RELATIONSHIPS IN 2016...

I don't know how to turn this on hi everyone Oh today we are doing a video about relationships in 2016 this year because there is a problem there's a massive problem which we you me I'm gonna do something about you we're gonna address this yeah so the other day my grandparents are telling me about how they met they met a dong dong yes you don't even like don't singsong your bloody gone already it from you is this in liquid LAN stop dancing is it a dance today you don't get them it's a nightclub or nothing they met that a chat and then they have ranges me up like I don't know like the next week or something and by doing that they didn't have a phone to go oh you still here you still coming tomorrow yeah and say morning Oh have you left you have you left it out oh i'm on the corner where are you on five minutes away there's no texting there's nothing so that's it agria time in a place yeah and they had to hope that the other one would show up it's crazier me if if one was running late or they'd forgotten they'd had just been there sorry this little hair on my camera how long if one was that I one was running late they would have no idea you could never make again unless you can never make again they don't know it to the lift then I wouldn't be anything all right all about you is it that'd be awful if I wasn't here and I just think there's something quite nice about that the fact that you saw each other and you can trust each other after Mia so the first problem with ray ships these days the internet it's the biggest one everything like whether or not you're in a relationship or not everything stopped on the internet so not only for like tinder and stuff you got Twitter you can slide it into someone's dms and now don't want a date with a boy Facebook you clip like that it's not read nowadays I've got poked the other day off exit by the way people still do that as one site you used to poke each other to Gator biz attention now it's very to me to myself you can never decide someone our days I like you you would be acting weird if you went to a girls house and knocked on our door and said oh really like you yes it would be so much normal now for a girl to receive a message yeah saying like I think you're good looking or something yeah and that would be accepted as one there's like no boundary any more of what's real and what's not real the second problem is selfies we all have a selfie but the problem with selfies ninety-nine percent of the time you try and make yourself look a bit better than you do in real life because that's the point at social media that's fine that's the point of Instagram profile pictures if you've met them before and you look at profile picture that is the best that ever going to lay yeah because this is the photo that they've chosen to represent themselves to not only their friends to the rest of the world when someone searches them this is the photo they've chosen to represent them exactly it's a big deal and it's certain people's expectations too high because if a guy or a girl meets a guy or a girl and they're in their head they've got that nice pretty filtered possibly edited profile photo of them and then they meet them and they don't look quite like that but may ruin it for radditz shouldn't no you should have written because the real you should be what people like but this is probably happening people are getting these expectations the head of this the hottest god I've ever seen because this instagram photo or this hottest guy and say they meet up in his face it's tissue down their brothers Lucy giving away our tipster no I don't so when you do finally find someone who you like who you've met in real life you told each other you like each other maybe you've been on a couple of dates and you'll now at the stage we're pretty comfortable with each other maybe you're chilling out in each other's houses or something the third problem comes in here guys so when you are sitting there together on it we could be a first day it could be the move date we're bit guilty of this yeah mobile phones are a massive issue when it comes to dating or being in a relationship because nowadays everything our lives are on our phones and it's fine because it's what we like to do being on our phones and looking stuff up but the point is when you're with each other you should be more interested in what's going within a person right now rather than what your friends from five years ago is doing on our holiday with her mum in tenerife you shouldn't focus your energy on that when you're with your the person i know it's hard we put a fight one and the likes of rolling in us how many you've got what comments you've got with a flame emoji saying good it's just that I get flame emojis I'll get veggies I'm so guilty of this is how are you but I don't want to be neither us want to be but it's just the thing you do you sit down tea he's on you get your phone out and you're suddenly absorbed into this world of like Instagram and Facebook and stuff because there's so much to see snapchat stories how long do they take to live through you're right no you just want dusted something like I've got like 80 odd stories to look through every night on snapchat and that takes about an hour half the time I don't even care either like I've got a bit of a CD of my snapchat so I just skip skip skip skip skip just so I want it to be clean again she'd actually watch people's story I see you most of the time but sometimes I'm just what all this person is way too long and I can see the little pie chart not moving and before you know it you've got in from work you've had dinner you've put the telly on you've watched something you're on your phone yeah and then it's bedtime you haven't even spoken to the person you're supposed to be with yeah sometimes we say something to each other and we too we don't just like obviously I'm exaggerating a little bit and then sometimes you only talk about what you've seen on each others face you know we're guilty of it how do we change this how do we rectify the problem how do we appreciate each other more Gingka I appreciate you what do anything for love but i won't snap chat so i cannot go in no okay but fine stop it the pot the pool now the final thing we're going to talk about in this video is other people getting involved in your relationship so what I mean by this is you put stuff online course on social media everyone's judging everyone's commenting everyone's liking and the people are not commenting and not liking they're probably talking about it maybe in a negative way maybe in a positive way but there's this constant what's the phrase any publicity is good publicity yeah there's one oh you're an idiot guys I've just dropped the camera so sorry if the angle is something slightly different I so sticky why did you do that it's a plumping lip gloss for volume that is so sticky and how be well on your lips all day there's only one thing worse than being spoken about and that's not being spoken about they right now yeah kind of thing that's true we make this video is we want to be spoken about and we want people to see these videos and watch them so we're not sure how this is gonna improve it was going to get worse how it's going to change in the future but I can tell you for sure well that on a video is gonna have Oh input in how relationships are absolutely not Burmese at the beginning we're gonna change this we're not we're talking about it you want to watch house they go oh yeah that's true and they do nothing about it you choose not to listen it's your fault if you end up getting broken up into the years not my fault I hope we're wrong actually you might be watching this thinking I don't do that thanks so much for me right I hope that we're wrong I do hope it was us that weirdest party yeah maybe we'll just see insecure about our own relationship so we need to like make a video to make us feel better he serious so thanks for 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