how to be high value man (the world is rigged...)

I'm about to change your life and I don't think you quite understand that this video will be the one that will have a big impact on you so for those individuals that don't know who I am um my name is jate I've been running this Men influencer YouTube channel for over 7 years now and this video isn't like any of my typical videos I'm sure a lot of you guys have probably noticed for those that actually watch my videos on the regular or used to that I haven't really been uploading that much and then now suddenly you see me here and you're like damn this brother has leveled up you know like and I can't like I have truly leveled up and it's a blessing but part of me like I've had this itching feeling for like months there's something in me that is keep on telling me I have to upload a video to help you guys out because it just comes from this innate feeling when I was 13 years old 14 years old and I wanted to become this 1% man nowadays I'm probably way higher than that but let's just keep it for the sake of this video call it this quote unquote 1% man I've always wanted to be this high value man and sometimes when I look at my journey and sometimes when I'm like thinking it's just astonishing to think that I've actually done it you know I have become a 1% man I have become the person that I always wanted to be and it's crazy to think I've been able to achieve this but I'm so glad and grateful that I've been continually uploading on YouTube for years and I've constantly talked about every single thing on YouTube for years and and now it finally happened and that's why in this video I want to talk about on how to be a high value man especially in the modern day because what I've noticed is the world is riged like it's truly riged but then on the other side I've also noticed that a lot of people don't do thems any justice I always see people complaining about how everything's against me against them everything is difficult they're always so negative they're never grateful they don't want to put in the work yet they expect to get a 10 out of 10 baddy a Instagram model or even like a very good woman but then you just look at them and you're like brother who the [ __ ] are you what kind of value do you have to offer to this particular woman and the same goes with a lot of other things people want the best of the best things in life they want to be able to be the one that gets all of the respect want other men to look up to them but they don't do anything that will give them the respect that they're seeking and that's why I actually want to speak about all of this and for those individuals that are watching this video I don't think you understand who I am and I don't mean this to brag or like act in such an egotistical way but because that's what allot of these quote unquote haters people that are negative will say right but it's the truth if you want to be exceptional if you want to become a high value man you you have to be this very very confident individual because this world is rigged against you nobody deserves to be a quote unquote 1% Man by birth whilst there's a lot of women they end up being very pretty just by the way they're born they're blessed you know but with us men that's not the case at all you're not born into becoming a 1% man you have to build yourself into a 1% man and just to give you a little background about myself it's not like I come from a rich family it's not like I was the most attractive individual out there it's not like I was very social like sociable very confident heck I used to be the complete opposite I I'll just have a picture on the screen right now just to show you how I used to look like in high school people used to call me a gaming nerd in uh primary school I used to get bullied I was grown up in one of the worst areas in the Netherlands called sches viik and somehow I've turned into this individual that is currently in Cyprus it's it's like a Monday I'm probably going to go out in a little bit not because there's much to do it's November but like I can do whatever I want whenever I want and that's the type of person I've always wanted to be I wanted to become someone that can travel the world whenever he wants can take care of his friends and family and just enjoy life and live life on his own terms to me that's what high value man is but at the same time those are not the only uh traits that makes a high value man that's more the component of the lifestyle of a high value man and in this video I want to talk about how you can become a high value man there'll be three things I want to talk about and these three things will change your life so the first thing I want to talk about is your belief a lot of people say fake it till you make it and I used to say that for a long period of time as well but there's nothing to fake about wanting to make it because I've always had this core belief within me that's going to happen it might not happen today it might not happen tomorrow but someday it's going to happen and if you have that belief how is it fake it till you make it it's not like a lot of times you hear people say this but truly if you fake it or you make it you don't believe in yourself I've always believed in myself because if I don't believe in myself who will believe in me even when I used to look like this gaming nerd I used to tell to people that I'll become the best looking [ __ ] out there I used to say that I I'll become someone that will turn heads everywhere I go I used to say that I will become very successful I I'll live my dream life I'll be able to get like the best of the best women high quality women and then obviously I can choose the one I like that's always been my goal and I remember uh this was in high school in the nland when I was 15 years old um I used to say yeah next summer watch me I'll have a six-pack I'll look better because I used to wear these Glo losses right so I was like yeah I I'll look a lot better and I'll uh I'll come with contact lenses it used to be a big dude to me personally and I I'll be the best looking guy out there didn't happen but it didn't stop me from believing in me like if I don't believe in