Mishmash of moments to inspire you to get up, get out, glow up, grow up #Jollofrice of memories

Why do lovers drift apart? And how does love fade away when two pieces of a broken heart men again? You've been crying in the dark and you've been feeling alone. Don't be scared of what you find when you turn the light on. And nobody going to say goodbye. No. And nobody going to walk away. This time, baby, I'm learning how to love you. Love you. When nobody going to make you cry. Now when nobody ever really tried to love you like I love you. What sad memory of yesterday? What terrible scar keeps you gathering the pieces of your shattered heart? There was once upon a time when hope was leaving within. I know there will come another time when you can believe again. And nobody going to say goodbye. No. And nobody going to walk away this time. Baby, I'm learning how to love you. Love you. And nobody going to make you cry. No. And nobody ever really tried to love you like I love you. How long have you been feeling lonely? How long have you been feeling sad and blue? This time, baby, I'm learning how to love you. Love you. And nobody going to make you cry. No. And nobody ever really tried to love you like I love you. This time, baby, I'm learning how to love you. Love [Music] you. Let me love you like I love you. Hey. Hey. So, how do you love someone who gets you like no one else and loves you without asking for anything in return other than that you love him back? Sometimes I wake up with a song in my chest. Not plenty rest. A whisper a turn then a shout full of grace. Spontaneous praise in a secret space. Through morning light on each call in awe over God who crafted it all. The trees, the skies, the winds that dance draw me to worship. Not by chance. He sees the tears I never show. He feels the things I rarely know. He minds the little things I face. My highs, my lows, my quiet space. Who am I that he should care? That he should meet me anywhere. Like David said in Psalm 8 song. Who is man? Yet he draws us all along. Not just the king, but the highest died. For someone like me, I've often cried humbled, broken on my knees. Sometimes all I can do is breathe. Cuz who am I that a king would bleed and die [Music] for? Who am I that he would pray? Not my will, thy Lord. The answer I may never know why he ever loved me so that to an old rugged cross he'd go for who am I okay my voice my gift no timber or liar just honest praise a soul on fire not for performance not for show but gratitude I can't help but let flow in a world my wounds that often forgets. We need more love, few pure regrets. A touch from heaven, a sacred spark to light our way through times so dark. So if you see me lost and sung, know it's where my heart belongs. A moment of worship pure and free. Me and my maker, just him and me. And though I love the woods and skies, the birds that saw, the sun that flies, even on days I cannot roam, praise still finds my heart at home. So join me in this moment. One minute of worship, that's all. Because even lying still in bed, I lift my heart. I raise my head for every breath, for every grace. I'll always find a time and place to honor the one who made it all, who hears my whisper and answers my call. So, this is continuous and I will leave praise and worship analysts to break it apart and tear it down. The best thing is that I would love to tell you what I think of Jesus since I found in him a friend so strong and true. I would love to tell you how he changed my life completely. He did something that no other friend could do. No one ever cared for me like Jesus. There's no other friend as kind as he. No one else could take the sin and darkness from me. Oh, how much he cared for me. All my life was full of sin when Jesus found me. All my life was full of misery and woe. Jesus placed his strong arms around me. And he led me in the way I ought to go. No one ever cared for me like Jesus. There's no other friend as kind as. No one else could take my sin darkness from me. me. Oh, how much he cared for me. Every day he comes to me with new assurance. More and more I understand his word of love. But I'll never know just why he came to save me. Till someday I see his blessed face above. No one ever cared for me like Jesus. There's no other friend so kind as he. No one else could take the sin and darkness from me. Oh, how much he cared for me. So I love the Lord and I lift my voice to worship you. Oh my soul rejoice. Take joy my king in what you hear. May it be a sweet, sweet sound in your ears. I love you. I love you from the bottom of my heart to the depths of my soul. I love you completely. Yes, my soul says yes. I will praise you, Lord. With every breath that I take, I will praise you, Lord. This promise I make when eternity ends and starts over again. Even then, I will praise you, Lord. Jesus, you're my superhero. You're my star, my best friend. Jesus, you're my superhero. You're my star, my best friend. Ooh. Yeah. Look out your window. See the earth. Where did it come from? Who gave it [Music] birth? Where did it come from? Where will it go? Where will it go? Don't you wish you had the answer? Well, I know. Cuz my provider, my protector, always watching over me. Comforter, my counselor. He's all I need. My constant in the chaos, my source of strength unchanged. [Music] Every day the same. Christ remains. Christ [Music] remains. Sun comes out in the morning time. See the work of the Lord. Just the work that God designed. See the work of the Lord. God commands the world to be. See the work of the Lord. Ancient birds, lands and sea. See the work of the Lord. [Music] Sunlight, moonlight, all things for his delight. God made the whole world. See the work of the Lord. Sunlight, moonlight, all things for his