IT'S TIME TO BECOME HIM - Powerful Motivational Speech Video

There's a quote from Victor Frankle that says, "When a man can't find a deep sense of meaning, they distract themselves with pleasure." What is your definition of allin? Everyone likes to talk about early mornings, late nights, hard work. That's not allin. Everybody in this room is a hard worker. Everybody in this room is talented. Talent is a gift. It's not a promise. Everybody in here is putting in long hours. It's the other things that you do beyond allin. If you want your day to feel easy, do the most difficult thing that you least want to do first. If you just do the things you do not want to do, you will have everything you have ever wanted. I need you to go to the next level. I need you to elevate. I need you to dominate. I need you to win. I need you to be that woman or be that man. I need you to be him. I need you to be her. I need you to be that. And you know why you can do that? Cuz you got to believe. If you do not have the ability to resist, to manage, to overcome doubts, to overcome worries, to overcome concerns, and whatever circumstance that prevents you from succeeding. This is not the year to talk about your problems. This is the year to solve your problems. Decide who you want to become. You know, you can't drift into a new life. You can't back into it. You need to design your new life. Envision a version of yourself that you respect, that you really want to become, and be specific. Build a life that a man or a woman would really want to live. You have to make a decision with such firm intention that the amplitude of that decision carries a level of energy that's greater than the hardwired programs in your brain and the emotional addictions in your body. And your body has to respond to a new mind. So then you make a choice and that choice becomes an experience that you never forget and the hair on the back of your neck stands up. Your body is responding to a new mind. But you can't do it being your normal self. It requires a level of energy that is the epipenomenon of matter. And when you change your energy, you change your life. I think that there are many ways how you can let's say motivate yourself to walk this path. So why would I face the dark side of myself knowing already that it's going to be painful? Why would I do that? You have to accept what has happened. You need to accept reality. It's one thing to accept the fact life isn't fair. This is cruel. I don't deserve this. It's a whole another ball game to accept that this is what has happened and it's not changing. Same as like every time you face a challenge that was really really difficult for you but you still pushed it through somehow. You still like were patient and persevered and were consistent and still tried. And this type of challenge for me was a was a way bigger victory than anything that was easily attained. That mean everything you got inside of you, everything that you equipped with that that you got what it takes to make it through the battle, through the storm to the next level. Let me tell you what, faith and worry don't get along. They don't coincide. They ain't dogs. They ain't homies. They ain't brothers. They ain't friends. They can't cohabitate. You got to believe. That means you got to have faith. We must suffer. We must suffer and you can run from it all you want. Once you come face to face with who you are, you have a starting point. The longer you hold on to this wish, the longer you prolong your own suffering. I mean, most of human suffering, our internal pain, our anguish, it comes from the desire to have things be different than how they are. You know, there's one quote I love from the poet room. Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead, let life live through you. So literally saying nothing sustainable and worse while in this lifetime comes from something that's easily attained. Facing yourself, face your shadow. Face the dark side. Look at your demons. Your lack of commitment is almost an insult to the people who believe in you. And that's what I'm trying to tell myself. There's people there's people who believe in me. So this is what I'm telling myself right now today. There's people that believe in me and and me having this half commitment. It's it's it's not it's not who the [ __ ] I am. It's not what my people it's not what the people who who believe in me deserve. And I want to you know I want to I want to give back to the people who believe in me. And everything is in arms reach. You just have to work to get there. There is no easy road to what you want. It's a long road. Everybody that wants to do something doesn't understand the steps that you have to take to get there. And it's not just in entertainment. It's in all aspects of life, man. And that's what I learned at a young age. No matter what, you can't escape work. You can't. To truly change is to think greater than your environment. And every great person in history knew this. Whether it was William Wallace or Mahatma Gandhi or Martin Luther King or Queen Elizabeth I or Jon of Arc, they all had a vision. They all had an idea. Couldn't see it, couldn't smell it, couldn't taste it, couldn't feel it, but it was alive in their mind. It was so alive in their mind that they began to live as if that reality was actually happening now. So, can you believe in a future that you can't see or experience with your senses yet, but you've thought about enough times in your mind that your brain is literally changed to look like the event has already happened? Take all the things that you got to do in a particular day and rank order them from the things that you want to do the least to the things that you want to do the most. And I guarantee one of the big reasons why you never get anything done is because you do the opposite. You start your day off doing all the things that you want to do and then you dread the rest of the day and chances are you probably just end up skipping it. But if you say, "Hey, let me start my day off by doing all these things that I don't want to do." By the time you're done with it, you're only left with all the things that you're looking forward to. So now you're proud of yourself because you did something difficult that was uncomfortable that you didn't want to do. And now you're excited cuz you get to enjoy the rest of your day. And they say you can't have your cake and eat it too. How does suffering, how does hardship, how does pain give me purpose? The process of struggle and the one who bears it is a process of development, of strengthening, of learning, of readjusting, but not just to anything, my friend. You are moving towards taking steps closer to embodying what you truly are. You know what's crazy? You know you could be the one if you really wanted to, right? You know that, right? But see, you keep playing the what if game. What if it don't work out this? What if it don't work out that? What if it do work out? Then what? You going to be happy, right? You can't say you want to win, but then you scared to lose. What kind of sense does that make? If you put your head down and locking on the vision, how could you not win? Only thing that's going to cause you to lose is your mentality. But that's between you and you, though. [Music]