How to Trust Your Intuition： Develop Your Psychic Abilities

Hello everyone, welcome to my channel. If you searched this video, if you searched how to trust your intuition, you probably have been told to trust your intuition and you have no idea what that means or what that looks like. And maybe sometimes you try to trust your intuition and it works and then other times it totally steers you wrong and you're off or you just don't even know what it means. And I totally get it because it's very generic but you hear it a lot. And so here on my channel I want to help you kind of come to the understanding of how you can trust your intuition more. So my name is Lauren, I am a psychic development coach and I actually teach people how to use and strengthen their psychic abilities. Psychic ability, intuitive abilities, gut hunches, this is your intuition. This is your ability to understand and guess things that are going to happen. It's the ability to connect to loved ones and spirit. It's the ability to look into the future, into the past. You're using it as a tool to connect to get psychic information of some sort. So whether you are new to this or maybe you're even having experiences and you want them to happen more but they're just like coming through few and far between. Or maybe you are having a lot of psychic experiences, intuitive experiences, maybe you are having things happen to you and you don't quite know why. And this is the channel for it. I teach you all about how to strengthen your abilities, get to know them, understand how they work, either make them happen more or less depending on what your goals are. And so here are my top tips for not only strengthening your psychic abilities, your intuitive abilities, but being able to trust it more. Because when you trust it, when you believe that it works, it ends up coming through more and more accurately and more often. So my first tip is to stop believing in coincidences. Look at everything in life as symbolic, as a symbol, as a sign, as language from the universe coming to help you and give you guidance. It's really easy to float along in our day-to-day lives and just kind of like brush everything off. But if you really want your intuitive abilities to get stronger, you have to walk around as if somebody's trying to contact you, communicate with you at all times. And when I say someone, I mean like our spirit guides, you know, whatever you believe in, God, angels, I'm not here to tell you what to believe. It's believing that somebody is on your spiritual team wanting to help you at all times. So if you walk around assuming that somebody is trying to contact you and give you messages and give you helpful advice, then you start to pay attention to it more. The more you pay attention, the more you're going to realize how much that's true. Because I do feel like there's not one person out there that's like, you know, oh no, you don't have spirit guides. Oh, they don't want to help you. Like usually I find your spirit guides are screaming and they really want to talk to you and give you messages. And spirit guides meaning spiritual team in general. So start believing in coincidences. Start walking around expecting signs, expecting messages. When you expect it to happen, you're setting the intention. Hey, this is going to happen to me and I'm going to pay attention to it. And you're automatically kind of turning on your psychic ability just by like thinking about it. My second tip for trusting your intuition is to trust it before it works. And I know that this one is counterintuitive, but it's so true when you're starting out and you're having maybe like psychic intuitive hits come in every now and then, but like they're just not consistent. And maybe sometimes you confuse it with your own thoughts and it's just wrong. Like sometimes you're not accurate. It's off. And you're wrong. Now you can hold on to where you were wrong and you can beat yourself up and focus on how much I suck, you know, but I think it's super important to believe that it's going to work. You have to believe your intuition is going to work, that you are going to be right because what you're doing is you're setting the intention and through the law of attraction, like attracts like when you say you're good at something, when you say it's going to work, you know, even just affirmations. Like I feel like that belief makes it so. And so often I say to beginners when you're getting everything wrong, try to brush it off as much as possible. Believe that it will work. Believe that you will get those psychic hits. Believe that you'll get those intuitive messages, even if it's not happening. Just start tricking your mind. Try like gaslighting yourself into believing that it'll work. And when I say that, I truly don't mean like you're just pretending because what happens is you want to focus on what's working. And when you focus on what's working and the psychic hits come through because you're focused on celebrating each of those successes, you start to notice how your intuition works more. And therefore you can kind of replicate it more. It's about getting into a good habit. But if you're constantly shaming yourself, beating yourself up, trying to control it too much, and not believing in it, then it's not going to work. And truly 95% of the psychic ability is belief. If you have blocks around not believing that it'll work, check out my psychic block removal videos because that's that's where you're going to want to start first. If you can't even get past the idea that this could work, you know, we need to dive into like why do we believe that? My next tip for trusting your intuition more is to make sure it's on. Make sure you turn it on. You know, you're not going to like stare at a light and just like wait for it to turn on. No, you're going to walk over to the light switch, you're going to turn it on. And then when you're done, you're going to turn it off. I want you to start approaching your intuition the exact same way. You want to imagine turning on your intuition. There's all sorts of visualizations you can do, even if it's like a literal light switch. But you want to turn it on. You want to tell spirit, universe, your spirit guides, hey, like I'm available. My psychic ability is on and I'm ready to receive. And this is important the