4 Steps From "UGLY" Teen To A Player

[Music] I understand that as a teenager it's quite tough because as a teenager you probably lack the social skills to actually show who you are as a person and how cool you are so that's why today's Phaedo I'm none of four steps from ugly teen to a player so I interested let's jump into the video number one belief and willingness it all starts with the belief and willingness that you as a person are able and willing to transform and change I understand that if you go to the mirror and you see yourself as someone that you don't want to be that hurts from the inside reality it's you right into the face but listen to me for a sec we all have this perfect image of ourselves the way we actually perceive ourselves and how we actually want to look however we lacked a lot of confidence it seems impossible and it really seems far away and I don't want to lie to you it's not an overnight thing you can't instantly become this perfect person but they shouldn't stop you from chasing this dream persona because the truth is that if you start moving towards this dream persona of wanting to become a better person and wanting to change the belief of others how they perceive you but it all starts with your belief system putting yourself out there taking the risk and getting out of the comfort zone so you might be asking how can I take this risk out of the comfort zone so you actually change myself and that literally brings me to number two the way you dress your stall says a lot about your identity because people will always judge you so you might as well let them judge you the way you actually want to be judged let me make this even more clear how do you want to be perceived when people meet you for the first time maybe you want to be seen as this stylish individual or on the other side maybe someone who is social and open and the fortunate thing is that you decide your own destiny as long as you dress the right way number three socially noticed okay so because the ugly persona is someone most people don't want to be associated with that usually leads this ugly persona to end up somewhere down in the social ladder and the thing is it's not only about their looks although looks do help it's mainly because they lack social awareness they tried to hide any type of social interaction while on the other side you've got the player and he does it different to be honest he doesn't even care about the social dynamics because it's natural to him the way the play presents himself is way higher than the average Joe and everyone around him notices this number four take responsibility the player takes everything in their own hands but the ugly persona tries to blame it on others is ridiculous because they always blame it on others from the government the parents or even the Illuminati but never them and this is also the main reason why the ugly persona never grows while the players constantly grow because the players taking all the responsibility in his own hands and this way is always overcoming all the challenges and fighting through life and that my friends are the steps that you have to take from this ugly teen to a player but before I let you go if you enjoyed this video smash that like button and consider to hit the subscribe button and I hope you brother out that's it for me I'll see you my next video