me no one will believe in me and that's step number one these days I feel like a lot of guys have life too easy it's too easy for you you you grew up in this generation where you don't have to do anything to live A okay life all you do do is play video games and waste your time whilst your ancestors have worked so hard for you to be in this position to me it doesn't make sense you know so that's definitely number one if you are someone that wants to be high value man it's all about the ambition like a lot of times you see people that are very ambitious still do really well with having friends having girls all around them having respect because step number one is believing in yourself if you can believe it it will happen I know I don't know how to explain it I've always had this feeling even when I wasn't the best looking guy out there I knew I would become good-looking don't ask me how it's just this innate feeling this this desire when you're so hungry for so long nothing can stop you and that's number one if you want to be a high value man a 1% man you need to believe in yourself because it all starts within your mind you have to manifest it I used to look look at myself in the mirror and I used to tell myself I'm the best looking guy out there I used to look at myself and I'm like yeah I like this part about me I like that part about me that boost my confidence up and it made me feel better about myself because I know like this might be a little bit of girl talk you know like oh self love self-care but it's the reality how many of you guys truly love yourself I'm sure a lot of you guys think yeah I'm all right I'm okay but excuse me but how many do like actually love themselves I know that a lot of times I see guys that are insecure they don't love themselves but for some reason they don't want to admit to it it's like this ego this male ego at these women don't have this ego you know they don't have this ego whil with us men we always have this ego that stops us so let's just be honest no one's watching it's just you and me like do you actually love yourself be honest if you don't I'm here for you I'm the brother here to help you out it all starts with that belief you have to tell yourself that it's worth it you need to think that you deserve more in life if you don't have this hunger I can't help you and I know a lot of people that watch these self-improvement videos watch them just to feel better that's why all these big YouTube channels have like hundreds of thousands of subscribers millions of views yet if you truly think about it a lot of these guys that watch it are still losers like they only watch it because it makes them feel better it makes them feel like yeah I'm proving myself oh I want something now I'm smarter but they're not taking any action and that's actually going to be the next step and it's not going to be this basic tip of take action I actually explain what I mean by taking action but just to come back to the self love part you need to fix yourself up you need to look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that it's worth it I am that guy I'm going to improve myself no matter what I'm going to be the individual that'll turn heads everywhere I go every person that used to doubt me will soon realize that they made a big mistake not because I care about the opinion but because I'll become such a amazing person such an amazing person that they just cannot believe I've done this it's quite interesting because a lot of times I get messages from people some people might not directly say it but you can definitely tell the way they've changed their tone they respect you a lot more just because of who you are because the world is rigged I like to think people want to be romantic I like to think people actually care about personalities but we live in this shallow world where they only care about you if you've got some of of status if you got something to provide especially as men if you're a little bit good-look and I'll actually come back to the good-look part because like I I'll make a completely separate video about like looks maxing how it actually is beneficial but then how the youth is doomed and ruined because of this I'll make a video about it in the future so definitely subscribe to be uh notified about our video but yeah so moving on to the second thing in terms of becoming a high value person is this not taking action at least obviously yeah take action but in a different way let me actually take a little sip all right so with taking act action I'm just going to tell you how I've done it I work so hard to become a somebody that's the type of action you need to take because this will fit in perfectly with number three and number three is a game changer once you reach number three and you've cleared it your life will never be the same but number two is you have to do whatever it takes to become a somebody for me to become a somebody was improving my looks making YouTube videos ging a little bit of subscribers a couple of followers helps with my status right improving my social skills when I was young I was very shy I didn't have the confidence I didn't really know how to speak funny enough my uh older brother used to think I was autistic I I don't think I am um but obviously like a lot of kids when they're younger they have these autistic Tendencies and once they grow older it goes away right but yeah this is so important you have to do whatever it takes to become a somebody you have to improve yourself work day in day out go to the gym improve your hair anything you can do to improve yourself and obviously now I'm talking more about my looks part because this is what helped me so much become who I am because I made a YouTube channel talking about looks and helping men become better and my whole story is about improving myself so this works for me doesn't mean that it will necessarily be the biggest key indicator for you but you still have to become a somebody you still have to gain respect in some way Pepsi is going to the gym perhaps is becoming very good at a specific Sports specific subject like even excelling at like a specific hobby that you have that helps you to become somebody in