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how to deal with awkward silences in
this video I'll give you 5 easy to
follow steps on how to deal with it
because we've all been there where it's
a date networking event or even when we
meet someone that's completely new to
our lives we get in this awkward
situation we don't know what to say
that's just this awkward stingy silence
and it feels like that's very long
lasting and that's why in this video I
want to talk about on how to deal with
awkward silences with five easy steps
and with that said let's get started
step number one embrace the power of
observation you know what they say
silence speaks volume and that's why
it's extremely important to use this
time to observe your surroundings and
observe the person you're talking to
look for cues in the body language face
your expressions or even the environment
look for anything that you can bring on
later in the conversation because say
for example there's a very cool painting
on the wall you can make a mental note
of this and the next time when there's
about to be an awkward silence you can
quickly mention this and avoid it step
number two the classic would you rather
so the classic ice break every time
you're about to get in a situation where
there's gonna be an awkward silence just
bring out and would you rather would you
rather be invisible or be able to fly
and instantly you've avoided the awkward
silence and when it comes to your would
you rather it never comes across as a
weird thing to say because it sounds
quite playful spontaneous and the other
person will be too much focused on what
they have to answer rather than as to
why you randomly brought up a witchy
rather step number three share an
interesting fact let's Brew if you're
someone that's watching this video I'm
pretty sure that you're quite educated
you're a smart individual and that's why
it's extremely important to bring out an
interesting fact because when you bring
out an interesting fact people will be
more interested in you and this allows
the conversation to flow it doesn't
matter what it is it can be a pop
culture reference it can be a classical
history thing or it can even be
something about the future about AI or
whatever it does not matter as long as
you bring up an interesting fact you'll
be able to avoid the awkward silences
step number four reflect on shared
experiences so sometimes you've already
been with a certain person before for
example you've been to the movies you've
been playing golf if you had any other
sort of shared experience bring the up
just talk about hey do you remember that
time when we went to play golf and then
this happened or do you remember when we
ended up going to that boxing match and
then suddenly this happened if you
simply bring something up like this you
can easily avoid the awkward silences
and even if you don't know that
particular person if you have a mutual
friend a mutual connection you can talk
but hey you know this person right and
they'll be like yeah I know this person
and then you can say Yeah so basically
the other day we went to the golf court
and this happened and now you've
instantly avoided an awkward silence
step number five is to master the art of
active listening so a lot of times we're
too much in our head as to what's the
next thing to say whilst the truth is
that if you're someone that wants to
avoid awkward silences the person in
front of you is gonna help you do so
once they are talking actually actively
listen to the person actively asks
questions not a little bit and simply
engaging the conversation because if
you're truly focused on the conversation
you simply won't be worried on dealing
with awkward silences you won't be
worried to avoid awkward silences and
even if one of those awkward silences
pops up if he is one of the previous
four steps he can easily avoid it but
the many ways you deal with awkward
silences is to prevent them from
happening in the first place and to do
that it all starts with active listening
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genuinely appreciate your time and I
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