He Was Giving His Side chick $2k A Month While His Wife Worked

This morning I got a call from a y a young lady. She been in a relationship with my husband for 5 years since we've been and he been dealing with multiple, you know, women. For the last 2 years, my husband leave out the house at 7:30 p.m. I mean. 7:30 a.m. and don't come back home till 2, sometimes 3:00. And when he's really like, you know what I'm saying? when he's really um got his, you know, on one, he come home at 5:00 in the morning. Today was a horrible day. Went to the corner store, all hell broke loose. This the wife, y'all. This the wife. This is the wife. The wife said, "Thank y'all for inviting to take me out, but I'm going through something mentally. My husband moved out. I'm stuck with the bills, stuck with trying to figure it out for this month and next month. So, if you want to help, cash out me to help, okay? So, I can get on my feet this month and next month. And all I need is a deep fryer cuz I [Music] Hello guys and welcome back to my channel. If you're new here, my name is Damia. I make fashion, beauty, and lifestyle content right here. I also make commentary, reaction, and trending news videos. So, I'm so happy to have you here. How are you doing? How is your week? How is your day? Hope you're doing great. However you're doing, let me know in the comments section. So, um I have a crazy video to share with you. But before we jump right into the video, let's do a little OOTD outfit of the day. Uh show you what the fit is. Yes, it's the same. I be so lazy to just get up and change. So, and I batch film. So, I tend to do at least two videos at least two videos in the same feature. cuz it's just easier. You know what I'm saying? So yeah. Anyway, so we have this man that has done it yet again. These stories keep happening. Um I really enjoy talking about this kind of things because I feel like even if I'm able to help one woman or just help someone wake up, help a woman clock the tea on what's really going on here. I feel like my job is done. Okay. So, a lot of women have been sleepy or should I say ignorant for the longest time on what is really happening and it is helpful when we talk to each other and with women sharing stories on the internet. It is very helpful and I think that that's why the stories are important. So now a woman called Pebbles came out here in the streets and scattered the internet child. Apparently, Pebbles was very upset. Um, she came out here and exposed some things that was going on in her marriage. Apparently, she found out her husband was cheating on her and was giving his side chick $2,000 a month, $1,000 every two weeks. Hey, go. while this woman, the wife was working, working very hard. This is why this conversation is important. I'm going to play the video and let you guys watch with your own two eyes and see what is happening. But um the 50/50 conversation, this is why I will never support. I am so very sorry. A lot of the 5050 women lose in the end. Like it doesn't even matter if you're gonna lose. At least don't lose everything. You know what I'm saying? It's not like, okay, so when you're not 50/50, then you gain or then you don't lose, but at least you don't lose everything. You know, you're not going to lose all your dignity, your heart, and your money at the same time. Dang, girl. That's like a double punch. Um, a lot of the 50/50 women feel like they because they're paying half the bills, they have a sale, they have leverage or it gives them some sort of whatever they think. It's [ __ ] I'm so sorry. This man was making this woman work paying like I don't understand. and she was working hard and instead of spending his money being a provider, okay, what a man should be, he wasn't providing for his wife. She was working her ass off and he was then providing for his side chick who's probably not I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but I'm sorry, she's probably not a 50/50 woman. So if you're out here as a woman, stop practicing 50/50. They're using your heads, okay? They are fingering your brain. They're using you as a dummy, a certified dummy. I'm so sorry. You don't know. They wrap it up in a nice bowl. Make it cute. But the reality is they think that you're stupid. They really do. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. But it is what it is. Because tell me why this man is making this woman work hard and has a spare $2,000 to give to a side chick. A lot of I know some Nigerian men, I'm not going to mention no names, who like, "Oh, VU is a woman who's not financially helpful. My wife has to be a helper and they're helping their girlfriends." I'm so sorry. The joke is on the wife, ain't she? You are so helpful. Hey. Yeah. So that he'll have more money to then take care of somebody else while it's not fully taken care of. He doesn't pay for your hair. He doesn't give you an allowance. He doesn't even pay the bills cuz you have to share the bills. But he's doing to you everything that he's doing to the side chick whilst she's benefiting financially from your husband. But you are not. But you tell yourself, "Oh, you are understanding. You're a good woman." I God said, "Okay, the Bible says, I don't know if you're Christian that you're a helper." Helper doesn't mean you carry the full load. He's the provider. He'll do what he should do. You help and not financially. emotional support, being there for him, which is very easy to do when he's doing his own job, when he's not abusive, when he's not a narcissist, when he's a provider, a lover, a friend, a great human being, well-rounded person whose mother raised him to be your husband, not hers, but