Mom couldn’t stop crying when she saw what the housekeeper is doing with her 6 babies

mom couldn't stop crying when she saw what the housekeeper is doing with her six babies the most beautiful thing about raising and taking care of children is the unconditional love and bond you have with your children in my opinion raising children to me is wonderful seeing their smiling faces at the end of a tough day seems to make my day ten zero zero zero times better there are so many beautiful and challenging things about raising children but i think it's seeing them grow into healthy happy and productive adults and watching them raise their own children with the blessings of grandchildren that doesn't mean you won't have hard times and challenges as life goes on but doing my best to be a godly role model living out my faith and daily praying for them is most important for me and helps us all through them blessings and challenges babysitting involves an awful lot of trustparents take an enormous leap of faith every time they leave their precious offspring alone with that tween from down the street in an ideal situation babysitters and nannies seamlessly blend into the child care dynamic forming a dependable branch of the family's community working parents these days have a lot to worry about and after this shocking incident you don't just need to protect kids from strangers outside but also from those you let indoors this techie couple hired a motherly governess for their six twins as both work night shifts little did they know that this abusive housekeeper had anger management issues and violent tendencies a married filipino maid who physically abused her employer's six babies recorded the acts on her mobile phone and sent videos of the crying child in pain to her lover was sentenced to nine months jail on friday leslie and belmont diesa 36 arrived in singapore to work as a domestic helper in 2016. she's married to a logistics coordinator who also works in singapore bought the couple at a strained relationship as diesel was having an affair with another man known only as raymond dianes have confirmed the offenses on april 11 this year at the condominium unit her australian employer lived and she was looking after her employer's son who was just over a year old at that time when she got into a heated argument with raymond during a video call on facebook between 2 p.m and 3 p.m she then decided to record videos of herself abusing the boy who cannot be named due to a gag order in order to show raymond what she was capable of when angry court documents said the boy was lying on the bed getting ready for a nap when dieza placed her mobile phone on the side of the bed with the camera angled at him and started recording the recording which was one minute 34 seconds long showed dayasa pressed the baby's face into the mattress smother him with a pillow and shake them she also pulled and lifted the small boy up by his hair and threw him against a pillow throughout the ordeal the baby screamed and cried in pain later that day diesel was with the babies in the kitchen when she began deciding to record herself abusing the children this time dieza grabbed another baby's arm and used the broad side of a kitchen knife to repeatedly smack him on the buttocks the video clip was 35 seconds long in which the babies were screaming and crying video clips forwarded to accused husband dieza sent the two videos to raymond who asked his sister to contact yetza's husband the video clips were forwarded to die as his husband who then went on to meet diet said the couple had an argument during their meeting dancy's husband later called the police stating that he believed his wife was not in a position to look after these poor babies he said my wife leslie and is working here as a domestic helper she's taking care of a kid with her state of mind she's not in the right capacity to take care of a kid he added that diets that told him that she had just been scolded by her employer and she can't take it i'm worried for the safety of the kid and also worried of losing my job here because of her he said diaza was arrested at the condominium that night and the child was taken to hospital for a checkup the boy had a one centimeter long abrasion on his foot and two small old scabs on his back district judge jesfender cower sentence diesel to nine months jail for two charges of ill-treating a child diesel could have been jailed for up to four years and fined up to four thousand dollars for each charge other shaken footage 40 second video is time stamped april 19 2019 around 8 59 p.m in it the fdw can first be seen beating and shoving the child's head toward the table then doubling back to hit the same child on the back of the head with a broomstick leone one bow reports that the fdw is a 27 year old burmese woman in its report the evening paper claims to have seen footage showing the helper allegedly using household objects such as spoons a tv remote control and a pencil case to hit the children another cctv clip reportedly shows her hitting one of the children's faces with a spoon so hard that the ladder's nose started bleeding the fdw then wiped away the blood and continued lashing out at the child according to wan bao the fdw had also grabbed one of the children by her hair and bashed her head against the table on at least one other occasion juan mao added that she did not stop her violent behavior even when the children cried parents run a night market stall to not spend much time with children