PLEASE FOR ANY COPYRIGHTS ISSUE CONTACT US FIRST ON : [email protected] ---------------------------------------------------------- New Videos Everyday .. Stay Tuned... ---------------------------------------------------------- Life is rarely simple or straightforward. And for Mira Capps-Hansen it has been more complicated than most. When she prayed with her husband for a baby to adopt, she realized it would take more than just hope. Then one day the phone rang with a familiar voice on the line, and a story unfolded that was all too familiar.
mom got a call about a strange little
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life is rarely simple or straightforward
and for meera caps hansen it has been
more complicated than most
when she prayed with her husband for a
baby to adopt
she realized it would take more than
just hope
when one day the phone rang with a
familiar voice on the line
and a story unfolded that was all too
familiar
meera understands the difficulties of
adoption only too
well and history was set to repeat
itself in the most
wonderful way as the young woman longed
to add a new member to her burgeoning
family
in meera's dream world there would be no
need for adoption
relationships would endure all the
difficulties life throws at them
and families could stay together but we
live in an imperfect world
and torn relationships can lead to
broken homes
mira is an hr director from jacksonville
florida
she married her husband josh in february
2014
and they soon started planning their
family together
then in november that year their first
daughter
sailor arrived but they knew there was
more to come
although mira and josh were busy with
their own daughter
their thoughts nevertheless turned to
adoption
the former understood the life-changing
importance of taking in a child who
for whatever reason could no longer be
cared for
by its biological parents but she and
her husband
also believed there was a bigger force
at play
meera and josh's religious beliefs are
strong and they felt that adoption was
part of the lord's plan for them
however although they felt the idea was
a certainty
the reality of the process presented
some hurdles
meera recalled their difficulties in a
blog post on the
love what matters website we didn't have
fancy jobs or a healthy savings account
truth be told student loans were
sneaking up on us
i just quit my job and josh was
struggling to find a career he enjoyed
after separating from active duty we
felt
unprepared and discouraged as meera and
josh struggled
they turned to god they prayed every
night that the lord would hear their
pleas
and send them a child in need of the
help they were so desperate to give
with no reservations or stipulations we
surrendered our hearts and our minds
mirror wrong lord you know our hearts
use us as your hands and your feet use
our family to show your love in this
broken world
use us for a child that needs a home any
child god
use us we would pray then something
changed
during a sermon at church one week the
pastor read out a quote
it was from the book of james and said
for as the body without the spirit is
dead
so faith without works is dead also
the words had a profound impact on mira
that was it it was then that i felt the
gentle conviction of the lord
sitting right there in the sanctuary i
felt like god was whispering
trust me meera just trust me she wrote
josh and i were willing to adopt at
least we said we were willing
but how are we physically acting on it
we needed to put our faith into action
into works we needed to walk in the same
confidence we prayed every night with
they knew what to do next when josh and
meera returned home that afternoon
they began preparing for the arrival of
their next child not only did they apply
to become
foster parents but they also started to
kit out a nursery
they brought all the clothes diapers and
other items a baby might need
and they continued to pray up until that
point
meera and josh had only told the lord
that they were willing to offer their
hearts and home
to a child who needed their help now
they were showing him they put their
trust in the lord that he would deliver
on their wish
and then one day the phone rang
it was a sunday afternoon in the summer
of 2017
a day that mira won't forget in a hurry
her heart raced as she saw the
out-of-state number appear on the screen
of her phone
anxiety swept over her then the words
came from a familiar voice at the other
end of the line
i heard you were willing to adopt the
voice belonged to meera's cousin in
texas
but something sounded awry her cousin's
voice trembled as she spoke
she said i don't know if you know this
but i have a two-month-old little girl
and her name is lily somehow mira knew
what was coming next
meera was lost for words as she recalled
how could this be real i could feel my
eyes stinging and hot tears streaming
down my face
was this what she and josh had been
waiting so patiently for
was this the plan that she believed the
lord had had for her
and her family all along then
as meera asked her cousin if it was
really what she wanted
she got the answer to her prayers as she
recalled in her blog her cousin said
meera i wanted to call you sooner but i
didn't know how to say it
i feel like you were supposed to be her
mom but it wasn't a proposition she
could accept so
easily josh was away with the navy
but when his wife told him what was
happening there was no doubts in his
mind
as meera recalled when i explained
everything to him
without hesitation he responded go get
her
you go get our baby so she packed up the
car and set off for texas that same
night
mira's 11-hour trip to port arthur in
texas wasn't one she was making alone
the hr director brought her daughter
sailor with her
her mom went along too indeed it was a
journey she herself
had made once before for meera's mom
it must have felt like history was
repeating itself