that's te you're probably not ready for any. Um, yeah. So, while you're out here being understanding, your spouse who you're doing 50/50 with could be providing for somebody whilst he tells you that he believes in 50/50. He believes in that for you for you because he doesn't see the value in going all out for you. And frankly, I do really think a lot of those people are lazy. And I know this is not all, man. There's a lot of wonderful guys out there that are providers that are solid men that are like real men, but unfortunately more of this bums and brokies are out here and we're dealing with this. Anyway, I'm going to let you watch the video before I go off into a rant. I'm just going to let you watch the video and then I'll be back with my thoughts. This morning, I got a call from a a young lady. She been in a relationship with my husband for 5 years since we've been and he been dealing with multiple, you know, women. For the last two years, my husband leave out the house at 7:30 p.m. I mean: 7:30 a.m. and don't come back home till 2, sometimes 3:00. And when he's really like, you know what I'm saying? when he's really um got his, you know, on one, he come home at 5:00 in the morning. This happened. I'm always home by myself. I was sick last night, sick as a dog. Um sometimes I be on that food truck. I was on my food truck the other day. The other day I was on my food truck. Um I was so sick I was about to pass out. You thought that [ __ ] offered me to sit in his car and he had the um he had the AC running. He just look like nonchalant. Um I work extra hard. This girl said my husband give her $1,000 every two weeks for her bills and stuff like that. She told me she lied about her name. Um, she told me everything. Everything that I said to him just recently when he came in the house, I know he said it because I said it to him. Um, I put my time and my energy. Like sometimes when I'm on the truck, I cook for my husband. Well, most of the time I'm on my food truck, I cook for my husband. Sometimes I cook and, you know, I take it home for him at night. But sometimes if I wind up cleaning up and stuff like that before um before I make him some food, I go home and still cook. You know, I still cook and I Hold on y'all. Let me block him cuz he calling my phone. Okay. I had to block him. This girl said um she been to my house. She said he been uh she been to my house. She told me why I stay. She said sometimes She says, "Sometimes, um, your daughter be on the food truck. Um, he didn't come to my granddaughter birthday party because one of the other girls stole his truck yesterday. Some girl named um, they say Crystal stole his truck." Today was a horrible day. Went to the corner store. All hell broke loose. After that, we went to the courthouse, filed for a divorce, went to the banks, took our names off everything. We came home, he moved out, I took me a bath, and now I'm in the bed. Thank you. Y'all do not be traumatizing these [ __ ] men. This lady is online crying talking about her husband giving a side chick $1,000 every two weeks. It ain't no way in the [ __ ] my man is going to play with me like that cuz he already know. You play with me, your ass is going on a t-shirt. Y'all don't be traumatizing these [ __ ] men. Y'all do not be making these men feel like the scum of the [ __ ] earth. Y'all do not be making these men scared to [ __ ] lose y'all. Y'all are easy to [ __ ] play with. And I say that because I am a girl that dated women. Women are easy as [ __ ] to manipulate if you really want to. Okay? Do better, be better, and stop crying on the [ __ ] internet. [ __ ] [ __ ] Go sleep with that [ __ ] daddy. And don't piss me off. And Pebbles just said that her husband gives his side chick $1,000 every two weeks. and she works hard. This is exactly what I be talking about. You over there being a good faithful wife, a hard working woman, and some side popped out the air is getting your husband money and he over there want you go 5050 60 40. This is why y'all think being married is a trophy. Whole time you getting played now you on the internet, you embarrassed. You going through a divorce cuz you thinking he loyal. Whole time he making you spend his money so he can give his money to another female. I want y'all to really love y'all a little bit better than this. One thing to cheat, but one thing to cheat and I'm working hard. No, no, no, no, no. We know cheating is for the dudes that can afford the honey to honey. Okay, I'm going to need her to post what that girl look like because giving somebody $2,000 a month, $1,000 every other week is diabolical. This woman came to social media and she said that her husband gives his side chick $1,000 every other week and she works extra hard to maintain their lifestyle. So, obviously, she is contributing to the household and getting played right in her household. And I know some women are surprised by this, but there's actually a lot of women that have that type of lifestyle. They are getting paid by someone else's husband while that woman works hard and his side chick gets to live an easy lifestyle. So basically, if we do the math, it seems like he's probably paying for her housing where I'm sure he frequents a lot. I'm honestly not mad at the girl, the side chick, for running her play. I'm just really sad for the wife. I mean, like, we can't hate the player because her man was the one willing to step out and spend their resources on another woman. I saw this woman on here saying, "Y'all don't traumatize your husbands enough." And a lot of men honestly do know the risk that are involved with cheating on their wives. Some have already done the