Couple Posts Celebration Photo, Looks Closer At Background And Regret It

couple post celebration photo looks closer at background and regret it [Music] [Applause] they were always getting likes on their pictures friends and family and even some strangers would always leave a comment and they were popular but one picture was different it became a massive hit overnight and wasn't just seen by their close friends magazines and news websites picked up their pictures to share them with the world but what was so special about this photo why was everyone talking about it then when they checked the comments it all made sense but wendy joseph and dan hennessy weren't always such big internet stars in fact they remember a time when social media was barely a blip on anyone's radar funnily enough though it played a big part in how their love and success story got started it all began in 2006 when both of them were young college students they didn't know each other but they were about to cross paths in the most unusual of ways dan was an 18 year old sophomore studying exercise science wendy at the time only 17 years old had just graduated from high school and wanted to pursue a career in public health care dan was an outgoing kid who loved partying and meeting new people and it didn't take long for him to learn about facebook at the time the social network was in its infancy and only used by college students mainly for dating he immediately took a liking to the site dan used facebook to meet new people and expand his circle of friends one day he came upon a girl named daphne with whom he had mutual ones he sent her a message but she didn't reply undeterred he started going through her friends list that's when he saw wendy's profile smitten with her photos he messaged her too but at the time wendy was wary of strangers on the internet instead of replying she told her friend daphne about it who had some things to say about dan daphne told wendy that dan had messaged her too so when he decided she wasn't gonna reply to him weeks went by and he reached down again intrigued she went on his profile and discovered he knew people she went to high school with so she messaged back and an online friendship was born but dan wanted to meet wendy in person so he invited her and her friends to a party at his apartment there was only one problem dan hadn't actually planned a party because he didn't think wendy would accept his invitation when she did he scrambled to notify his friends and put everything together and he pulled it off the night of the party arrived in the pair hid it off instantly they chatted drank and danced together all night when all the guests were gone wendy was still there hanging out with dan there was obvious chemistry between the two but that didn't mean things would work out wendy had just come out of a long-term relationship and dan was really enjoying his party lifestyle so they decided to stay friends they became really close and six months later they realized they were ready to try things out as a couple they had no idea that trouble was looming down the road with her love life blossoming or so she thought wendy began to focus her attention on other areas of her life she threw herself into her studies while dan continued to socialize and party with friends by now years had gone by but she was still no closer to getting her master's degree that's when she saw the message in dan's inbox that made her head spin what had started as a small seated doubt in wendy's mind only grew the longer they were together with dan's facebook profile still active wendy watched his ever growing friends list with suspicion in her heart shortly after she began declining invitations because she had to study he began going out without her it was becoming very clear that although they had matured den still loved to party the message seemed innocent enough but as the day wore on wendy felt herself becoming consumed by it dan had forgotten to log out of his facebook account and had left his inbox open wendy was going over her coursework when she saw the notification come through she hesitated but sooner curiosity got the better of her and her art sang what she saw was from one of dan's many female friends wendy couldn't help herself she found herself going through all of dan's messages although she couldn't find any incriminating evidence against him she did find a lot of messages from other women to make matters worse they were all successful young and had finished their studies she felt like a failure and it wasn't long before her fears seeped into every aspect of her life what could wendy do she felt like her relationship was spiraling beyond her control everyday bakers quickly became giant arguments fueled by wendy's insecurities and dad's refusal to compromise what if he met someone new then a little voice insider asked what if he already had fast forward to the present and the notorious photograph when his eyes widened as the likes crept past the 60 000 mark comments flooded in as the photo was shared thousands of times friends family and the general public were determined to have their say but why had this photograph that wendy had posted sparked worldwide controversy when wendy decided to break it off with dan all those years ago it had seemed like the logical choice at the time they'd been so young when they'd met she knew that she had changed a lot in those seven years looking at the photograph again she was sure that it had been the best decision she'd ever made even though it had broken her heart to think of her life without dan she knew she had to put her hand down and pursue her own interests she needed to find out what kind of woman she could become she went on to eventually receive her master's degree in public administration but staying away from dan had proved harder than she had imagined dan hadn't been happy with wendy's decision and he wasn't ready to give up the love of his life he messaged her every day for the entire year and a half