and need German skills, and they want to study more and go to work. So many people can't go down that path. For example, if you want to be a teacher now, how much German do you need? A kindergarten teacher, a child-care teacher, come and see how much German do you need? So you need German for everything. Without German, without language skills, a dependent cannot find a job here. In the same way, if a main visa holder and a husband come and become a dependent, that If the husband comes and cannot find a job, think about how difficult it would be for that family. There are many Indians in this kind of situation. Don't think I'm just saying that. Honestly, I've seen this live. They come. The husband has been unemployed for five months or a year and then returned. I even met the family last week. Because the husband comes and comes home every day, they are also stressed. There are fights at home. So many problems happen. Because of this, many people leave and cannot find a job. Plus, now the reservation is very high. In Maine, many people are getting jobs. All those who are looking for work in small startups are getting jobs. It takes a long time to get a job again. Is it easy to get a job? And that too if your resume is not good, they will come and shortlist you. They won't do it, they won't even reply, so jobs are coming and getting them are very tough. There is a reason why many people have returned without getting a job. And now in 2025, all the processes are very, very slow. For example, if you come to Germany and look for a house, then you may have to wait for many months before you get a house. Because they give you a house on that basis of appointment interview. When we came, we would have seen about 10 houses. We said okay to all 10 houses. If we got a house, all the houses were okay. Because they only gave us one house in the office. So, after looking at the houses, we said okay to all the houses. But they didn't say okay to any of them. In fact, we are in a good company and in a position to get a good salary. Their house is for us. They are thinking so much about giving us a house, we can't even get a house, we have to take the house they are giving us, like a comfortable double room with us, I will stay on the ground floor, I will stay near the bus stop, we have told them all that, we have told them all our options, we have asked for a house, no, now they don't have that and that and that, if you look at my house, come and buy it for our price, we have to pay 2 lakhs, we have to buy it for the price, only then will we give it to them. We said okay to everything and got this house because we got it. So since the house is available, everything is a very slow process here. You have to apply for that house, you have to get a scuba certificate from the bank, so if you look at everything, the process is that you take the house and register it at a government office, come there and get a criminal certificate, and then come and get it, it takes two weeks like this. If you look at everything, you have to go to the government office, they use a physical letter, you have to bring cash for everything, cards are not accepted everywhere, so there are many difficulties like this, they come here, they live a very slow lifestyle, they are living in a 20-year-old backwater. Here, we come to our hometown and use everything, GPay, PhonePay, and here, they still use cash and credit cards like that. So, we come here and we are the best off in many things. Despite that, why are you living here in such a difficult situation? I understand what you are asking. Despite this, there are some good things that come, it changes family to family. Now both of them are doing well. So, living here is a very comfortable life. Despite that, many things come, if you look at it, some people are forced to It is their personal choice to live here. What is so good about Germany? Why do some people still endure all these hardships? If you want, I will share the next video. Thanks for watching. If I left out any points, share it in the comments. If you liked this video, like it. If you need any other information, share it. I will record a video for you. Thanks for watching.