NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU - One Of The Best Motivational Speeches

there's a moment when every boy realizes no one's coming to save him And that's when he becomes a man The best day of a man's life is the day he realizes that nobody's coming to save him And I got bad news for you There's nobody coming There's nobody coming to save you There's nobody coming to help you You are the only one that's going to be able to save you No one's coming to push you No one's coming to tell you to turn the TV off The bottom line is no one's coming Nobody's coming to save you It's up to you So a lot of this isn't your fault Why you do some things you do why you feel the way you feel but no one's coming back to save your ass You have to go back to where this started wherever that place is for everybody and have the courage to go back there and start fixing what broke you The problems in your life are your own dang fault And so the answer into fixing the problems in your life are in your own dang hands It's time to make a decision It is time to decide who you're going to be Are you going to be one of the millions and millions and millions of people that wishes and wants and dreams and thinks about who they want to be or are you going to be the person that actually becomes it your potential is determined by how much uncertainty you're willing to embrace Whatever position you put yourself in you got to work yourself out of If you can be honest with yourself about what you truly want and take responsibility for creating it you will because you have this idea you have this dream you have this vision that nobody else can see The vision that you glorify in your mind the ideal that you enthrone in your heart this you will build your life by this you will become No one's going to come to help me No one's going to come to help me It's It's me against me Period Are you going to lead with action or are you going to lead with empty promises and a lot of people don't want to flip the script and say the reason I'm not where I am in life is because of myself That is a very difficult statement to admit to What is life are you happy with it and if so just the intake and outtake of breath makes you put a smile on your face You haven't earned that What have you done with your life to make it something else besides the normality of everybody else the intake of the outtake of what you call life is nothing more than time And unless done something with it's forgotten about There's no footprint of your existence left for anyone else to follow Life is time and a life that's remembered Where footprint is followed behind in footsteps of inspiration and motivation is when time is met with opportunity and action They collide to be a life of remembrance You don't have to be special You just have to get up every day put one foot in front of the other and work hard to do a little better and be a little better than you were yesterday And one of these days you are going to wake up and realize that you not only changed yourself but you are now in the middle of living the life you were once jealous of There was something inside me that made me the person who I am today So my mindset always was the the same exactly the same as I have right now I'm like if someone did it I also can do it And if no one did it I can be the first one to do it If you're at that point in your life where you just can't take it anymore stand your ass up and take on life again Because yes you can I'd imagine you see no end to the pain And for that I'm terribly sorry But the pain doesn't own you You can feel it all you want but you're not going to let it paralyze you anymore Whatever takes you to that breaking point is done because you don't break You stand the hell up and get better in the face of every single bit of it And we want to think that it's other people our past our circumstances that are taking away our power from us and making it difficult to work It's not It's you You're the common denominator in all of your failures And even if external factors do play a role focusing on blame is just going to keep you stagnant It doesn't matter what was going on around you What are you going to do now i think people struggle a lot with the concept that something can be both painful and empowering It's this hurts therefore it's bad When taking full accountability of your life with all of the deficiencies that you have may be the most painful thing that you do when you look at yourself in the mirror and say this is my fault But in saying this is my fault those are also the first two steps of progress because it's my fault not anyone else's which means it's my responsibility and my action that can change that If I can instill one piece of advice into all human beings it would simply be to believe in yourself beyond you know without with with without a doubt Believe in yourself and don't and don't rely on anybody to believe in you Don't rely on anybody to push you or make you better Believe in yourself and only yourself and allow that human being to make you a better person Stop wasting your gift Every single day that you have the opportunity to get better and work on your goals and become the person you want to be is a gift It is a blessing There is going to come a day where the opportunity to achieve your goals will be gone But that day is not today And you have an obligation to take advantage of the opportunity that is right in front of you The opportunity that if you keep ignoring it might just pass you by I can't do that because I was born here or I can't do that because I have this issue or I can't do that because they made fun of me And you know what's going to happen nothing You're going to get more of the same You're going to get laughed at more You're going to be ashamed more You're going to be frustrated more And you're going to really regret at the end of your life that you put off taking responsibility for yourself and building yourself into what could be And the reason why some of you are not where you supposed to be you've given yourself an option You've given yourself an out You've given yourself an excuse You've given yourself room not to do it Are you hearing what I'm saying you better go inside You still looking outside for the stuff that's already inside You still looking for someone to save you when you already your superhero You looking for some information from somebody when you already got what you need in your head It's just time for you to get up and be the best version of you You must be your best version because somebody is counting on you And because you're only ever going to do the things that you feel like doing right now or that feel good right now unless you understand that you've got to parent yourself You got to push yourself You're not going to make your dreams come true You're just not We're not wired that way You weren't born that way You weren't that way when you were growing up And you're certainly not that way as an adult And there's a tremendous amount of liberation that comes when you accept the fact that you're always going to need to give yourself a push The version of you that got here is expired It was built to survive the last chapter not lead the next one You want a new level then build a new identity new standards new discipline new mindset You don't get to keep your old habits and expect upgraded results That's not how this works Figure out who the next version of you is and start becoming them now Because the truth is you either evolve or you stay stuck and stuck doesn't serve you anymore Well I think the deck is stacked against everyone to some degree because life is very difficult and we all die It's like well what's the what's the alternative you take responsibility for that and try to struggle uphill because the alternative makes everything worse Nobody is going to save you Nobody is going to make it easy for you Nobody can live your life for you endure your pain for you choose your struggles for you Nobody can experience the growth that comes from loss for you Nobody can build your confidence through a thousand tiny failures for you Nobody can lie awake crying about some inconsolable loss that hurts so much it creates a bottomless pit of emptiness for you Nobody can learn the lessons for you rebuild the pieces for you gain the strength for you find the confidence for you earn the rewards for you Nobody can write your story for you Nobody can tell you what it all meant Nobody can make the impossible choices and live with the eternal consequences and suffer through indecision doubt and regret for you You get to do that You have the honor and privilege to suffer and overcome that suffering only to suffer and overcome again and again and again This is called being alive It's called being human And no nobody else can do that for you either But we have to start taking responsibility for ourselves The heaviest things in life aren't iron and gold but unmade decisions The reason you are stressed is that you have decisions to make and you're not making them