calculations, the numbers, weighed out the odds. And some men really do not care about losing their wife in the event that she finds out because he already has groomed the next woman. And you can guarantee that that woman will probably take that man in in the event that she puts him out because he's contributing to her lifestyle, her livelihood, and anything else. And I'm sure the 2000 is just the tip of the iceberg. I'm sure he's done other things like cosign for cars, housing, you name it, paid for dates and trips. It never just stops at the cash apps. Some women honestly feel as though that they have leverage in a 50/50 relationship and you really don't. He's going to walk away with his 50%. You're going to walk away with your 50%. Now granted, you might be able to get a little bit of alimony if you divorce him, but it really just depends on the state and how much that man is actually making as well as the children if you have children. But a man that's willing to take that type of risk, I'm telling you, most of them are calculated. They've already weighed out the odds and have taken a good look and said, "If she finds out, this is my play." So, you damn near have to be one step ahead of your man. Acting as though you don't want to check his bank statements, check on things every now and then, just do a little snoop around can literally cause you years of trauma by not doing your proper investigating. Because there's no way that you should not notice $2,000 missing from your budget, especially if you're not rich. And I'm going to be honest, that lady's wig was atrocious, as well as her lashes. So, it does not seem that they live some type of luxurious lifestyle. I'm just saying. This the wife, y'all. This the wife. This is the wife. The wife said, "Thank y'all for inviting to take me out, but I'm going through something mentally. My husband moved out. I'm stuck with the bills. Stuck with trying to figure it out for this month and next month. So, if you want to help, cash out me to help, okay? So, I can get on my feet this month and next month. And all I need is a deep fryer cuz I haven't been working so I could continue to run my food truck business. Her food truck business is hot girl soul food. Okay, listen. The wife ain't trying to hear all that [ __ ] Oh, you beautiful. Let me take you out. I can treat you better cuz these men that's how they start off and then they be the same ones dogging your ass out. So she already letting y'all know where the bar is. [ __ ] I need help. [ __ ] I need help. And if you want to help, if you like me so bad, if I'm so beautiful so bad, if I'm so I don't deserve this so bad, give me a helping hand. You heard what she said. Look, this is what they post. I can't make this [ __ ] up. I only go by what they post. So for y'all to be coming at me, it d right there. She said, uh, he gone. He left. He left. She did not put him out. He left. She did not put him out. He decided to go over there and live with the lady in the projects apartment B. I don't know. Y'all comment below. Let me know what y'all think. And go ahead and follow your girl Jonisha. Like go ahead and follow me. Come on now. Like, comment, follow. Wow. Wow. Wow. That was crazy. Can you imagine doing 5050, working so hard or maybe you don't even have a number? You're just supporting your spouse who working your ass off, paying even one bill in your marital home and getting to find out that your husband is spending $2,000 a month to support somebody else. The worst part is this woman after all her hard work, all the support, all that she put into the marriage, all the years, now she needs cash app. Now she needs a deep fryer, honey. She's so broke that she couldn't go. 50/50, huh? If she had not been doing 50/50 for five years, she would have enough money to buy her herself a deep fryer. If she had let that man pay the bills as he should have as her husband, maybe he wouldn't be able to afford $2,000 to pay his side chick's rent or give her for whatever. I don't care. If he was too busy paying the bills in his own house with his own money and you had enough brain to let him ins and not always try to insert yourself as the understanding wife and just let him be the man. Okay? Let him be the man. If he's not, he could grow. He could grow. Okay? Like listen, if he was doing what he should, he wouldn't have the time. You know what they say? Uh uh what do you call it? Oh, it's just keeping my brain. I do is a devil's workshop. If he was too busy working to pay all the bills he has to pay in his own house cuz he's a responsible man that has got bills to pay and you are not stepping in to save him. Madame Savior, Madame Build a Beer. Um, you wouldn't have the time or the money to be chasing down some girl that requires $2,000 cuz he doesn't have $2,000 to give anybody. He's busy with his family as he should. But sometimes this man take your support and then now, oh yeah, now I have this money to go chase the kind of girl that I really like. the one that's not going to be understanding of his failure, his or his nonprovision. The $2,000 girl, she wasn't going to like understand if he wasn't giving her $2,000. She wouldn't even deal with him. But you would pick me. Okay? You could be wife, but you still pick me because I don't understand. Why would you accept that? Why would you accept a man doing nothing for you? like absolutely providing no value even if he's not like able to do much but at least where you live you shouldn't pay for if you are paying with your husband your roommates that's just my opinion your roommate that's not your husband like so when they're calling married roommate you to stand