speaking to the chinese daily the children's mother of 44 year old vietnamese woman said she initially did not suspect any wrongdoing as she runs a night market stall with her 63 year old husband the couple would be out daily from 4 pm to 2 a.m and thus have little time to interact with their children additionally she reportedly said the fdw has been employed by the couple for around three months before the incident of alleged violence and it always displayed a good attitude and performed decently in her tasks discovering the alleged abuse juan bao reported that things only started unraveling when the parents spotted a bruise on one of their daughter's forehead two weeks ago when they questioned the helper she allegedly claimed that it was a result of a child falling off a bicycle the mother had reportedly only checked the house's cctv footage to ensure that the fdw had applied ointment to her child's head that was when she discovered the abuse her children were allegedly going through allegedly getting hit every day the mother reportedly shared that the cctv footage recorded at home throughout the month of april showed the fdw hitting the children on a daily basis sometimes the abuse would last for 10 minutes but other times it would go on for an hour or more the parent told one beau the cctv only had footage from the last 30 days so who knows what she did to my daughters from january to march i get angry just thinking about it a police report has allegedly been filed by the mother and the maid who had not been identified has reportedly been sent back to the agency imagine what hearing them on a continuing basis would be like and in the fact that this is one of your parents being mentally emotionally and are physically abused seeing this happen is devastating for a child there's fear of course but there's also guilt because they're powerless to help if your child is a girl she may grow up to have trust issues with men or worse still she may end up with abusive men herself even when she's always said she would never be with anyone who abused her in any way i am in no way blaming but often children exposed to domestic violence recreate the dramatic error that was their childhood the adrenaline that pumps through you when you're listening to or seeing the abuse becomes somewhat addictive being in calm environments is foreign to them so they may gravitate more towards the excitement of an unstable unhealthy relationship if your child is a boy he is more likely to be an abuser when he becomes old enough to engage in dating and relationships he may look at women with disdain seeing them as weak this is especially true if the abuse eventually spills over onto him from my own personal experience the guilt a boy grows up with for not being able to protect his mom is overwhelming children can't process what's going on around them especially if it's been a part of their entire life i could imagine there might be a numbing to it all which may lead a child to being rather cold or distant to someone else's suffering children are often in the middle of arguments between their parents leaving them in a horrible situation if they choose the side of the one being abuse they put themselves at risk of possibly being abused themselves but they choose the abuser side you can see how that emotionally devastating would feel abandoning their abused parent children and their abused parent often form a bond through this all on the outside this may seem like a wonderful thing but it can really end up hindering the healing for all involved it's a good idea to let the nanny know you have the nanny cameras at home if she's good she won't mind being watched she will take it as conscious mother's care for her child when she's not by her kid's side a good danny won't feel uncomfortable being watched because she won't fear her doing anything wrong on the other hand if your maid is not aware of the camera you might become a witness of your kid getting tortured or abused which can even go as far as your kid's death accidentally or as a result of your maids unawareness another point is accusing someone about something you weren't present there physically will make you feel awkward to speak about i know you might feel curious to know about the actual behavior of your maid but it won't make a good impression on the mate after knowing she was actually being watched without her consent your main concern is your kid's safety so concentrate on your baby's safety and inform your maid that you have cameras installed in every corner of your home and also let her know the reason for doing this is your kid's safety and to watch how your baby's doing and where he is your intention is not to be a detective but to be a protective mother i hope she'll understand and it won't be a problem at all if domestic abuse is witnessed by this fragile forming mind then that becomes normal to the child which is it's self-destructive for both the children and their future partners children who grow up in a household with domestic abusers are much more likely to be either an abuser or a victim this depends on the parent they most emulate i'm praying for you and your children and for those beautiful things healthy relationships and encourage you during the journey referring to the cctv footage that was widely shared on social media during the past week he said a deterrent punishment would reflect the seriousness of the crime and send a message to the public that such an 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