opposite way, because when you start turning off your psychic ability, you're also telling the universe, hey, don't contact me when I am not available, when I am not ready. And it's a lot easier when it just doesn't come at random, because I feel like a lot of beginners are like, well, I can't control it. It just comes in whenever. And I'm usually like driving my car or taking a shower or I'm about to fall asleep. And what this ends up doing is not only increasing those intuitive messages coming in, but it helps you to also like, hey, no, don't contact me when I'm sleeping when I don't want it. So ultimately, you have more control over your abilities. And when you have more control over your abilities, you're going to trust it because you're like, wow, I can turn this on and it works. Oh, wow. I can turn this off and it's not working anymore. Sweet. And that control will give you more confidence. My next tip, one that I am really realizing is so key and so important is getting back into your body. Or if you don't like that phrase, it's kind of like about centering, getting grounded, getting into a very receptive state of mind. I think this one is hard, mostly because of the life that we live today. We're constantly glued to our phones. We have a million and one things to do. We have a million and one stresses. And truly, we have to find the unique, not unique, but the one of many ways that we as individuals like to get back into our body, get calm, get grounded. Like the best way I can describe this is like think about when you were on vacation or the last time that you could just sit and be present and not worry about anything and just like be, you know, often that takes a lot of effort nowadays for us to get into. Maybe not for everybody. Awesome if that doesn't like, it's not a thing for you. But I'm getting centered. This is the precursor to receiving intuitive hits. We have to be in that zone in order to receive those intuitive messages. Because if you're just in monkey mind, your mind is going 20 miles an hour, you're thinking about your to-do list, you're stressed out, you're depressed, you're anxious, you just had a fight with your partner, you are about to lose your job. That is not the state of mind that psychic messages are like conducive for coming through. So really getting back into your body, getting receptive, getting centered is a huge key of trusting your intuition. And if you're never there, you're probably not receiving messages. So a big part of this is figuring out what it is for you that gets you into that state. Everyone is different. A lot of people would like to meditate. A lot of people would like to utilize nature and go outside and get grounded in that way. All sorts of techniques that you can use. Now with all of these tips, I basically have a whole video on each of these like bullet points. So check out the cards as they pop up because that's going to take you to where you need to go. Now my next tip for trusting your intuition, this one is a big one, and that is you have to understand the difference between your thoughts and psychic hits. Psychic hits are like psychic messages. Messages that come through that are from another source, a psychic source. It could be your grandma, it could be a spirit guide, god, you know, whatever you believe in. When you don't know the difference between your thoughts and psychic hits, you basically might get them confused and you might be telling yourself, oh I need to quit this job, but that might not actually be intuitive. Whereas the intuitive hit might have been, you know, hey, stay for another week or whatever. People often screw this up and think that their intrusive thoughts or their anxious thoughts or just their ego, their analytical mind, their left brain, that that is in your intuition and it's not. And the only fast, there's no, there's no fast way to like figure this out other than just experience it with time and start to differentiate. Okay, oh that's what my intuitive mind feels like, oh that's what my non-intuitive mind feels like. Just a couple tips for that. Like one, intuitive information is helpful. It's coming from a good source. You'll often notice that it comes in differently from your own thoughts, usually through one of your six clairs. But even for me, I'm very clairaudient, which means I hear spirit. Even my thoughts in my mind sound a little bit different than when spirit comes and talks to me. And it's more of like a spatial thing. It's almost like my thoughts are here, like in my head. But when spirit comes and talks to me, it's almost like they're coming from behind and like entering in my mind that way. Not a hard and fast rule for everyone. That's just me. And so that's why it's so important for you to like figure out what exactly it looks like for you. And it's just gonna, it's gonna differ with time. Everyone's different. Leave it down in the comments below if you are practiced so we can tell each other like what that looks like. How do you receive psychic messages and how do you know it's not you? And how do you know it's psychic? My next tip for trusting your intuition more is reading yourself. Practice reading yourself. There's no reason why you can't sit down, ask a psychic question, and expect to get an answer. And when you get practice with reading yourself, even if you have to use like tools and tarot cards and stuff, that's fine as long as it doesn't become a crutch, then you can move on to reading others. And our Facebook group is a great place to start because we have people jumping in there offering to do readings, offering to practice on people, and that is going to take it to that next level of not just reading yourself but reading other people. And with that, I think it's so empowering to do because you know yourself and you can kind of easily be like, oh well maybe I just got that right. But when you don't know somebody else and you get something right and you like blow yourself out of the water, that's going to definitely help you trust your intuition more. My next tip is to do daily psychic games. Like who's going to call me next? How many emails am I going to have in my inbox when I check it? When I get to the store, what number lane is going to be open? Which lane is going to move fastest? Where's the empty parking spot? You can make up little