delight. God made the whole world see the work of the Lord. I will sing. Yeah, I will sing. I will sing. I will sing. of his goodness and his kindness and his mercy. I will sing singing holy holy singing glory to the lamb singing praisees to the awome God forever I will [Music] sing. Oh yeah father into your courts I will enter. Maker of heaven and earth, I tremble in your holy presence. Glory, glory in your sanctuary, splendor and majesty, Lord before you. All life adors you. All the earth will declare that your love is everywhere. The fields will exalt seize resound. Hear the trees joyful cry praising you. And so will I. A new song I'll sing. Lord, I will glorify and bless your holy name. All the earth will declare that your love is everywhere. The fields will exalt, seas resound. Hear the trees joyful cry. Hear the trees joyful cry. Praising you and so will I. A new song I'll sing. Lord, I will glorify and bless your name. glorify and bless your Lord. I will glorify and bless your holy name. Faithful friend and father, I've called you through the years. You've been great physician. When sickness lingered in through distressing moments, your name is new and sweet. You've become comforter to me. You are comforter. [Music] That's who you are to me. Comforter. A name that fits so perfectly. Peace that passes all understanding. Comforter. That's who you are to me. [Music] Comforter. That's who you are to me. Comforter. A name that feeds so perfectly. Peace that passes all understanding. Come fighter. That's who you are to me. Why should I feel discouraged? Why should the shadows come? Why should my heart be lonely and long for heaven and home? When Jesus is my portion, my constant friend is here. His eye is on the sparrow and I know he watches me. His eye is on the sparrow and I know he watches me. I sing because I'm happy. I sing because I'm free. His eye is on the sparrow and I know he wers me. Let not your heart be troubled. His tender word I hear and resting on his goodness. I lose my doubt in fear. Though by the path he leadth, but one step I may see. His eye is on the sparrow. And I know he watches me. His eye is on the sparrow. And I know he watches me. I sing because I'm happy. I sing because I'm free. His eye is on the sparrow. And I know he watches me whenever I am tempted. Whenever clouds arise. When sons he plays to signing, when hope within me dies, I draw closer to him from fears. He sets me free. His eye is on the sparrow. And I know he watches me. His eye is on the sparrow and I know he watches me. I sang because I'm happy. I sang because I'm free. His eye is on the sparrow and I know he watches me. I just thought to clear the air because I know some people have been forming assumptions and writing imaginary story lines in their head. For me, I believe the world is my stage. I don't need any extra podium, a spotlight or a fog machine to announce my arrival. I show up, I show out, and I sip my water in peace. Now, um let's get one thing straight and clear. If you live better, God isn't going to extend my lifespan as a reward. And if you smash your KPIs, the company isn't about to wire your salary into my account. Sad, I know. But here's the catch. When you do your job well, my job as a scrum master gets smoother, the vibe gets lighter, and honestly, I sleep better. So, it's a win-win. That's all I'm after. A happier, healthier life and work environment for everyone. a space where I'm eager to log in, not plotting my escape route by 9:17 a.m. And before you start, I'm not here to do everybody's job. Um, do I look like I've got spare capacity? If you thought so kindly think again, I've got enough on my plate to start a buffet. What I'm chasing is collaboration, kindness, good banter, and grown adults who understand deadlines. So, some people think she's doing the most because she wants to be popular. If popularity was my goal, I'd be out there doing Tik Tok dances in a pink wig and reciting the latest viral quotes. I'd be chasing clouts, posting trending nonsense, and racking up followers like it's a spot, but I'm not. Why? Because likes don't change lives. Impact does. I don't want to be just another voice yapping on a podium, vomiting out motivational quotes you can find on Pinterest. I want to make a difference. be the kind of person that lights up a room. Not because I'm trying to outshine people, but because I hope you catch a bit of that glow for yourself. And no, before some people start saying that um maybe she's flirting. I'm not trying to get into a situationship with half the office, I'm here to work, thrive, laugh, and mind my business. How many people do people think I can marry anyway? One man is more than enough administrative work. So, let's stop all that hypersexualizing simple human kindness. Not every compliment, laugh, or encouraging word is an application for a date sometimes. And just being a decent person. So, let's focus on the real goal. Running our race in a way that makes others want to lace up and run to. Not the kind of race where you look around and everyone feel small because you're over here flexing unnecessarily. No, the kind where people on the sidelines start thinking, "Wait, maybe I could give this a go, too." That's the vibe I'm on. If you're with me, grab your sneakers, grab your glow, and let's build a life, an environment that feels less like a battlefield and more like a vibe because light moves and I plan to keep it moving. Yes, I say a lot of things that ruffle feathers. I'm that friend, the one who drops the awkward truth at the dinner table while everyone else is still buttering their bread. But hear me out. It's not because I love drama. Okay, maybe a little. It's because I see gaps. big yawning potholeized gaps where good ideas and