after all it wasn't the first time she'd
made the journey from florida to texas
to pick up a baby with piercing blue
eyes and dark hair
this time it was to collect her
granddaughter but 27 years earlier
it was the soon-to-be adoptive mother
who was herself
picked up as it happened mira herself
had been adopted
her biological mother had made the
heartbreaking decision
to give her away when she was just a
baby and in an incredible twist of fate
mira's adoption story is almost
identical to that of her
mom's it was 1991
and a heartbreaking chain of events
would lead meera's birth mom rachel
to give up her baby she'd had a
traumatic upbringing
and consequently grew up fast in an
unhealthy
relationship at the age of 17 she was
married and had her first child
before her 20th birthday in a fog of
alcoholism
betrayal affairs and physical abuse two
years later
rachel and her husband separated it was
around this time that rachel met mira's
biological father
joey after a very brief relationship
he split with no idea that in nine
months he would become a father
rachel then got back together with her
husband he knew meera wasn't his
but nevertheless had agreed to take her
on as his own
she was even named to match with the
rest of the family
mira miller arrived on november 12 1990
and everything seemed fine but the piece
didn't last for long
and before the end of the year the abuse
returned to rachel's relationship
her husband ran off with a new woman
leaving her with two young girls
and no means to take care of them rachel
then turned to the person who always
welcomed her with open arms
her aunt it was a tight squeeze but
rachel's aunt did her best to make a
home for everyone
and rachel had a plan working as a
waitress during the day
she would study to become a nursing
assistant at night school
she believed a better job was all she
needed to stand on her own two feet
but rachel was working multiple jobs and
between that and her nursing training
she barely had time to ready her
daughters for bed before leaving the
house again
the mental physical and financial strain
became too
much and yet when the idea of adoption
was entertained she couldn't face it
with no hope of giving her daughter mira
the life she thought she deserved
however
rachel made a call to another haunted
florida called verda
she wasn't able to have kids and yet the
one thing she wanted most in the world
was to be a mom
and the struggling mom had a big request
rachel wanted virta to take mira on her
love what matters post the latter wrote
it has to be before she can talk if
we're going to do this
if she says mama i just won't be able to
go through with it
mira was nine months old when her
adoptive mom made the first drive
from florida to port arthur nine months
later
meera's intra-family adoption was
complete
rachel would eventually remarry a friend
who had been a support to her through
her decision
to have meera adopted indeed they even
gave the latter a little sister
before she turned four mira said her
childhood was pretty normal
she wrote my mom stayed home with me
until i was old enough to go to school
and my dad was a merchant sea man until
he retired and later opened a
construction company
every summer my mom would take me to
texas so i would have the opportunity to
spend time
and make memories with my sister mira
added
but for the hr director it was the only
family she had ever known
and her adoptions was by no means a
source of secrecy
my parents never hid the fact that i was
adopted mira explained
there were no lies or glorified stories
they were honest about my story from the
very beginning
and gave me age-appropriate answers to
questions when i had them
and without optis for cousins mira never
felt alone
and with a relationship forming with her
biological mom rachel over the years
meera always got honest answers to any
burning questions she had
indeed one such conversation is seared
into her memory
regarding a question she has been asked
a lot why was she adopted while her
sister remained with her mom
her answer was honest and straight from
her heart meera recalled
she said you were still so little you
were still
so new and so untouched by any wrong in
this world
your sister had a father well maybe not
much of one
but i felt you deserved as much you
deserved a chance
meera's biological father joey resembles
her in some ways
but she is sure he still has no idea she
exists
the hr director harbors no ill feelings
towards rachel
in fact she describes her biological mom
as having a level of courage
she could never fathom and thanks her
for choosing such
wonderful adoptive parents it was from
her own unique childhood that
meera and her husband made the decision
to adopt and with a special relationship
with her birth mom
rachel was the first person she called
she wanted to give a child the same
thing her biological mom had offered her
a chance as it happened rachel had
played an even bigger role when meera
decided to adopt little lily
it's unclear why mira's cousin realized
that she could no longer offer her
daughter the life she felt she deserved
but there was one person she could turn
to who had been through a similar
experience
rachel and if for mira the addition of a
new baby to the family was a sudden if
welcomed one
there was soon to be another mouth to
feed
as she drove to texas to collect lily
she was in fact
one month pregnant with her second
biological child
remy jane hansen joined the family in
march
2018. i will never be able to grasp the
magnitude of the sacrifice
lily's biological mother made meera said
i'll never know how hard that was and my
heart breaks at the series of events
that led her there
i'll never be able to repay her and my
heart still aches for her when i watch
our tiny
daughter smile and crinkle her nose make
no mistake
our lily is not broken she has been
redeemed
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