5 Traits Of A Mysterious Man

mysterious man i know that there's a lot of guys out there that would love to become a mysterious man and therefore in this video i'm gonna go over five crates of a mysterious man but before i start if you're someone that is new to this channel and would like to see more videos like this please consider hitting the subscribe button and i'll be brother out because i'm aiming for 10k subscribers and i know that a lot of you guys love these videos and therefore by leaving a comment what kind of feeders you would like to see next i can help you out in the best way possible anyways with that said let's jump into the video alright so let's talk about the first trait of a mysterious man be an observer a mysterious man is someone that observes his surroundings and his environment he doesn't just speculate and look around he actually tries to understand everything every sort of social dynamic and then after analyzing it he starts to use it in his own favor and the way he can leverage the power of a mysterious man is by being an observer because sherlock holmes once said you look but you don't observe and you might be asking what does he mean by this and to be honest it's quite easy to understand you know most individuals they always look around and try to impress upon others but a mysterious man observes he looks at the social dynamics and he understands it and therefore he knows his disadvantages and his advantages and therefore he's gonna leverage his advantages to make everyone curious even though he hasn't reviewed anything about himself and thus if you want to become a mysterious man it's very crucial that you're someone that's gonna observe your surroundings and understand where your disadvantages and advantages are and then after that you leverage your advantages to make other people curious about you without revealing anything about yourself and now i would like to move on to the second trait of a mysterious man have secrets a mysterious man always has a law of secrets and doesn't feel obligated to tell it to anyone because compared to a mysterious man there's individuals out there that will reveal anything about themselves just to be liked by others but what they don't understand is that if you're going to review everything about yourself you've got nothing left to show and this makes those individuals less interesting to talk to and most individuals will be more curious about the mysterious man because he hasn't reviewed anything secretive about himself and why should he he doesn't feel obligated to do it and this is one of those tricks that is utilized by a mysterious person because if you're not revealing a law about yourself and other individuals are revealing a lot about them you actually start to create some sort of leverage because they don't know a lot about you but you know a lot about them and this way the social dynamics are in your favor because the social balance isn't intact because for example you review 20 about yourself while the other individual has reviewed 60 about themselves now they will be more curious to understand what you are about and therefore now they feel like that you know too much about them relative to how much they know about you which will create an upward spiral of them becoming more curious and interested in you because they simply don't know a lot about you and keep your secrets for yourself because this way they can't use it against you and you have more leverage since you know more about them than they know about you and now i would like to move on to the third trait of a mysterious man shut up and i know you might be asking did i hear that correctly yes i'm telling you to shut up well i don't mean this in a rude way i'm just telling you to talk less about yourself because who doesn't know those characters you ask them one simple question and they continue to talk and talk even though it's not relevant and thus that's definitely not what a mysterious man is a mysterious man doesn't reveal too much about himself and therefore if you don't want to review too many secrets about yourself you should just simply talk less about yourself and i know that this sounds very basic for a lot of individuals most individuals will say yeah of course it's very easy to not talk a lot about myself but just try it out if someone is gonna talk to you try to minimize the words you're gonna use and try to be as direct as you can without revealing too much about yourself because when it comes to closed questions it's very easy you just simply have to say yes or no and it's done but what about open questions because you don't want to come across as too rude but at the same time you don't want to reveal too much about yourself and therefore there's a distinct line between those two things for example if someone is asking about your opinion in regards of a particular subject you can be someone that's gonna give your opinion in a lot of details but that definitely isn't something a mysterious man will do another thing that you can say is shut up i don't care about a particular topic but of course that's extremely rude or for number three you can say that you don't really have an opinion about it and you focus on other things instead so as you can observe the first one makes you come across as a tryhard the second one is someone that is extremely rude and then it leaves us with the third one which makes you come across as a mysterious man because number three is something that a mysterious man will say he doesn't want to come across as someone that's extremely rude or someone that's trying too hard and that's where the distinct line is hence when i tell you to shut up i don't particularly mean it in a rude way because i don't expect you to be rude to other individuals but at the same time i don't want you to come across as a tryhard and thus if you're someone that is able to conquer this fine line between being rude or someone that is a tryhard you can become a mysterious