How to STOP Being Jealous Of Your Best Friend (4 EASY TIPS)

how to stop feeling jealous of your best friend feeling jealous is a negative emotion some of us experience and that is due to the fact that we want something that someone else has but we simply don't got and jealousy usually occurs because we find that life is a little bit unfair we are insecure about certain things about ourselves and we don't like how other individuals are excelling while you're still stuck in this rot and thus in this video i want to talk about how to stop being jealous of your best friend and i'll be excited because i put a lot of effort into these videos to help in the best way possible and with that said let's get started number one consider your own insecurity so if you're someone that tends to be jealous of other individuals usually one of the underlying causes is your own insecurities look at yourself why are you jealous about that person why are you jealous of your best friend is it perhaps because this individual has certain skills or certain things that you don't have and in the case that they do have that and you don't have it it's perfectly fine not everyone has the same skill sets not everyone is born in the same way we all get certain chords handed towards us and we need to make the best of it but over time if you put in the effort if you've got a positive mindset you can overcome your own struggles and thus there's no point to always compare yourself with other individuals there's no point to compare your own insecurities with other individuals because you are who you are and no one else can be you the way you can be yourself and thus if you want to stop being jealous of other individuals assess your own insecurities sometimes we need to accept them because every single one of us has insecurities and thus if you want to stop being jealous of your best friend you need to realize that most likely your best friend else has insecurities and understanding that sometimes you can't change these insecurities is a part to overcome this jealousy however on the other side sometimes you can change your insecurities so if you put in the work you've got positive mindset over time you can overcome your insecurities number two build your own self-esteem the thing i've always realized when it comes to a lot of individuals that tend to be quite bitter individuals that tend to be more on the jealous side these individuals tend to have quite low self-esteem and sometimes we're just born that way sometimes but that doesn't mean you need to feel better it doesn't mean you need to feel jealous about other individuals if you are someone that puts in the effort and you understand that at the moment you feel this way and it's because of your past but you're still open to build your self-esteem you're open to improve yourself make yourself more confident over time you realize that you have less of this negative personality you won't be as bitter you won't be as jealous but that only happens if you're willing to put in the work if you're someone that wants to build your self-esteem it's very important to be a man of your word if you say you're gonna do something actually do it a lot of individuals say that they're gonna do something and they simply not end up doing it and what will happen is that not only other individuals will lose respect for you but you also lose respect for yourself and if you're someone that's gonna lose respect for yourself you're gonna lower your self-esteem instead of thinking i'm a really cool guy instead of thinking i'm this confident individual i can do whatever i want you'll start to doubt yourself you become more insecure you have a lower self-esteem and does and thus if you're someone that wants to build your self-esteem this isn't a process that happens overnight maybe you're someone that puts in the effort it doesn't matter what area it is it doesn't matter how you do it but you're still a menu of your word if you say you're going to do something you end up doing it over time you'll be able to build your self-esteem and over the long term you'll be less bitter and less jealous number three happiness in yourself you my friend have something that other individuals don't have and sometimes we don't see it ourselves sometimes we're not grateful for what we've got we always focus on what our best friend has we always focus on what other individuals have but this doesn't make us happy you need to find happiness in yourself you've got some traits and skills that make you stand out you've got personality that's different to other individuals think about your morals think about the things you value in life think about your integrity think about all of the positive things you've done in life think about how you've helped other individuals and think about all of the times people have positive response to you and if you're someone that can't really think about things like that maybe you need to reassess some parts of your life because when it comes to finding in the happiness it usually comes from helping others and thus if you want to be less jealous actually try to help other individuals and you realize that all of us are humans at the end of the day all of us are seeking to be more grateful and if you're someone that wants to be less jealous you need to find this inner happiness in yourself number four have control over your emotions so when it comes to emotions it's just simply the way we are feeling at a certain moment emotions constantly change sometimes they can change in a minute sometimes they can change in a second and sometimes we feel a certain way for a couple of days but that's totally normal it's a part of our dna it's a part of a biology and thus if you're someone that wants to feel less of those emotions from time to time it is very important to control those emotions because a lot of times the emotions with you as humans is the response of a subconscious mind are we actually feeling really deep inside of us whether there's bitterness whether we're jealous or perhaps being super happy or super grateful all of those feelings come from deep within us and thus if you're someone that wants to feel less of them from time to time and don't want to feel jealous of your best friend when they're excelling in life you need to be able to control your emotions because we're feeling these emotions for a reason because there's something clearly wrong with yourself perhaps you're insecure perhaps this is a way of your subconscious mind to tell you that you need to excel in life too and need to get to work to minimize these feelings not only do you need to get to work and look at these emotions as a response mechanism that clearly something isn't right but at the same time be able to control them because if you're someone that's able to control your emotions you can look at things from of a rational perspective you can assess every single problem from a different angle even if you get the urge of feeling jealous if you're able to control it it doesn't really face you and those were the four easy steps on how you can stop being jealous of your best friend and if you found this video useful and informative please let me know in the comment section down below and also leave a thumbs up for the youtube algorithm if you could please consider to subscribe i would really appreciate it since it really helps the channel out anyways thank you so much for watching i genuinely appreciate your time and hope to see my next video bye bye [Music] you