that group in that Social Circle and this helps you with the next step and the next step has really changed my life but before I actually talk about the next step I do want to like reiterate about the part of improving yourself in the way of like looks help you a lot these days like we're living in this Society where looks do matter you see it all of the time it matters you've got some people that say yeah it doesn't matter but the reality is does it does matter the only issue is and this is what I'm going to talk more about in my looks uh maxing video whether it's actually whether it's worth it or not because I've obviously done it and I'll talk about the drawbacks and the benefits of it but let me quickly explain this with the best scenario I can just find out of my head so like a few no it wasn't a few weeks away last week my family was over here like I flew them over from the UK to Cypress just to give them a good time and I come from a big family family of six U my youngest brother he's 13 he's he's a teenage boy right now and um we went to this uh ride in Luna Park it's like this attraction Park where they've got these uh rites we were sitting there he was sitting next to me and it's not weird for girls to look at me especially like decent looking girls so even he saw that they were looking at me and he's like yeah those girls are looking at you obviously me being the older brother I'm like yeah of course it's normal you know like you have to play a little bit cool and then this is the funny thing because his Tik Tok for you page is full of the looks maxing videos which is good you know it's one of those things that makes them improve themselves but it's also one of those things that makes guys very conscious and insecure these days I'm sure stuff that female have felt for like decades now guys are feeling this as well and in terms of the right what happened is I told them yeah they're looking at me because I've look looks maxed you're still on your looks maxing Journey and honestly this is funny but the reason I'm mentioning this is because he's the first generation where guys are so focused on looks obviously in our generation like we've become more wary become more stylish this and that but it's almost like their generation only cares about looks the guys only care about looks they acting like women and that's the issue with a lot of guys these days they're Bec coming very feminine they're basically being spoiled and and I'm not talking about my brother he's a g but basically um we've gone to a point where the younger generation thinks looks is everything but they are going to get a big big reality check because Evolution doesn't work that way just because girls do like about looks it's not everything it's more about respect status and power like these younger guys don't understand that part all they are focused on is improving their looks but they'll get a big reality check as they get older and realize that looke is not everything because I've been through this myself I used to think looke was everything oh yeah obviously we find looks important in girls right so it must be the other way around until I became good-look and I still didn't get any results this is the reality and this is why I'm talking about becoming a somebody and I'm not talking about improving your looks just because you're good-look doesn't mean that much if I see someone that's good-looking but he has no social skills he's still a loser he has nothing going on in his life he has no ambition he's just a good-look loser that's why I just wanted to reiterate this point although I'm talking about like improving yourself in terms of looks it's not only about looks it's about the ambition it's about the drive look back at step number one you have to believe it you need to have this mindset the ambitious mindset and then air on top of it you start from the base you're ambitious you're this ambitious nobody you've got nothing to offer you're like hey maybe a loser I don't want to be rude to you you know like I used to be one or was I was I deep down I knew I was a g you know even when I used to hang out with the uh nerds in high school I didn't want to hang out with them I knew I I could get more out of life and I know it's not nice to speak about Old Friends old classmates like that but I'm just speaking of the facts on how to become a high value man anyways so yeah you have to have the ambition step number one step number two is you have to become a somebody looks helps getting a better body helps improving your social skill helps becoming good at something helps building your status up helps because this helps with step number one and this is truly where you're going to change your life this is what I've been doing for the last year and I've taken way longer than I should have taken at least this is what my mentor told me he told me janate you should have been successful you should have been Rich you should have um gone more out of life you could have been even more successful you've could have been in front of like model Pages this and that all of that stuff but one thing you've seled on is your networking I always focused on step number one and step number two but I didn't know step number three existed networking or at least the I didn't understand the power of it but does this mean you need to instantly start networking not really because if you're nobody no one cares about you if you got nothing to offer why would someone significant speak to you they don't really care about you you're a waste of their time and that's why you need to become a somebody before you start networking if you are a somebody in your Feud and even though you might not make a lot of money you might not be that special people look for talent if they see you're somebody it shows them you're not lazy at least you've got some potential and that's where they are willing to invest in you and this has truly changed it for me this is how I became a high value man a 1center matter of fact I would say a lot higher right now because just if you if you're doing well monetarily you're already in the 1% imagine also being good-looking makes you even more special being able to approach