man and now i would like to move on to the fourth trait of a mysterious man heir of confidence you know being confident is something that i feel like that most individuals are blowing way out of proportion and i'm not telling you that being confident is something that can help you out in life in a lot of instances it can but i've been insecure in some areas of my life before and i've still managed to conquer them but unfortunately when it comes to social dynamics and being confident it can really boost up your image and i'm sorry to disappoint you but there's no quick hack or quick fix that will give you ice cold confidence and unfortunately i see a lot of youtubers a lot of individuals making videos about this and most of those things don't contribute to long-term ice cold confidence because at the end of the day feeling confident is just an emotion or a feeling you can have high level of confidence at one second but the next second your confidence level can drop and a quick example of this is when you approach a girl you get to number and your level of confidence spikes through the roof and then you approach another girl and she rejects you what will happen your level of confidence will go down and this is something that a mysterious man doesn't focus on because he knows that the feeling of confidence will always fluctuate and there's no point in trying to reach a higher and higher level of confidence but what a mysterious man does focus on is something that i like to call air of confidence or other individuals see as eyes called confident and this air of confidence can be in any aspect of your life because for example initially when a lot of individuals start to go to the gym they're extremely insecure and they feel like that everyone is looking at them because they're not performing as good as the other individuals but then as time goes they feel more comfortable in the gym and they start to see some initial gains so what do a lot of those individuals start to do they start to overcompensate they start to grab weights that they shouldn't lift just to impress upon others and show them how great they are initially they were very insecure but now they're trying to overcompensate and this usually also happens with a lot of individuals when it comes to social dynamics so initially when it comes to talking to other individuals talking to the girl you like you are extremely insecure you don't feel comfortable because you haven't done it a lot of times but then once you continue to do it and get some results you feel on top of the world because you're finally getting the results you actually wanted to achieve and feel like you're the man so what do a lot of those individuals do when they start to walk into a room they feel like they're the man they try to overcompensate and try to act like they're the metro man or the so-called alpha man but unfortunately for them the truth is that most individuals see them as individuals they are trying too hard because when those individuals were more insecure they were more likable by a lot of individuals but now they feel like they're on top of the world so i believe that there's three levels when it comes to the air of confidence number one is insecure number two is overcompensating but what is the third one the third one is don't care and this is the level in my opinion that a lot of individuals never reach and this is the level that you simply start to not care about it you've had your results you've seen what it's all about and you understand that it isn't all about trying to overcompensate but at the same time you've also had a lot of failures and now you understand that if you want to get those amazing results you have to go through those failures so initially when you're insecure you've never had any sort of success and therefore you don't have any reference experience to feel like that you can achieve it but then when you reach the overcompensating level you have had some success but you start to forget that you had to go through all of those struggles to get there and then you've gone number three you don't care you've been through it all you've had the worst kind of experiences and the best kind of experiences and therefore you understand that it's a journey as long as you commit yourself to it you'll be okay and that is the air of confidence that i want you to achieve because sometimes it's gonna be easy and sometimes it's gonna be hard but as long as you commit yourself to it you'll be okay and that is the air of confidence that a mysterious man has so number one is insecure also known as the beta male number two is overcompensating also known as the alpha mill and number three is don't care also known as the mysterious man and now i would like to move on to the fifth trait of a mysterious man be in control and this trait goes hand in hand with the previous trait but the truth about the previous trait is that most individuals will never reach their level and if they want to reach that level they've got to commit themselves to it and i know that you might be asking how can i commit myself to it when it's gonna be hard because when it's easy it's easy to commit to it but when it's hard it's very difficult and this is where the fifth trait comes in because a mysterious man knows that when it's gonna be hard he has to be in control of himself because she can't expect to get great results and become the mysterious man you want to be if you can't be in control of your own emotions and your own life and the most important thing that you want to control about yourself is your emotions because a mysterious man doesn't reveal too much about himself he keeps a lot of secrets and therefore if you can control your emotions you can take control of what you say and therefore reveal less about yourself which will make you more mysterious and thus the last trait of a mysterious man is someone that can take control of themselves but 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