that they were separated just like in the beginning he hoped that his persistence would pay off but wendy had finally found their calling though it was a difficult time dan eventually realized that wendy was right wendy started her youtube channel wendy's curls where she posted beauty tutorials and gave hairstyling advice she shrugged off her old look and began to embrace her own natural beauty and her followers loved it but then fate decided to intervene in her life once more one day the couple bumped into each other again after months of not seeing one another dan was amazed at the transformation that wendy had made the strong confident woman he saw before him made him fall in love with her all over again but would she take him back when they had her reservations wendy had decided to break up with dan so they could each find themselves and discover who they were as individuals though it was a difficult time she knew it was the right thing to do during that time spent alone wendy had become a youtube star with thousands of followers and she had her confidence back had dan changed in such a short time wendy thought so he'd been relentless in trying to convince her that they were meant to be together and he hadn't dated anybody else during the time they'd been apart he'd proven that he was in it for the long haul so she decided to give him another chance little did she know their antics were about to go viral dan started appearing in wendy's videos and they discovered that fans really liked seeing them together so they began posting videos giving relationship advice and talking about their life as a couple dan also created an instagram account which quickly amassed over 25 000 followers although not nearly as many as wendy's 105 000 then in december 2017 they celebrated their 10th anniversary but they had no idea that this milestone would become a viral sensation to mark the occasion of their 10th anniversary wendy posted a side-by-side picture on her instagram page on the left was a picture of them when they first started dating and on the right was a current photo though it may seem like a normal thing to do the post exploded in a matter of weeks it got over 60 000 likes it got picked up by major news outlets like the independent the sun and the daily mail but why had this photo gone so viral seeing the photos side by side people couldn't believe how different wendy and dan looked especially since they appeared much younger now than 10 years ago do you both age and reverse asked one commenter what foundation of youth are you drinking from as another but as it turns out there's a reason for such a transformation they go on to explain exactly how they managed to become so healthy and happy even before they met both wendy and dan had a strong interest in health and fitness which was reflected in their choice of careers so it's no surprise that both of them worked hard on their bodies when wendy's youtube channel hit it big they realized going into the fitness space was a natural progression for them they started posting workout tutorials and nutrition advice but they had a vision that was bigger than a youtube channel together dan and wendy founded true for you fitness a fitness coaching company where they give nutrition and exercise advice to their clients they also opened a wellness focused youtube channel though once in a while they also talk about their life and relationship and in september 2016 they made a huge announcement in september 2016 wendy and dan were on holiday in paris with a couple of friends but the day they visited the eiffel tower dan had a surprise prepared for wendy with his friend recording everything he got down on one knee pulled out a diamond ring and asked wendy to marry him naturally wendy said yes she was so excited that she even forgot which hand the ring should go on he was like a fairy tale but the couple's life was about to become even more magical after their trip to paris in their engagement wendy and dan were not done traveling and living their dream life they were able to save enough money to do something they'd always wanted travel abroad for months at a time dan and wendy managed to earn enough money from their fitness venture to travel to thailand costa rica panama colombia and many other places after returning to the us they went on a domestic trip to las vegas and are now busy planning their wedding but what else does this power couple have planned although both dan and wendy are originally from new jersey they decided to move to the warmer climate of san diego california with a stunning weather sun and surf this could be the perfect place for the couple to settle down what else does this mesmerizing pair have on the cards the couple's instagram and youtube fitness pages have grown from strength to strength recently branching out to include a website their main goal is to help people from all over the globe reach their fitness goals and transform their lives just as they did after all the couple who trains together stays together wendy and dan's story of love and success seems like a dream come true from the outside but sometimes if someone's life appears to be too good to be true on social media it probably is she took a closer look at the photo now that it was pointed out to her she couldn't believe it she'd been deceived for over a month and she couldn't fathom what they were telling her but why would her daughter do this and then the truth of it all sank in zilla van der born of the netherlands had entered the world of modeling at the tender age of 16 and soon she was enamored by the way her photographs were manipulated to portray her in a different light the photo editors would work tirelessly to ensure that her shoots were picture perfect but she didn't always agree with her modifications zillow was 25 years old when she decided to pursue a career in the arts and she enrolled at the art academy of utrecht for a graphic design course her friends and family were aware of her dreams to travel