better mindsets could be. And no, you won't catch me in trendy spaces where everybody's already preaching the same sermon. That's too easy. If I was after popularity, I'd be twerking for Tik Tok likes and throwing inspirational quotes over sunset pics. But now I tend to find myself in rooms where what I'm saying feels new, weird, or slightly uncomfortable. And that's exactly where why I stay. Growth rarely happens in cozy places. Now about my sense of humor. Yes, it's dry. I know Sahara levels, but it's deliberate because truth delivered straits can break people. And that's not my mission. My aim is to spark, not scorch. If I sprinkle a little sarcasm or tease a little along the way, it's not because I'm desperate to be liked. It's because I know what exclusion feels like. And I refuse to create spaces where people shrink. And no, before one of you clever folks slides into my DMs with ideas, let's get this on record. I'm not out here trying to date. I know for me a personal harm. How many husbands do you think I can manage? One man is enough cardio for me. Thank you. So now let's talk about my videos. Yes, they're long. I'm not sorry. I'm not a one minute quote and go kind of person. I'm a pull up a chair, get your cup of coffee, and let's over talk this thing till midnight kind of person because tomorrow I might not be available. That's life. People say do shorter videos. People don't have time. Well, maybe people need to make time. Or better still, those it for will find it, and those it's not, bless you, as you scroll. And yes, some think I'm trying to boost my watch hours. If I wanted to chase the algorithm, I'd be doing sewing tutorials, hair reviews, and fake pranks by now. But I'm not here for vanity metrics. I'm here for impact. And here's the problem. The stuff that actually changes lives. Most people scroll right past it on their way to watch a cat fall off a table. We need to rethink how we measure success. Because if success means stepping on people's heads to get to the top, count me out. I'd rather stand on your shoulders while you cheer. Or better yet, link arms and climb together. That's healthy competition. That's legacy building. And no, I'm not angling for a leadership title. The world's my stage. I don't need a podium. I don't need a shiny name badge. I'm good as I am. Thank you. Look, I'm spontaneous. My brain's like jazz music. I might vibe to something today and forget it by next week. That's why I record things as they come because I know somebody somewhere needs it now. You don't have to copy my moves. Just find your own rhythm. If my joy, my weirdness, my dry humor makes you feel lighter or braver, then mission accomplished. And for the record, yes, I want you to like my videos. I'm not above enjoying a little validation, but I made peace with the fact that real change doesn't always come with a like button. Some of you are watching, applying, and becoming, and I see it, even if you never click. So, here's the bottom line. Get your coffee. Let's get this straight. You read me wrong. I'm not here to please you. I'm here to heal spaces, to turn down toxicity, to show that you can thrive without trampling others, and to prove you don't need a stage to be a light. Because here's the thing. Nobody wants to admit we are all interconnected like Wi-Fi signals in a crowded coffee. What you emit affects the atmosphere. When people are happier, the air feels lighter. The vibes are better. And my job gets easier. Win-win. Now, when I walk into a room and smell unhealthy competition brewing, I get twitchy. Yes, there's something called healthy competition. The kind that makes you want to lace up your sneakers and join the race because you've just seen someone moving like they know where the finish line is. But when the competition turns people into passive aggressive gladiators, it is no longer cute. If your glow deems everyone else's light, maybe, just maybe, you're shining the wrong way. So me, I'm not about outshining. I'm about lighting up the kind of light that makes other people go, you know what? I want to be part of that. I realized when I clocked that most of life's happiest moments are fleeting. You blink and they're gone. Which means you've got to be intentional about joy. It won't fall on your lap like a direct debit. You have to hunt it, build it, and sometimes fake laugh until the real one comes. And you know what else? I also stopped expecting humans to naturally like each other. News flash. Most of us are mildly irritated by each other at least twice a week. It's normal. doesn't mean you have to let it marinate. So, let's also be clear about this. Your employer will not pay me your salary because you're having a good day. Your work is your work. Your pay is your pay. Let's get back to actually leaving, laughing, working, and shining some light. I'd like to just talk about now gem. Um because for me, it's a play on words. It's a movement. Now is the present and it is a present and the gifts you didn't even wrap and gems those are the precious things ideas insights and you yes you shiny thing and if you thought perfection was the goal news flash even Beyonce's got bloopers I build spaces for learning growing laughing mostly at myself and doing life fully no filter needed so get your coffee your heel tea or raina and let's get things straight. Let's vibe. That's it. That's the memo. If you stay to the end, you're my kind of person. If not, well, they'll hear about it eventually. Now, go forth and sprinkle a little light. Oh, and remind me to tell you the story about my mom sometime. Trust me, you want a popcorn for that story. So, let's get this show on the road. Thank you so much, Kim. and um everyone that stayed till the end as well. Thank you. Much love. Bye.