up are you are you are you well are you all right for is that ring you're wearing up and down or fortune are you going Let's say you're married and you're splitting rent. Like there's some help you can render. I'm not saying never help a man or whatever, but there's some help you can render. But where you live at, that's a man's job. The bills, that's his job. Like anyway, do what you would. If you feel like you want to be 50/50 and end up like Pebbles, who's going to end up after 7 years of marriage out here begging for a deep fryer. Do you, honey? Hey, if you like it, I love it. What can I tell you? Uh, don't let a lot of those people gaslight you because they be out here say, "Oh, it's these women that give bad advice." No, y'all are just like very, very poor choices. Like, like there's not much great choice. There's not many of you that are good men to choose from. The good men are too few. It's not women need to choose better. There's nothing to choose if there's a thousand men and 10 good men out of the thousand. You can't keep blaming women like, "Oh, you need to choose better." Like, how is she going to spot the 10 out of the thousand? There's too many rotten eggs. Too many. Too many. It's just too bad. It's too bad. And it's unfortunate. And don't blame childfree women and don't blame women for decent men because it's trash out here in the streets. It's really terrible. It's disappointing. It's sad. Anyway, it's been a long video already. Let's go ahead and break into this. This is what we're opening um for today's haul. Yes, it is another Zara box. I'm just holding it. Okay, let me show you the other side. Oh, try to avoid hearing y'all where the address is. Child. Okay. So, I think with this one, we'll pull from here. Is that right? Anyway, what do you guys think about the video? Do you think do you disagree with me? Whatever your opinion is, I'd like to know in the comment section. Okay. Anyh who, pocket sauce. Pocket sauce. Honey, this is what we're working with. Let's break it open. It's the ugly chair. Wow. What is this? This is beautiful. So, this is like a long sleeve shirt. It looks like a sweatshirt. It's looks more like something I would order as part of a set, but the material is very soft and looks quite expensive. Yeah, I don't remember when I ordered this. Must have been a while. Um, this was 40. Okay. $ 39.90. Yeah. But I absolutely love the quality of this. It looks really good. And yeah, let's keep going and see what else we've got in there. And oh, I see a skirt wrapped. I already have this skirt. I already have this skirt. Yeah, it's like the pearl skirt. Yeah. What size is this? Medium. I have it in large. So, I'm glad I got the medium. It's with wool and alpaca. So, that tells you already the quality it is. Yeah. And this is the price. $70. $69.90. It's extremely heavy. Well, maybe not extreme, but it's heavy. And you can see the work. It's beaded. There's pearls all over the skirt. It's absolutely stunning. And I believe it was on sale when I picked it up. Yeah. Um I think it's sold out right now on their Zara website. So, this must have been an earlier haul that I just never had the chance to open. So, y'all are getting in now, huh? Oh, this is a dress. Okay, this is like a gray, gorgeous dress. Um, $55.90. You could wear this in summer. You'd be a bit warm, but it's sleeveless. The quality is absolutely wonderful. It feels very soft and heavy at the same time. Like a heavy material that's soft to touch. Hello. Okay. Hello. And oh ch. The box is empty now with the paper except for one item that I'm going to show y'all right now. And that is this. What is this? Oh, another dress. But this time it's long sleeve. Ooh, it's a gorgeous long sleeve gray dress. very soft and heavy material. Got it in extra large. I love that. Even though I've lost weight, I still like the oversized fit in a lot of clothes. Well, not everything. Especially with my shirts and pants, that's to look weird when the clothes are just too big. I feel like I need smaller clothes. Um, but for like a sweater or like a sweater dress, this is a sweater dress. I feel like I still like a oversized fit cuz I want to like be small in my sweater dress. Like, do you understand what I mean? Yeah. And with a sweater, you don't want that too tight cuz you'll be uncomfortable. And I live in Canada, so it's colder like a lot. We only have a few weeks or a few months of summer, actually. So, I feel like I would get good value out of this items. So, this one was $65.90. So yeah, it's almost $70. That's not cheap, honey. But for winter, I should enjoy this cuz it's heavy. The material feels quite heavy. So yeah, so that's good. I'm really happy about that. Um, and yeah, that's all. What do you guys think? What did you think about today's video? Let me know in the comment section. Do you completely disagree with me or do you agree? Do you feel like you're clocking the tea? Am I spilling the tea, honey? Let me know whatever your opinion is and what did you think about our little haul. Whatever your opinion is, let me know in the comment section. Once again, thank you so much for watching. Before you leave, remember to like, comment, and subscribe. Give me a thumbs up if you enjoyed today's video. And subscribe for more content like this where we share opinion banter. Okay? So, if you disagree or you agree, whatever your opinion is, if you're a man or a woman, whatever you have to say, please leave your opinions in the comment section down below, I'm looking forward to talking to you guys in the comment section. Yeah, and that's all. Okay, I'll see you on the next video. Bye. [Music] Yeah. [Music] I know.