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why need to stop worrying about your
hair and this might be very confusing
because you're literally watching a guy
that just got a haircut today but the
reason i want to talk about this today
is because i literally just came back
from the barber and while being at the
barber some conversations were going on
and that made me think about making this
video today because in my opinion
sometimes guys focus a little bit too
much about the hair and not in the way
that you think it is more of a mental
barrier it is something that restricts
you as an individual to prosper in life
and does in this video i want to talk
about why you need to worry less about
your hair and with that said let's get
started all right so to give a little
bit of context i went to the barber
today because tomorrow i'm going to
budapest and in a couple of hours i'm
going to start to pack up and i simply
needed a haircut and when it comes to
the barbershop i go to usually there's a
couple of guys that work there but today
when i was at the barber shop in the
morning there was only one guy working
there and recently they started this
appointment system where you can choose
which one of the barbers you would like
to select on what time so what started
to happen while i was waiting for my
turn so what started to happen while i
was waiting for my turn a lot of
individuals started to call in to book
an appointment but when the individual
told them that he was the only barber at
the store for today they weren't
interested and i found it quite
surprising it's not like that this
individual is a bad problem and this
continued to happen for a few times and
then it was my turn and whilst he was
cutting my hair some random guys started
to drive up next to the barbershop went
inside and asked for another guy whether
he was available and the barber that was
working in the store said that the other
barber isn't in today and he literally
was about to walk out so this guy put
all of the effort to drive all the way
to the barber shop just to walk out
because another barber wasn't available
and in the meantime while this guy was
cutting me another one of the barbers
started to enter the shop and so it's
not like he even had to wait and this is
something that i personally found quite
strange because i completely understand
that everyone has their own preferences
but your time is also very valuable if
you've put in the work to drive all the
way to the barbershop to see whether you
can get yourself a haircut and there's a
bulb available someone someone that is
competent and has the ability to give
you the haircut that you're looking for
why would you not want to take it so
before that guy was about to walk out of
the barbershop i literally told him that
i got myself a haircut from the other
guy two weeks ago and he's pretty good
he was still a little bit hesitant but
ended up going for it and this brings me
to the point why i feel like sometimes a
lot of guys need to stop caring less
about our hair because when it comes to
us after three weeks four weeks or
whatever time period you usually get
your hair cut we feel really good about
ourselves and that's probably one of the
main reasons these individuals want to
have a specific bar but they want to
have the specific look they're looking
for because that makes them feel better
about themselves personally i find this
very dangerous because i'm not gonna lie
even if i get a haircut i feel better
about myself but even on the days that i
haven't had a haircut i don't let that
affect the rest of my life because i've
seen it all of the times individuals not
chasing their dreams individuals not
approaching the girl that they like and
the excuse is that they don't have a
haircut although a haircut does make you
look better it makes you more attractive
as long as your hair looks alright and
kind of maintained it is still perfectly
fine to go for it you've got nothing to
lose in life don't let something as your
haircut stop you from chasing the bigger
things in life it is very important to
build up your self-esteem even on the
days where i need a haircut i still feel
very good about myself i still believe
that i'm good enough i still believe
that i'm good looking i still believe
that if i go for something i can achieve
it and that's one of the things that i
feel like a lot of guys are lacking
today they need the extra edge they
become control freaks make excuses that
are not relevant and that really holds
you back in life because whether your
favorite barber will cut your hair or
another barber as long as they don't
screw it up it will look better than it
did before so stop putting your hair on
the pedestal stop using your hair as an
excuse because this is holding you back
in life and if you do want to prosper in
life if you do want to achieve greater
things in life don't use this as an
excuse develop your self-esteem because
this way even on the days where you
don't feel like it you know your value
and will still go for whatever you want
in life and that's pretty much the end
of this video so thank you for those
individuals that are listening to this
rent i know it sounds a little bit
negative but sometimes these little
things need to be said because these
little things start to compound and
start to create momentum over time so if
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out anyways thank you so much for
watching i genuinely appreciate your
time and hope to see on my next video
bye bye
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