OUR DAUGHTER IS MISSING!

it's a sad thing it's hard to talk about like i'm freaking out i can't find her anywhere like we just checked all the neighbors homes and everybody's like not home so she's not there i don't know where she's at i still remember who we are who we are [Music] good morning everybody how you doing today um elena is over here watching high school musical three and she's not dancing or anything okay just so you know just kidding she's totally dancing watch [Music] this really loves dancing we're gonna get her um she wants to do ballet so we're about to actually start her up with some ballet classes and tyler and gymnastics classes and we're excited about that and they're excited about that so that's really cool that's like birthday gifts from their grandparents to them so yeah anyways my parents are on the way over we're gonna hang out with them well today and then we'll just kind of see what the rest of the day has to hold [Music] yeah this shirt we've had since tyler was a baby [Music] can you give him a kiss give him a kiss [Music] oh that's so sweet you're so sweet give you the kiss [Music] hold on give up judy kiss [Music] here are you gonna walk that's not walking oh she wants the veggie straws now see now look what you did now look what you did that is so sweet high tide is so sweet judy jude [Music] let's go ready let's go where do you want to walk to um all right [Music] you thought the hot days were over no no yeah it's pretty hot right now it's just because of the sun when you're in the shade it feels good let me find some shade huh not a lot of trees out here is there i don't feel why don't you get some [Music] water you got a little fan club over there bud i know some one of them might be in my classroom two or one person over there is sophia sisters sophie's in my class oh she is we just had like five or six little girls from the neighborhood following behind us i guess he had to turn around but it was funny because i'm sure i think they saw the camera and so they were probably gonna come see what we were doing and they said they screamed from the point where apparently they couldn't go beyond it was like the corner obviously it was like don't go past this point and they said tyler and this one said hey taylor and she's like that's not my name it's tyler she gets that a lot how you doing judy you feel boring you're bored you want to go see the horses wanna see the horses and two horses came by and we picked them yeah that was cool huh how do we do that again let's see if we can go do that no the horse will stomp again oh maybe just gotta be careful right cause judy not me and elena jude made it mad by you hey getting up in his face no she didn't [Music] what do you got again you got some veggie straws for the squirrels how many you got one two three four five six seven eight those are big dudes nice where'd you get those they're huge [Music] [Music] all right so we made it to the horses and now it's time to turn around and go home um it's been a good exercise today for the girls and for myself but hopefully this will help them go to later little judy back here she's dragging but we're heading home okay judy you need me to carry you what's wrong with you killing me i'm too hard not flying on this place we what i'm too hot that's why i love this place okay i'll carry you okay all right stacey's beauty carrier so i'm gonna put the camera down and we'll see you guys back at the house all right did you have a good time oh that's great did mommy have a good time yeah it hurts a little bit but i'm still here ouch yeah they had to go somewhere how long you've been home [Applause] like you just got here judy peed in her pant peed on her pants rather she was going potty in the woods and then didn't bend over now so she just peed right off us yeah it's okay afraid you can eat all those pizzas oh i need obviously one of those pizzas in one sitting all right i don't know where judy went again i'm hoping she fell asleep inside because if she's not in this house she's in big trouble once i find her [Music] that's crying danny went to the store i can't find judy like she used to just run out of the house because she was uh just a little and she'd go over to her friends next door yeah okay but she haven't been doing that much lately so i'm just wondering where she went now like i'm freaking out i can't find her anywhere no she's not addie went with her like we just checked all the neighbors homes and everybody's like not home so she's not there i don't know where she's at tyler she's not all right i have only one place to look she said she looked over here but i don't know if they really did or not is shooting here yeah two guys actually they said they heard they said upstairs she was there thank you [Music] you scared me so much [Music] you know that you don't do that to daddy and mommy so tyler went to our neighbor's house which is where i thought she was because she was playing with them and they said she wasn't there everyone else is gone all our other neighbors were not home so i didn't i was like where is she i'm like freaking out i heard the little girls upstairs um and so they said hi i said is judy in there and they said yes she is and i was like okay thank goodness so i go over there and knock on the door and then the grandparents answer and i was like hey is jude here and they're like no she's not i was like oh the girls upstairs said she was she's like oh no she's not i'm like oh my goodness like where is my daughter sorry you know what he said i know it's so sad it's a sad thing it's hard to talk about so now i'm walking back from their house over here i'm uncomfortable and i'm freaking out like you know she's not over there like where is she is she in the van praying to god she's not in a van because if she's in the van she's not alive it's hot okay i'll get you some coco and so as i'm walking back talking to her we're both freaking out the neighbors come back and they go hey i'm sorry jude's in here we didn't know she was in here so we didn't know she was in there they didn't know she was in there she was upstairs playing games with the other girls oh she's in trouble that's all i'm saying big trouble we obviously need to have a conversation with her letting her know that we need to know and we've told them this this is not something new we told them we need to know where they're at at all times she's still learning that so what were you thinking whenever i just texted you that i couldn't find her i was thinking go grave john like how hard that is oh my gosh just kidding it is jude she hasn't done that for a while but she also be fair she was outside playing with them so it's not like that was my first time she said that borderline age tyler elena pretty much old enough to know ask before you go into one's house ask before you go from one person's house or yard to somebody else's jude i feel like is still at that look at her she's going downhill she's still that age where she's like doesn't think about how things affect others or the rules necessarily she's still like at that age their brain is very much like instant gratification focused on themselves like they don't have the capacity for empathy so like you know what i mean she's not thinking ahead about consequences or logic or reasoning or anything she's just thinking oh this is fun oh i'm having fun right so i think she we just yeah gotta enforce that a little bit more into her yeah just sit and talk with her about a few more times we also need a fence in our yard yeah that would help some um but really yeah john's like check the car i'm like john i have not seen her since before like way before i left since they got back from their walk so i was like if she in the car it ain't gonna be good like but she's not in the car because she wasn't in there when i got it but i just i just figured she's probably were you freaking out at all no because i know jude well enough to know she's probably in one of these houses in our neighborhood like you'll see our backyard right now our neighborhood is full of so many kids and a lot of kids the girls ages and their friends and so i mean they have friends like behind us across the street down the street like down the hill so chances of her being at somebody's house were like right and that's what i was thinking but everybody else was gone so i'm like where and we went to all the houses of people that were there so i'm like where were they where this happened to be i'm gonna i'm gonna i just said this at the end of us when it wraps up this it just happened to be that when i went over there and tyler whatever they said she wasn't there so then that's why i'm like freaking out like she's missing because no one else is the only place she would be and twice they said she wasn't there because they didn't know she was in there so well there is a cultural and language barrier right that's true too um the personal answer laura doesn't speak good english so i don't think maybe she understood i said hey they said she was there are you sure she's not here so no she's not here okay okay well that sucks because my kid's missing now anyways guys we love you we're about to make dinner um daniel's making some yummy uh nachos with sweet potatoes and all kinds of good stuff so um sadly i'm not going to show that because we have to get going to make that so if you want to know about it we'll tell you about the next vlog holla guys we love you see you later on the livestream number three but i did so see you later still remember