games like this all the time. I had somebody in our Patreon group who said that she was a server at a restaurant and she was going to try to guess what dishes each table was going to order. And I was like, that's such a fantastic way of like testing your intuition. Another fun one I like to do is like when I'm watching movies where I don't know the actors, I try to like guess their names. Essentially there's a ton of fun psychic games that you can play day to day. I also have the 90 day psychic cards that my mentor Karen Fox made, which is literally designed to daily strengthen your abilities. There's such an importance with the psychic ability to practice, practice, practice. You have to practice every day. It's like a muscle. It's a skill. The more you practice, the stronger it's going to get. Just like a bike. If you're riding a bike consistently, you're going to get better and better at it. If it's been like eight years since you rode a bike, you're going to get on it and you're going to be a little rusty. And so that is why like doing something small every day is going to strengthen your intuition and therefore make you trust it more because it's going to become stronger and more accurate and more reliable. One of the biggest parts of trusting your intuition is celebrating the successes. And the easiest way that you could do that, grab a notebook, grab a psychic notebook, go to Target, I give you permission, get that cute notebook, get the stationery that you want, and create a notebook that is for your intuition, for your psychic ability. Every time that you have something amazing happen, that you blow yourself out of the water, or that you're right and it's maybe just something small, I want you to write it down in that notebook. Start a page, start a section that says like my successes, where I was right, when my psychic ability was on and correct or whatever, and start writing it down. Because soon you are going to fill up that entire thing to the point where you cannot keep up. And I love this because what you start to do is you start to one, realize what is needed to have those psychic hits come in. Like you start to realize, oh wow, a lot of these psychic hits I was in a very receptive state, or I was not worrying about the outcome, or it was that it was right when I went with the very first thing that came in through my head, or wow, I see a lot of things, or I hear a lot of things. You start to notice the patterns of how your guides communicate with you, which is important. But then it also serves as encouragement for when your abilities are off, and you're not getting things right. You can basically pull open that notebook and be like, I am psychic, I can do this. That's a mantra, add that one too. I am psychic, put that on a sticky note. Put, I'm intuitive. Put it up on your mirror, put it as like the background of your phone wallpaper. Constantly remind yourself that you are intuitive, you're psychic, that you are getting things right. Another sub-tip there, figure out which Claire is your strongest. And if you don't like that that's your favorite Claire, or most used Claire, you can switch it. You can change Claire's. So check out my Claire's video, that's going to give you an indication of like where you're leaning. And again when you start paying attention to how it comes through, you're going to start to see a pattern and be like, oh you know what, I am pretty clairvoyant, or I'm pretty clairsentient, and I do not like that, you know. When I first started I was very clairsentient, and I could feel spirit too. Or no, was I clairvoyant? I can't remember, so long ago now. One of them. I was either seeing or feeling spirits, and I did not like it. So I shut that Claire down, and I started using other ones, which you can do as well. My next tip is to find mentors, learn, take classes, take courses, and don't take it all from the same person either. I think it's really important to have a wide variety of input coming in. Like I do not expect my methods and my techniques to work for everybody. And ultimately I want you to consume and educate yourself, because when you do that, when you're constantly surrounding yourself and learning, more and more intuitive things will happen to you. Like short story, when I got into this, I was doing a documentary about psychics, and I'm interviewing psychics, and I'm talking about it, I'm thinking about it, I'm researching it, writing it, writing scripts, all this stuff. And of course my intuition gets blown open, and I start to see and feel spirits. So same thing is going to happen, you know. The more you immerse yourself in it, it's like thinking about dreaming, you know, thinking about lucid dreaming will make you lucid dream more. Same with your intuition and your psychic ability. If you're learning about it, if you are purposely strengthening it, seeking out information on how to do that, you're going to see an improvement with it. Actually a great place to start would be Karen's psychic workbook, because her workbook is something you can like literally, it'll take a while to go through, and if you're constantly doing a little bit of that or her cards every single day, you're going to strengthen that muscle and just constantly be thinking about developing your intuition, which will then in turn develop it, and therefore you will trust it more. Now, shameless self plug, obviously I'm a psychic development coach. I've got courses, I have a basic course, I have a master class course for those who are really wanting to go from like beginner to intermediate and advanced, and then I have add-on courses depending on like what you're into. Animal communication add-on, mediumship add-on is coming soon. So yeah, if you are wanting to learn like my style, check out my courses down below. And if you aren't sure if you're ready to jump into a course yet, I have a ton of free videos here. I also have one-on-one coaching sessions and one-on-one psychic readings. So I want to know, why do you need to trust your intuition more? What are your goals? Your why is going to be the first most important step to strengthening your ability. So let me know how did you come to this video, what are you hoping to get, and maybe I can point you in the right direction. Thanks so much for watching, I will see you in my next one. Bye.