the world one day so they were unsurprised when she announced a solo 5-week trip to southeast asia little did they know zilla's photographs of her trip were about to stir major controversy laden with her heavy luggage zilla arrived at the airport in april 2014 and promptly posted a photograph of her send-off on facebook soon comments flooded in all her friends and followers were on and a little envious that the young girl was about to set off on the adventure of a lifetime but nobody could have dreamed what was really going on in zilla's life zilla continued to post photographs of her adventure in thailand laos and cambodia over the next five weeks she posted snapshots of herself posing in the sapphire blue waters of asia's idyllic beaches silhouetted against the iconic skyline of bangkok as well as enjoying the local cuisine she had no idea how much backlash she would receive for these seemingly innocent photographs later on zilla added photograph after photograph on social media to the envy of her hundreds of facebook friends in one album titled thailand the land of smiles she even poses with a buddhist monk in the beautiful temples of bangkok her rabid followers waited with baited breath for each snapshot of the young woman's seemingly perfect life and she never disappointed them she partied with many new friends she had made when scuba diving in the crystal waters that the thai island of phuket with exotic marine life and even posed with the local children on the surface it appeared as though she was living everyone's wildest dreams and adventures but this was far from the truth zilla despite her busy days of adventure managed to keep her loved ones updated and would video call them on skype from her various hotel rooms throughout her stay and she did an excellent job of maintaining the facade she had built so elaborately around herself her parents never suspected that anything was amiss with her daughter when zilla's five-week vacation drew to a close her parents were eager for her to come home and show them all the photographs of her trip they were proud of their daughter and happy that she'd been brave enough to embark on such a journey alone in a foreign country but when zilla revealed what she'd actually been doing during her vacation everyone was left reeling she had set up some exotic props in her apartment when she staged the skype calls to her family and all it took to make everyone believe that she was in asia were a few paper umbrellas when her loved ones had dropped her at the airport she disguised herself and returned to her amsterdam apartment you see instead of going on a five-week vacation zilla had decided to perform an elaborate social experiment she never left her apartment in amsterdam for the entire five weeks instead carefully photoshopping herself into believable scenes from her imaginary vacation she revealed how she had managed to pull off such an extraordinary feat on a video on vimeo zilla had even studied asian cooking videos and had recreated them in her own kitchen to give her posts an authentic feel she'd also successfully faked the shots of her snorkeling in her very own backyard swimming pool and then edited the exotic fish into the shots with photoshop the hoax was risky and she'd been careful to make sure there were no flaws in her plan the most difficult aspect of the five-week long operation was convincing people of the fake friendships she'd made on her travels zilla even went as far as creating fictional identities for each of them and staging facebook conversations to make her experience more believable to her friends and followers zilla spent weeks creating her elaborate ruse and had successfully fooled everyone she transformed her everyday surroundings to create the illusion that she was off on an incredible adventure the entire process was painstaking and she told nobody about her secret but a revelation baffled her friends and family why would she go to such an effort the experiment was a project for her university course zilla had set out to prove that social media is a powerful tool that many used to distort other people's perceptions of their lives she wanted to prove how easy it is to portray yourself in a specific way on social media it's not only the models in the magazines but also our friends on social media who contribute to this fake reality we should be more careful about what we believe and ask ourselves why a photo is made how and by whom and with which intention zilla said and her message is a powerful one i did this to show people that we filter and manipulate what we show on social media we create an ideal world online which reality can no longer meet zilla said in an interview my goal was to prove how common and easy it is for people to distort reality everyone knows that pictures of models are manipulated but we often overlook the fact that we manipulate reality also in our own lives but not all of zilla's photographs were added in for the shot where she poses with a buddhist monk she simply went to the nearest temple it's ironic that the photos of the buddhist temple were the most authentic post zilla created during her five-week social experiment but understandably zilla's elaborate hoax has received mixed reactions from her friends and family some of zilla's facebook fans praised her skills and took her message to heart while others felt hurt and betrayed by her lies her loved ones were most affected of all if i had the chance to do it again i don't think i would zilla confessed to buzzfeed i really underestimated the impact of the project on myself and the people around me what do you think about zilla's social experiment should we always believe that our friends are living idyllic lives because of what they post on social media is it right to feel unsatisfied with our own lives because of the heavily distorted reality we are shown every day in the media and in our own facebook feeds think carefully next time you feel a twinge of envy seeing is not always believing