Mom Places Baby For Adoption, 2 Years Later Wants Her Back For This Ridiculous Reason

[Music] the topic of adoption is never an easy one it means a child is neither parents either due to a tough decision or because of a terrible accident or turn of events despite this when it comes to being adopted these stories themselves can be rather uplifting however one adoption story went very awry when a mom decided to change her mind two whole years later what she claimed about the adopted parents was quite shocking pregnancy is an apprehensive and challenging time even if it's planned it's a massive decision choosing to bring a baby into the world and it presents an enormous responsibility to the parents while that may be the case babies often inspire love in their parents unlike any other however that's not always the case and sometimes a parent feels as if they're not equipped to look after or provide the life for their baby they think they deserve one woman called kristen got pregnant age 22. while she was young 22 years old is deemed a fairly reasonable age to have a child however that doesn't dictate whether the person feels equipped or ready kristen knew that she was going to have a baby but she made the decision to place her baby up for adoption when the time came the decision wasn't made quickly and there was enough time so that she knew exactly who would be adopting her baby girl at this point everything seemed relatively reasonable little is known about where kristen's mom and dad are but we do know that she had a bond with her former stepdad the relationship was positive enough that she felt comfortable allowing him and his new wife to adopt her baby it also meant that her daughter wasn't staying too far from her family so she would know where she was and may be able to check how she was doing the couple even went as far as taking kristen in when she was pregnant you can only assume that the 22 year old didn't have a permanent place of her own or was pleased to have the physical and mental support by the future adoptive parents of her baby it all seemed like a really positive setup given what could have been a very upsetting situation after all no baby wants to feel unloved this little girl had two parents ready to love her and give her a good life it appeared as if everything was going really well decisions had to be made and everyone was happy kristen gave birth to her baby girl and the adoption went forward as had been planned kristin even took to social media in order to express her gratitude of course no one's compelled to explain their personal situation on social media but kristen felt comfortable enough to express her feelings about the adoption and her positivity about the situation a couple of years passed with the adoptive parents raising their new baby girl and nurturing her in a childhood however kristin got pregnant two years later at the age of 24. no one was expecting kristen to come back pregnant and make these wild claims it seems that kristin's second pregnancy had made her think of her first daughter this then led to kristin trying to reclaim the little girl two years later when she made some wild accusations as part of many adoption contracts it states that the biological parents are not allowed access or contact with the child this is generally to make the process less painful and to create a strict barrier however it's unclear whether these were terms kristin agrees to however adam and stacey the adoptive parents apparently promised to let kristen be involved in the child's life of course at the time of the adoption there's always a chance that kristen didn't want to be a part of the baby's life at all kristin claimed that the couple had promised to let her see the baby despite the adoption however she says that never happened and one week after the baby was born kristen was sidelined with no contact at all kristin claimed that she felt as if she'd been manipulated into handing her baby over even claimed she let the couple steal her baby of course this raises a whole load of concerning questions but kristen divulged that she believed the couple may have arranged the entire thing kristin made some extremely worrying accusations about when she was staying with the couple she says that she believes the couple may have even given her some unknown substance to make her compliant with what they wanted she says she has no recollection at all about signing the adoption papers and even claims she can't remember parts of the pregnancy this is very concerning and people wanted to get to the bottom of these claims obviously that all sounds incredibly worrying to anyone but no one was more concerned than adam and stacey who were keen to set the record straight after all surely if kristen's claims were valid someone would have noticed the bizarre state of the woman nonetheless the couple spoke out on dr phil after the story was out and gave their version of the story and how events went down they'd been the parents to this baby girl for two years when this all went down stacy was shown explaining the situation on the show and claimed that stacy was evil and could even be described as psychotic she also went as far as to say that stacey needed support for her alleged mental health in the form of medication kristen also explained that she was supposed to be present when the adoption was finalized however she said no one called her to extend the invitation or allowed her to be there kristin compiles these allegations and claims that the whole adoption was illegal of course if her claims are valid then there's no doubt that this was a heinous act but christine has waited two years to make these allegations as she's pregnant with her second child some people believe the mother may be regretting her decision and now wishes to have both her children united however the adoption was final and this could have been her only way of getting her daughter back the accusations rolled out and continued with claims that stacey even controlled kristen's ex-stepfather's feelings over the situation however stacey and adam had a lot to say about these accusations and didn't take kindly to their family having this drama thrust upon their doorstep what seemed like the perfect adoption turned out to be an absolute nightmare no one knew that the adoption was going to come up two whole years after the papers were signed on the show adam speaks out against the accusations that kristen was making and explains how he had known her since she was seven years old adam described how kristen was always making things up as a child and the lies carried over into her teens she was apparently always in trouble at school for various reasons and was described as a handful one reason or another kristin always seemed to be in trouble adam reveals that once he discovered that kristin was pregnant he could only think of one thing how is she going to look after the baby at the time she had no job and no permanent address continually bouncing from home to home he admits he believed that her baby didn't deserve that life at all and his concern ran deep for the baby growing inside her with what he described it's probably natural that anyone would be concerned of course the person who had been targeted by kristin was stacy who gave her interpretation of kristen's behavior during the birth and the pregnancy stacy explained that kristin actually never wanted to see nor hold her baby part of this was made very clear to the nurses during the birth that kristen had no inclination to seeing and holding the newborn baby when she was born this made the adoption more manageable but had now become hearsay following the recent allegations stacy recounts that at most stacey had only been able to see the baby twice and this was of kristin's own choice it's tough to know what the new mom was thinking at the time given that everything was happening all at once and separate accounts were being given it's safe to say the situation was getting more and more messed up either way if one was right it means the other person was lying about something incredibly appalling adam believed that stacy had a victim mentality and that she takes no responsibility for her actions of course now that she's pregnant again it's safe to assume that she isn't handing over for adoption as she's trying to regain her adopted daughter however it appears that no evidence has arisen following claims that the couple may have administered substances to make her give up her baby for adoption does that mean kristin may not be telling the truth at this point the baby is two years old and has been raised by adam and stacey since birth since kristen did give her baby up for adoption does that mean that the baby should stay where she is so she can have some form of stability situations like these can quickly become complicated and messy which is why adoption agreements tend to specify that contact with the biological parent is not permitted stacy clearly makes her position clear in the situation explaining that kristin needs to understand that she's not the baby's parent anymore she did after all have a choice to make and she decided that adam and stacey would be good parents kristin even went as far as to say that they would be a good choice and they were a good decision for the baby on social media so what changed surely they couldn't have forced her to do that postpartum it seems as if there had been run-ins between these guys in the past after all adam used to be kristin's step-father stacey explained that she thinks that kristen's favorite thing to do is to call them evil all the time by the sounds of it there's a significant clash here and things haven't always been positive or amicable between these guys they certainly won't be following this dramatic stint for the protection of the children involved stacy asks if they're so bad and evil why did she choose them to adopt her baby of course the question kristen posed suggests that she never had a choice but it seems unlikely to most people given the circumstances no easy thing and it's certainly not something the state signs off on lightly as the couple would have been strictly vetted and approved safe to say this adoption turned into a real nightmare [Music]