HOW COULD THIS HAPPEN?!

we're the mures trying to master the art of growing up one day at a time Hello friends so I'm at the house today kind of have a day off today I have stuff to do but I'm trying to spend as much time as I can with the kids and at home and not working but oh my goodness look at this that is full to the brm bam just made myself a latte you know that's what we do make lattes around here hello um oh you got PL on your fingers it's okay so Danielle took um Tyler and adelyn with her to the uh yes ma'am I can to the doctor for a checkup or um checkup yeah yeah just checking in wellness check is what it's called so me and Elena and whoa uh Judy are here by ourselves hanging out playing with Play-Doh you like Play-Doh mhm here you go dude there's your little Play-Doh strip I'm going to get this latte going and then I'll be back talking to you guys so I've said this before but I want to say it again because I may not have used that video footage um but sorry we haven't been good friends to you guys we have been neglecting our YouTube channel um not intentionally but it's just kind of the way things have been going but um we're trying to do better with it now so hopefully you guys are understanding of that um it's uh it's crazy life gets busy and it stays busy and I think it's not going to be busy it's still busy so we're really trying to make an effort though cuz we don't want to you know leave you guys hanging when y'all comment and do things like that um we're trying to really comment back and make sure that we are um staying on top of all that stuff because we appreciate you guys and we love you guys and we um care about what you guys got to say so please comment let us know what y'all been up to um we've been up to a lot of stuff I'm working a ton right now I just picked up some side work um and it's um kind of a lot of side work so I'm trying to get my schedule kind of worked out so that I can um not be killing myself and neglecting my family and our Vlog and stuff like that so it's a transitional period for us um what's going on with you guys though because I cannot be the only one who's busy around here uh Danielle's busy and so we're all busy what are you guys busy with there's got to be something going on in your life and there's not start doing something you know I have been really um uh let's see I don't if convicted is a word but I just been really it's been hitting me hard that there's some things I want to be doing that I'm not doing and I'm like you know what if I don't do it now it's never going to happen I'm going to regret it for the rest of my life I'm going to look back on my life and like why didn't I do that I had time you should have done it so that's what I'm doing um and hopefully you'll start seeing some of that stuff in the next few months you know um there's some good stuff going on here with our YouTube channel we have a parody it's been recorded the audio has been recorded we got to record the video we're supposed to be doing that the end of this month we already have it on the calendar scheduled to go we're really excited about it it's going to be fun um so keep checking us out keep seeing our videos keep watching life's about to change around here Tyler what are you doing eat him what she eating eat do you know where we are no me and Tyler are having a little lunch date at Whole Foods right now um Tyler had a doctor's appointment just a well check today excuse me so we just left there and popped over the whole food to see if they had some of their probiotics but they don't so we went ahead and got lunch adeline's with us she's sleeping oops that's my face what do you think how was your doctor's appointment great are you healthy uhhuh are you growing uhhuh it was great well it was great what did you do at the doctor I I have fun there you had fun at the doctor did they see how much you weigh yeah mhm and they my eyes in my mouth your eyes in your mouth what else my nose your nose would you have to pee in a cup I pee in a c she's excited about that one yeah so we had Adeline checked out because she has a bit of a cough see there she is oh there she is but her lungs are clear her ears are clear everything looks good so she said maybe it's just allergies or something like that feel like we have a lot going on but not a lot at the same time have you ever felt that way like you feel like you're so busy but then when you think about it you're like I haven't really been that busy it just feels frantic always I think that's where we are right now so so I'm making peanut butter and jelly for the girls right now um I might get some grapes uh as well for the lunch Danielle's taking Tyler to get lunch I don't want to be too loud because Elena's listening to me Danielle's taking Tyler to get some lunch um hey guys make sure do you see these grapes I'm looking at myself hey there I am make sure when you cut these take these grapes you cut these things up okay you don't want your kids chok on these things apparently there a big choking hazard in the world which is understandable look at thing that's going to get loded in your throat cut these junks up get some bite sizers Daniel likes to bite Sizer scissors some dirty ones some dirty ones from last night get some bite sizers get them up mix paars these kids have been opening this fridge she naked I don't know if you saw that jeude why where's your pull up are you guys seeing this have you ever seen this has your it's ever happened to you they cut your bread and it's like way thicker on one piece than the other piece look at that look at that side by side comparison this piece is so much bigger like what are yall doing over there who's cutting this look at that Daddy who's cutting this dad like who's doing this you that one job cut your bread right but maybe they're having a bad day I like to try to give people Grace no it doesn't have to always be perfect if they're having a bad day they just been cut a little off John is home with the other two right now I'm thinking they're going to take a nap and then I don't know maybe we'll go outside and do something this afterno it's kind of nice so all right well we're go so we can finish eating and get home I brought John some pizza so I got to take that to him so that is a sweet sister right right there look at that sweet sister what's your name I what you can't say Elena why whisper we're Whispering don't say no no no we're being sweet remember you're being sweet we being sweet okay now you tell me now you say [Applause] what okay hey don't hit we're not being mean we're being sweet okay okay good we're whispering right now Whispering is our favorite is that our favorite as parents we've got to stop beating ourselves up um you know I fail my children I do we we all do we just do it's just human nature it's who we are we're not going to be perfect especially with our kids you know they make me angry sometimes and I think the one thing we have to show our kids is that we're not perfect we can't you know pretend like we are perfect to them we just aren't so you know I think a big thing that I try to do and I fail at this too but I try to do as much as I can is when I know I've mess up with my kids if I've yelled at them or screamed at them or did something and there it hurt their feelings whatever um or even if it didn't hurt their feelings you know I try to go and apologize for me acting um out of you know me acting not a way that a father should treat their their child and daughter especially um so you know they need to see that they need to know that that it's okay to make mistakes and that you just need to ask for forgiveness and apologize for them they need to know that they can mess up but then they they can come to you as you know you're you're their parent and they can mess up and say but at least I know I can come to my parent um and tell them I messed up you know if we don't show them that as parents they're not going to learn that as children and they're going to think they got to hide from their mistakes or that they don't make mistakes or if they do make mistakes they got to pretend like they didn't make mistakes you know that's just not the right way to go about it I think that's the way that our world works it'ss you know even as high up as politicians if they make a mistake well they own up to it then it makes them look bad but you know I think it makes you look like a person and makes you look better to say hey I made a mistake I'm not perfect let's move on from here so as a parent I just want to encourage you guys to do that because it's hard to do it's not easy especially in the moment when you're mad still and you're frustrated take some time calm down and go apologize to your kid Adeline show everyone your new trick whoops go on buddy show everyone what you can do hey all right you have to just cut it hey bud you're not performing for the camera hello look at my hand hands what are you talking about oh no that doesn't sound good at all did you tell the doctor about that did you did you hey thanks for watching make sure you click the Subscribe button to follow along with the mures subscribe [Music]