anyone at any time makes you even more special being ambitious makes you even more special being highly intelligent makes you even more special I hope you understand where I'm going because the reason I'm saying all of this I might sound [ __ ] arrogant I might sound [ __ ] confident but the reason I am like this is because I have to be no one's going to come and save my ass you're not going to come and save me I'm not going to come and save you you have to do it yourself and I know there will be people watching this and say yeah you're so arrogant you're too full of yourself you're too Fain but when I see someone being full of themsel vain in the manner that I am I respect the more I'm like I know he has something I know that he has potential because you don't believe in yourself in such a manner if you don't want more in life you can't fake it when people say fake it till you make it and they don't make it it's because they faked it I truly believe in myself I believe that I deserve more in life I've always had this feeling I've always wanted more in life and here we are right now 24 years old I started my journey when I was 13 14 years old start my YouTube when I was 17 years old when I moved with my family to a new country I was born in the Netherlands and I moved to the UK and I took the leap of faith to start my YouTube channel and even back then my had more of a Dutch accent uh I still have it but like it was a bit different but in general this just is the reason I made this video for you I want to show you guys while there's all of these people out there online they're trying to sell you a lot of stuff you probably it's beneficial I'm sure it's beneficial but it it's more extra stuff these three steps are the core steps you need to take to become a high value men yourself I've done it I'm not charging you anything I don't want anything from you I just want to see a more amazing guys being made when I see someone that comes from nothing works so hard takes care of their friends and family that makes me feel good it makes me feel good hearing from you guys telling me how these videos have helped you out that's what I do because I remember when I was 14 13 years old I I had no clue where to look I wish I had a role model like myself that's why I do it and I grew up in the Netherlands in like especially when I was in my teenage years I was the only Brown guy there not that really matters everyone was super cool and super nice you know but then deep down y always still feel a bit out of place I was the only Muslim Brown guy in my class and it's an interesting concept to think about maybe that's the reason why I wanted it more but there's definitely something inside there's a fire something about you that you want to get more out of life I'm sure those few people that are like myself completely understand what I'm say and to become this 1center it's not an easy Journey a lot of times these days a lot of men they just want to be spoonfed they think everything is going to be handed to them but the reality is this world is riged brother everything is rigged against you dating apps are rigged against you the financial system is quite rigged against you if if you know you know that's all I'm going to say a lot of things happen in closed doors far far away from you guys big big conversations happen in interesting places that you'll never be a part of because you are nobody and that's why the somebodies that are listening or at least the people that want to become a somebody to then expand the network are the ones that will become the 1% because no one will let you be a part of the network if you're on nobody and that's the the truth that's the reality part of me sometimes thinks I'm lucky in some regards but then if you work every day day in day out and you have this core belief you're bound to have a lucky day and I also I also believe everything happens for a reason there's probably a a reason why you're watching this video it's not like I force you to watch it and you're still listening to me till the end and yeah like it's it's it's amazing because I do really appreciate you guys listening and taking my advice into account because this is literally the start of your journey I don't think you understand what kind of information I've given to you you might think okay yeah this sounds quite basic I've heard this before BBY Tak an action there's too much noise all around YouTube on social media on Tik Tok everywhere I rather listen to another video than listen to someone that has no malicious intent I have no reason to speak to you like this I have no reason to give you this information yet he's still doing it for your benefit for your benefit there's too much noise out there [ __ ] all of the noise don't listen to any of it focus on these three things and I promise you it's not going to be particularly easy in the sense of like yeah it will happen overnight of course not it took me years and among years took me like a decade to even get close to where I am today but then I didn't have the Privileges of knowledge that you guys have so just focus on this have ambition then once you've got the ambition tell yourself you're amazing help have this self Lov selft talk because it starts from within you need to create this internal fire you need to manifest the stuff you want out of life second thing is you have to become a somebody I don't care what it takes you have to become a somebody you have to work day in day out to become a somebody until you are someone that people respect once you get to that level now it's now it's time to speak to other individuals because this will truly change your life at least it has for me and as spoken to a lot of other individuals that have gone through a similar path and they've all set it so I hope this video has opened your mind and for those individuals that used to watch my YouTube videos I hope you like this new type of content because I really do I think it's [ __ ] amazing I wish someone like myself was making videos like this so yeah if you are new definitely subscribe be a part of this journey because I'm here for you I have no selfish intent at least not right now but yeah I'll see you on the